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steven491957

Joined: 8/18/2006

Msg: 18 (view)

Too busy: how do you deal with this? Posted: 12/11/2006 11:47:52 AM
Honest and open obviously he is not.

steven491957

Joined: 8/18/2006

Msg: 96 (view)

Sugar Daddy's and Sugar Mommas Posted: 12/11/2006 11:32:58 AM
Any sugar mommas in town tonight!

steven491957

Joined: 8/18/2006

Msg: 22 (view)

what to do when the ex is still very much involved with the children you share. Posted: 12/11/2006 11:25:18 AM
Continue to concentrate on your children. They are now and will always be the most important in your life. Get a vibrator. You and the kids will be better off. All the pressure will be off all of you. But if you want to continue to challenge yourself...

steven491957

Joined: 8/18/2006

Msg: 92 (view)

Would you let someone you met on the web stay at your place if they traveled far? Posted: 12/1/2006 10:24:49 PM
Eclair that sounds terrible. Good thing your still around to tell the story.

steven491957

Joined: 8/18/2006

Msg: 23 (view)

Will this make a DIFFERENCE? Posted: 12/1/2006 9:17:27 PM
Not if you explain it the way you did. Heard many women having the same scenario as you. I would personally find it exciting and sexy.

steven491957

Joined: 8/18/2006

Msg: 240 (view)

Question for the guys...Should us women say NO SEX on the 1st date BEFORE the date? Posted: 11/6/2006 6:46:15 PM
Call me your angel can you really blame guys for trying. Can't get my eyes off you. Want to have sex?

steven491957

Joined: 8/18/2006

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Sick of getting hurt Posted: 11/4/2006 6:43:10 PM
Heelside you need to step back and chill. Your love is not all that matters in a relationship with two people. She asked you to back off nicely the best way she knew how. There is something she saw/experienced she didn't like to pursue the relationship. Even when you get married to your special someone, she will have a choise to stay in your relationship or leave. So do you. Chin up and move on. You can't please all, right. She was not for you.

steven491957

Joined: 8/18/2006

Msg: 179 (view)

Question for the guys...Should us women say NO SEX on the 1st date BEFORE the date? Posted: 10/31/2006 7:09:41 PM
i've never given it up on the first date. never know there still could be a first.

steven491957

Joined: 8/18/2006

Msg: 113 (view)

how do guys move on so quickly?? Posted: 10/9/2006 8:22:52 PM
Pretty bright for a nursing student! I agree. Men don't have the support to deal with the emotional trauma from a failed relationship no matter who is at fault.

steven491957

Joined: 8/18/2006

Msg: 9 (view)

Colds going around! Posted: 10/7/2006 3:33:32 PM
I love Gin but never heard of hot toddies. Can you post the recipe? Lemon and honey are two of my favorite ingredients in the kitchen so far.

steven491957

Joined: 8/18/2006

Msg: 240 (view)

Can you sleep when you are cuddling? Posted: 10/5/2006 7:56:39 PM
Had one experience when my partner was able to sleep cuddling. Absolutely awesome. Sure we seperated after we fell asleep. What a great feeling falling asleep in each other's arms.

steven491957

Joined: 8/18/2006

Msg: 465 (view)

I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age.... Posted: 10/5/2006 6:38:08 PM
No! Sweet Sensation don't let nature take over and gain 10 lbs or let that beautiful face get wrinkles. You look fabulous.

steven491957

Joined: 8/18/2006

Msg: 122 (view)

Have you ever had a passionate kiss that rendered you unable to walk? Posted: 10/3/2006 5:41:46 PM
I was kissed at age 12 playing post office by one girl that I have not felt the heat and melting feeling since. I arouse easily and stay the distance but the kiss, warmth and feeling I received is unforgetable. Why? I don't know.

steven491957

Joined: 8/18/2006

Msg: 429 (view)

I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age.... * Posted: 10/3/2006 5:31:18 PM
I'm fit and look much 10 years or more younger than my age so I've been told. "Most" (not all) women my age have a gut, sagging face, short puffy hair to hide their hair thinning, bad dye job and only want a trophy (man).

steven491957

Joined: 8/18/2006

Msg: 205 (view)

What is the dream message you want to see in your inbox? Posted: 10/3/2006 5:22:40 PM
"Hi Steven! I'm coming to Atlantic City in December for a couple of days. How would you like to show me around town. Check my profile and get back to me if interested." It would be a great weekend together. Just depart our seperate ways afterwards feeling peace about one another.

steven491957

Joined: 8/18/2006

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DIFFERENT or UNIQUE ways to show LOVE............ Posted: 10/1/2006 6:59:49 PM
When I was eight there was a bond between me and neighbor my age. She found out I was moving to another part of the world. The day before our trip she came up to me and punched me right in the nose. Pretty UNIQUE!

steven491957

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Why are there so many married men pretending to be seperated? Posted: 9/24/2006 6:44:13 PM
Tinydancer you know us men real well!

steven491957

Joined: 8/18/2006

Msg: 40 (view)

Why are there so many married men pretending to be seperated? Posted: 9/24/2006 6:36:23 PM
Blue pearl, Not married but seperated from you by a big ocean I'm sorry to say.

steven491957

Joined: 8/18/2006

Msg: 74 (view)

What Is/Was Your Biggest Turn Off In Bed? Posted: 9/23/2006 3:37:29 PM
reading most of the female posts i must shower, not fart, ask your permission to end it, ask how she would like it done, get surgery to increase length and girth, don't expect it in the day time, fully undress but don't shave body hair and scream out loud her name while letting her know it's the best sex ever. F--- with the chocolates and flowers they are meanigless today. Wonder why no dates?

steven491957

Joined: 8/18/2006

Msg: 66 (view)

why do women want MR Wonderful MR Right etc they dont exist Posted: 9/21/2006 8:01:25 PM
ellienut what do you mean you're not a ten? I think you are. Searching for a date on line is new and somewhat challenging. I see what OP seen and thought to myself and mentioned to friends. How can you find what your looking for if you have so many criteria in dating some one. King, Prince, Knight, Princess needs rescue, only long term relationship, no dating, no exchanging pictures, no sex, not willing to chat, not married. Why not leave yourself open to date and get to know another human being before you date. Technology is here. You don't need to rush to first date to find out if it's all about sex, a liar, unemployed, and homeless. Get likes and dislikes while on line, job, home, family, finances, medical history. Do Google search with his/her name. White pages search to confirm his address and phone number. Where does he/she work? Call there to confirm. Get to know your date but at least be open to the possibility of getting to meet. Peace!

steven491957

Joined: 8/18/2006

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A woman is like a bus...... Posted: 9/21/2006 10:48:47 AM
Dude the dark side will not be your answer. Need to think if you been living your life in the dark side and need to move over to the good side. You said, "been a good guy all my life." Are you kidding your self? Why would your friend say such negative things about you if you're such a good guy? Peace bro!

steven491957

Joined: 8/18/2006

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How would you respond to this? Posted: 9/20/2006 9:34:33 PM
I could CHOOSE to like him and we could live happily ever after. That is sad. Very desperate man. He sure liked you to come with such a scenerio. Can he make the fairy come any time he wants to grant more wishes? Happily ever after! Yeah, OK. I choose him.

steven491957

Joined: 8/18/2006

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Viagra Posted: 9/19/2006 7:37:44 PM
Katie I agree with the rest. With someone as beautiful as you, he wanted a guarantee there would a lot sexual pleasing for the both of you. Received samples from a drug rep years ago. Did absolutely nothing special for me but I didn't have a problem then nor now. Why did I take it? To see what the fuss was all about.

steven491957

Joined: 8/18/2006

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I think my RADAR GUN is broken or malfunctioning............ Posted: 9/19/2006 3:58:20 PM
What I am finding is that there is a huge amount of dishonesty going on in here, meaning that many are very good at hiding who they truly are until you get somewhat into knowing them and then BOOM it all comes out! Are they thinking that I will just stay no matter what? Like really how long do you think you can hide these things before someone is going to find out? I am talking about things such as addiction, financial troubles, emotional insecurities, etc. Today we are older and carry so much baggage and many try to hide it until you say it comes out. It will eventually come out then the decision is to be made to stay or run. The innocence of our teen and early twenties are gone. Now many in their teens and early twenties already carry so much baggage than we did at their age. Glad to hear you're very open and honest and hope you maintain such status. Striving to live right and healthy is the best way to travel on this short trip. Take care and hope there is no offence to any one over this post.

steven491957

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I think my RADAR GUN is broken or malfunctioning............ Posted: 9/19/2006 7:24:19 AM
To diagnosis the malfunction of your radar gun you need to describe what types it is picking up(attracting men that are not right for me). Maybe it's a Broad Spectrum Radar Gun this model is not as high end as the Super Model Bag it every time. Have a great day.

steven491957

Joined: 8/18/2006

Msg: 63 (view)

The art of MIND SEDUCTION.........hmmmmm Posted: 9/18/2006 8:05:49 PM
Amazing is the man who can truly bring the mental seduction to reality.... Yes, some men are more amazing than others . As well as some women. Some attraction (force) is needed in order to induce the male or female in the art of mind seduction. Attraction can be more than visual. It can be what one opens themselves to want or need. I came back to the forum to see if any one else was going to stimulate my mind. Well good night all!

steven491957

Joined: 8/18/2006

Msg: 97 (view)

Honestly,Would You Take Your Ex Back For The Kid's Sake? Posted: 9/18/2006 6:01:52 PM
Yes! Just in the house not in a relationship.

steven491957

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The art of MIND SEDUCTION.........hmmmmm Posted: 9/18/2006 4:35:21 PM
one step thanks for starting this thread. i realize personally I have been all visual recently and need to spice up my reach. quickdraw thanks for reminding me I need to read Harlequin. you did a fabulous job. great visual for me. been there done that. love it. I guess now I know why telephone sex is not going out of business. one step can I call up in Canada some time or you can call me in New Jersey and in your soft luscious distinctly feminine voice to fill my ears and mind with your femininity causing my silly heart to just slow down from me holding my breath awaiting to hear every syllable rolling off your pointed tongue.

steven491957

Joined: 8/18/2006

Msg: 122 (view)

had a date saying he was going to the bathroom..... Posted: 9/18/2006 4:16:02 PM
Live and learn. Heard worst stories. Been on a few dates and never did a woman make an attempt to offer to split or take the check. I'm new to dating but I thought there was an equality revolution. Also, not one date had picture that was up to date. All posted picture from college days or more than 5 years old. Like what is up with that. Dating today is a whole new experience. Not as innocent as when we were younger. A lot more demands and prerequisites. Not many are going with gut and attraction. They have all been hurt and many can't get over it. I'll keep trying to meet someone that can settle and satisfy me but until then keep sending those forms and prerequisites to fill out.

steven491957

Joined: 8/18/2006

Msg: 29 (view)

Would u Still Help your Posted: 9/17/2006 6:42:07 PM
Depends what it will be used for. If it's for medical care for the man she cheated for it would give me pleasure.

steven491957

Joined: 8/18/2006

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One Plus One = Three Posted: 9/10/2006 1:26:32 PM
Guess being married and searching on POF is giving you some guilt. Can you have your cake and eat it too. NO! Once you eat it you no longer have it. You took an oath. Once you step out of that oath your relationship is no longer what you took the oath for - singularity. You can tell yourself you can love her for ever and just as much whoever is new in your life and is going to make you happy.

steven491957

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why so many 3 months relationships??? Posted: 9/10/2006 1:04:12 PM
Migra I like your explanation. We all share experiences for a reason in our lives. I'm grateful for my experiences. Recently divorced and had a few dates. One I was attracted to physically and she was attracted to me. We both went into the relationship wanting each other physically. By the second month personality traits creeped up and I wanted to step back but felt bad so stayed on for onemore month. Was willing to keep it frienfly and open but she would scold me any chance she could. So it lasted 3 months - pretty amazing! I'm grateful for the experience. She as an awesome woman with minor glitches.

steven491957

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Date my mom Posted: 9/2/2006 6:37:14 PM
It depends on what experiences you've had with your parents. If they were nurturing and good then you will naturally seek those triats out. If your parents were nasty and alcoholics then you would steer away from someone that reminded you of them. In my case, I'm very attracted to long curvy brown hair, high cheek bones and olive complexion. Gee fits my MOM to a T. Wonder why?

steven491957

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South Jersey end of summer beach get together event. Posted: 8/30/2006 2:05:04 AM
Guess from little interest holiday weekend not a good time for POF get together in South Jersey. The weather is not looking pretty this weekend. Take care everyone. Enjoy your weekend the best you can and stay dry (from the weather that is).

steven491957

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Mail order brides Posted: 8/28/2006 8:54:25 PM
Arthistorylover you're the one insulting Gordon. He is just giving his opinion and tells you to look up the facts for yourself. You keep bringing up his portrayal of this country and women. Just because you didn't agree with his findings doesn't mean you can belittle and tell him he should leave this country. Is it your country? Your way or no way? Keep fantasizing of your imaginary man in our blessed country.

steven491957

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Mail order brides Posted: 8/28/2006 8:46:19 PM
Gordon I want you to run for the Senate and take back our country from the bunch of liberals that are spending hard earned tax dollars to support such a destructive syatem. Family is the backbone of any nation. Without family there is no nation. Just a lot "me" rather than "we."

steven491957

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Msg: 152 (view)

Mail order brides Posted: 8/28/2006 8:27:51 PM
Catonic thanks for the web site. Really amazing how many beautiful women from former communist countries are out scamming. I'm jealous. Need to get into their business. Must be very successful to be so many. Says a lot about how sad the man of western civilization is. Honestly I thought about it - looking for a foreign bride.

steven491957

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Mail order brides Posted: 8/28/2006 7:50:48 PM
Gordon great post! Really enjoyed it. You were non partial, informative and to the point. You must thank your parents for providing you with such a good education. I'm in agreement men are hosed in this country. A woman can go and have an affair, come home and say, 'Honey I want a divorce, all financial papers, alimony, child support and 70% of the assets and you're paying $15,000.00 for the divorce (uncontested). Legal in 47 no fault divorce states. It's not right!

steven491957

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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage? Posted: 8/27/2006 7:03:33 PM
If I was a teenager maybe i'd wait.

steven491957

Joined: 8/18/2006

Msg: 30 (view)

Suddenly lost interest ~ during sex! Posted: 8/25/2006 8:37:19 PM
Definitely agree with you, it's more of a female thing. I can't think of any time I lost interest when I could not finish satisfying myself once I got started. Had kids, phone, doorbells, etc. Just kept on going.

steven491957

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South Jersey end of summer beach get together event. Posted: 8/25/2006 1:37:18 PM
Saturday, September 2nd. 2006 on the Atlantic City beach in front of Hilton Casino Dizzy Dolphin beach bar. Opens at 9 A.M. until dusk. Any one interested?

steven491957

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Checking ur mail even after couple of dates Posted: 8/25/2006 1:16:25 PM
Hey you my old girlfriend? She was humiliated and violated when she was checking her Plentyoffish email with new matches and saw that I was on line. Double standard seems to me. I apologized of course and told her no more online time but she found other faults. Unhappy person. Back to fishing again.

steven491957

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NEED INSIGHTS HERE Posted: 8/25/2006 12:24:30 PM
Wow very intense situation. He wants no commitment. He is scared or there is another woman. Just move on. If there is no other woman. He lacks the maturity right now to commit to anyone. He will return if you call most likely but will walk out on you again when his mind tells there are more issues to deal with that he can't due to his lack of maturity. Happy fishing! Weird that he spent so much time and did not do you. I would have in a heart beat.

steven491957

Joined: 8/18/2006

Msg: 52 (view)

Your Worst Kissing Experience Posted: 8/24/2006 5:59:02 PM
I had a similar experience with a beautiful hot chic. Just drooled looking at her whole package. We hook lips and the puts her tongue out with hardly any movement...what the! Big blob of meat. Stopped that right away and went to other areas, the neck, nibbling at the ears, massaging her melon's, her thighs... get the picture. Made good of a bad situation. Kissed other pleasurable points. Her lips where off limit, Yuk! Everything else tasted good.

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