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 Author Thread: What do you find beautiful?
 kokopelli1
Joined: 8/15/2006
Msg: 94 (view)
 
What do you find beautiful?
Posted: 5/22/2007 9:53:16 AM
the look from a child to their parent...that momentary glimpse of true faith, security and love...there is no more beautiful a sight than the eyes of a child when they see the hero in you.
 kokopelli1
Joined: 8/15/2006
Msg: 896 (view)
 
Want an honest review?
Posted: 12/7/2006 1:15:57 PM
Shaunamarie...
Thank you for your painfully blunt observations....I appreciate them immensely. I agree with the Updates...not only did they make for lengthy reading, but frankly didn't say a whole lot. Funny enough, I am a really good guy(or at least very well rounded)....but, on your advice I have added the 'fine print'. It is something that everyone discovers eventually, and you are correct everyone has flaws equally. The person who wrote my testimonial and I are really good friends to this day and there was a second and third date....but alas...our friendship is not to be tempered with. And so we allow the sleeping dogs to lie. I am one of those very blessed folks who has alot of female friends that I don't feel the inclination to sleep with. Congratulations on the new job, many of us have benefitted from your willingness to give up so much time to help us... A collective thank you goes out to you. Feel free to drop me an email with any other observations as I will try to keep my profile dynamic and you brutal honesty makes me squirm a bit, but eventually smile alot....

Take good care,
J.
 kokopelli1
Joined: 8/15/2006
Msg: 824 (view)
 
Want an honest review?
Posted: 11/20/2006 9:02:59 AM
Hi Shauna78...
I would sincerely appreciate your honest review of:
A.) my images....as I am not too naive to believe that they don't make a huge impact of women not only contacting me but also responding to my attempts to contact them.
B.) my write up....is it too lengthy? Does it say too much? Not enough mystery? I want it to convey a quality, fun loving, honest guy who would much rather build a relationship on the merits of our natural compatiblity.
C.) the general impression you get of me as a prospective date...in other words...do I come across as I would like...I'd prefer to know your impression, it is a more pure idea of what is being taken from my profile...

Thank you so much...
 kokopelli1
Joined: 8/15/2006
Msg: 108 (view)
 
Prospective date asks to spank your child, how would u react?
Posted: 11/15/2006 5:17:35 PM
Ok, pretty easy answer...I do the spanking/discipline whatever of my children. When I'm around my children there are two people with that kind of authority...me and their mom. It's straightforward, I know I'm a great dad, been accused of being a hard ass even....But damn if anyone other than me or their grand parent give them a spanking. Now to further detail, my boys grandparents, funny enough, no longer believe in spanking. So no issues with that even. I think it is way out of line for a date, to ask to discipline someone else's children. I don't mind them explaining the rules or even doing the time out dealeo....but no physical discipline. Well Done Deb!
 kokopelli1
Joined: 8/15/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
The chase
Posted: 11/7/2006 1:16:06 PM
I think in this day and age, where believe it or not, men still do most of the chasing....it can be very flattering to a man to be pursued by a woman. Now, guys still have the same risks to be wary of as women do...once caught, you may not hold her attention (see 'thrill of the chase' theory). I have chased many when I was younger, but now will express interest and will pursue if there is a mutual interest, but I know what I am looking for and frankly don't want to be pulled into the game of cat and mouse. For me a woman should know enough at this point in life to know if I am worth getting to know better.
 kokopelli1
Joined: 8/15/2006
Msg: 76 (view)
 
would you go to the store for her
Posted: 11/7/2006 1:08:13 PM
Hellz ya I would. Chivalry is not dead, nor will I ever let it die. It is my personal crusade to fight the contstant battle agains the erosion of chivalry across the world. Frankly, what's the big deal. I don't really care what she asks me to pick up...I am happy to do so, until of course I get the feeling that I am being taken advantage of. Then it's a matter of being appreciated. BTW, I also open doors for a woman, including and not specific to car doors, store doors (be a hero HELP her shop!), and any other obstruction a woman might need removed. I do this not for any other reason than it is a kind gesture and it shows you are thinking of her... if she objects to such a demonstration, I simply restrain from it in the future. My pappy brought me up right, and the woman in your life or with you at the time should be worthy of such 'simple little things'.
 
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