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 Author Thread: can someone tell me what is wrong???
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 16 (view)
 
can someone tell me what is wrong???
Posted: 7/19/2009 7:37:16 PM
I don't bother with guys looking for friends because all that means is 1 they are wimps 2 they are looking for pity sex from a friend with benefits3 they have a bunch of women in their life 4 they don't want a commitment 5 waste of time
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 160 (view)
 
WER'S DA MOS FREAKY PLACE U'V EVA HAD SEX????????
Posted: 7/19/2009 7:06:16 PM
You can't even express yourself correctly and you brag about your fornication! How disgusting!
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 37 (view)
 
are you influenced by peer pressure in who you choose to date?
Posted: 7/19/2009 6:56:13 PM
Any idiot who listens to peer pressure is just that... An idiot! Dump them dude! Black is beautiful!
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 72 (view)
 
LADIIES NEEDHELP! aghhhh Should I be player hatin?
Posted: 7/19/2009 6:45:45 PM
You have a boyfriend but want to do his socalled friend?!? Go look up skank in the dictionary and then get back to us! Let's hope you don't get knocked up then run a pity thread here in a few months or worse be a guest on the jerry springer show!
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 13 (view)
 
this cant be right
Posted: 7/19/2009 6:38:16 PM
Good for both of them! That is what. That is what you get for fornicating. No sypathies here!
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 19 (view)
 
How can i loose mi Virginity
Posted: 7/10/2009 10:01:25 PM
Sex isn't just to do it. Wait til you are married. You might make a baby
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Good Girl?
Posted: 7/10/2009 9:20:44 PM
If you go to church regularly you should hear the part of not fornicating and not having illigitamate kids. Nice try but you won't pull the wool over anyones eyes. Guys may respect you if you are honest and say the truth about your promiscuity.
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 62 (view)
 
Why do men say LTR if they don't mean it?
Posted: 7/10/2009 9:13:55 PM
You did nothing wrong! Welcome to america! Now a days american men see marriage love relationships marriage ltr as a fate worse than death. Just look at popculture. They just don't care and don't want responsibility. But by the same token they wanna remain friends after its over so that they can think they own you and get some as a friends with benefits booty call. Truth of the matter is they just don't care about anyone but themselves and their pedros!
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 42 (view)
 
A situation I've never been in before...
Posted: 7/9/2009 11:43:59 AM
Look up the word adultery and get back to me! How could you even consider something as disgusting as that? Go fishing! I hope you realize that by your post now women know you are only looking for someone to have sex with. I look foward to next weeks pity thread of why the disinterest from pof women towards you!
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 61 (view)
 
My fiance continually leaves me High and Dry
Posted: 7/9/2009 11:34:14 AM
Fiance for 5 years? What? In many states if you are living together that long you have a common law marriage. Didn't your mama tell you that no one buys the cow if you give the milk for free? 5yr old fiance is foolishness! And please don't give the excuse of waiting to have money for a big wedding if you have been playing house and already enjoyed the honeymoon. The guy has no respect for you because you haven't given him a reason to.
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 70 (view)
 
Why, why, why
Posted: 7/8/2009 8:01:36 AM
Divorced or separated men are nothing but trouble. Run from them. They are rejected by exwives for a reason.
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 246 (view)
 
are some girls too caught up in looking for the perfect man?
Posted: 7/6/2009 10:31:31 AM
The real question is why would any guy even dream that a girl would want nothing but the best? Where has this loser mentality come from? Is it out of laziness? I am baffled myself by the sorry excuse for men these days! Men weren't like this before and they aren't like this in europe and latin america. If you can't offer your best do us all a favor and get off the market and out of the gene pool. Please don't waste our time!
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 21 (view)
 
How do you cope with losing a daughter!!!!
Posted: 6/2/2009 12:13:26 PM
My condolences and deepest sympathies go out to you. Grief of losing a loved one can be overwhelming and when its a child devistating. Let yourself mourn. You have everyright to do so. Make sure you eat well. When the tears flow allow them too. Do not take any antidepressants or meds for this. The pain you feel is real and justified. There is no wrong way to grieve nor too long a time. I say this because doctors try to push drugs to make things normal again and this time in your life is far from normal. Remember the good times with her. Know that she loved you and that she knew she was loved. This life is hard but find comfort that jesus will reunute you with your daughter again. Death is not from god. This life is a mere moment in eternity. She completed her mission here but your destiny is still unfolding.
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Preacher Man?
Posted: 5/26/2009 4:23:59 AM
Preachers are sexy!
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 30 (view)
 
why dont guys know what they want?
Posted: 5/26/2009 4:20:29 AM
Oh please! Stop being selfish irresponsible and immature. A dad for your kids with no commitment or stability of marriage? What the heck is that? Good thing you can't have more kids! You can't even set a good example for the ones you have now! Grow up! Its not about you anymore. Its about the kids.
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 65 (view)
 
screwed up bad. how do i fix this
Posted: 5/26/2009 3:56:55 AM
Don't be having sex until you are married to the person
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
All about flaky girls
Posted: 5/26/2009 3:48:39 AM
Girls learned how to do this from guys!
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 8 (view)
 
AGE questions
Posted: 5/26/2009 3:40:20 AM
Age means nothing to me!
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 19 (view)
 
how to get back with my ex
Posted: 5/22/2009 9:11:58 AM
Step up to the plate do the right thing marry her and give your son a family!
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Losing it?
Posted: 5/19/2009 8:54:17 AM
Beats the heck out of me why the lead singer of a band is solo! If you aren't even attracting groupies maybr its your breath or b o?
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Next Step?!
Posted: 5/19/2009 4:41:31 AM
Cell phone service sucks at times?ao her messages might come way later. Just leave another message saying hola with your number
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Next Step?!
Posted: 5/19/2009 4:35:35 AM
Cell phone service sucks at times?ao her messages might come way later. Just leave another message saying hola with your number
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Help please..lol
Posted: 5/16/2009 3:43:05 AM
Next time you text her back send it 1 word at a time!
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Riddle me this??????????????????????????????
Posted: 5/16/2009 3:36:45 AM
Looking like a slob isn't a good man!
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 89 (view)
 
Nice guy tryin to figure out the mysterious line
Posted: 5/16/2009 3:30:12 AM
After reading your post I don't consider you a nice guy. Sound more like a wuss. A nice guy wants to get married and have a family not have kinky times!
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 29 (view)
 
No hand holding
Posted: 5/16/2009 3:19:55 AM
Does she let you hold other body parts? Next time tickle her palm!
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Help I really need advice on an opposite sec friendship
Posted: 5/16/2009 3:16:36 AM
This is why the being friends lie backfires! Its low sneaky and dishonest! Hope you learned your lesson!
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 12 (view)
 
confused as hell
Posted: 5/16/2009 3:10:46 AM
If you love her stop being a wuss and tell her!
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 45 (view)
 
Non- Mormon Dating a Mormon
Posted: 5/16/2009 2:45:58 AM
Mormons rock! I am not mormon but go to their church on and off. They are christians. They have sacrement at every service. They throw awesome parties. The guys make great husbands and help with the kids. Call your local mormon church and go there. You will love it! I haven't joined since I am a smoker.
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Mother Lovers
Posted: 5/14/2009 5:04:22 AM
Only if its a true relationship and both are single is it ok!
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 24 (view)
 
What to do ?
Posted: 5/14/2009 4:53:52 AM
Eeeewwwww! This mess needs to go where it belongs! The jerry springer show!
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Looking for some female advice
Posted: 5/12/2009 12:06:27 PM
Start packing pb and j in a brown paper bag and get a slurpee at the gas station!
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Dating younger guys
Posted: 5/12/2009 11:50:32 AM
Cougar here! Email me baby!
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Full custody of a beautiful daughter...
Posted: 5/12/2009 11:47:11 AM
Single father yuk! Single father that hides it and tells me later grosser thab gross!
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Blacked out an apparently a fool
Posted: 5/12/2009 11:44:23 AM
Lol! You wait days to call her back and then you dispair because she didn't call you back the same day?
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 15 (view)
 
The line of no return.... friendship...
Posted: 5/12/2009 11:41:19 AM
Ya got it buddy! Friends are friends! Nothing more!
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Am I delusional?
Posted: 5/7/2009 7:51:51 AM
Go get a makeover ask somt women out and quit whining! That simple
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 94 (view)
 
The Modern Day Knight in Shinning Armor aka known as Prince Charming!
Posted: 5/7/2009 7:44:09 AM
Lol! You are delusional to think that a lady settles for less! Its better to be alone than in the midst of bad company.
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 612 (view)
 
I caught a women I've been sleeping with inserting my used condom inside her
Posted: 5/7/2009 7:34:10 AM
Bwahaha! Rotfpimplmfao! Serves you right! You used her for sex and now she is using you for sperm! Poetic justice!
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 97 (view)
 
he's grossed out and I'm embarassed what do I do
Posted: 5/7/2009 7:29:47 AM
You were the rude one telling hum to google it instead of complimenting him on being such a good lover. You were suposed to explaib to him what happened since he didn't know. Its your fault not his because of your condisending attitude. Go appologize!
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Not a relationship problem but I need some advice please.
Posted: 5/7/2009 7:16:12 AM
Omg! You haven't even asked her out yet? Dang what a wuss!
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
why does she beat me?
Posted: 5/6/2009 12:58:55 AM
She beats you cause you look for it with your dumb jokes!
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 32 (view)
 
What is wrong with me or is it him [ladys help]
Posted: 5/3/2009 10:43:10 AM
Avoid drunks and druggies! Nothing good will ever come out of that mess
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Very Bad Experience...Help
Posted: 5/2/2009 9:12:03 PM
Sadly it sounds like you met a psycho probably related to the craigs list killer!
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 73 (view)
 
Wow are you serious
Posted: 5/2/2009 8:59:35 PM
You couldn't have said it better! Sadly people are too selfish to do the right thing now a days! Sigh!
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 114 (view)
 
Are US Men Obsolete?
Posted: 5/2/2009 8:40:23 PM
Men aren't obsolete. Its just that american men are weird. They don't know what they want let alone how to get it. They wanna be lovers but call it friends. They are too scared to ask a girl out. They get mad if you aren't a slut. Then they whine when they have been a jerk all year and no one sends a valentine or bday card. They hate you if you love them and hate it more when someone new loves you. They want to look like slobs but don't understand why they are rejected. This is why I prefer european and latin gentlemen. They know what they want and how to get it. They aren't afraid and wishy washy. There is no guessing. Everything is clear. They seek love and aren't afraid of it.
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 289 (view)
 
u can't have a plutonic friendship with opposite sex
Posted: 5/2/2009 6:05:26 AM
I have many platonuc guy friends.
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
My boyf sits in his exes to see the kids
Posted: 5/2/2009 6:02:59 AM
Another reason why not to date a man with kids.
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
dateing,religion,parents
Posted: 5/2/2009 6:00:14 AM
Yeah yeah she is such a christian that she got herself knocked up when sex is just for marriage. Start paying child support thru the government and get visitation rights and sue for custody.
 bella4908
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Can anybody explain this to me?
Posted: 5/2/2009 5:40:53 AM
You got into this mess yourself. You shouldn't have had sex with a drunk girl. You could have said no to all her advances.
 
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