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cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

Msg: 107 (view)

made a terrible mistake by f&&king these other guys ... Posted: 6/20/2008 1:00:40 PM
I am not judging you but...if you slept with 3 other guys in a span of 10 months how much did you really care about your boyfriend ? If he can't move past this it will always be a problem.

cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

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Need help with situation concerning married woman Posted: 5/5/2008 6:56:36 PM
The answer is pure and simple...she's having her cake and eating it too. Move on, she sounds like her head isn't on straight enough to be in any kind of relationship.

cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

Msg: 18 (view)

Would the pretty women be nicer if they were plainer & vice-versa? Posted: 4/1/2008 9:35:20 AM
I'm wondering why you think looks has to do with personality? The women who are polite, nice, fun etc were probably raised that way. I find men who are extremely good looking to be more arrogant about this than women are. Me thinks you worry too much. Evaluate each person one on one.

cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

Msg: 19 (view)

Working Retail Hours or non 9-5'rs Posted: 3/25/2008 5:29:17 AM
I understand because I work 11pm to 7am and only have every other weekend off...in between one day, which is usually spent doing errands, cleaning etc. I have to sleep sometime. Find someone who understands your hours and wants to compromise.

cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

Msg: 76 (view)

MEN, How much interest can a woman show without appearing pushy? Posted: 3/20/2008 8:49:48 AM
It all depends on the man which makes it difficult. If a man gives me his phone number and says call anytime, I have no problem calling him. Sometimes you just have to go with your gut instinct and if they get rude or ignore you, move on.

cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

Msg: 79 (view)

My dog is dying Posted: 2/21/2008 4:42:56 AM
I am so sorry for you...I have never had to put one down but a neighbor killed my dog a few years ago and told me several days later after he had thrown him away. I was devastated and so angry. I still miss him. My heart goes out to you!

cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

Msg: 376 (view)

Whats with women that invite their dogs into the bedroom to sleep? Posted: 9/21/2007 7:25:03 AM
If you are not an animal lover then I wouldn't expect you to understand. I love my dog like he is my child but I understand it's not for everyone. Find a lady who doesn't care for animals.

cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

Msg: 114 (view)

Revenge? Yes or No? Posted: 8/1/2007 8:39:53 AM
Keep your word and pay him..then, ask yourself why you want to be his friend. Friends respect and care for each other. It doesn't sound as if he fits this bill.

cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

Msg: 75 (view)

Calling all 40-60Something Males? Posted: 7/5/2007 9:32:50 AM
I agree that it is often the case. Maybe because they are going through a mid-life crisis and younger women make them feel more youthful. I'm not criticizing men for that. I, myself, prefer men younger than I . Don't feel disheartened, you are what you perceive yourself to be.

cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

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He Offered me $50,000!!!!! Posted: 6/6/2007 10:25:59 AM
I can't believe you think he would actually give you 50,000 dollars for nothing. How naive are you ?

cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

Msg: 85 (view)

odd nick-names (by request) Posted: 1/17/2007 2:35:34 AM
I am the youngest of 8 children and my older brothers and sisters nicknamed me Dinkey. Lots of people don't even know my real name.

Cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

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If A Man Wants You Posted: 12/7/2006 7:06:28 PM
I don't know where you came across this advice but it is wise indeed. Now ladies let's try to remember this and stick to it.

cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

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butterfly effect Posted: 12/2/2006 10:34:53 AM
If someone says they don't get butterflies from a photo it's not you honey, it's the person who said it with the problem. It isn't all about looks..one of the sexiest guy I knew had a way of making me laugh in and out of the bedroom.

cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

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Is being alone hard for you? Posted: 12/2/2006 9:28:50 AM
You're very young so I don't think you have anything to worry about. You might be your own worst enemy because you sound as if you lack self-confidence. I'm 54 years old and have been divorced 18+ years and I like my own company very much. Don't settle for something you don't want just to keep from being alone. Your time and person will come.

cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

Msg: 39 (view)

Age Barometer Posted: 11/29/2006 9:23:22 AM
I still feel great to be older than dirt!!!

cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

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do men actually exist that date women with kids?? Posted: 11/28/2006 4:18:25 AM
My children were very young when I divorced..the men I met had no problem with it,but,I never introduced my dates to my children right away. Why turn a casual date in to a family affair if you don't know where it's headed? Children don't need all this confusion.

cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

Msg: 42 (view)

I don't want to list everything and explain it all. Posted: 11/27/2006 8:43:14 AM
Blue Skies: And you think your chances on here are slim to none? Look at all you have going for you plus 2 beautiful cats! You're being way to modest.

cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

Msg: 41 (view)

tell me what i did wrong Posted: 11/27/2006 8:33:08 AM
I'm not sure that the ability to type or spell should be first on your list when looking for a companion people. Granted it's nice to be able to read their mail, etc. I worked for a doctor for many years and he couldn't spell a thing!! He was a very intelligent man, just wasn't a good speller. Try not to appear so eager and needy, that's a big turn-off to alot of women.

cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

Msg: 43 (view)

Can anyone shed light on my situation? Posted: 11/26/2006 11:10:43 PM
Heyit'sdoug... Wanna come play at my house...I play nice.

cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

Msg: 41 (view)

im really confused can anyone shead lite on my sitch?? Posted: 11/26/2006 11:03:27 PM
Sounds like you both behaved pretty badly. Chalk it up to experience and move on. You're young and you haven't figured this out... no one understands why others behave the way they do, don't waste time trying to figure him out.

cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

Msg: 41 (view)

Will you give up the personals if you find one that sticks?? Posted: 11/21/2006 5:14:26 AM
PartnerinCrime72: How'd you get so smart? Love yourself first and love will come!

cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

Msg: 56 (view)

Used... AGAIN! Posted: 11/17/2006 3:56:33 PM
Forget about the women and yourself. The children are the ones who will suffer the most.All women are not alike and all men are not alike. It all comes down to the person we choose.

cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

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Things You Can't Do After 50 Posted: 11/12/2006 7:06:28 AM
I'm 54 and I can do anything I set my mind to do.

cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

Msg: 67 (view)

Initiating Contact with Someone Posted: 11/9/2006 5:36:44 AM
If someone is interesting to me or I just want to make a comment I have no problem contacting them first. Most have been very pleasant, some rude, and some don't answer. If you are thin skinned you shouldn't be here. The world is full of a__holes, men and women. Don't let it get to you darling, life goes on.

cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

Msg: 43 (view)

Getting even after a bad break up Posted: 11/8/2006 12:26:17 PM
I agree with you...eventually what goes around comes around. Revenge consumes you and doesn't bother the other person because they didn't care about you to begin with.

cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

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Help is there something wrong with me??? Posted: 11/8/2006 6:38:54 AM
Doesn't sound as if anything is wrong with you but you're only 21 for Christ's sake...get out and live a little. There's plenty of time for a serious relationship. Give "the right one" time to come into your life.

cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

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why do some people continue to lie Posted: 11/7/2006 6:57:27 PM
You obviously don't have much respect for yourself or you wouldn't tolerate this kind of behavior. Ever tried counseling?

cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

Msg: 59 (view)

Pets and lovers Posted: 11/2/2006 6:32:51 AM
My dog is more like a child to me than a dog...he's there to listen, always glad to see me, and all he asks in return is to be loved and fed. In my opinion, love me, love my dog.

cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

Msg: 1058 (view)

Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 11/2/2006 5:29:41 AM
I talked to someone for quite some time without a photo and he was charming, considerate, intelligent. He described himself to me and sounded presentable when he finally sent a photo he looked like Grandpa Jones from HeeHaw. I thought it was a joke and told him so...he quickly told me that it was really him and added how shallow I was. You can never tell though even if you see a photo.

cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

Msg: 715 (view)

Can men and women be friends without sex? Posted: 10/30/2006 6:30:52 AM
I think it's easier for women to have male friends than men to have female friends. Men are going to be men even if you're just a friend. Sorry guys, just being honest.

cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

Msg: 459 (view)

Interracial Dating Posted: 10/28/2006 10:16:37 AM
God doesn't see color and we shouldn't either. If the attraction is there then go for it, no matter what your race is. Life is too short to waste on such meaningless drivel.

cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

Msg: 21 (view)

drunken fool--shoud I see him again? Posted: 10/15/2006 9:30:03 AM
I think you already know the answer....run the other way, it can only get worse.

cautiouslady

Joined: 8/28/2006

Msg: 26 (view)

Take a look and be brutally honest, please Posted: 9/5/2006 5:10:48 AM
Anyone who loves dawgs can't be all bad...Love yourself and others around you will sense it. Who gives a crap what others think about you anyway?

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