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Joined: 8/15/2006

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Guys! Older women are for real relationships or a notch on your belt? Posted: 12/30/2006 10:38:28 AM
I think this is something a lot of people have not been able to understand including myself. I always thought it was not possible for a younger guy and older girl to have a good relationship till i actually saw it. It never happened with me but i do beleive that age in some cases dont make much of a difference. So i think it could be either way and there is a possibility of something serious no matter what the age is.

Joined: 8/15/2006

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Why are some guys so lucky than others? Posted: 12/30/2006 10:32:21 AM
i agree with you some guys have all the luck. some guys dont have any luck. But it is not always true. I think there is something wrong in the way you approach women. Dont look at them as an object infact talk to them the way you would talk to anyone else. Look at them as friends. No dirty comments or anything. start with easy conversations. I had luck doing it when i was young not anymore. Now iam a old fart. But i have lived my life. Some men get it easy there is no doubt about that but i dont compare them with myself. We are all different.

Joined: 8/15/2006

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When do you give up Posted: 12/30/2006 10:27:54 AM
Very sorry to hear that. Iam more worried about your cancer not your bf. He is really idiot to let go of someone like you. I think one day you will be a very happy person and i wish you the best and i will pray for you.

Joined: 8/15/2006

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Why don't men like to dress up for dates? Posted: 12/28/2006 11:57:51 AM
normally men dont like to dress up or dont hae any dressing sense. i never dress up that well for a date because i dont care i guess. but i know people who dress up all fancy for dates. so nto all the guys are like that

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What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart?? Posted: 12/28/2006 11:55:13 AM
i was very depressed when my last marriage ended. I often thought about how i could end all the misery. I had no one there to help me. All the people i trusted and thought were my friends turned out to be no one. In such time a friend of mine lifted me. iam glad today i dont feel that way. Sometimes it is very sad that some people do so much for you and you have nothing to give them back in return. Sometimes i feel iam very selfish. But in times of depression if you have only one person who could be your friend or your relative to lift u up. iif you are that person i suggest you should look up to the people who care about you.

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How to deal with heartbreak of ending a marriage? Posted: 12/27/2006 9:08:52 PM
But i hope for your wife that she finds a reasonable man who understands that what she is doing for you is what love is all about. What you think of her right now is going to change when she goes away.

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How to deal with heartbreak of ending a marriage? Posted: 12/27/2006 9:05:59 PM
I can tell you that i have been in your situation many times. My first marriage was to this girl from mexico. We were dating in highschool and she was just everything. She was pretty and considerate and i was everything for her. Slowly with time everyting went away. I cannot say that she is to be blamed totally part of it is my fault too but as i look back now i think there were things i could do to save my relationship with her. She was a complete opposite. She loved having fun and going out and hanging out with friends. It made me jealous and that is what caused problems. I guess in our own ways we are never satisified with what we have. Only time can teach us how to cherish the good qualities and accept the bad qualities to an extent. Every person has flaws. Iam sure there is something about you that your wife hates. At the end of the day if you cannot accept the bad qualities and the negatives about your partner you will not have a good relationship because that is part of it. Very few ppl in this world change their bad habits for their partners. Wish you the best friend

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It all came back Posted: 12/27/2006 6:58:25 PM
very sorry to hear your story. Hope things get better for you. we all make mistakes. A guy half my age told me. "We all make mistakes but if we dont take the blame for them we would continue to make the same mistakes and mistakes sometimes cannot be fixed but they do not have to be repeated". I keep these golden words with me because they remind me of the mistakes i made in my life.

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how is everyone planning on handling new years eve alone? Posted: 12/27/2006 6:41:48 PM
iam very sick so i dont know if i will be ok by the eve. No plans and no party. i will spend sometime with my kids.

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why he is still does not beleive me when i tell him i was faithful.... Posted: 12/27/2006 6:37:09 PM
he would not beleive you because he cheated you and expects that you do same. Possibly he loves you so much that such thoughts come to his mind. sometimes when you love someone you get bad thoughts like that which is normal. My ex wife always used to tell me how i was cheating on her till i found out she was cheating on me. There is a difference in saying it. telling your partner that he/she is cheating on you is one thing. Asking your partner if he/she is cheating is another thing. By the way why are you with a guy who has cheated on you 20 times

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life after loving a user Posted: 12/27/2006 6:24:42 PM
my friend i feel very sorry for you. i can understand your pain. I was in a relationship with a woman for 4 years and she ruines it all for me. I was the manager for a big resturant and made almost 100 grand a year. Because of her i got fired. She accused me of rape and i was taken away by the cops while i was at work. It was so bad that it has finished my life and sometimes i cannot think. Not able to do my job the way i should but people cannot understand that. sometimes we love but are not loved back. Our love is so true that it makes us beleive that we are also loved. That feeling drives us to give up everything to have that special person. I wish you all the best in your life

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It took a long time, but I've found the girl for me Posted: 12/27/2006 5:59:48 PM
i wish you guys the best sometimes to see other ppl find what we all continue to find makes me very jealous. But hope things turn right for you as a couple

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 12/27/2006 5:56:40 PM
I never put my picture on for a very simple reason. iam fat and old. I think for pretty woman to hide their pictures and than meet people online is a great idea. Same for guys. people are shallow. i was on another dating site long ago and i had no picture. I put my friend's picture who happens to be my boss as well very attractive and all of a sudden my mailbox was full of emails from girls. So it is shallow in some respect. But it is human nature. Once again i love the forums on this website.

Joined: 8/15/2006

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If she says you're the one... How can you be sure. Posted: 12/27/2006 5:38:16 PM
i have been married three times and divorced three times. So i have been told "you are the one" and i told them the same. It is hard to know if its true or not. Something you can either totally feel in the start or if not than give it time

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Girl I Met In School Posted: 12/27/2006 5:34:27 PM
she might have given you the wrong email address. she could be very busy or she is going to reply back in a while. possible that she met someone in the meantime. so be patient my friend and wait. life goes on always.

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Have u ever had an animal die in your arms?if so how did u feel after xx Posted: 12/27/2006 5:25:45 PM
I once had a dog that died in my arms. It is very hurtful and very hard to deal with. Because like human beings animals also become a part of your life and you miss all that they used to do when they were alive. I hope you get over it pal

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