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 damilt
Joined: 8/20/2006
Msg: 129 (view)
 
JUST FOR YOU
Posted: 10/13/2006 9:00:39 PM
hey what about australia. we are here you know. lots of people in australia use this service. just becoz we are down under?????
 damilt
Joined: 8/20/2006
Msg: 128 (view)
 
still haven't found what i'm loooking for
Posted: 10/13/2006 8:58:28 PM
hope you get this bunch of flowers
 damilt
Joined: 8/20/2006
Msg: 14 (view)
 
mxd messages after a relationship
Posted: 9/13/2006 1:25:00 AM
I agree with you never sleep with a friend. It's frustrating when you believe you have made it clear only to find that he has only played with your heart. Said no a number of times but he carried on anyway. Have let him go. He has now sent me emails and txt stating that he does have feelings for me, followed by nastiness. And to think that he is a religious man - a man who believes in god. Hay I'm more of a christian than he is any day
 damilt
Joined: 8/20/2006
Msg: 13 (view)
 
mxd messages after a relationship
Posted: 9/13/2006 1:19:20 AM
thanks for your reply - blunt - but thanks. No I'm not mixed he is and has yet again sent messages that he still has feelings for me followed by a barrage of verbal abuse. So you are right forget about him. He doesn't know what he wants. Will be good to myself because I deserve it
 damilt
Joined: 8/20/2006
Msg: 12 (view)
 
mxd messages after a relationship
Posted: 9/13/2006 1:15:23 AM
because of the relentless actions of affection and that I had stated to him DONT unless he has affections for me. Hence the mixed messages. Since then he has apologised and has again stated his feelings for me followed by a barage of verbal abuse. Go figure. Told him to leave me alone. Hope he does. These flipping mixed messages play with a girls head. Dont need it
 damilt
Joined: 8/20/2006
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mxd messages after a relationship
Posted: 9/12/2006 3:07:16 AM
I met this guy on the net. We messaged for ages and finally met. We were attracted to each other and had lots in common. We keen to see each other. Met his kids. Got on well with them. He knew I what I wanted in a relationship. One of them being to be there for me but when it came to the crunch he wasnt. (I had a family crisis) Because of my family's dynmics it was not a problem he could solve. I didn't expect him to - just to listen and be supportive was all that was needed.

Needless to say the relationship fell apart, but we both agreed to remain friends, but since then there has been lots of mixed messages. He finally agreed that he had feelings for me but realised that he couldn't give me what I wanted - which was a relationship but not necessarily live together. So we agreed to be just friends (platonic). He also had a very close relationship with his last girlfriend that was the mother of his last child.

One particular evening I went to his house to help him with a few things. He got affectionate. I kept saying no. I previously had stated to him not to get affectionate with me unless it was to have a relationship with me. He persued his affections onto me. Eventually we went to bed together.

Now of course I got all mixed up. Was it a one night stand as such? Did he mean it on the night? Was it an action to get me into bed? Again stated to him not to show his affections unless it was he wanted a relationship - not a friendship with a need. We continued to be friendly with each other and agreed for it to be platonic.

Now all of a sudden he is not talking to me - no explanation. What the hell does that mean. He has got a girlfriend? He is angry with me for some reason? He is all mixed up? He is sulking because he can't have his cake and eat it too?

Have I lost him as a friend. I am not angry with him. Have made it clear I value him just as a friend only. Men don't they drive you nuts!!! I know what I want. He cant give it to me. Just want him as a friend. He wont talk to me. He loves to txt and email instead of face to face stuff. All arguements are conducted so that I am in the wrong (which I am not)
 
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