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nycmasterplumber

Joined: 8/17/2006

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Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill a Potential Relationship? Posted: 11/19/2009 1:51:36 PM
Hell no, if the feelings are there go for it I had that feeling on a first date over 87 times in the three years I was in the navy when I was 17 -21 years old How can one look forward to a second date wondering if the other person is fridgid or a minute man

nycmasterplumber

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MANHATTAN-SATURDAY AFTERNOON HALLOWEEN PARTY-NO COSTUMES NEEDED Oct 31st Posted: 10/10/2009 8:43:14 AM
Shalom, wow another Semi Jewish holiday.... I think I will dress as Moses as I like the idea of him wondering around in a daze for 40 years lost in the sands as he was to macho to ask for direction from his wife Conservative vs Liberal If a conservative doesn't like guns, he doesn't buy one. If a liberal doesn't like guns, he wants all guns outlawed. If a conservative is a vegetarian, he doesn`t eat meat. If a liberal is a vegetarian, he wants all meat products banned for everyone. If a conservative sees a foreign threat, he thinks about how to defeat his enemy. A liberal wonders how to surrender gracefully and still look good. If a conservative is homosexual, he quietly leads his life. If a liberal is homosexual, he demands legislated respect. If a black man or Hispanic are conservative, they see themselves as independently successful. Their liberal counterparts see themselves as victims in need of government protection. If a conservative is down-and-out, he thinks about how to better his situation. A liberal wonders who is going to take care of him. If a conservative doesn't like a talk show host, he switches channels. Liberals demand that those they don't like be shut down. If a conservative is a non-believer, he doesn't go to church. A liberal non-believer wants any mention of God and religion silenced. (Unless it's a foreign religion, of course!) If a conservative decides he needs health care, he goes about shopping for it, or may choose a job that provides it. A liberal demands that the rest of us pay for his. If a conservative slips and falls in a store, he gets up, laughs and is embarrassed. If a liberal slips and falls, he grabs his neck, moans like he's in labor and then sues. If a conservative reads this, he'll forward it so his friends can have a good laugh. A liberal will delete it because he's "offended". Shalom Shabot

NYCmasterplumber

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Sex & Guilt Posted: 8/31/2009 2:27:08 PM
When I joined the navy @17 I was fortunate enough to go on a Mediterranean cruise and during my 3 year enlistment I had relations with over 87 women and I learned there is absolutely nothing that a woman and man can do that is either disgusting or having a reason for guilt. Out of the 87+ women all but three were married . As long as it is enjoyable to both parties such as threesomes, orgies ,mate swapping for week ends everything is great as your going through life once so you may as well love the gift from the lord of SEX . Anyone who eats the same thing day after day mother after month year after year is a boring soul Having a multitude of experiences makes life interesting especially with a very dominant lady who is up to about anything as long as no pain and mutual respect is involved. Being a plumbing contractor I am alone in many homes with either the lady of the house or the maid or nanny and nothing is more rewarding then having an unexpected tryst with someone new. Over the past 45 years I made love to almost 500 women and never even caught a cold. Face it people love to climax and as long as no one gets hurt enjoy life but do not be an idiot like Wild (Bubba) Clinton or New York's Eliot Spitzer or NJ Mc Skeevy or the scum of the earth Kennedy clan or John Edwards who treated his wife like garbage (In wild Bill Clinton's case he was right to do so) Even the REV Jackson had a whore on the side as he she placed her knees on his bible to give him head. Men are much less discrete then women and thus they makes the news more often. Men cheat but there has to be the same number of women out there to have all this fun with. Its human nature so enjoy

nycmasterplumber

Joined: 8/17/2006

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Worst thing that has ever happened during sex??? Posted: 6/23/2009 11:36:22 AM
The worst thing I ever said during love making was telling the girl " your sister has bigger tits and a tighter vagina"

nycmasterplumber

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Can having sex too soon in the relationship kill your chance's? Posted: 9/1/2008 11:36:04 AM
t's books like that, that make me want to gouge out my own eyes... GAMES!!! If you have to play games and follow rules to "get" a man...who the hell wants him??? I want someone who loves me for who I am. A MEN, RIGHT ON you my dear would will make someone a great partner in life

nycmasterplumber

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Can having sex too soon in the relationship kill your chance's? Posted: 9/1/2008 11:30:28 AM
Wow I bet the woman who wrote the book is divorced possibly several times and is possibly IMHO under a doctors care for her frigidity. Being married for 40 years I can assure you if the man and lady are friends share the same interests and grow together and learn to keep each other mentally and physically happy that's the key, not holding back like some uncaring dead fish afraid to let go for fear of losing him once he finds out how shallow the writer is (of the book) I have a brother in law a doctor who had 4 wives in 12 years one was the ice queen an other wanted a Mrs doctor degree and the last two were on a rebound. If the attraction is there go for it . I met my wife when I was 21 right out of the navy and I got married 3 months later. While in the navy for my 3 year enlistment I had made love to over 87 women and all but three were married. Seems because these women had waited later on in life they wanted to see what they had missed. Look at the Clinton's and how many,many,many,many flings wild Bill had and look at Elliot Spitzer (new york State gov) and the Ex NJ gov and all the other democraps who strayed one who even has a wife dying of cancer and then told her once she dies he is going to marry his girl friend. Saving your virtue is great if your a teenager still attending school but in the real life there are just to many fish in the sea to waste time hoping she feels something that she is willing to be intimate. I like these how to books by folks who like priests never had a decent sex life that is still very intimate and exciting and still spontaneous. I think in my opinion the book your quoting from would make a great bird cage liner. Now if Wild Bill wrote a book how to seduce women who are chubby or in need of a major nose job Id possibly consider reading it

nycmasterplumber

Joined: 8/17/2006

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Can having sex too soon in the relationship kill your chance's? Posted: 9/1/2008 11:11:49 AM
Hell no..... When I was in the navy I knew of several sailors who had sex on the first date and fell head over heels with the lady and they married. If the chemistry is there why not go for it? Besides lust sex and then later on in the relationship making love is amazing. Also if one has relations first date for example and you find your not compatible it is best to find out before you invest to much time and taking a chance of missing your perfect match. Having sex tells you if the person is selfish,caring, clean, frigid, premature, feels guilt and if they are gentle and caring.

nycmasterplumber

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Woman and the cum? Posted: 7/27/2008 3:57:13 PM
I had one of my accounts (his wife) while we were having intercourse said please cum deep as possible inside her and asked me to remove the condom.. AMAZINGGGGGG turn on

nycmasterplumber

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Need advise Posted: 7/26/2008 4:09:52 PM
Nothing wrong with the spouse trying the last one as she may need to compare. When I was a kid in the navy (17 years old -21) In those amazing 3 years I had sex with over 87 women and all but three were married. Like Wild Bill (BUBBA) Clinton is only sex not really something to write home about. Let me ask you if you were married to the ice queen HELLERY and you were Bill who could blame you

nycmasterplumber

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26 y.o. left by wife / childhood sweetheart....advice? Posted: 7/24/2008 4:22:05 PM
Be thankful she left before your to old to enjoy life.. Does she have a nice looking sister or how about her mother? Don't worry about it imagine if you were married like some of my accounts who were married over 25 years and their hubby just took off with a girl younger then their daughters. I have an employee 27 years old already paying child support for 3 kids first wife and 2 from his second and is now living with some bimbo. Your young I am sure you can remarry and have a decent life Enjoy your new found freedom

nycmasterplumber

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Sex for gasoline -- how many gallons per encounter....... Posted: 7/7/2008 9:44:16 AM
As a plumbing contractor I cannot guess how many women had relations for plumbing services I lost count after 87 in less then 3 years and all but 4 were married. These were not welfare cases etc but wives of doctors and mostly lawyers living in multi million dollar condos in Manhattan or expensive houses in Westchester. One was a ministers wife (she was amazing) I think it is an excuse to have sex and then feel they got their pound of flesh back

nycmasterplumber

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I quit Posted: 5/17/2008 11:22:49 AM
Nice knowing you I hope it was as good for you as it was for me. Thank you so much for the good times I am sure you will be missed by so many people a decent nurse is so hard to find just like finding a hard man I'm told. Thanks for stopping by and think of two ships passing in the night

nycmasterplumber

Joined: 8/17/2006

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Long hair on older women Posted: 5/15/2008 12:01:52 PM
I like LONG HAIR on a womans head and NO hair in other places

nycmasterplumber

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why do men think they can use women for sex? Posted: 5/13/2008 3:21:40 PM
Takes two to tangle... When I was 17 I was in the Navy and in the 3 years of my enlistment I had relations with over 87 women and I would have to say most said there are not into one night stands or were looking for sex etc... I guess they thought by giving it up an hour after we met they had to say something to save face most said wow I never did anything like that before. Men have sex BUT the women think if their eyes are closed then its ok there are not there mentally I reckon,

nycmasterplumber

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Taking Control, Help Please!! Posted: 10/4/2007 9:03:14 AM
For real excitement tie him up, blind fold him and then make lots of noise banging chairs etc and scream OH MY GOD ITS MY HUSBAND that should get his heart pumping especially if you light off two or three fire crackers

nycmasterplumber

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Taking Control, Help Please!! Posted: 10/4/2007 8:58:52 AM
HAND CUFFS are a must and leather bra and leather panties (Black) and of course high heel thigh high boots. Better to let the SOB know now who is the boss before you get to seriously involved

nycmasterplumber

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If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30 Posted: 8/15/2007 4:46:09 PM
You know it is ironic how a guy is a lover when he had over 87 women in less then 3 years but if a woman had half that she is considered a slut. I was fortunate to have joined the US Navy when I was 17 and the enlistment was called a kiddie cruiser as I was discharged a day before my 21st BD. After boot camp in Great lakes , I was on a ship headed to the Mediterranean and we many ports Italy, Malta, Spain, Greece and a host of other amazing countries and I slept with over 87 women ( PRE AIDS ERA 1965 ) and never thankfully even caught a cold. After my enlistment I became a plumbing apprentice at 21, and all I have to say is Manhattan wifes (wild 70's) put the med cruise to shame when it comes to meeting someone saying Hi and ending up in bed. What men do not even consider is they go to work and leave the wife alone with rug rats and a tradesman's comes into the home and is seduced by a very neglected and bored wife. Looking back I must say after 300+ encounters, I cant imagine how many a woman could handle if she was discrete as women can go a lot longer then most men . I guess don't ask is the best approach when you meet someone you get serious about. If she had one lover or 500 how would a guy know?

nycmasterplumber1

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WTF is up with women using being safeonline as an excuse to play games ? Posted: 7/5/2007 10:32:42 AM
Personally I think every woman (who was never arrested for a felony) should be armed. This is especially true for women living alone or work nights or just want to feel secure in the knowledge that they have the GOD GIVEN RIGHT to protect themselves. Knowing a few women who were attacked and did dial 911 and waited and waited until the police finally showed up did not make them feel secure if the police can take as long as 12 minutes to respond. Many women do not even bother to report rapes as when they do they are treated like they "were looking for it or they lead the guy on or possibly they gave the wrong signals" With a firearm pointed at a guys chest he knows she is saying NO and no means if the mutt comes closer he will have lead poisoning to contend with. Today it is a violent world and thinking guns are the cause of crimes then using the same reasoning a FORK made Rosie O' Donnell a fat slob and the Car made Ted Kennedy a drunk leave the scene of a killing driver the car is at fault. Married women looking for companionship other then with their spouse really have a need to know they are safe as how does one tell their husband she was attacked meeting her boy friend?

nycmasterplumber1

Joined: 8/17/2006

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2nd worse date in the histroy of dating....and i'm dead serious! Posted: 4/16/2007 12:37:26 PM
I was having lunch in the Old Homestead in NYC and this "lady" comes in and asks the guy sitting next to me if he is with someone, he said no and she said she hates eating alone would he mind company and would he mind going Dutch. she ordered several drink and prime rib and said she had to powder her nose COLOR HER GONEEEE But three taking you for ride is really the pits.. they are out there

nycmasterplumber1

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Am I over reacting? Posted: 4/13/2007 1:47:52 PM
My wifes brother is a doctor from upstate NY, he met a lady on AOL and he decided to meet her and he flew to California. ( I thought he was a lunatic as NY has several million women why travel 3,000 miles if your horny?) Any how he made arrangements and and the same day he returned and called me to pick him up at the air port. I had to ask what the hell happened and he said that $^*& was 10 years older then she said she was, she also had children living at home and she lives in a pig sty. I asked well why didn't you go to the San Diego Zoo or rent a car and site see? He said "because she pissed me off so I took the next available flight out to get away from her." They be out there that is why posting "I am married" keeps the nut cases away hopefully. Looking for a future lover or soul mate I do not think the internet is where I would make my first choice as I would imagine finding someone local makes more sense. For example NYC has amazing culture and any type of restaurant a person could ask for plus B'Way shows, Lincoln's center for the performing arts, museums, the worlds 3rd best zoo, so why would I dare go to the left coast looking for a person who has a totally different mind set? Taking a person out of the country and exposing them to NYC and the noise and crowds and air pollution is like taking a fish out of a fresh water pond and dropping them into the ocean. When I was 17 I joined the navy and was fortunate to travel all over the Mediterranean and one thing I learned at a very early age.... Stay in your pay grade when hanging out with people same with people from various parts of the country try to stick with your own part of the country as they have the same values as you, one would hope. If nothing else you share a common ground to talk about like how NYC folks never visit the sites or just take a ferry ride or visit the stature of liberty. People embellish a lot about themselves especially over the net. So take it with a grain of salt and seek out someone closer this way if your in a restaurant and don't like the company excuse yourself saying your going to the rest room and sneak the hell out.

nycmasterplumber1

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Break up, then writes a thread about being used for sex. Posted: 4/13/2007 1:14:37 PM
As a contractor over the many years I have worked in a womans home. once in a while there is chemistry or possibly she was just horny or she just wanted to have grudge sex. In any event we had relations either oral or intercourse of just making out. Some of the women called the office for a repeat performance and others called to say they are not like that and have no clue what came over them and it was a one time thing and not to ever call them. Human nature being what it is people like a variety and no one can stand to eat the same food day after day after day year after year People love to travel as we have a desire to try and see new things. Many women are programed to think "good girls don't have sex" outside of marriage. One time many years ago I sent one of my employees to install a 40 gallon gas fired water heater in her home. I send her an invoice and after 30 days I sent a past due notice which went unanswered I finally called her and asked if there was a problem with the installation or was she having problems with the hot water? She said no everything is just perfect and thanked me I said then how come you never paid the bill? She said of course I paid it, I asked her for a copy of the check she said what check I paid Victor just ask him. At 4 pm when Victor came to the office I asked him about her and he turned white and said just take it out of my pay BUT please not all at once as I don't need my wife finding out. I said you know I charge $950.00 plus tax he said I know and as he was about to walk out I had to ask was she worth it? It is not only the women who feel taken advantage of Look at Wild Bill Clinton or the REV do as I say not as I do knock them up Jackson that has no loyalty to either his wife or girl friend. Both these morons were used and both were users

nycmasterplumber1

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Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable? Posted: 2/2/2007 8:18:03 PM
My very first was when I was 17 years old in the Navy hitch hiking on route 95 in New England and these two women in a White Caddy picked me up. This was on a Friday morning and they said want a lift to New Port as they were heading to the New port Jazz festival. I said sure not knowing how their would ruin me.. One was around 37 and the other had to be in her early 40's any how we ended up in a motel and I never did find out their last names all I found out is they were married and were on a womans only week end and their husbands were home watching their children. They drove me back to my ship at 6 am. MONDAY 72 hours of pure lust Truly amazing by the time I was separated from the service (3 year enlistment) I had made it with over 87 women before my 21 birthday and never even caught a cold. Looking back they got to be dead by now from old age, but I always will remember them and it constantly puts a smile on my face as they were amazing teachers

nycmasterplumber1

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Her opening was way, way too small... Posted: 2/2/2007 6:06:15 PM
Not that I am bragging (just stating a fact) but when I was 17 -21 I was in the Navy and during my whoring around days I had over 87 women . Thankfully I never even caught a cold and never wore a rain coat I did lose my cherry to two married women who gave me a threesome and after that I was hooked on older lady's The problem is women and their hormones seem to not be working in time with each other. Mentally they do want sex (actually I think its more of a closeness then the actual intercourse) but mother nature being cruel does not allow the older lady to lubricate as she did prior to her menopausal years. So being excessively dry does effect how one can actually penetrate a very dry tight opening . Even with KY and other lubricants it just doesn't work as it was intended as it used to get moist from within not some surface lube from the outside. Older women especially those that have not had physical relations in long period of time need a heck of a lot more fore play and NOT WITH DRY fingers. You need patience and lots of encouragement and fondling and kissing , oral does have an amazing effect on an older dry clitoris as the tongue is not rough and does help replenish (renew) the feelings they once had. For a wham bam thankless screw we have younger women who would not know a decent orgasm if it bit them on their a***. For quality and real love making an older lady is the way to go but if your in a rush and don't mind the feeling of feeling 0000 type of sand paper on your poker then get an older lady and try to rush her. Being a contractor, over the years I have seen women in their 70's who are sexy as hell and seen slobs like Rosie O' Donnell that would turn a cape Buffalo off . (not just her size but her big mouth) If guns kill then a FORK made Rosie O' Donnell FAT huh? There are some women who had total hysterectomies and hormone treatments with estrogen is not an option like some breasts cancers survivors . MASTER PLUMBERS our motto is "The plumber protects the health of the nation" So knowing womens health issues is part of our job description. Intercourse with women in their late 30's and early 40s was ok then as I got older so did my lovers (just worked out that way as I hate teaching) so now that I am 59 I would not dare go near any lady under 35. The reason you see more older guys with younger women is we are established made our money, more or less perfected our loving skills (quality not quantity) and can afford to have a lady wined and dined in the life style she thinks she deserves. The dryness is going to be an obstacle that you learn to live with (If you like women over 45) as for tightness that will open (stretch) with proper use BUT do not think your going to go to long as it will only irritate her and put her out of commission for a few days. So think about other tools you have to get her excited and women can be brought off quite easily without actual penetration. The great thing about an older lover is after the love making you can be able to hold a conversation with someone with some brains and do not have to take her out constantly to keep her entertained. Think of the older lady as a fine bottle of wine to be savored not a can of beer to be guzzled down. Having made love to an excess of 307 ( I lost count after that) I learned great things in life take patience and caring.

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