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prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

Msg: 27 (view)

told to move on Posted: 7/9/2008 12:06:01 PM
She has only been divorced six months, and you have only been divorced six months? Falling in love again that fast after a divorce is not a good thing, Once you have been married and you get a divorce it takes some times to find who you are again and what you want and which way go, You get use to having someone there good are bad, and the memories do not die over night. take some time explore who you are, times changes people, don't jump out of the pan into the fire,

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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Define No Games Please that you have on your pages Posted: 12/6/2007 2:14:26 PM
Let see, both men and women or players of some sort and to some degree, first is the pretense game that is the one most play when they first meet, you know put your best foot forward, only show the good side, for me that is one of the ones I hate the most, be who you are at all times, if they don't like the real you in the beginning they sure aren't gonna like you six months down the road next one I guess would be the helpless game for the women and I am your answer for the men, come on lets be honest, how many women are really helpless? and how many men want to spend all their time getting this person back on their feet, are solving all their problems, and how many women wants a man that solves all your problems, i guess a person that is really not into games would be one that is honest and upfront about themselves and their drama, {cause we all have some,if we have lived any at all} and accept that everyone is different and that we dont need a another person to be complete, but we want someone to share our lives with , and by share I mean share good and bad , old and new,Just my take on it

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

Msg: 14 (view)

Would you give it back? Posted: 8/3/2007 2:14:44 PM
half says keep it, the other half says give it back, hock the thing and go out and have a good time,

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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He already moved his Ex wife back in?!?! Posted: 7/14/2007 10:51:58 PM
I must say I agree with the last writer, you broke up with him, not a nice person to have in your life, so the ex's doesn't feel that, you didnt want him let her have him, either you or finished with the guy or your not?

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

Msg: 26 (view)

my heart has been broken Posted: 6/17/2007 6:53:35 AM
If hearts didn't get broken, then we could never see the beauty of real love.

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

Msg: 7 (view)

Anyone know why? Posted: 6/17/2007 6:50:48 AM
Why you give a shit, the only reason I see is because , we always want what we can't have. you feel used ,abused, and left out , that is hard for the pride to take. You were alright for her as long as the boyfriend was in jail, but now that he is out, you lose. So pride tells you that you loved her{simply cause you never could win her over}and now you heart is in your hand, well the truth is your pride is in your hand. Some people use other people, you have been used. enjoy what you got out of the deal, accept that you can't win all the time, and move on,

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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How Do You Let Go of Someone When You're Both Still In Love? Posted: 3/28/2007 1:40:00 PM
Don't know if this helps , but it worked for me, I like pizza but it hurts me and it not good for me so I don't mess with it, I loved my ex husband, but he hurt me and wasn't good for me, so like pizza. I had to stay away from him, doesn't mean that I don't still have the want to, It just means I know better

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

Msg: 411 (view)

Older women, not wanting to date men their age. Posted: 2/19/2007 8:04:41 AM
I am 50 , and I dont want to date men younger than myself, I dont have any problem with older men, it the younger ones I can't deal with, Already been down the roads they have yet to travel, and I don't care to go down them again

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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Looks really are everything.... Posted: 2/1/2007 5:07:49 PM
Beauty is only skin deep, ugly is to the bone, beauty fade away and ugly hold its own, know what that means? life is not about the outside, it is about the inside, it is not about the looks it is about the spark you get when you see a picture of someone that sets it off, beauty to one is not the same to another,

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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In choosing our significant other Posted: 1/9/2007 9:19:47 PM
I have been married to four times, to four different kinds of men, so no i dont believe it ,

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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Why do they cahange once you live to gether? Posted: 12/7/2006 4:50:28 PM
I call it being phony to get a husband or a wife, alot of folks put on airs til they get what they are after then the real person steps out, what a shame,

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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Friend Zone w/ a twist Posted: 12/7/2006 4:42:48 PM
I think the friend zone is all you are gonna have with her, since her and your ex wife or friends, I know I would'nt date any of my ex's friends,

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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contested divorce...how does this work? Posted: 12/2/2006 3:17:29 PM
Contested divorce in any state, means the lawyers get all the money,

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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Beware: eHarmony sucks... Posted: 11/30/2006 5:46:22 PM
I tried it , they couldnt find a match for me, so I didnt have worry about it

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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how to deal with the new girlfriend of the guy you have a baby with Posted: 11/30/2006 5:38:33 PM
Is he a good father? Does he love his son,can you trust that he would not hurt are let the child get hurt? if he is a good father and loves and protects his child as long as the child is in his care, then you have no right to tell him who to be with, sounds like you are using the child as weapon, do what I want and how I want it are you cant see you child, that is not fair to the child, adult should understand when they have children , that they have two parents, and being a loving parents has nothing to do with money, are other women or men, never refuse a parent the right to see their children, just because we as women give birth doesnt mean that we have the right to refuse the father the right to their children, just because a man or woman doesnt love the other, doesnt mean they dont love their children,

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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Gender wars - the male ego stereotype Posted: 11/29/2006 2:17:40 PM
Ego, boastful , prideful, one who see no wrong in themselfs , one who is always tooting his own horn, If a man has to give that up to get a date, what a shame, and women get rejected just as much as men do, they just dont cry as much about it in public, what do you think hen meeting are,

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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Any tips on how to stop your ex coming into your thoughts! Posted: 11/28/2006 10:24:34 PM
this may sound tacky, but I always heard to get over one man is to get under another one,

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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BootyCall With Ex? Posted: 11/28/2006 10:21:40 PM
well you can do a booty call with your ex, but I think you are asking for trouble, ex's have a way of thinking if you sleep with them then it on again,

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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Did you have ' the talk' with your teenaged children? Posted: 11/26/2006 3:14:05 PM
I had that talk when he was 11, and he is 22 now, no babies,

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

Msg: 123 (view)

Women and sleezy photos Vs finding a gentleman Posted: 11/26/2006 8:48:50 AM
I get those kind of emails also, and my profile says I am not interested

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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Wanna hear a good one! Posted: 11/25/2006 11:44:47 PM
what you cant drive either? you could have went to where she was, depend on what you want and how bad you want it I guess

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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He just DOESN'T KNOW!!..?? Posted: 11/25/2006 11:39:15 PM
I would say, to much drama, he said , she said, we did , his friends, youth got to love it, live,love and keep looking , you got alot of time left for lifes drama, enjoy being young and all the puppy love you can find,

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

Msg: 53 (view)

My little girl of 14 months hates her dad!!! help Posted: 11/25/2006 12:07:28 AM
If a person loves their children and doesnt mistreat them, then the other parent shouldnt down grade them are treat them with disrespect in front of the children nor discuss what has went on with the adults in front of the children, It is not fair to the child to take away a parent, every child has a right to know their parents for them selves, and just because a mate has a problem with the other mate doesnt mean we should punish our children for it by making them hate the other, cause they grow up with a guilt thing and they had nothing to do with what their parents went thru

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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what should the responsibilites in the family be for men and women? Posted: 11/24/2006 11:13:24 PM
the father stays the father and the mother stays the mother, children will remain secure, I had a sister-in-law that got a divorce they had two small children, after their divorce she lived in one place he lived in a another, he came over any time he wanted and if the kids gave her to much trouble are got into to trouble he was always the first one she called and he came, it the kids got scared in the middle of the night and wanted their daddy he was there, he stayed the father, if the kids were at his house and they wanted their mama , she was there, she stayed the mother, they both remarried and nothing changed, their new mates understood that their children were first, and that their well being was upmost in their lives, and believe me it was a terrible divorce but the kids never , never knew , they never said a cross word about each other or to each other around those kids, I think it is all about what we put first in our lives, most people will say their children , but it is really not ,

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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True love.... Posted: 11/24/2006 10:57:25 PM
true love doesnt take advantage, it seeks only the happiness of the one it is aimed at,

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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what should the responsibilites in the family be for men and women? Posted: 11/24/2006 10:52:17 PM
To raise their children the best they can, with love understanding and compassion, even thought they are a divided family, the roles shouldnt change, in a divorce most people are angry , hurt and confused and the children pay for it, they should remember and understand that the divorce and the reason for it had nothing to do with the children , and children love their parents and shouldnt be made to suffer because their parents divorced,

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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can you love someone you don't even like? Posted: 11/23/2006 9:11:06 PM
I believe you can, I love my family, but some of them I dont like, I dont like how they act, who they are , and what they do , but I love them,

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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when do you know when enough is enough Posted: 11/20/2006 3:43:48 PM
enought is enought , when you have had enought, doesnt matter how much you love someone, there comes a point when you just for your own health, state of mind, life when you have to step away, way far away, there is alot of things In this life I really care for , but they are not good for me, so I stay away from them, some times you have to deal with the people you love the same way, doesnt mean you dont love them any more, it just means that you have to start thinking about you

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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Guys with Kids Posted: 11/20/2006 3:39:52 PM
Lots of reasons, one the ex's will forever be a part of your life and hers, two the ex's your feeling about her or him and if someday you will return and say well we have kids ,

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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Ya think Ya know but then..... Posted: 11/20/2006 2:44:04 PM
and men don't play games please read his post again games is what he is talking about

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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Age differences between a couple ... Does it really matter? Posted: 11/20/2006 2:42:16 PM
Age matters to me, I am not dating someone that is the same age are close to same age as my children, call me old school that is just the way I am,

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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When do you truly know someone? Posted: 11/20/2006 9:15:10 AM
If you truely want to know someone, marry them , then file for a divorce, then the real person shows up, and I you stand in shock wondering what happen to the person you fell in love with remember that nothing brings out the real person in us like a divorce

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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Who's Your Momma Posted: 11/20/2006 9:13:00 AM
I am my sons momma, and I dont need are want a man , that expects me to be his mama, I dont mind taking care of a man, cause I want to , but I refuse to take care of one cause he expects me to,

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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has anyone ever been in love only for it too b broken Posted: 11/19/2006 6:41:14 PM
It is better to have loved and lost , then to have never loved at all, sad but true,

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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ex's Posted: 11/19/2006 6:36:28 PM
I spent the night at my ex's house and we dont have kids together, but we have remained friends, and there was no sex, we watched a movie, and went to bed, cant people just be friends, it doesnt always have to mean bad things,

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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same uncommon first name as my ex who rejected me sexually Posted: 11/19/2006 6:10:51 PM
call him sweetie, and dont judge him because of the a man in the past, every one is different even if the name isnt

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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What is wrong with people????? Posted: 11/18/2006 9:22:12 AM
It is sad, but not every one loves animals as others do, I always figured if you can hurt a animal you could hurt little children, both are helpless and depend on others for care , sorry about you dog,

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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girls vs boys Posted: 11/17/2006 7:38:37 AM
what are we blaming men for? humans weather male are female, all do the same things, one is no better are worst than the others, the person that gets hurts, burned are what ever will blow off steam at the gender that caused the pain, that is human nature

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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How does it make you feel? Posted: 11/15/2006 2:37:30 PM
when you end it with someone, then you can expect them to move on and find happiness else where, and if you ever cared for them you should wish them all the happiness they can get,just because it didnt work for ya, doesnt mean they should live there life pineing away for you, if their happiness upsets you then maybe you shouldnt have dumped them,

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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Help!! Getting hit on by roomies bf! Posted: 11/11/2006 5:09:39 PM
This your mom right , do you really want her to go out and get serious about this jerk, if he would hit on her daughter he will hit on any young woman are old woman, just any woman, tell her and tell him to hit the road

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

Msg: 12 (view)

I will not be broken hearted. Posted: 11/10/2006 10:29:54 PM
I am friends with my ex and he is in love with a woman that has a drinking problem,when he goes thru the days and weeks of maybe this time she means it, I dont judge for it, nor do I tell him not to do it, I am there for him if it doesnt work out, and I always hope and prays that it does work, the person that you love may be a person that every one else thinks is scum and bad, but there is something in them that you see no one else does, and to love someone that abuse you is to the world crazy, but to person that loves and hopes and dreams, it is love and that burning desires for it to be right, and hardest thing to give up on is a dreams, I dont want to see any one mistreated , but if being a friend means being there time after time to help pick up the peices then so be it, Love for me doesnt stop just because a person doesnt act the way I want them to,

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

Msg: 93 (view)

What are you last words? Posted: 11/10/2006 5:58:36 PM
only one word comes to mind , after a breakup, BYE

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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Hurting Posted: 11/10/2006 5:57:38 PM
I am kinda cold hearted my self having been there, this is what I did, had sex with him{wasnt like it wasnt something I had done before having been married to the scum} then as so as he left called his girlfriend left her a message told her what had just went on, caused a really big fight , oh well life goes on,

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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I will not be broken hearted. Posted: 11/10/2006 5:52:13 PM
the things about friends is, friends dont judge and try to understand what their friends is going thru, and are there for em, but not there to tell em how to live their lives, as I am sure you know that love is a matter of the heart, not the good sense, we love based on what we feel not what someone has are hasnt done to us are for us, we just love, You are in love with this woman, and I supect hoping that she would see that you were the right man for her and come back to her, and now that hasnt happen, you going to cut ties and run.that is not friendship, that is wishful thinking

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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In love, yet apart Posted: 11/9/2006 9:06:47 PM
I know this phrase sucks but it is true, it is better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all, I have been where you are, in fact I am still there, but If love is real and the kind I am looking for then it will make it pass the bumps and over the mountians if it doesnt then it couldnt have stood the test of time, and a broken heart now is better then later

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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How did YOU move on? Posted: 11/9/2006 9:02:18 PM
First comes the pain, then the angry, then pain again, the hardest thing to lose is a dream, understand that love is about a dream, and remember if one door closes then other one will open,look for the new door,

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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Bed Time Posted: 10/30/2006 8:28:04 PM
I go to bed when I get sleepy, which is normally around 2 or 3 am, and I get up around 8 or 9 , but I am a night time bartender so I am use to not much sleep,

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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Attractive people! Posted: 10/26/2006 8:39:41 PM
Beauty is only skin deep, ugly is to the bone beauty fades away and ugly holds it own,

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

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Prenups Posted: 10/15/2006 12:32:42 AM
I have no trouble with it, but doesnt it seem like you are doomed before you start, ok we will get married I love for ever but just in case sign this cause you might just turn out to a money hungry person that I cant stand , always a good way to start off a marriage, why dont instead of getting married just shack up

prwtlf

Joined: 8/4/2006

Msg: 92 (view)

Do you do or condone marijuana? Posted: 10/10/2006 7:57:21 AM
Do I smoke weed, NO, do I condone it yes, the reason being , I work in a bar have for years, take two pot smoker give em a joint and they are laid back every thing is cool no worries, one say to the other hey dude your ole lady is hot, the other says yeah man, take two drinkers give em a couple of shots, one says to the other hey man your ole lady is hot, and back up the fight is on, I think they should have pot bar in stead of booze bars, sure would make it alot easier,

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