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 Author Thread: Ending Up Alone - Who fears The Reaper?
 LADYINRED126
Joined: 10/10/2010
Msg: 129 (view)
 
Ending Up Alone - Who fears The Reaper?
Posted: 9/7/2011 9:34:12 PM
The solution is simple: Provide your keys to your kingdom to one of your colleagues/coworkers and simply just continue to work which we will all be doing way into our 80's given the current economy. If perchance you don't show up at work, your colleagues/coworkers will know where to find you. Just be sure to arrange that pre paid burial, no one wants a hot mess on their hands. The trick is to make each day above the ground count for something and make someone happy and yes, in doing that, you will be happy too and maybe live a little longer in the process.

"THE SHRINK"
 LADYINRED126
Joined: 10/10/2010
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Erection problems @ age 50?
Posted: 9/7/2011 9:13:49 PM
This is very common as the hormone testosterone decreases as a man ages. That being said, it does not occur with all men. There are other variables such as lifestyle and alochol consumption as wellas side effects of medication. Always rule out psychological issues by consulting with a urologist first.

"THE SHRINK"
 LADYINRED126
Joined: 10/10/2010
Msg: 86 (view)
 
He seemed really sweet.... but haven't heard from him!
Posted: 9/7/2011 9:07:57 PM
Dear, let it go and here is why. You are losing the important point here, instead of engaging in this mind reading activity of what this man is thinking why are you not focused on how you feel and what this experiences has taught you? After all is said and done, it's the relationship you have with yourself that is the most important, not with him or anyone else. Try being a little more introspective as to what you were attempting to accomplish by giving someone you hardly know a "bj"? No one is passing judgment on this except for apparently YOU. To have expectations beyond that evening is to set yourself up for disappointed expectations. If it was a relationship you wanted, that is not the way to go. If it was a flash in the pan so to speak, a one night only connection, then that is precisely what you signed on for and what you got. The bottomline is neither to ignore him nor seek to speak to him privately. NEUTRAL is the place to be. You don't care one way or the other and your behavior ought to convey this. Life experience; always our best teacher. Work on identifying what you want to achieve in terms of a relationship and remember, nothing good comes easy.

"THE SHRINK"
 LADYINRED126
Joined: 10/10/2010
Msg: 741 (view)
 
Erectile Dysfunction
Posted: 9/7/2011 7:20:48 AM
This issue relates to many aspects of MEN'S HEALTH. Many variables come into play here and necessitate consultation with the designated medical professionals that can speak to the many variables herein. Firstly, there is a decrease in the level of the hormone called Testosterone as men move on in the life cycle. Consultation with your doctor can apprise you of what choices one can avail oneself and what direction is best for you. There are now man options available. Nutrition is also a factor and for this a consultaion with a licensed RD, Registered Dietitician would bode well. Additionally, the side effects of various hypertensive medications, diabetes and coronary artery disease medications to name a few as well as SSRI antidepressants we have come to know as household names. Zoloft, Paxil, Prozac, Lexapro to name several all have sexual side effects and decrease libido. Consult your doctor and always read the inserts of the medications to be better educated. Speak to your pharmacist as well as your doctor as to drug interactions and side effects. Aside from Cialis, Levitra and Viagra, if all else fails, there are now Penile Implants available that are covered by some insurance plans. There are options out there and a consultation with a urologist can set one on the path of improving a situation of great concern to men and their health. Lifestyle changes may not be easy but bode well for better men's health in the long run. Vitamin supplements, exercise are all key, and maintaining an appropriate weight. These are important factors and contributory, none to be disavowed. Excessive alcohol consumption also wreaks havoc on one's health as one ages. Mind and body are all connected and a man's self esteem is enhanced greatly when he has improved health.

"THE SHRINK"
 LADYINRED126
Joined: 10/10/2010
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Dating People Over 45 With Dependent Children
Posted: 9/7/2011 7:02:05 AM
This is a challenge but it sounds as if you have already made a decision on what works for you. Why do you doubt yourself? Follow your own path as you are on the right one for YOU. Listening to other's people's judgment from their own subjective reality simply tells you what works for THEM. Why are you seeking validation from others when their viewpoint is clearly coming from works for THEM and not for YOU. Everyone is entitled to seek what fufills them and meets their needs. Sounds to me as if you have done well identifying yours. Compatibility is key to the success of any relationship and fufilling one's needs. You are right not to squeeze a round peg into a square hole. You will meet someone who is more in line with what you seek if you stay the course. It's just a matter of time and resolve.

"THE SHRINK"
 LADYINRED126
Joined: 10/10/2010
Msg: 739 (view)
 
Erectile Dysfunction
Posted: 9/6/2011 8:15:40 AM
This is a common problem that is now receiving media attention. Firstly, one needs to rule out any organic issues. Hypertension, Diabetes and Coronary Artery Disease to name a few. Medication to address these conditions as well as antidepressant medications such as Prozac, Zoloft, Paxil and other similar SSRI's have decrease libidio and ED as side effects. Men need to speak to their doctors and pharmacists as these Side Effects of these medications and medical conditions. That aside the level of testosterone decreases as men age just as the level of estrogen decreases in women which affects libido. Men can now obtain testosterone in several forms. Again, discuss with a empathic urologist for men. Men's health is also dependent on nutrition and supplements. Consult a licensed RD, nutritionist. Exercise and diet play a role not to be disregarded. Penile implants are becoming more mainsstream if ED drugs are not effective. This is often covered by insurance depending of course of one's plan. I hope this helps. 'THE SHRINK"
 LADYINRED126
Joined: 10/10/2010
Msg: 255 (view)
 
Confused about You're too old for me responses from women
Posted: 9/6/2011 8:07:23 AM
There is one solution to this problem. Update your look to a more youthful edgy appearance and think YOUNG. Present as such and review your profile with a hip woman in her 40's or early 50's for input/feedback. Always use your age as a plus, not a minus when describing yourself. The word MATURE GENTLEMAN and FINE DINING. KNOWS HOW TO TREAT A LADY. Trust me if you aim to impress more women would be more willing to give you that chance. But you have to work harder at it, and don't take a MAYBE or a NO so fast as the final word. Try a second email and be persuasive. Focus on what the WOMAN wants and WINE AND DINE. Trust me, take photos with a suit and tie on as if you are ready to take the lady out on the town and CATER to her. If you want a younger woman, and she is pretty, this is the direction that you need to go. I dated an older man and NEVER even questioned it even though it was new to me. He had an updated look and kept at every objection I raised with a gracious answer to take me out to beautiful places and be super accomodating. You can do it. It takes some effort and motivation. From "THE SHRINK".
 
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