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 Author Thread: Better or Worse
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 59 (view)
 
Better or Worse
Posted: 10/11/2009 4:57:31 PM

I still meet people in the "real" world too. I don't move much faster there either
When you meet people in real world, they first see you and then you might call or e-mail each other..so it was some attraction in the first place and there won't be any rush to see if the pictures are fake, or old, or you are more than a "few pounds" extra.

Here, people try to meet you to eliminate any deception in the first place, and when everyone see and like what they see - then you might start conversation about global problems of the Earth. Until then people don't believe everything you wrote on your profile - it's just been everyone's experience - people tend to lie: men become shorter, and older, and balder in person, women become older and not that attractive as their pictures...oh well....it's why people meet in person first and then they might want to date.

Not after creating great fantasy in their mind about the author of these e-mails
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 75 (view)
 
pre-nups
Posted: 10/11/2009 4:48:17 PM
Self-Defeating-
A verbal agreement of 50/50 should suffice, though it's importnat that both parties should have some sense of protection from the law

Marriage is for life, having a document means it will expire and there is already doubt
There is a reason why this question was posted on the "Over 45" forum. Because when time passes we change our points of view
10 years ago I'd be totally against pre-nap, and my every marriage was "for life"...but guess what? when it's over, I left with nothing and started all over.

Getting married in not a good idea as you get older anyhow (and I am totally "marriage material") but w/o pre-nup? I kinda understand people better now.....as I am getting something which is all mine but not the marital property
You are 33, wait for 20 more years and come back here...discuss pre-nup
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 40 (view)
 
really need some relationship advice guys..anything please help
Posted: 10/3/2009 8:22:58 PM

when i do ask him why i don't here from him much he says he is busy with school, which dosen't make much sence because i met you when u were in school and you usto have time for me then, but i ask him what is wrong?
men don't tell you the truth if it hurts you..they prefer to say what you want to hear

i ask him if he still loves me? he says of course
if you have to ask that, it mean the answer - NO

what does it means when a guy calls you the best?
it means that you are a fool and don't want to see the obvious things - he's just not into you anymore

but thats not enough i need him to tell me how he really feel about me, but i can't really seems to get him to open up and tell me
you can't get him because the answer will hurt you.....---> refer to #1

what must i do, what can i do
let him go -- just sex is boring, and after 3 mo he's not interested in you. Get your own life, education, career, something....so if you ask yourself is it interesting to date you and why - it would be at least few items on the list...and don't include sex
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 185 (view)
 
Article On Mature Ladies and Dating.
Posted: 9/28/2009 2:29:20 PM

Got a flirt on another site from a man in his 80s - his profile said 'looking for someone to clean and cook and be nice to me
at least, he's honest...he'll find what he wants..hopefully

The only replies he gets will come from 25-35 year old women.
because 40+ women are too mature to know better???
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 30 (view)
 
At 55
Posted: 9/25/2009 6:35:14 PM

Amen. How many times do we have to see the phrase "I won't settle" as folks seek out pure fantasy...


22 years of relationship were when you was younger, I'd assume 20+ 40+. Now, can you imagine passionate relationship with someone 25 years older than you? like 80 y.o??
it's the same like for 30y.o. passionate relationship would look like with you. It might be a hot date, why not....but LTR???lasting 22 years???com'n, you can't be serious
Of course, when oyu are looking for LTR, you have to consider the age, and maybe +/- 5 years would be OK...but up to 25 years difference?
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
need to drink alcohol to enjoy sex?
Posted: 9/25/2009 6:02:29 PM

whereas others have told me that they know men who can go and go and go without ever getting an orgasm when drinking before sex.
that was my experience few times
I guess, they drink to make the woman feel better...not sure if they enjoy sex more. I definitely wouldn't if I couldn't orgasm...what the point? and have a hangover next morning
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 93 (view)
 
What led to the downfall...?
Posted: 9/25/2009 5:57:22 PM

Sometimes there is no “part” to admit to.
there is always something to admit, but nobody dare to

Soooo, why everyone is afraid to? Our posts not on our profiles anymore...most people on POF don't even read the forums

I guess it's a fear to be bad...we always want to be right instead of being just happy
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
need to drink alcohol to enjoy sex?
Posted: 9/25/2009 5:45:21 PM

do you find, as you get older...
that an alcoholic drink or two before sex helps you to "set the scene", so to speak, for a hot session?
the more I know someone, the less efforts it gets to get hot session.
But speaking of "one-night-stand" (BTW, why's it stand???) yeah, couple drinks would help. Not in the case if a man kinda "I-can't-drink-that-much"

or maybe partners of these women got too boring I don't really know - I almost don't drink...and sex is still as hot as it should be
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
The Amazing Human Body
Posted: 9/25/2009 5:15:43 PM

do the thumbs have to be erect?
are they bigger that way?

I guess we can write whatever feels funny no records on the profiles anymore
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
The Amazing Human Body
Posted: 9/24/2009 5:57:13 PM
some women are still thinking how much is it true about thumbs
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 4 (view)
 
40 WAYS MEN FAIL IN BED
Posted: 9/24/2009 5:47:27 PM

Speaking from personal experience? I never done any of those things
...
What you said would be good advice to give to a virgin.
yeah, right...do you think anyone would admit that they did these things???
but I can tell that many men do few of these things even in very advanced age...experience wise
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 13 (view)
 
reasonable or not
Posted: 9/24/2009 2:47:09 PM


How much you got in your bank account and
how many credit cards do you have...

Mr. SB - You forgot to ask about the CC balance
don't forget to ask about mortgage, credit score, net worth.....

I think we got pretty good trend here: friends, dating, LTR...when it's the time to ask these questions?
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Is it better to have a woman or a man fix you up with a blind date?
Posted: 9/22/2009 7:05:23 PM
Nobody knows better than me...and my friends would never do it to me - they know that
it must feel awkward
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Last of the 50's..................
Posted: 9/22/2009 3:49:47 PM

I just turned 59 yesterday
Well, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!
I remember that fear when I turn 40, in a couple years I will be 50....all these round numbers are scary, but really it's not about numbers, it's about your attitude

It's not about how old are you, but about how young you feel....enjoy your life and don't count numbers!!!
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 99 (view)
 
THE Date!
Posted: 9/21/2009 5:07:07 PM

Usually it is because a woman has misrepresented her age, her weight or both. Those are deal breakers!
I've met a man who said he was 51, and he was 67, also he add couple inches to his height
it was too funny even to be a deal breaker right away....just sooo interesting what people expect from the date? to be charmed by their sense of humor?
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 83 (view)
 
Would you leave a relationship because you wanted marriage and your SO didn't?
Posted: 9/20/2009 3:23:53 PM
I am definitely able and willing to commit myself to one women for the rest of my life
I don't think it was a misspelling

What is marriage really? A piece of paper, a theatrical ceremony and two expensive rings(well, one is usually a lot more expensive than the other. Very poor symbolism for the beginning of an equal relation if you ask me). All for an illusion of commitment and fidelity, and a twisted sense of ownership.
I take it you've never been married before? or married a wrong one? Marriage is living two or more lives like your own. Anyhow, until you know you want to marry Her - she's not your Ms.Right...keep searching

Marriage takes that away and simply makes it easy for two people to take each other for granted.
marriage doesn't, cohabitating does when you use her for sex when she is still young and then you'll find newer model 10 years down the road.
Because men become richer with age, and women don't become more beautiful...so they try to exchange their youth and beauty for your potential when they can. later, when they make their own money (and maybe even more than you) they will choose younger men and then it will be their turn to say:"I don't want someone who stays with me simply out of convenience or financial status, I want someone who stays with me out of a mutual love and respect"...yeah, right
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 115 (view)
 
does anyone understand how men think?
Posted: 9/20/2009 1:31:31 PM

He asked me for my phone number and i gave it to him.Well unfortunatley I transfered my service to another carrier and they screwed it up
How is that about men thinking? it's about problem with your phone, is it not?

If I'd call someone and he wouldn't answer the phone he gave me and he didn't return my call, it would mean he couldn't talk and/or he didn't want to. I'd suggest check your number before you give it to anyone to contact you.

What if it were a business call? You'd lost business because of that. You can't drive to each client and explain that your provider sucks...after all, it was your choice
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 103 (view)
 
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 9/8/2009 7:19:41 PM

No matter a great majority of them are fat, ugly, old, on relationship number 40, 000 and still single raising some other guys kids.
I guess, somebody didn't get laid recently
sooo bitter
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 170 (view)
 
men outnumber women on dating sites Fact? or Myth?
Posted: 9/8/2009 7:10:10 PM


This often depends on various factors such as geography and age. In my geographical area and age group, men outnumber women by about 2.5 to 1 ratio.
Quite true. In Russia the women outnumber the men to such a degree (approx 4 million as of July of this year) that an article was written about their "reverse" roles of the sexes. The women there always do the instigating, always approach the men, etc. They also have the problem of women date raping the men, instead of the other way around.
such a BS..have you ever been in Russia???
Women might outnumber men in Russia, but I've never heard about "reverse" roles of the sexes.

Quite the opposite is true: women compete for men, trying to look more beautiful, to attract men but they don't approach.

Wome who approach men or initiate anything historically consider sluts or prostitutes in Russia...date rape???? the most hillarious thing I've ever heard

I've spent 40 years in Russia and never heard about anything like that (well, besides that there are definitely more women than men)
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 70 (view)
 
Love and sex: confused at 54!
Posted: 9/3/2009 8:44:02 AM

The question is: " What would you prefer: great sex, but controlling person or bad sex, but unconditional love? You can not have them both. Reality sucks.....
you sure can - you just have to look for the coinsidence
Sex is not something you were born good at...you can learn, improve etc and the love helps. If you love someone just as is, sex become so much better and you want to make it better, and better...you change yourself...voluntarily

I can't say I always was good in sex...Love changed it. Sex is just an exercise without love, which is good, too...until you find the love...if you find it
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 343 (view)
 
The Toilet seat thing!!!
Posted: 9/1/2009 7:21:36 PM
Can't believe such a stupid topic going on its fifth year

is it up or down? does it matter???
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 56 (view)
 
Love and sex: confused at 54!
Posted: 9/1/2009 7:16:01 PM

I wonder how this thread would play out if the OP were a woman ?
Women don't stay just for great sex...they want whole nine yards they are damn picky
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 95 (view)
 
does size matter? my un-scientific observations
Posted: 9/1/2009 8:01:04 AM
Of course size matters. Otherwise, why make all the female sexual toys so large?
I always ask myself this question.....I don't know why. While size does matter, toys might be as well not that gig...I never even use it inside

Form my personal experiences, most those women want big size are plus size themselves.
That's not true. One of my girl firends was really fan of plus-sized d1cks...and she was size 0. But she could choose whatever: she's young, beautiful, blonde and sexy as hell....way to be picky about anything

Those women who likes girth, on the other hand, are usually lose.
it just looks good, nothing has to do with the vagina

I guess I just was lucky in my life that I thought that average size is about 7-8" and really thought that size doesn't matter. When I finally saw something about 3-4" I realize how wrong I was....size does matter...period ...lol....IMHO
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Love and sex: confused at 54!
Posted: 8/31/2009 5:56:13 PM
If she has to drink to have sex with you - it's the clue. It's why she wants to change you - she doesn't like you as is Some changes might be benefitial for you - if you lose your beer belly - you might feel healthier....or something else. But definitely, this is nothing about love, at least on her side - sex only

At some point, the "great" sex will fizzle.
well, THEN you will move on...but until then VVVV

Enjoy it while you can because it definitly will not last!
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 107 (view)
 
Exclusive dating???
Posted: 8/31/2009 4:53:38 AM

With the last guy I met, we hit it off right away and both said that we would not see anyone else after we met. With the other guys I've met off this site, I wouldn't have agreed to it because I just "wasn't that into them". To me, if I really like a guy, the furthest thing from my mind will be going out on dates with other men. If I start dating multiple guys at once, I end up feeling really bad about any who I have to turn down, and it just creates unnecessary drama that I don't want to deal with. I can usually tell pretty quickly if I can picture myself in a relationship with someone, if not after the first date, definitely after a couple. If by that point, I haven't been able to gauge my interest in him, he just isn't right for me. It isn't really about moving quickly, to me, it's just about avoiding drama and getting hurt. I don't think that I would straight out tell a guy that I didn't want him seeing other women that quickly, but at the same time, if I thought we had great chemistry, I would probably be a bit disappointed if he kept seeing other people. I am also only 21, however, so this could just be an age thing.
I feel absolutely the same - so it's not an age thing, it's a matter of perception
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 101 (view)
 
Exclusive dating???
Posted: 8/29/2009 4:49:10 PM

I meet nobody yet because I worry about anyone who may be insane
it's not really that dangerous - you'll meet in a public place
after all, if someone ask you to marry him before he even met you, just based on your profile, isn't it funny to look at him in person?
we are all insane because of this dating thing...it just a matter of degree of insanity
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 69 (view)
 
does size matter? my un-scientific observations
Posted: 8/29/2009 1:06:24 PM
there is no need to get personal

Size definitely does matter if it's less that 4" or more than 7"...too little won't do the job (and oral won't finish what it started), but too big hurts (first few times).

Actually, most women have clitoral orgazms and very few - vaginal. For the last ones size definitely does matter - they just can't get off.....for the rest of us it is not that important as seduction.

The right man might have his tool very average - it will work, and the man who has only his penis (even 8-9" size) won't do the job, because he doesn't speak.....women love with ears, they got excited by words not by size. However, when it already got started, it need to be something to finish...and I mean not 2" something
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Define committed relationship after 60
Posted: 8/28/2009 6:09:44 PM

I get stuck on the word committed and locked away comes to mind
moraima, you are the most famous commitment phobic on the POF forums
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 37 (view)
 
The economy and dating
Posted: 8/26/2009 7:27:55 PM

What impact has the economy had on your love life, if any?
buying less batteries for my BOB?
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 28 (view)
 
celibacy in late life
Posted: 8/26/2009 7:16:24 PM

She simply needs to find one of those men who is equally disinterested
She simply needs to find the man who will make her to desire him, cherish the wonderful time together, not celibacy. There is nothing about age (50??? WTF), that's all about lack of fantastic experiences, memories which makes you try again and again in the hope to find that feelings

If I'd be dating anyone as long as two months and there were no sexual desire, I wouldn't even make it that long. It would be a deal breaker right away, I don't need 2 months to get it. Maybe later in life - like in 20-30-40 years - I don't know. have to see it yet
I don't want trade sex for warmth, companionship and true friendship - they are good only when together...you can't choose one or two - everything or nothing
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 1350 (view)
 
Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/26/2009 6:44:20 PM

припечет, так и не то есть будешь.......гречка то вообще деликатесом покажется...вот МГ-ша говорит что капустный сок вапще беееее...как Николь на тот сок?
well, gonna move to Florida to date...what the poor woman left to do
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 367 (view)
 
men, how do you feel when the woman you love tells you she had many [30-...] f- buddies?
Posted: 8/24/2009 6:27:07 PM

Even so, I've met very sexual women with single digit pasts...
Smart women don't answer this question...honestly
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 251 (view)
 
Is a 9 year age difference too much?
Posted: 8/23/2009 9:57:10 AM

Nine years is not an issue if both are above a certain age...arbitrarily I'll suggest 25.

How many years of age a person is, is less important than how many years they have left.
I'd disagree with that one...do you want someone 65y.o around you when you are 40? Even if you should die at the same day? I didn't think so

If a 40 year old hooks up with a 20 year old and the older one lives to 100 and the younger to the age of 80, the match was right on.
I guess this question about women of 40 y.o. (they live longer), and a boy is gonna be 20...I wonder how boy's mom will react to such an union???

It doesn't matter how long it takes to live, but it does matter who you live with. If I don't want to be with someone 10 years older than me, I'd assume 10 years younger than me will think the same....no matter how they justify the choice
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 55 (view)
 
Why do some men think we'll believe anything?
Posted: 8/13/2009 6:06:08 PM

Men think were stupid because they ran across a stupid chic before us. Its that simple
there is no such thing as a stupid woman who believes everything...there is a woman who wants her man to believe that she swallow anything he dishes her
When men think women are stupid, it's easier for them to relax in their presence

Dont blame the guy, blame the stupid chics .....
blame someone who is lying, and don't look for exuses
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 51 (view)
 
When is it appropriate to take the step of inviting new friend home for dinner/movie?
Posted: 8/13/2009 5:37:17 PM
Dinner and movie at your house is an invitation for sex...
not necessary, Janet there are still pretty decent men left...he cooks dinner, you both watch movie sitting next to each other, he walks you to your car - the best evening and just a "good-night" kiss before you drive home I am a witness, but I have to agree - it doesn't happen too often

ANY man that takes advantage of some woman who is completely whacked out drunk out of her mind, does not posess the level of integrity I am looking for in a partner
I have to admit, I am not a good man either...if I want someone and he is drunk (but I still do want him ) - I'll take advantage of the situation...sorry....every time I feel guilty but they don't resist...poor men
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 4 (view)
 
help, nobody responds to me
Posted: 7/31/2009 7:25:57 PM
I prefer the older guys because I'm more mature than people my age
so far I didn't notice anything more mature than kids of your age...quite the opposite.
My daughter is 19, but she'd never advertise herslef like that. You are going to play the game - learn the rules.
On-line dating is about looks first, and if you pass this one - they MIGHT read what you have to say. You didn't.

Remove all your pictures, go to the gym, you are only 19 - it's easy to be hot at this age. if you are really average - post your real pictures then. Smile, don't take many pictures in the same ambience and dress - take pictures of your favorite activities, show your smarts if any, hobbies, something....

Next, get education first, don't try to catch something when in a couple years you can get much better. Don't be in hurry - this is a marathon, not sprint. Work on yourself first.

And last thing, men who write you (if any) show you how you really look like. Men who you write show your expectation....kind of supply and demand...try to balance. Don't shoot too high unless you are ready to work on yourself, but don't settle for everyone as well .

generally message people 25-29, but they never message me back, is it cause I'm only 19? Think they should at least give me a chance though.

My advice: read other people's profiles and try to understand how this game works. Don't flatter yourself that men don't give you a chance because you are young, that's never the case. Even if you are stupid enough, they wouldn't care too much once you'd be hot. They just don't like what they see
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 13 (view)
 
miss what i had
Posted: 7/19/2009 7:51:33 PM

ok first off i dont drink much maybe everyother weekend... only when i dont have or had my kid is when i drank.
first of all, according to your profile you drink more than 3 times/week
then, what interests do you have besides your child and fighting with your ex?
you never will have that good again if you concntrate on negative things. To be interesting for women, it's not enough just show cute picture of your son and memories of some good times with your ex - you have to be a person, who might offer something.
I bet you drink more than twice a month (from your words - "every other weekend")...and after all - is it a problem for you to stay sober and focus on your life before it's too late? why to waste it on
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 16 (view)
 
How soon do you bring someone into your inner circle?
Posted: 7/19/2009 7:35:37 PM

Thinking

A couple of months = meeting the friends
A couple more months = meet the best friends and start going out in groups
A couple more months = a short meeting with the family
A couple more months = invite to the home on a relaxed lunch meet/reciprocated at his home.
Then if you still together - GO FOR IT - GREEN FLAGS FLYING
OMFG

Never thought that meeting friends&family goes before relaxed lunch meet at his/my home

Doesn't friends and family mean inner circle?? Sooo, you bring someone to your inner circle (meeting friends) in 2 months, but you have lunch in your house in 8 months???

that's hillarious
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 88 (view)
 
Astrology
Posted: 7/6/2009 5:15:31 AM

I wish someone would email me and tell me what sign I should be with. All I have been told is virgos aren't compatable with anyone
Virgos are compatible, they just don't fall in love like others - they are too cold and calculating. However, Capricorns and Tauruses will understand and appreciate you. if your age is right on your profile and you were born in year of Dog, you are better off with someone of your triangle - Tigers, Dogs or Horses. Look for the difference in age 4, 8 or 12 years.

Your Virgo side is practical, business like, and your Dog side is more adventurous, you are a very good friend, help and give....so look for someone like that, too.

Let's say, Taurus born in year of Horse
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Astrology
Posted: 7/4/2009 5:37:47 AM

I'm sorry. I had to post a reply to my own post, which is totally internet un-cool.
I just had to say this: you're all stupid. All of you.
well, while your first remark was kinda smart, this one shows lack of social skills...I read and feel like I am talking to my son - smart cookie, who always thinks everyone is not too smart to get him intellectually.
Just out of curiosity, I look up your profile - and WOW, you ARE exactly like him - Gemini, born in yaer of Rooster...that's something

OP asks valid question, and there is always something we don't know, can't explain, or don't want to believe. I don't believe in God, but I do respect people's feelings...why not? Everybody can believe in what they want, and call them stupid for that won't change the belief.

Astrology has more in it than just day of the birth - it's an hour, place, year. Not like I rule my life by it, but I have to admit, analizing these patterns for 20+ years I can tell, there is something.
2 out my 3 husbands were Capricorns, and I tend to like these men. I am a Taurus born in year of Tiger (don't look at my profile - it's wrong) - and I noticed that it never works with air signs (I never had any stable relationship with Libra or Gemini), and even if not romantic, I totally understand misterious Cancer, calculating Virgo, cold and practical Capricorns, even whining Pieces

I tried to date Aquarius - very deep intellectual conversations, and no any streak of passion...sometimes I tell my firends about their dates w/o even knowing them what's gonna be a problem just on the basis of their horoscopes....it works 90+%...what doesn't work - is simply a deviation because there is social upbringing, family, life happens to everyone - it changes us.

However, we all are what we were born.
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 17 (view)
 
whack jobs! are they on the increase?
Posted: 7/3/2009 4:56:27 PM

With unemployment approaching 10% ...........

The more jobs the better.

Seriously, I haven't met these "whack jobs"...I've met many men, they all were different but sane, they don't have to be like me...not that crazy, plz
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 77 (view)
 
Lower Standards For Free Dating Sites?
Posted: 7/3/2009 4:33:05 PM

Paysites don't work well cuz most of the people on them may be signed up, however are not paying for full service. they cant message or reply.
well, that's easy - if they wink at you (send you an icebreaker etc) and you like them - wink back. If they are not subscribers but like oyur profile and want to talk - they will pay at least for a month...ot take this free 3-day trial.
it worked for me many times
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 72 (view)
 
Over 40 crowd. Women calling. Do men like it???
Posted: 7/3/2009 2:58:31 PM

Nothing better than a woman who knows what she wants! I'm not out to conquer the world, but only my little corner of it. So, whats your number?
That's the man! If I ever free - you can have my number, Greg

but first I got to know my little
hunnybunny is not a little funnydummy ..
cause like you..
I choose to have a GAL that can
"make her move", get what she wants,
have sucess, and be happy..
TRUST ME..
they ALWAYS call first...
well, I can tell...we are different...men who talk too much don't do much
I had my fair share of moves in my life, but not on the men - they would be wrong men for me I am not desperate and can wait...for a couple days. usually it doesn't take them even that long

I want a man who is stronger than me - and it's always a problem. I bet the women who call you are just perfect for you....but I 'm still not calling a man (unless he's my b/f or husband - that's a different story)
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 159 (view)
 
first date sex
Posted: 7/2/2009 7:46:16 PM

I have never wasted my time having sex with someone I don't like....seems a little pointless if you ask me.Well....not unless I was getting paid, I mean.
good point
how did I manage to have sex for free during whole my life...and after that I consider myself smart no way
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 65 (view)
 
Over 40 crowd. Women calling. Do men like it???
Posted: 7/2/2009 7:34:36 PM

I have read a few of the responses and I am stunned! What is wrong with a woman calling a man???

Mystified that it needs even to be raised as a question.
This is very valid question.
Women who you would chose, definitely will call you first.
The other women, who'd never choose you, they wouldn't call men at all - they will expect men to call.

Nothing wrong with both scenarios - it's just there is someone for everyone.

I never call men, and for me it works perfect - men who calls first suit me. It's not about fear of rejection I am very strong and fearless it's just about choices...I choose men who can step forward, face unknown, concure the world...that's my man. ...and trust me - they always call first
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Over 40 crowd. Women calling. Do men like it???
Posted: 6/28/2009 5:50:50 PM

and if he hasn't asked for my number
then he didn't want to hear from you again...why would oyu call such a man

Men don't have problems with calling when they want to....and they never will call if they don't want to...no matter if you call first, or wait...or whatever

I do call men when it's a business...never when it's a romantic something.....the more I like him, the less the chance me calling...it worked so far
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Goodbye?
Posted: 6/17/2009 6:30:39 PM
1. When he doesn't care anymore
2. I am always left before I leave
3. I don't want to....this is the best answer so far:

I think I am saying good-bye to women as a group, come to think of it. And they are saying, Don't let the door hit you in the butt on your way out. "Ahh" has been replaced by "eww". It reminds me of Pygmalion, only in reverse
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 87 (view)
 
Who pays for a cancelled LD trip?
Posted: 6/16/2009 6:22:48 PM
Margo, why is it fraud?
We don't really know if she reimbursed his ticket? I'd personally never get to call about returning money, unless I am unemployed and starving (which is not a case here, I guess)

She paid her way to meet him, he paid his way to see her in TX...so what? If all men who pay for dating start counting their losses, there were billion dollars. Good thing that not all of them are like OP.

I think he has shown a very reasonable attitude about the money
I don't see anything reasonable about his attitude. He said that she's better financially, well, on that basis she should return his money because she didn't want to see him again. What if he'd change his mind about flying to TX? Would he insist that paying for ticket was unfair to him because he didn't like her any more?

Dating is gambling...on one winnig case hundreds losers....so what?

I understand it's easier to go with the flow and support his complain....but I really don't see how it is about principle and not about money? What kind of principle is that?
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 81 (view)
 
Who pays for a cancelled LD trip?
Posted: 6/16/2009 5:39:32 PM
Correct me, if I am wrong, HD

She came to your home in PA, and she paid for her ticket, right?
Then you were going to meet her in Texas and paid for your ticket, right?

Her trip was done, yours was cancelled.... equal amount of money spent on LDR, which didn't work.

You assume that she reimbursed the ticket and got your money, too, right? So, all this affair was free for her, but not for you. What if she didn't even bother to do that? If she just forgot about the ticket? Then you and her spent equal amount of money.

You are the only one who's gonna remember these $300+, and she's already free and forgot about her loss, which she took flying to PA

I agree with miss Z - don't gamble if you can't afford to lose.
 sunnybunny60
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Rocking The Boat At Our Age?
Posted: 6/16/2009 5:07:54 PM

I gave up too much last time and he gave up nothing
zippytwo, I don't see here how did you give up anything.
Your condo was too expensive to keep, so if you'd sell it, you'd move to an appartment and pay rent anyhow. When you move in with someone you compromise about many things. Rent is payment for freedom. So, you give up your freedom and the payment, too, right? He kept his payment, but lost his freedom....hmm, seems like unfair to him, not to you, huh? At least from what you shared with us

Why does it seem that the woman is the one who sells her place you ask? It's because it usually the way it works
it doesn't have to be this way, but it is...because women like to give up payment for their housing I am not blaming women.... I am myslef like that. Just recently I start thinking about the price for the freedom...actually, it's priceless.
 
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