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skyrocketbursts

Joined: 8/13/2006

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when someone of age hasnt had a relationship Posted: 11/23/2009 4:33:40 AM
often there are people on here that have never had a relationship, much like myself, but sometimes people say things like if they have not had one what is wrong with them, i must object to this attitude, as it is not always the person that has the problem but the people the people that people like being shallow and superficial. what are people views on this?

skyrocketbursts

Joined: 8/13/2006

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Love,Quality of life and who pays Posted: 11/23/2009 4:21:35 AM
it is totally wrong for man or woman to sponge of their partner, it is a partnership and that is the way it should stay, i recently went out with a girl, that was a lot younger than me from another free dating site that i have had more success on than this one although not much more, but i actually got to go out with this girl twice and both times were very expensive i paid for everything, but the second time she went off with another guy in the night club when i was with her and it was straight in front of me and she choose the nightclub in milton keynes so it makes you wonder if she had planned to do this all along,

skyrocketbursts

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Sex, online dating, and honesty can it be used in the same sentence? Posted: 11/23/2009 1:49:04 AM
i am getting very annoyed that i see a nice girl i want to contact on here, and she has the cant contact if you have looked for sex in the past option on well i admit in the past i did but it has been over two years now since i looked for that, so i am thinking that if you have not looked for that long then they should remove you from the list of the people looking for that. it does not make the person any less of a person because they have looked for it, and the girls could miss the chance of a wonderful man, also i find they are also generally the ones on here that don't get much mail, says alot that does doesnt it ?

skyrocketbursts

Joined: 8/13/2006

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At what age do you Just Give Up? Posted: 9/24/2009 2:42:31 AM
i think i have to agree with the op, that there are too many on here that try to shop for a partner like they do for a car i want this i dont want that, and i dont think there are that many success stories on here....

skyrocketbursts

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Where to meet people that are datable over 30? Posted: 9/24/2009 2:39:29 AM
i am over 30 and because i have not had relationship for a long time it scares people off, so what i am supposed to do about that?, i mean i did have someone messaging me but she suddenly stopped after i told her, i hadnt had relationship for over 6 years, ok well i did have one, and only one.. i dont know why i havent had many ok i do tend to like younger women, than myself however this one was the same age as me as i was trying a diffrent approach and now i am open to most ladies

skyrocketbursts

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Guys asking to meet with you immediately Posted: 9/20/2009 9:05:20 AM
i would prefer to meet a female face to face, as it is better you cant see the real people on the internet and that is why sometimes i ask first, however i do try the i would like to get to know you approach first, but that is not working so i ask to meet....

skyrocketbursts

Joined: 8/13/2006

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Why it is asking if she have been tested considered an offense?? Posted: 9/20/2009 9:02:23 AM
i dont think you should ask that on a First date, that is assuming and you shouldn't do that, and also you should be prepared for her to say when was the last time you got tested or would you.. and i think personally most women would be offended..

skyrocketbursts

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should i stay trying to get local or try for ? Posted: 5/4/2009 2:04:41 PM
should i stay on here trying to get a local girl or should i go for a russian girl on a site that i had message from she is beautiful ok i know i am being shallow here but i have found a lot of the girls on here seem to be shallow so i thought if i can beat them i will join them, i am fed of being the nice guy that gets over looked everytime

skyrocketbursts

Joined: 8/13/2006

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do any women really want to meet someone? Posted: 5/4/2009 2:01:28 PM
trouble is it dont seem the women are open to other things on here they seem to want the firemen types or sixpacks and they are not prepared to look deeper than that

skyrocketbursts

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Mhmm Posted: 5/4/2009 1:59:33 PM
op from what i see you dont have a problem with the attitude of some of the replies you are getting then i think the girls need to take a good look at themselves nothing wrong with you it is them i know i get the same.

skyrocketbursts

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Men that have been single for a long time are looking for mostly intimate encounters! Posted: 5/4/2009 1:56:44 PM
that is simply not true

skyrocketbursts

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Ever feel like your going to be alone forever? Posted: 5/4/2009 2:00:19 AM
i am starting to think that now, i have been on here a while and i have never actually been on a date with anyone from this site, i dont know what it is the reason i havent been on date with someone from this site as i do tend to message a few women but i dont get that many replies ok things have improved that i have made some friends but only messaging them on here, it would be good to actually at least have a date from someone. I really do feel that i am going to end up a alone forever the trouble is i am one of those nice guys and it is true with that saying "nice guys finish last" in my experience there has never been a truer word spoken than that.

skyrocketbursts

Joined: 8/13/2006

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what does 'dating' mean on here? Posted: 5/4/2009 1:52:08 AM
if i see a girl on here that says dating i see it as taking her out getting to know her, i dont see it ending up in bed espcially in the early stages . i am after long term relationship so that part comes later

skyrocketbursts

Joined: 8/13/2006

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Going down on her Posted: 5/3/2009 12:18:39 PM
i cant believe the double standards on this forum i tried to do something on this before and it wasnt allowed, anyway it is always good to go down on a girl i love doing i love to see her smile for me that is as important as her pleasing me

skyrocketbursts

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Why Do women dump men who are nice to them. Posted: 3/28/2009 2:57:50 PM
mi agree with that mate, best get a teddy bear they dont answer back they dont give you emotional stress, and they dont break your heart, and other things and yes nice guys do finish last that is why i am going to die alone as the female is the shallowest sex unless some femal can prove me wrong but i doubt it

skyrocketbursts

Joined: 8/13/2006

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Why Do women dump men who are nice to them. Posted: 3/28/2009 2:55:34 PM
treat her nice and she will walk all over you everyone knows women like bad boys if you are nice like me you dont stand a chance, best wake up to that and smell the coffee

skyrocketbursts

Joined: 8/13/2006

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WTH is going on?!?! Posted: 3/28/2009 2:53:24 PM
experinences now that is a laugh i have been on here for over two years followed advice and nothing not my fault the girls are shallow, this will prob also be deleted as if they dont like critisim they delete it, it is about time they got rid of time waster female and let people who really want to date,date, there is a girl that keeps messaging me back but there is no chance she is going to date me as she isnt fit to be on here and btw where is the place to complain about those ? there seems to be enough complaints about some of my posts so hows about a bit back

skyrocketbursts

Joined: 8/13/2006

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what does 'dating' mean on here? Posted: 3/28/2009 2:48:56 PM
lets get one thing clear with activity partner there is no such thing as a free lay, nothing in life is free including getting a girl into bed if it isnt finacial it deffo is emotiinal

skyrocketbursts

Joined: 8/13/2006

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Is there something wrong? Posted: 3/7/2009 3:54:49 AM
the only thing wrong is some of the people on here, i have same problems it doesnt matter what i do with the profile i harldy ever get any messages and then when i do i get ones from time wasters and others.

skyrocketbursts

Joined: 8/13/2006

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not spent a whole night with Posted: 11/10/2008 10:12:19 AM
i have not spent a whole night with a girl and i was wondering at 41, if girls would feel this was weird as if and when i do find one through here i am not sure what she would say about that, yes i have done sex i am not a virgin, but i do worry that i havent spent a whole night with a girl,

skyrocketbursts

Joined: 8/13/2006

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what does 'dating' mean on here? Posted: 11/10/2008 10:08:21 AM
to me dating would mean going out with the person for a meal and a drink and a chat, not much more than that, but maybe kiss the girl at the end of the night but never to expect more than that, however since i have joined here i havent had so much as a date i got close recently but she was messing me about as usual

skyrocketbursts

Joined: 8/13/2006

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People who just write how are you Posted: 10/5/2008 11:54:52 AM
it doesnt matter what i say or do i dont seem to get that many replies and that, i have tried short and some long it dont seem to work whatever i do, i am starting to wonder if it is my looks or something

skyrocketbursts

Joined: 8/13/2006

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Where did you go on your last vacation? Posted: 9/23/2008 1:20:48 AM
my last one was italy northern italy one june and it was very hot

skyrocketbursts

Joined: 8/13/2006

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HOW to travel alone Posted: 9/23/2008 1:19:55 AM
travelling alone on holiday and then being there on your own is very bad i dont like it much although i did meet some interesting people when i went to australia alone

skyrocketbursts

Joined: 8/13/2006

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Men that have been single for a long time are looking for mostly intimate encounters! Posted: 9/23/2008 1:16:53 AM
i think they should probably try dating the nicer men, sounds like i would have to agree with a previous post they have made bad choices

skyrocketbursts

Joined: 8/13/2006

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Re: Most Wild Place You Had sex! Posted: 9/19/2008 2:29:02 AM
on a football field one foggy november night my friend and i had the same girl that we pulled in the pub and then had sex with her on the field very near the pub as in across the road from it.

skyrocketbursts

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How do you know when to approach? Posted: 9/18/2008 4:51:40 PM
i never know when to approach the women when i am out thats why i am on dating site looking for a girl as it is better for me this way although i havent met one from her yet but i am hoping to

skyrocketbursts

Joined: 8/13/2006

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Why Do women dump men who are nice to them. Posted: 9/18/2008 8:22:38 AM
I Think and in my experience women do this because they are the most shallow of the two sexes, and i did said in my experience before anyone shoots me down for saying this, i mean say for instance if you have added certain applications on facebook you dont get anyone saying yes to someone that is not beautiful on the outside cos they are too shallow and also they do not appreciate a nice guy and they only want the bad ones,

skyrocketbursts

Joined: 8/13/2006

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18 year old girl marries a 40 year old man? Posted: 9/18/2008 7:33:03 AM
i see nothing wrong with it as long as they both love each other people should not interfere with them end of story

skyrocketbursts

Joined: 8/13/2006

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More Major Forum Changes Posted: 9/17/2008 1:44:12 PM
why don't we ask the members of the site what they want instead of assuming we should remove something after all a site should be for it's members instead of one person deciding everything maybe we should have a poll on it, then if people don't want things gone they can stay, and if they want them gone then they can be gone

skyrocketbursts

Joined: 8/13/2006

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Voting Off The Island - voting people off Posted: 9/15/2008 9:23:49 AM
in my experience people get together and hunt someone in a pack like dogs and wolves so i think it a grossly bad idea, as someone might be voted off because of the way the look or their views and things like that

skyrocketbursts

Joined: 8/13/2006

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Why do Babes dig ugly guys? Posted: 9/7/2008 10:55:37 AM
i am ugly but babes do not dig me

skyrocketbursts

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Ever feel like your going to be alone forever? Posted: 9/7/2008 10:40:30 AM
the way things are going for myself at the moment yes i do feel that way, that i am going to be on my own forever, i was messaging someone on here but she messed me about, sadly, and i have been speed dating and i have tried other things but i never seem to have any luck with anything,

skyrocketbursts

Joined: 8/13/2006

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Guys/Ladies have you ever hired an escort? Posted: 9/7/2008 10:22:58 AM
hmm some lady said plenty of free sex out there i think it is easier for ladies to find free sex as relationship things seem to be easier for them,

skyrocketbursts

Joined: 8/13/2006

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deleting for the second time... Posted: 8/3/2008 11:14:16 AM
i don't believe in god

skyrocketbursts

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FOUND A RARE BREED: A GOOD MAN! Posted: 8/3/2008 11:12:52 AM
there are some good men on these sites if the ladies are bothered to look and don't block after only one message like something that happened to me personally i don't think girls or guys like that are fit to be on a site like this but then that's just my opinion, anyway point of this is there are good men and good women on here if people can be bothered to respond to them

skyrocketbursts

Joined: 8/13/2006

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A place to lookup and/or report players, phonies, scams... Posted: 7/20/2008 9:24:51 AM
there needs to be more control on the players and phonies and scams all over the net e

skyrocketbursts

Joined: 8/13/2006

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Why do Babes dig ugly guys? Posted: 7/20/2008 9:22:15 AM
I don't think this is true as i am ugly and i am not with a babe and anyway around here the girls are more shallow than the blokes i mean in my town.

skyrocketbursts

Joined: 8/13/2006

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How do you know when to approach? Posted: 7/20/2008 9:18:55 AM
I have this problem with when i want to approach women i never know when is a good time to approach them or what the body signals are,

skyrocketbursts

Joined: 8/13/2006

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18 year old girl marries a 40 year old man? Posted: 7/11/2008 11:36:14 AM
what is the point of this post if they love each what is the problem end of story, there are too many people out there to criticise but that is only because they are jealous of it and do not say you are not because guess what you are. i am 40 and i would have no problem dating an 18 year old myself i would do it and not that does not make me bad it makes me liberal and non prudish and non ageist so there, chances are though i would not get one as i been here now two years and not meet anyone but hey i do not criticise the site

skyrocketbursts

Joined: 8/13/2006

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Will you fall for a person you haven't yet met in person? Posted: 7/6/2008 11:02:56 AM
I once fell for a girl i had not met she was from a chat room, it was all going fine until one day when my internet went wrong and i couldnt get on for a while, but we used to chat in the rooms then it went to messenger and we chatted most days in the week then we were supposed to voice chat, this is were things went really bad as she then went funny, she decided and with out any explanation that she didnt want me chatting to her any more this i dont mind but she should have told me why cos i did not do anything wrong. The point of this post is please if you are interested in someone meet them after 6 times of chatting i have seen this rule somewhere, and if they are not interested then move on this is what i want to do from now to save a lot of heartache

skyrocketbursts

Joined: 8/13/2006

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~ Milton Keynes 4th Meet ~ Friday 4th July ~ Posted: 6/23/2008 1:53:19 PM
i am now going to be coming so come on girls come and get chatting to me so that i can chat longer to you all i am looking forward to meeting you all thanks love steve xxx

sincereman7

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~~ Milton Keynes May Meet ~~ 2nd May 2008 Posted: 4/23/2008 2:39:49 AM
good news i will be coming to this meet and i am looking forward too it

sincereman7

Joined: 8/13/2006

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~~ Milton Keynes May Meet ~~ 2nd May 2008 Posted: 4/21/2008 10:52:50 AM
hi am steve i might be attending if i managed to get the night off of work, also ladies please feel free to come up to me as i am bit shy when i first meet someone but if you start to chat to me then we can go from there and it would be good, i cant say for sure if i am goint g to be there yet but will let you know sometime this week for deff

sincereman7

Joined: 8/13/2006

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finding it hard to find someone on here Posted: 1/20/2008 12:02:01 PM
Umm... WHAT? Except for the same-sex relationships, for every woman on here finding someone, there is a man that she is with. not sure what you mean here but it is harder for a guy to get a girl than it is for a girl to get a guy

sincereman7

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finding it hard to find someone on here Posted: 1/14/2008 4:21:27 PM
it was at a meet in nottingham at bar risa i am going to the new nottingham meet this time cos i have to give it another chance and as for the not messaging ladies on here i have sent a few messages

sincereman7

Joined: 8/13/2006

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finding it hard to find someone on here Posted: 1/13/2008 10:57:28 AM
so true but then they say you never get the ones you are attracted to. i am also giving up hope of getting someone from here they seem to into looks on here. sadly although i prob will still try as i am determind plus i am going on a meet in nottingham that will be good i hope it better than the last one.

sincereman7

Joined: 8/13/2006

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finding it hard to find someone on here Posted: 12/23/2007 10:35:51 AM
well hopefully i can be not so shy on the 9th feb at the nottingham meet

sincereman7

Joined: 8/13/2006

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~*~Nottingham, Valentine's, Anniversary Party!!! Walkabout, Friar Lane, Nottingham~ Saturday 9th Feb Posted: 12/23/2007 10:32:34 AM
will be attending the Valentine's meet night for all POF member's in Nottingham City Centre, on Saturday the 9th February 2008 at Walkabout, 11-15 Friar Lane, Nottingham at 8.30pm.

sincereman7

Joined: 8/13/2006

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finding it hard to find someone on here Posted: 11/26/2007 7:51:33 AM
i am really shy, plus the fact that i work a late shift doesnt help, so i am kind of lost as to what to do i really dont know

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