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jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

Msg: 27 (view)

MANIPULATION V Posted: 9/5/2009 8:38:27 AM
Geez is this a true story? Sounds like a soap opera. Joe go ahead and bang away, eventually Mary will figure out something is wrong. She'll go the doctor and find out something is wrong with you. You'll be forced to tell the truth and the relationship will be over. Unless she's as stupid as you say. But I guarantee the sex will never be the same.

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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Birth Control Pills...PLEASE NEED PEOPLE OPINIONS Posted: 8/30/2009 9:21:29 AM
What do you mean change the order? I didn't think just anyone could mess with someone's prescriptions. And if it was me? I'd get my tubes tide and that way he wouldn't be able to mess that at all. The problem would be solved. And 40 is too old to be getting pregnant anyway. I had my son at 29 and felt too old then.

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

Msg: 56 (view)

37 and still single? Why won't a woman date me? Posted: 8/30/2009 8:25:42 AM
You see yourself with a younger woman----Gee I wonder why women won't date you...Try asking one out who is more your age. We ain't all bad ya know. Are you hiding your profile now? I tried to look at it and saw nothing.

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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What's going on? Posted: 8/30/2009 7:46:16 AM
Well you know what this sounds like....You are being used. But lets be fair, maybe he thinks it's ok and this is all you want to do. Just talk to him. Tell him you'd like to do something else. Go on a REAL DATE. Then after that if he still just wants to come over for sex , you can say no thanks, it ain't that good...

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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Why she never calls Posted: 7/26/2009 8:07:07 AM
A year and a half? Geeeeezz that's a long booty call. Well if that's what makes you happy. If not you should talk to her about it. Let her know how you feel. Hey isn't that a song? Tell her about it, let her know how much you care By Billy Joel.

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

Msg: 84 (view)

Said Hello hun and was accuesed of being forward and blocked ! Posted: 7/19/2009 6:46:26 AM
Steve aren't most people in Florida from the north?.. I know we say it in Georgia but last I heard Fl is full of retired yankees...

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

Msg: 78 (view)

A story I thought I'd share Posted: 7/19/2009 6:11:45 AM
I think the OP made this story up to get a rise outta everyone. And boy did it work. If it is a true story I'm wondering why these two people even bothered to meet each other when neither one really tried at it.

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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What is the wierdest date you've ever had? Posted: 7/19/2009 5:48:08 AM
That post about the vampire wannabe was pretty funny I've had some bad dates and some good dates but not any real strange ones compared to that anyway.

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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Profile makes you want to run away!! Posted: 7/19/2009 5:27:49 AM
Blind...I'm pretty and independent and crazy and blah, blah, blah....Do women really put on their profiles ( I'm pretty)? Shouldn't that be up to the eyes of the beholder? Anyways I could see why you would think they are stuck up and vain...did I spell that right?...

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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Latest 5 Posts are more important than profile descriptions? Posted: 7/19/2009 5:22:22 AM
Intricate....I agree with the no time for 3 to 6 hours....thats crazy right now for me. It also made me laugh when I read that. OP, I guess if everyone reads my posts I'm in trouble because I'm usually a smartypants.... But thats the way I am for real. I just like to pick on folks. But I'm harmless. maybe

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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stood up! Posted: 7/19/2009 5:18:15 AM
He fell asleep on the couch and by the time he awoke it was too late to call you... I heard that one once. I think throwing eggs in his yard would be really funny.

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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need some advise, very badly heartbroken Posted: 7/19/2009 5:13:43 AM
Accept it for what it was. He got you to be brave and get out of your bad relationship and on your own. He made you feel good about yourself when you were low. Thank him and move on.

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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Dating hearing impaired guy Posted: 7/19/2009 5:08:09 AM
Pcm....too bad you're in Missouri, I'd date you. I think it would be great to date a deaf man. Then I could make smartass comments behind your back and you wouldn't hear me. I'm just kidding. But seriously dating someone deaf wouldn't bother me at all. I have an aunt who is deaf. And she gives everybody a hard time just like the rest of the family. She doesn't miss a beat. Oh and another good thing would be changing the radio station in the car and he wouldn't care.

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

Msg: 27 (view)

Why does love become so complicated as we age? Posted: 7/12/2009 8:16:49 AM
When you're young and never been inlove before and it happens you are very naive and trusting. You dont automatically think, maybe they are lying to me. Then the lies start. So the next time you think you're inlove you do think, maybe they are lying to me. And it gets worse and worse. Just from experience you learn that not everyone is honest. Just like with animals. Like a puppy. He's not born to attack and be vicious but he can end up that way if he's abused and mistreated. Babies arent born to be prejudice but if they are raised that way well...etc....

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

Msg: 46 (view)

Do you think I'm being dishonest? Posted: 7/12/2009 8:03:33 AM
Naw, you put on your profile you lost weight. So they'll see it anyways without changing the pic.

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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SO confused- Help Posted: 7/12/2009 6:47:19 AM
Oh man I'm sorry you got hurt. Sadly this happened to me years ago when I was 19. Fell for a soldier. He told me he loved me, he wanted to marry me, blah, blah, blah. HE was my first love. It lasted over a year but I didnt live with him. Then I found out from one of his friends that he cheated on me , when he was with them partying. And he told them he was just using me and didnt care anything about me. I confronted him, he denied it. Then one night I actually saw him with my own eyes with someone else. I was devistated. This is just a part of life. You get hurt, you learn from it and try not to make the same mistakes again.

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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Harrassed males Posted: 7/12/2009 6:33:05 AM
Hey Wrangler , over here, I've got a couch that needs to be moved. Yeah you guys get the shaft sometimes dont ya. I agree that not all men are bad. Just like not all women are gold diggers. Me excluded... Just kidding. It's just finding someone you can click with thats so hard these days.

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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I am getting tired of meeting women with low self-esteem!!! Posted: 7/12/2009 6:28:49 AM
Farce I like that line about drunks in bars. Actually I can see where she's coming from. Have you seen a pic of her? Maybe she's just self consious because alot of people on this sight want barbie dolls ya know?

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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I demand everybody here to SMILE Posted: 7/12/2009 6:18:55 AM
Yeah Ck, You smile first. But you are right. If you stop and take a breath, look around, smell the fresh air. There are alot of folks worse off than you. Try to find the good things in your life. Family, friends, pets, whatever.

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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Perhaps a serial dater/liar? Posted: 7/12/2009 6:15:45 AM
Dont even waste your time on that one. Hell block his call. Some people think that some others are really dumb I guess. The truth is , he probably never broke up with her in the first place. He's been with her the entire time. You never know these days.

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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Oh gawd he gave me lice! Posted: 7/12/2009 6:09:06 AM
I'm sorry that happened to you but I couldnt help it...I kinda laughed.. You should do a stand up routine on a comedy show. That would be a great topic...My kids had lice once. They got it from school ofcourse. Strangely I didnt get it My dad told me once when I was a teen that I put so much junk in my hair that it would kill any bug that decided to try.

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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Get rid of new Puppy or Else... Posted: 7/5/2009 6:06:57 AM
I cant believe there are people who actually dont like dogs... They are mans' and womans' best freind. Does a dog , fuss at you? Call you names? Cheat on you? NO, they are faithful and loyal and will even listen to your problems and you dont have to worry about them telling anyone your secrets. Can you tell I'm a dog lover? Anyways to answer the question....My ex made a comment like that to me once. I kept the dog and told him to leave. If this woman really cares for you she wont let a dog get in the middle of it. If she does she's just using it as an excuse and doesnt really like you.

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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How soon have you met people Posted: 7/5/2009 5:50:31 AM
Idoc is in a hurry. I have chatted for months before meeting someone and I've chatted for a few days. The outcome was about the same. I got along ok with them all. A few were just meet for a drink, ok it was nice meeting you and bubye. A couple I dated for a short while. But I can say I have not met a keeper yet. Dont know if I ever will, on here or in person but I'd rather stay single than settle for anybody that shows me attention.

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

Msg: 185 (view)

Called a golddigger because I expect a man to buy me a drink? Posted: 7/5/2009 5:27:52 AM
No you're not a gold digger. You just expected something that isn't around much anymore. Respectable dating. I think I was born 20 years too late. I would've liked to have dated in the 50's. Going to the drive in or the skating rink, listening to Elvis and Buddy Holly. Oh ok now I've completely jumped off the topic. Remember when men would open the door for you and hold out the chair for you? The last man I knew that did that was my dad.

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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Something ALL women on pof should put in their profiles Posted: 7/5/2009 5:19:43 AM
Yeah what Feather said I guess Indianaman has had some bad experiences going to dinner with women and then not getting a call back. But thats the price you pay with any date ya know?

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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First signs of Spring Posted: 3/14/2009 7:07:17 AM
I saw someone pawning an electric heater...does that count? My dog who is fixed was getting busy with the neighbors dog... ..............................................................................................................

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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The ick factor ... Posted: 3/9/2009 4:20:00 PM
TheHarvey have you looked in the mirror? Your profile sais you're athletic and in your pictures you ARE NOT. No fatties? Your a fattie yourself. I dont mean to insult but your self image is way off! No uglies? Well dito to what I said about the fattie thing. Sorry but that post hit me the wrong way. Guess because I'm a (fattie) but I'm not an (ugly) and I'm working out and loosing the weight. You know what they say about ugly. I may be fat but you're ugly and I can loose weight.

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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Anyone remember the Smithereens? Posted: 3/8/2009 10:40:55 AM
Dan!!!!! You met the Smithereens?? What were they like? They always looked like they enjoyed themselves in the videos. I saw them once in concert and they were really good with the crowd. I love Pat Dinizio. I go on Youtube and watch their more recent performances and Pat has gained alot of weight! I did some research and found out he had some kind of nerve problem and took steroids that made him gain weight. He's almost unrecognizable but he's got the same voice. I'd know that voice anywhere. Somebody who lives in Jersey tell Pat I want to marry him!

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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Need some help on the dating scene Posted: 3/7/2009 11:59:59 AM
Get outta there a find a white woman. I was told once by a black man that he liked white women best of all because we're happy with a peanutbutter and Jelly sandwich as long as we get love... Not sure if thats true but it feels true sometimes...

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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Not Single/Not Looking Posted: 3/7/2009 11:49:09 AM
I have a pet peeve.....The profiles that say Not Single/Not looking on a Dating sight. Why are you on a dating sight telling people you're not looking? OH yeah, you like the forums....Isnt there any place you can go to forums thats not full of single people looking for love? Just wondering...

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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I know he's not cheating, but what is wrong with my guy? Posted: 3/6/2009 7:44:15 PM
I'd say he's probably gay or seeing someone else or he's not really inlove with you. My ex wanted it all the time even if we had been fighting and I was totally pissed he thought that was beside the point he wanted it and that was that.

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

Msg: 175 (view)

Who's calling your phone? Posted: 3/4/2009 2:12:19 PM
UHHHHGGGG!!! Insecure people drive me nuts! She doesnt trust you, she doesnt trust you, she doesnt trust you. Have you given her a reason to not trust you? If not then get ready, when you get married it wont be any different. You'll be accused of everything just by getting a phone call. Believe me I've been there. And I dont envy you.

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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At what point............. Posted: 2/9/2009 11:53:54 AM
Well how old are your kids? Are they old enough that you could leave them alone for a while? You guys could go out or camping or something alone.

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

Msg: 47 (view)

Just an observation...... BHM Posted: 2/8/2009 8:23:30 AM
mmm...lets get Fireknight and Goodgirl together...

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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Be wary of recently divorced train wrecks Posted: 2/8/2009 8:21:13 AM
Akimmo, you look like you used to be in 38 special But back to the post. I have met a few divorced men and although they had divorced a while, I could still see the bitterness in their eyes when they talked about the ex. I dont like my ex either, so I dont talk about him at all. Lets just not talk about the ex...

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

Msg: 46 (view)

Are people TRULY this HEARTLESS? Posted: 2/8/2009 8:01:19 AM
Hey being alone isnt as bad as you might think. You'll be free to do and say and go anywhere without having to explain what you're doing. And you'll meet someone new too. Do you enjoy worrying who's he with this time? Who's he talking too. Where is he. And someone already said something about getting a disease from that idiot. Try to be independant and be alone for a little while. You'll see, it's not so scary.

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

Msg: 91 (view)

His girlfriend sent me a message Posted: 11/26/2008 1:32:46 PM
jealous woman, my, my,my I agree with the other poster, meet him anyways...

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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Have ever stopped dating because where you're living is a dump. Posted: 11/23/2008 7:16:24 AM
Well Pairodocs it must be nice to be you. But dont you want someplace to call home? That looooong post you did sounded like a long winded explanation of you not being able to commit to anything....I mean do you have any commitments or responsablities at all? Have you gotten so used to leaving your clothes on the floor that when you do finally get a place you'll be a slob? Makes me wonder.....

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

Msg: 29 (view)

I just can't put my finger on it, but i doubt we'll see each other again... Posted: 11/22/2008 1:10:47 PM
You know I've had that thought of " Yeah I dont think we'll be seeing each other again" Just about every blind date or internet date I've had.....

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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What is the best experience you have had with online dating Posted: 11/22/2008 1:02:14 PM
The best experience-----He showed up... Oh and he was dressed decent..

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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Did I do the right thing or was I rude? Posted: 11/21/2008 3:39:00 PM
Well atleast something good came of it. You got a new bf...yeyyyyy

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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heart broken Posted: 11/21/2008 3:28:29 PM
She's using you and she's very immature. How old is she? About 16? She knew you liked her and she used you for what she could get. Move on .....

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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I took his hand and he flipped out...wtf... Posted: 11/21/2008 3:22:57 PM
It sounds to me like he just wasnt into you. But I think he overeacted a bit.

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

Msg: 104 (view)

Your worst sexual experience Posted: 11/16/2008 3:36:03 PM
Tyger ...the finger test? Thats really funny...

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

Msg: 84 (view)

Here's an interesting thing that happened recently Posted: 11/16/2008 3:10:39 PM
If thats the only complaint you have about this guy, who is he? I wanna talk to him...

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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Vacation or What? Posted: 11/14/2008 4:31:08 PM
I was in a similiar situation once and I just played it cool like I didnt give a crap. It made him want me . Ah geez but I did end up dumping him...nevermind

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

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Would Prefer to Date Someone With Animals or Without? Posted: 11/14/2008 4:24:39 PM
I think that if they dont tolerate animals they wouldnt tolerate children and I love babies and animals. Not that I want anymore but I have a sensitivity to babies and animals I guess because they are helpless really.. l like senesitive men.....Guess I'm in a dreamworld....

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

Msg: 22 (view)

disatrous date Posted: 11/2/2008 3:35:02 PM
forget him.....he's history anyways , keep on fishing....

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

Msg: 57 (view)

Anyone ever try Singlesnet.com ? Posted: 11/2/2008 3:26:46 PM
Dang Seadove you sound a little weebit bitter....

jan_fobia

Joined: 8/6/2006

Msg: 22 (view)

Ok I have no idea what happend Posted: 11/2/2008 8:06:52 AM
Maybe she's dealing with the bad thing that happened and just doesnt have time for you right now.

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