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JIrWiN

Joined: 8/27/2006

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is it really true? Posted: 9/6/2008 11:56:14 AM
oh no this doesn't have anything to do with my experience, I was just curious about that statistic if it was true or not that's all. Hey I'm horrible at talking to women in person. being able to find someone your "Ideal" match online it seems alot easier hardly any pressure when it comes to real life chatting. right? lol

JIrWiN

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is it really true? Posted: 9/4/2008 11:21:43 AM
Huh? a six year old time stamp?? huh. that picture was taken about a month ago wonder how that happened. And it's not pink it's supposed to be red. And besides this topic isn't about me. it's about that statistic. but thank you for your input. lol

JIrWiN

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is it really true? Posted: 9/4/2008 10:32:31 AM
ok so if that's for men then what would it be for guys? 100% all the time make the first contact? because if women make first contact of 26% and everyone disagrees then this site needs to do more polls cuase it seems to me that it was just a waste of time mentioning it right?

JIrWiN

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is it really true? Posted: 9/3/2008 10:44:26 AM
ok hold on one second people! this is what I read HERE on POF! that's not what I made up, I said I had read that when men or even women send a message just above or below the message there's other interesting things to know like what to talk about and all sorts of stuff. I didn't make that up! I haven't read all of your responses but I'm sure there is another guy who knows what I'm talking about on here. right?

JIrWiN

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is it really true? Posted: 9/2/2008 12:56:25 PM
i read it on the message when a guy sends someone a message. Women make first contact 26% of the time, the bulk of that goes to men with a picture and over 640 letters/characters in their description section. okay so 26% makes the first contact but still. I had to ask.

JIrWiN

Joined: 8/27/2006

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is it really true? Posted: 9/2/2008 12:34:24 PM
Ladies it says on here that most of the time it's the women who make the first contact. is that true? or are they just talkin about the good lookin guys, which I'm not. lol all kiddin aside I think I'm pretty attractive. lol

JIrWiN

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Do you do squats on your guy/froggy style? Posted: 8/27/2008 2:15:03 PM
isn't this "froggy style" just the position we know as Cowgirl. but squating? it's riding the guy. Like I know what you're sayin but it's just a version of the cowgirl position right?

JIrWiN

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Is it wrong..... Posted: 5/9/2008 8:13:21 PM
Dude if you're already thinking that one simple solution, don't be with them in 20 years.

JIrWiN

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when did women get so stuck up Posted: 5/9/2008 8:11:41 PM
ok so what about on this site? I've Istant message a bunch of women who I ws interested in adn said hi to them and all i got was that they'll recieve this message the next time they log in, in their email. or they've closed the window. I think most of you women on here a pretty snobby and picky, if a guy whether you find him attractive or not you could at least say hi back and then go on sayin you're not interested in chattin at the moment. and vice versa for us men who would probably do the same thing to beautiful women on here. (i only said that so i won't get ****ed at)

JIrWiN

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this is NOT a pity thread! [CLOSED Thread - Done to Death] Posted: 3/30/2008 9:36:24 PM
I repeat this is not a pity thread! and it will not turn into a pity thread, if it does delete it please. All I want to know what's the deal with some of you women? I message dozen of women over the time I've been on here and I have not recieve on response stating they're not interested in me when I'm interested in them. Let me remind you that this is not and will not be a pity thread, please do not look over my profile, do not tell me that I need to loose weight I've heard that numerous times. I just would like to get a good response for once on here. Thank you for taking you time in reading my post and answering my simple question. No, but it has been done 2 death, repeatedly, continually, over and over and over, every day - get the gist? READ the Moderator Notice – Click Here To Read This Thread at the top of this forum and learn to use the FORUM Thread Search Tool CLOSED

JIrWiN

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What does that mean? Posted: 1/24/2008 12:09:58 PM
I agree and basically I wouldn't mind using pof im to talk to the person, it was my friend who suggested that the next time I email somebody to put it down. you know what I mean like Hey how are you blah blah I find you/you're profile interesting, blah blah if you have MSN messenger or yahoo maybe we can chat on it sometime blah blah here's my email add feel free to add me. when they suggested that to me I thought at the time was a great idea. And Yes I know the messages gets deleted after 30 days well guess what it hasn't been 30 days for that message! and she deleted it. I don't care anymore about it. I was being patient for a respond and didn't get one. oh well life's not always fair

JIrWiN

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What does that mean? Posted: 1/23/2008 9:18:17 PM
There it is. A friend told me on msn to also include if your interested here's my email address if you have msn you can add me blah blah blah. as you can see I didn't do that and I believe that's where it went down hill. And Yes I did in fact message here before this one I found out when I looked back at the sent msgs page. It's lame. lol "I've probably messaged you before considering your profile looks familar to me. But I just can't help myself to be very interested in you. Becoming friends first is the best option and then you can take it from there with that person whether you remain as friends or you start a relationship with them. I wouldn't mind getting to know you better, like what type of movies do you like? There has to be something about me that you like. I hope there is. interests, family oriented if it means close to home, patient, respectful, caring, and trustworthy. I don't have down on my profile that I have all those traits, although I do consider myself to be a gentleman if that counts."

JIrWiN

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What does that mean? Posted: 1/22/2008 8:45:23 PM
this forum is closed now. i noticed she deleted the message. all fair love and war. doesn't matter to me anymore. she's was obviously not interested and was clearly stating that but not replying. and god damnit why the hell do I always sound like i'm whining, **ing, complaining, or even obsessing? **ing hell! lol It was something different to me, again seeing that this person didn't delete my message. I thought it might have been a good sign. I'm WRONG!!!!!!

JIrWiN

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What does that mean? Posted: 1/22/2008 5:01:57 PM
I'll just wait it out, I'm a patient guy. If I don't get a response, I'll take it that she's not interested like you all say I should. lol. I'm not in a big hurry just for one single response. and yea, she could very well be getting alot of messages from other people and just don't have the time to respond.

JIrWiN

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Is smoking really a problem? Posted: 1/22/2008 4:57:42 PM
is it because you think he'd try to get you to smoke? lol

JIrWiN

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What does that mean? Posted: 1/22/2008 4:48:21 PM
Well it's not like I'm desperately waiting for a response, I'm just used to checkin the sent messages page and seeing the woman I emailed has deleted the message and not repsond. I'm just thinking that this could be a "GOOD" sign for me that she hasn't deleted it......yet

JIrWiN

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What does that mean? Posted: 1/22/2008 4:43:34 PM
Are you serious? people actual do that on here? that's a little rude. open up the message and then not bother to read it. they might just as well delete the messages and not waste time by opening it.

JIrWiN

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Is smoking really a problem? Posted: 1/22/2008 4:29:14 PM
Why the hell did you try to get her to smoke in the first place? you wanted someone to keep you company while having smoke, sure. but trying to get them to take up smoking is just peer pressure man! if she doesn't want to smoke then don't make her smoke.

JIrWiN

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What does that mean? Posted: 1/22/2008 4:24:58 PM
never really thought of that.

JIrWiN

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What does that mean? Posted: 1/22/2008 4:23:38 PM
I've emailed a woman around last week and it said that she read it, but it hasn't been deleted yet. Is this a good thing? maybe she's interested or a little shy? Should I message her one more time just to find out more about her?

JIrWiN

Joined: 8/27/2006

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Rating pictures suggestion Posted: 1/19/2008 7:49:15 PM
no I haven't. I thought this is where we do it?

JIrWiN

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suggestions? Posted: 1/19/2008 7:47:03 PM
I agree with him it looks alright. it just needs a few more brighter pics.

JIrWiN

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Any tips for a shy guy? Posted: 1/19/2008 7:28:36 PM
Okay, I fixed up my profile with the help from a friend. How does it compare now to my last one?

JIrWiN

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Any tips for a shy guy? Posted: 1/19/2008 2:41:13 PM
I'm not worried about the gym, I just want to lose some weight that's all.

JIrWiN

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Any tips for a shy guy? Posted: 1/18/2008 1:15:05 PM
I know I need more better pics, I think there's some on my friend's camera, I'll just have to get them the next time they're over.

JIrWiN

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Any tips for a shy guy? Posted: 1/17/2008 4:32:03 PM
Oh no I do like myself for who I am, and how I kinda look. and ya drink and a meal really isn't the perfect first date in mind, but then again I basically said at first just to get to know eachother first and take it from there. And this original post was actually to get tips on how to talk to women on here. not about my profile. I don't know how it ended up in here but it did. oh well.

JIrWiN

Joined: 8/27/2006

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Any tips for a shy guy? Posted: 1/16/2008 9:16:22 PM
You know I've actually been meaning to post new pics, which I just did. I trim my beard that shouldn't be a problem now should it? and yes ok I get it I'm fat. not too fat though it's just my gut that has the fat. and yes I've been meaning to hit the gym lately. I just don't have the money for a monthly membership, and yea I know they must have a day membership or weekly, but what if I didn't have the money for it? exactly. lol I don't really know what a good first date would be, that's why I just said what I said in it before I deleted it all and have left it blank for now.

JIrWiN

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Any tips for a shy guy? Posted: 1/14/2008 12:47:03 PM
I'm obviously having problems meeting women on here. Because I've found myself attracted to a few women who have similar interests that I have and I've even sent them messages wondering if they'd like to chat sometime. Unfortunately I haven't heard back from any of them. I just figure it's me, considering that when I'm writing/typing a message, I find it hard to express what I want to say to them. Could I possibly get some tips?

IrWiN2006

Joined: 8/27/2006

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is it harder for the women or guys to make the first contact? Posted: 7/12/2007 10:56:44 PM
thoughts become things? nooooo if that were true all my thoughts would have come true lol

IrWiN2006

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Shaving Posted: 7/12/2007 10:53:31 PM
Um I'm confused with this topic. is it facial hair were talking about or hair down there?

IrWiN2006

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Little kid with a lisp...... Posted: 7/12/2007 10:25:01 PM
I didn't get that joke until you explained it. but on a brighter side you really are smart ass lol

IrWiN2006

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Allow me to introduce myself for the first time! Posted: 7/12/2007 10:09:08 PM
I've been on here for about a year or so and never thought to introduce myself. it's just who I tend to be. A quiet stay in the dark person. I have I guess you could say low Self Confidence in meeting new people. pretty much i'm a shy person once you get to know me. I'm a very humerous, fun loving, fun to have around kind of guy. if there's any women interested in knowing me more you can just check out my profile and email me if ya feel like chatting. My Name is IrWiN2006............. And I am CANADIAN lol

IrWiN2006

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is it harder for the women or guys to make the first contact? Posted: 7/12/2007 10:00:33 PM
I have emailed women. I try to be myself but in the end I tend to turn out like an ass or just keep talking and talking and not get to the point of why i emailed them. I know I'm handsome thanks for the compliment. I appreciated that!

IrWiN2006

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Rating pictures suggestion Posted: 7/12/2007 9:57:35 PM
Ok Here's the problem which is the suggestion. whenever I go to rate women's pics under 18-25 I tend to come across women who are older then that age limit. someone should fix that or get rid of the age limit.

IrWiN2006

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Hottie at work...yikes! Posted: 7/12/2007 9:50:55 PM
If you ask me her phone number should be on file at work. lie to your boss and get them out of the office, or ask a secretary if there is one to look it up. hell ask one of her female co workers they must have it.

IrWiN2006

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is it harder for the women or guys to make the first contact? Posted: 7/12/2007 9:40:02 PM
I don't want to sound like I'm complaining I know you got to have patience. but everytime I try to make contact with women on here, I have trouble putting down what I want to say and in the end it usuaully sound like I'm an ass, or it doesn't sound right to me. Am I trying to hard with getting a response back from them? by the way this happens to me alot in public as well, basically I get nervous around women. maybe I could get some pointers?

IrWiN2006

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what exactly don't you women like about me? Posted: 5/16/2007 1:18:01 PM
when I said "ha ha that was funny. I don't get it" I was only kidding around. I thought it was funny at first.

IrWiN2006

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New TNA titles! Posted: 5/15/2007 11:23:11 AM
I just read on TNA's website that this week they will be unveiling new championship titles. I think it's tonight on the website they have a video show called TNA today where they will be unveiling the new world heavyweight title. Wednesday and Thursday it will be the tag team and X-division.

IrWiN2006

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Ring of Honour to get own PPV's Posted: 5/15/2007 11:20:13 AM
ring of honour is just a mixed federation for free agents who aren't in WWE and who are in TNA. I enjoyed watching ROH when I had the fight network and hearing about the pay per veiws is pretty cool.

IrWiN2006

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what exactly don't you women like about me? Posted: 5/15/2007 11:15:45 AM
Okay, one thing those are not webcam pictures. they have been takened from a digital camera, i just don't photo well. and second of all i did feel like i was getting attacked and i'm sorry for me last post with all the cursing and swearing. So I would like to date a hot chick I only put all that down just as a joke. It's just the same as when I put down I was an anti-social, now isn't that interesting. It was supposed to be funny. And yes I do know that my english isn't very proper with the spelling, or wording my sentences, that's probably the reason why I seem to put myself down.

IrWiN2006

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what exactly don't you women like about me? Posted: 5/14/2007 11:33:06 AM
for one thing i don't need a hair cut, i hate hair gel, i do shave by the **ing way, just because i let it grow back in doesn't mean shit all. two i don't ing care about my weight and what i put my body type as. 3 this was the worst ing idea i've ever had doing this ing thread. i couldn't ing care about my interests what i like stays that way besides i've seen on other profiles drinking booze and playing video games watchin tv and all other crap that you idiotic retards are tellin me not to put on profile. and when i put the antisocial thing on my god damn profile i was only ing kidding. get a ing clue you holes! just because i started a *ing thread asking for help doesn't mean to tell me that i'm a **ing whiner!!!!

IrWiN2006

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what exactly don't you women like about me? Posted: 5/12/2007 2:55:33 PM
ha ha that was funny. i don't get it.

IrWiN2006

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what exactly don't you women like about me? Posted: 5/12/2007 2:20:11 PM
so i'm a queit guy i prefer to keep things to myself. eventually i'll open up. and the problem is i just at the moment don't like my profile.

IrWiN2006

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what exactly don't you women like about me? Posted: 5/12/2007 1:58:25 PM
i want to know why. please! tell me. i'm having such a hard time on this site finding someone. i even messaged a few but no response. all i want to know is why am i having such a hard time here? what is it that makes you not want to talk to me?

IrWiN2006

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Profile review please! Posted: 12/22/2006 12:31:30 PM
i was told to get someone to review my profile. if anyone could do that thanx!

IrWiN2006

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would this be a good sign? Posted: 12/13/2006 12:51:52 PM
recently one of my co workers was talking to me and she kept touching my arm. at work that would be considered "mutual flirtation" but what i'd like to know is if this is some sort of sign that she likes me. should i try to get to know her more and be friends and then ask her out? or just leave it be? cause don't relationships in the workplace end up not working out well?

IrWiN2006

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need little help here. Posted: 12/7/2006 5:04:01 PM
ok i was just on myspace a couple days ago and happened to come across a girl that i liked back in high school who which i still like and all. i've sent her a couple messages so far. the only problem is that she hasn't even responded back once. and she has been on it to it even says that she was online even today. and she knows i like her. ALOT!!! so my question is how the hell do i get her attention!!!!!

IrWiN2006

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Asking someone out help. Posted: 12/1/2006 12:36:31 PM
I would like some help on this one. sure i'm a guy and i should know what to say to woman. to be more precisely how to start a conversation. especially over pof. there's been a few times where i wanted to message a girl but didn't know what to say. sure i've tried talking about their interests and mine. and i've tried being a little on the humorous side. not by adding a joke or anything. and after a couple of days i would not have heard a response from them. obviously someone is gonna say they maybe to busy with other people messaging them or they may not be interested in me. but all i'm asking is maybe some advice or tips. By the way i also posted this in ask a girl forum and thought this is probably more appropriate to place.

IrWiN2006

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What should i say? Posted: 12/1/2006 12:23:01 PM
I would like some help on this one. sure i'm a guy and i should know what to say to woman. to be more precisely how to start a conversation. especially over pof. there's been a few times where i wanted to message a girl but didn't know what to say. sure i've tried talking about their interests and mine. and i've tried being a little on the humorous side. not by adding a joke or anything. and after a couple of days i would not have heard a response from them. obviously someone is gonna say they maybe to busy with other people messaging them or they may not be interested in me. but all i'm asking is maybe some advice or tips.

IrWiN2006

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Monty brown signs with WWE Posted: 11/18/2006 10:43:27 AM
I agree with you. he's more of a powerhouser. and i didn't say i liked the move he does i just said it's a sick move to do.

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