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annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

Msg: 122 (view)

Reading your partner's emails...how serious an offence? Posted: 2/13/2008 9:19:28 AM
live in relationship.. to me i wouldnt have a personnell email account.. if i was living or married to a man..i wouldnt say things to anyone that he couldnt read... id being sharing my life with him and my personnell things with him..so why another email account that he couldnt read??

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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Looks really are everything.... Posted: 3/18/2007 8:26:31 AM
beauty fades but a kind loving soul will remain forever....keeping clean and neat...being nice to otheres and treating people as people is what we need to do.... i fell for a man who wasnt skin pretty but i thought had what i felt was a wonderfull soul....to bad for me...he didnt have a good heart..but what i felt for him was love...im not beautifull..but i have a good heart.... we all derserve love and need to be held and valued as a person... when you look into the mirror each day.i know you see the beauty in your heart....dont be so hard on yourself..the chemistry of the right woman will come along..enjoy your day.be happy in your heart..waves

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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please help me Posted: 3/9/2007 10:09:27 AM
it does to a lot of men.they want small and perky...lets me outa the love game good luck my dear

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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i think my mom who is married is having an online love affair? Posted: 3/7/2007 5:30:51 AM
shes an adult..altho you care..would you want her doing that to you??i know its not right.. but she is an adult..

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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oddish break ups Posted: 2/28/2007 4:58:02 AM
kinda immature to have some one else do the breaking up!!!!!!!! good luck

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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Relationships without love Posted: 1/31/2007 3:32:42 PM
aspco: just looking PLEASE..EVERY WOMAN READ HIS PROFILE..MAN IN WHITE UNIFORM..OTHER PIC IS ARMY..HE LIVES IN LOWER SACKVILE..IN MINI HOME....WILL SAY ANYTHING TO GET SEX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.I KNOW.....SO BE VERY CAREFULL IF YOU DONT WANT YOUR HEART BROKEN....... SORRY I INTRORUPED THE POST HERE BUT JUST FOUND HIS PROFILE..AND HE USED TO GO BY MATIC.... SO IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR LOVE AND NOT JUST SEX..HE ISNT THE MAN FOR YOU!!!

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

Msg: 58 (view)

am I over reacting? or is this unacceptable? Posted: 1/10/2007 7:57:50 AM
people who are commited to a special person..dont do them things..either leave her or tell her to smarten up!!!!!!!!!

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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Beauty in the Posted: 1/10/2007 7:54:01 AM
beauty/is it in the looks or in your soul? i have and do look at the skin beauty...but while dating have seen the true beauty of a man...the beauty when he takes your hand and you feel him realy near you...the beauty of him buying you a single flower just because..the deep beauty of his heart when he says ill drive to pick you up..and deliver you home again..when it means him being on the road for hours....the beauty of the soul shinning through his eyes...the way he speaks,the way he looks at you...beauty is in our hearts and souls...not just skin deep...there is beauty in every living person...and the chemistry we feel when around them..that one special person,who makes our heart beat faster..that person we cant forget... beauty is what we feel inside us..

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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Random E-Dating Questions Posted: 1/5/2007 1:56:28 PM
hi there... uninterested in there apperance..then just say something like...i go for laadies with a slender physic..or i enjoy ladies who are petite.....i like ladies with long hair..or i enjoy short hair.... just say it nicely how you feel....be honest..thats all anyone can ask for... if its age..say you would like ladies a couple of years younger..or older...just be honest..i think most everybody will be happy if you say how you feel.... we are all beautifull in our own way.....but in all honestly physiciall attraction has to be there in one way or another..to complete the entire package.... good luck to you..have a great 07

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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ALONE FOR THE HOLIDAYS? how are you dealing with it? Posted: 12/10/2006 5:26:50 AM
funny to read this post today....last night i seen part of an old movie((i fell asleep)) of a man who lost his wife ......and didnt want to be with his son for xmas...he loved his log cabin and wanted to go there,as his wife and son and family did for years...son had to travell..((4 )) of them....so now with mother gone he wanted his dad to travell to be with him... long story short..he went to something in town and profiled for a lonely lady who wanted to have somebody for xmas also...he met a lady..stranger and they talked..arranged to meet and spend xmas at his cabin....they were both older....no questions,no expectations,,,what i seen of the movie,i loved it....and honestly..sometimes maybe a stranger could be the answer.. i don't know the answer to people who are going to be alone...as in the odd year gone by i spent xmas alone..in bed for the day...no mate it was lonely and a terrible feeling...my heart was broken and i couldnt bare being with my family... i guess some holidays to be alone are terrible...all are.. maybe id take the chanse to be with a lonely man for xmas..no questions..no expectations..just to share a walk,to chat and have a dinner without an empty chair across the table...only you can decide what you desire..mabe taking that chanse can be the answer.... good luck to you all..

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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Will I ever stop thinking about him?? Posted: 12/10/2006 5:05:54 AM
he dumped you honey!!!!!!!! which without a doubt in my mind..he met somebody else.... you was sex to him untill he found another..he used you .. he only cares about hhimself..toughen up baby..its sad but true.. especially this site...there was a tv show about this site weeks ago..its rated the worst dating site on the pc.... i know first hand...terry from sackville did the same to me..a 50 year old man..army reserves...i am not saying all men are this way..but on here most are..looking for sex and will say anything to get it.... i hate being mean but its true.. GOOD LUCK..

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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why do men use you for fun Posted: 11/29/2006 9:59:18 AM
your NOT UGLY...hes a jerk......musta been the guy i met with lol omg..such jerks... but hey guys not all of you are jerks.... enjoy your day..good luck

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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How does it make you feel? Posted: 11/15/2006 11:08:18 AM
try 17 years and two kids latter..its life..it sucks but its life..youll be happy again..good luck

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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Question: How Do You Read A Woman's Mind... Posted: 11/14/2006 6:04:17 PM
when a survey is done ..the company will say that 95% said the shampoo was the best they every used....good so we all rush out and buy it..but what we dont know is this..the company only took a survey of 100 woman...you need to get the questions directly to every body..dont read minds..enjoy your dating,but ask questions

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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How many chances do you give someone you love? Posted: 11/14/2006 12:25:57 PM
try over 17 years and nothing yet?think you got sucker written on your head LOL..think again..we girls are soft hearted but,so are some guys..we think love,most men think with the big stick...we like to be romanced..they think burgers and beer and a quick roll in the hay and ..wow!! lol funny but true...but not all men are that way and i know it...just have to keep faith and trying and one day the wow factor will hit you hard..good luck my dear

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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am i wrong for thinking like this? Posted: 11/14/2006 8:10:23 AM
wow!!!!!!! i dont think this relationship will last.you are a slave to her..no way...she dont care about her health..she needs a check up and to seriously take care of herself,sounds like she is sick..do you truly love her?respect her?want to spend your life waiting on her?are you good friends?do you look forward to her comming home?do you wake up at night thinking about her,and cant get her out of your thoughts?sounds to me like its one sided..and believe me it wont work..i am old enough to know ,how a one sided marriage works..good luck

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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I need help to understand Posted: 11/14/2006 7:59:53 AM
i understand what you say..just for any man or woman to say they lost interest or dont feel that way as to continue any longer,any good reason..i feel that way..why after all the relationship was supposed to be based on honesty..so be honest before you walk away...dont let people hanging and wondering why....its far from honest to my ....put closure to the relationship,but at least give that other person something to help them understand and heal through....good luck my dear to you and to everybody who needs the closure....i fought hard to find mine from matic(terry) from sackville....i needed closure and i finally found it....it dont help your heart to heal faster but it does help your mind to understand....email me if you want to..good luck

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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Way To Go Canada! (Uhm...NOT!) Posted: 11/14/2006 6:38:26 AM
thats right mankind in every country has to work together!!!!!!!!!!!..i am half amercian to..they have it worst then us up here...but we all need to work together!!!!!!!!

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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Way To Go Canada! (Uhm...NOT!) Posted: 11/14/2006 6:36:21 AM
I LOVE CANADA!!!!!!!!!no doubt in my mind .i don't like the goverment..we put them in power by votes ,on promices.and only hope for the best..what can we do as a single person to help? im thinking most things that get done come so late..people polluted the earth..with plastic,metals and garbage that fills the land,and the oceans....finally they act and try to find ways to reuse everything they can...we recycle here,nova scotia its realy great..i work in a large retail operation for many years,and the changes they have brought in are quite amazing to recycle...theres dumpsters for clean plastics,theres a place for cardboard,and for things like leaves and food products...and we have to follow the rules of proper bins to put them in... the oceans will never be cleaned of dumped garbage from ships and huge vessles..such a shame the number of mammals killed by eating plastic and getting caught up in other things only to die.. pollution is every where..no wonder with all the cars and trucks on the highways today..where does the fumes all go...in my thoughts theres no way to completely have fume free cars... i am sorry to mother nature that man has done this to you..we as humans are suffering,distroying what is our world,and its almost to late to fix the error...we fished the oceans,and greed of huge companies took everything for profit..now the riches of the ocean isn't so rich and we pay heaveyly for food from the sea...man is striping the forest at rates that i can't see how it will grow back,without the forest theres no air to breath,and we must remember that each tree filters so much dirt from the air to help it stay clean..where will mankind be when the forests is all gone ,and only seedlings left... yup we as mankind are so smart!!!!!!!!!!!.

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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Why Do Guys Do This?????? Posted: 11/9/2006 2:11:09 AM
lol because men are anal....and think sex..lol we dont brag about how big..lol they do..i have had the question..are your panties wet yet?why would they be wet..we was talking about divorces..anal..but not all men are this way..good luck

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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How do you make the pain of a (Relationship gone wrong) go away Posted: 11/6/2006 4:20:47 PM
i feel for you...i know the pain...my so called relationship with MATIC just ended...seems he deleted his profile to..but we only met in march..had fun and i fell for him..it hurts..you just have to take each day..keep your mind bussy and hope that one day..you find a man to love..and who loves you...no two loves are ever the same,and we love each person for different reasons..time heals all they say..but i often wonder..good luck..to you and everybody who truly wants love..

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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Lying in profiles and men with delusions of themselves Posted: 11/1/2006 5:00:40 AM
people lie in hopes others get attached to them as people and all lies are forgotten.. i met a man on here ,cook boss in the army reserves...talked on the phone..no pictures,of him..but i got attached in some way..we met..no phyciall attraction for me,but he was nice and i wanted to get to know him..we spent some time together..long story short..now he says he is married..wife in service so he can mess around....they have an open marriage..they both mess around..he wants sex..lies to get it...now has army pic posted....realy lives in lower sackville,but states halifax......is 50...... knew from the start i wanted a relationship and he stated the same.. why hurt others who want to form a relationship..why hurt people this way for sex..if sex is what you want,then hire a hooker.... im pissed yes....honestly..i would love to tell the world..so if u want to know about him..EMAIL ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! he says he gets sex where he can....just because you get tested every 6 months in the army..dont mean you cant catch a disease....,i dont sleep around..i want a man who is true..who i am attracted to and who feels that way about me...SSO GUYS AND GIRLS..STOP HURTING OTHERS.....IT MIGHT COME BACK TO BITE YOU IN THE ARS... GOOD LUCK IN FINDING REAL LOVE..OR AT LEAST A TRUE FRIEND..

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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Should you post that you've met someone? Posted: 10/31/2006 2:15:45 PM
MIGHT BE NICE IF HE SUGGESTED THAT YOU BOTH REMOVE PROFILES...if it dont work between you both.then apply again..but get him off here...good luck

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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Letting a man know i'm interested Posted: 10/30/2006 3:32:06 PM
i give up..i met ((MATIC50))FROM halifax his profile says..but he lives in lower sackville..we had met in march in person.i was up there and he come down here..now he says he is married..ya 4 u folks saying im mad..yup..pissed more like it..seems he used anyt way to get sex and finally admited he gets woman this way...sucks to be him

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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Someone who has touched your heart and is beautiful to you Posted: 10/24/2006 5:11:23 AM
its great to have one person you can go to,,for advice and to confide in..trust that one person...i have been that one confident to a few people and have helped..i value them as people,i respect them as friends...and it gives me a good feeling to help others...so if you or any body is lucky to find that one person to confide in..it helps..have a grand day...

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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Online Illusion Posted: 10/20/2006 1:20:53 PM
meet him honey..face to face..the only way to truly know and see if the connection is there....

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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Online Illusion Posted: 10/20/2006 1:18:05 PM
believe me...you have to meet in person to have the connection...i went throught it ...trust the ones who have gone through the long distance ..phone for hours,and hours..talking to the ends of the earth...but there is nothing like face to face..good luck

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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Please Help! Posted: 10/19/2006 6:15:34 PM
why do people break up a good relationship for a one night stand????????????ill never understand that.....why not flirt with the man you are with..its more fun..

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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~A rare moment ~ Posted: 10/18/2006 4:48:33 PM
its hard..to be hurt in the past..lose all trust in the opposite sex..then try to find a special someone..and all fails..untill one day,you come across them,but dont realize how special they are,and you begin to fall and fall and want nothing more but to be with them...and they finally say you arent for them...kills your heart and soul..so very sad

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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Will you give up the personals if you find one that sticks?? Posted: 10/17/2006 7:07:55 PM
i would give up my friends on here ,gladly for a true honest man,one who could commit to me>>otherwise..why do you need other woman to share things with..having friends in person,is a bit different...but on here its easy to get caught up in fantasty..the man i met,on here said he wanted a relationship,but wanted his lady friends on here.i guess i was not thinking right..so he has his lady friends on here and we longer chat..yes i feel empty..but if and when you talk long term with one person you need to concentrate on that one person...and why take a chanse for a one night stand when you have the man or woman of your dreams in your bed??good luck all...

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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Used... AGAIN! Posted: 10/17/2006 1:03:27 PM
maybe the woman used him..didnt care they have kids,,they get his money and welfare...the man gets the shaft...

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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please help me end this Posted: 10/14/2006 5:59:42 AM
first off anyone from an abbussive relationship ..in my opion (cant spell sorry)dont ever totally heal..i know.i lived that way for many years.you learn many things and become strong.in my case...you my dear need to get help to move away from her!! yes..to leave her,to heal yourself and meet a good woman..you sound honest and a caring man...if you care to email me..i will talk with you..have a good day..be happy..smiles from nova scotia..

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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Lying about what you are looking for Posted: 10/6/2006 3:55:30 PM
yes and we talked long term.but in the end he wanted sex....just email me.ill be glad to tell you his name

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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What is the dream message you want to see in your inbox? Posted: 10/3/2006 5:14:51 PM
from the man i last seen...if he were to say..can we talk about ((US))..that would be my dream message... one can dream....keeps the embers burning even tho the fire is out...smiles and good luck to all

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

Msg: 60 (view)

How do you cope with rejection? Posted: 10/1/2006 5:06:10 AM
wow!!!!!!thats hard for the tender hearted person....rejection has been a huge part in my life..it comes in many forms,and is very painfull...i lived with it many years and times over..each time i grew stronger...the pain still remains..... its hard to grow close to a man for me...but once i do..its harder to let go..to move on ,as many say... and i need to get it out of my system...i write my feeings down..each time i think of everything that hurts so bad and why.....the person who rejected me last after 5 months...didnt give me a reason....that realy sucks to an easy going person..so email,even tho you are blocked..get them feelings out and it might help you as well....good luck..

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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Why are Women here? Posted: 9/29/2006 1:59:23 AM
i agree with you....it should be for singles.....if you are in a relationship,then get a club for together but still wanting fun with others!!!!!!!!!.... single is single.....

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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The Fearful Of Quality Men, But Run Too Loosers Posted: 9/26/2006 9:58:36 AM
would like to chayt with you one on one..smiles

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

Msg: 56 (view)

the ability to read persons eyes Posted: 9/25/2006 1:52:22 AM
maybe if you are psychic you could help me?can you email me?

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

Msg: 55 (view)

the ability to read persons eyes Posted: 9/25/2006 1:51:03 AM
not strange..could you email me?

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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A BIG turnoff... Posted: 9/25/2006 1:48:58 AM
hi.wonder if u could email me..thanks

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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HOw long have you been here and how many dates have you been on? Posted: 9/16/2006 1:59:03 AM
a year on here....had dates with 2 different guys..almost fell for..... matic.....me thinks this place is mostly about sex

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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Poor Losers Posted: 9/11/2006 3:10:24 PM
let me see what you are saying///im a loser because i don't own ((things)) interesting...so you go out a find a man who is worth a million..is a nasty man but showers you with cars and furs..that sucks...im sooooooooo poor in material things.....but i am so rich in my heart and soul....i have buckets of love..barrells of common sense..and trains full of life to share with the right man...if he is poor and has a job..treats me well and shares his life with me..if we walk side by side,and he goes to work..at some kind of job,i'd be soooooooooooo happy...don't throw rocks at people who don't own wealth...for they are the true souls of this world....

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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why do men always have to look at other women!! Posted: 9/11/2006 1:15:29 PM
i think its great to look..but not touch....awwww id say to myself if my guy was with me but glanced at another woman..ill dress better...be sexier for him ..id think to myself...woman look to..but as long as you dont stray thats fine...i met a guy from here.. we went out and he was honest to say he would always look at other woman...excepted....it didnt work between us....but honesty is great and looking dont hurt...id just be happy with a man..who looked...smiles..be happy have a great day everybody...

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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Am I ever going to trust a guy I meet online? Posted: 9/7/2006 2:40:14 PM
i met a guy from on here.in march..and he still remained on here as looking for long term..we just ened a sexuall thing..lol cause...its very intimate..2 weeks ago..woman beware...

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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Dating more than one person!? Posted: 9/6/2006 3:38:38 PM
thats nice to date only one.can i get an answer from you/if a man meets a woman and wants long term..but backs away..then for months has sex..is that being intimate/sex only but still on here looking for woman..realy sucks..especially once you bonded..must be nuts.

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

Msg: 82 (view)

Dating more than one person!? Posted: 9/6/2006 3:38:04 PM
thats nice to date only one.can i get an answer from you/if a man meets a woman and wants long term..but backs away..then for months has sex..is that being intimate/sex only but still on here looking for woman..realy sucks..especially once you bonded..must be nuts.

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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She broke my heart and my mind (venting) Posted: 9/6/2006 3:34:10 PM
you are obsssed with her....get angry..block her.get rid of anything u have that remindsu of her...dont do anything stupid..shes not worth it..write me if u like.. good luck

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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things that make a girl fall in love Posted: 9/4/2006 1:34:53 PM
his kindness towards others..but my love is one sided....i do he dont..met him on this site and we was in touch 5 months...

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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Oh Those Tears Are Falling Posted: 9/3/2006 4:51:00 PM
realy sucks how much guys hurt us!!!!!!!!! not all guys but a lot of guys from this dating serino ..its easy for them..take care

annie55

Joined: 8/22/2006

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To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF Posted: 9/2/2006 4:13:47 PM
EXCELLENT!!!!!!!!!!!! well said!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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