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Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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Are all women nuts?/Where are all the good ones at? Posted: 8/4/2009 3:00:29 AM
lol you said Civilian! So, you leave for a while, she cheated.. hmm. Second wife (At least you dont give up) she cheats.. hmm Sounds like you love the flirty, out going, loves to party types? So now you are age 30 and asking if all chicks has issues? Dude, good luck. 30+ 99% claim they have been abused (Verbal or Physical) , 90% has kids, So yes, Once you get screwed over for 10 years, normally issues! You're 30.. You have trust issues. Ok, issues for everyone! Stick to 20-25 or jump to 35-40+ because in between, its no fun.

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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Men...what do you do Posted: 7/20/2009 5:57:45 AM
Do you have the logic to google the person? I get flirts, emails, etc and not one ever took the time to find me. lol yeah! i have done this before.. More then few times actually. I tell them " Hey yeah, i found you one ******.com and i was emailing you here so talk to you " Err or something along that lines. 1 Emails me back few times then nothing. Others just never respond back. They read the emails, but thats it! Honestly, iv learned most females have someone, they just like to check their email as if it is something -they-just-have-to-do! As if its the best feeling next to sex, just checking EVERY email they get. From dating sites, my space/face book, whatever it is! So i gave up on that. No use really.

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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this cant be right Posted: 7/20/2009 1:58:04 AM
tropicalknights - You can get HSV-2 from a partner with a condom if they are on a full blown break out.. Lollypip- I hope you would go read on it.. I hope most people do. How an STI is born and how many strains there is with HPV and what Herpes is.. Whats the difference in HSV 1 and 2. Everyone should read.. Not look at the worst of the worst pictures. READ ON IT!

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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this cant be right Posted: 7/19/2009 7:14:44 PM
Thank you Erinlove.. Only good point to anyones reply. 1-5 people... At LEAST she told him. Most dont. Is why 1-5 people have it.. If a person knows they have it, takes care of it, they are being safe. Maybe she really liked the guy and she knew there was a .01 % chance when she tells him, he would stay. Most people have it, 1-5 people KNOWs they have it. 1-3 dont. Its not going to kill you. HPV could. And that is 1-3 people. Its sex. Stay single or go to church if you are that scared.. Besides.. Im sure she told him because he was about to have sex unprotected. Who knows huh? Just a thought.

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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Show interest while taking things slow? Posted: 7/18/2009 6:38:06 PM
Yeah i agree Womaninprogress. Most of them hurt puppys jump on (Females) and want attention. Rebound for the men.. They just need closure in sex. With us men, we have to deal with the females that - " Yeah, i have a 3 month old. Hes not around anymore " Type of deal.. He burnt out just few months ago. Now she feels like shes ready to move on.. Pff bunch of crock!

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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women want? Posted: 7/18/2009 8:52:11 AM
To avoid gender bias charges, the store's owner opens a New Wives store just across the street. The 1st first floor has wives that love sex. The 2nd floor has wives that love sex and have money. The 3rd,4th, 5th and 6th floors have never been visited. muahahah hell yeah!!! what women want. As you can see it in their pictures and profiles. #1 - Attention #2 - Attention #3 - Tell them something nice #4 - Attention #5 - Make them feel beautiful! #6 - More Attention #7 - Ok, enough attention, go to sleep. She have a headache so no sex. #8 - A lot of attention. She had a bad day........doing nothing. Few lies, some attention and chicken McNuggets, You can have her back at your place doggy style. Now you wasnt planning on this.. Its the way she passed out. Thank you slow gas leak!

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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The Buddy Zone Posted: 7/18/2009 8:42:26 AM
Never try to console a chick that is in need of a friend. Then YOU become that! You give them the pat, then the heart attack LOVE THRUSTING! But seriously now. I had it happen to me before. Err lots of times. The last one was different. We did have good times and we did go shopping ! Im not like that anymore. Tell a chick straight up! Dont bull sh*T! Dont be a " Friend " as you tell them guys are nothing but the devil and how they should get with a nice sweet guy... But then again. If your a cool dude and she aint feeling you on a sexual level, we cant help but to be friends. So as a man, we are not looking for friends. so tell her to KICK ROCKS!! ! muahahahah

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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Possibly to ever get over someone you truly loved? Posted: 7/18/2009 8:33:31 AM
Yup. it will happen. You will get over her fully and move on. Same as you. 2 years, fully in love, lived together and all, Hell, i even bought her an engagement ring is how i felt for her. Its been 21 months now. I can safely say im over her. Yeah, she came around few times 3/4 months after. We had the " Letting go sex " few times. We talked on the phone /text for few months after. It became to hard on me and i had to let her go. 8 months pass i was doing bad and had dreams and sending her emails on how i miss her loved her dearly. Not asking her back, but it made me feel better that she knew. Then i just stopped! I dated few chicks. Had my rebound sex. after another year i kept it all to my self. I found out i wasnt emotionally ready yet to be with someone. So i had to take some time out and just give up and let her go! Hell, i even got therapy for 3 months. Well, it wasnt all JUST because of her. But some of it was.

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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Show interest while taking things slow? Posted: 7/18/2009 8:16:22 AM
oh wow.. Isnt ALL women coming out of " Bad Relationships " ? ? ? Iv heard it all before. Then you find out it was over 2 years ago. Yeah, stay away from them. They will get attached easy. Then they will treat YOU like their ex treated THEM! and trust me, you dont want that. Its them lashing out on what happened. And your stuck like " WTF? " And stop the whole being buddie buddie with chicks. They all need a guy that will give them attention and listen to everything they have to say for advice. DONT DO IT! Dont tell them you can help and change their world. Thats what they need, but next time you give them what YOU need.. lol then tell them to kick rocks!

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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is it me. Posted: 7/18/2009 7:43:48 AM
Not sure why everyone is saying " Its not you OP " !? I met this baby momma. err Single woman with kids. She was a lot that i wanted. But when it comes time for me, She cant be there how i want her to be. When she says she will come over she dont. Ever. Just no time with kids, work, family.. So KICK ROCKS!@!!!! But for you OP. Maybe you didnt have enough time for him. Maybe he felt like you was being negative about working relations and maybe you told him " I dont want anymore kids " And he felt like he would never have everything he wanted so he - KICKED ROCKS!!!!@#~ So you might want to go back and think about what he wanted, or your attitude about some things you THOUGHT he didnt mind or accepted when he really didnt. So he gave up..

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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Profile photos from driver's seat? Posted: 7/18/2009 7:37:02 AM
Driver seat? Oh.. hehe i do have one of them But i want to know whats with the chicks that takes the picture in the Passenger seat!? Then i scroll down for " Has car - N/A " uh god.. 23 female cruising around with her single mom that thinks shes 23 also in her pimped out 93 Taurus taking EMO photo opps with her, seat belt on! Bah, shes safe.. means i have to use condums. pffff

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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fitting me in? Posted: 7/18/2009 7:33:44 AM
If i had a chick tell something like that id flip also! I would think " Great, she has issues! " And then its " F her for thinking im even like that! " Yup... Kick rocks

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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Tramp Stamps are passe Posted: 7/18/2009 7:24:48 AM
Tramp Stamps are passe - I think it must be appealing to men to find an unmarked wholesome woman. Yup. Iv seen them. They walk around with Tank tops showing off their cheap and ugly tats that makes no since.. yeah.. Now, with the lower back tat.. I honestly like them. Gives me something to take my mind off sex during the ultraviolet! Is it a turn on? To me, i wouldnt say it makes me hard no. I dont try to find a girl with tats anywhere. If they have them so be it. Only thing i cant stand on a female is the dam Nose ring. (The bull) So gross. Gezz. Kissing a chick with snake bites is a bit weird. It dont turn me on a bit. I hate chicks with the stupid Boobie tats. OH yay! Boobs and stupid tat with Cleavage! YAY! bah

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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woman you are dating wearing a wig . .? Posted: 7/18/2009 7:08:56 AM
at what point in the relationship I SHOULD tell them? Right before sex... If you take it off, or leave it on. Both can be a bit weird at first. A: You take it off before sex = " Oh, wtf? " B: You leave it on (As sexual content started he goes to pull your hair in the heat of the moment) = " Oh, wtf? " Id say, let them figure it out.. Change it up now and then. If they ask, tell em. If they dont ask.. They dont care, or they are just stupid and only want one thing...

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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need some advise, very badly heartbroken Posted: 7/18/2009 7:03:22 AM
First of all.. any guy is going to play the role of " Making the female feel good, Sexy, placing their attention on them to get a piece of the action " He didnt want to get caught up in nothing you was going through. IF he actually liked you, he wouldnt have got involved IF he was leaving the town. IF he liked you, also, he would have stayed, or helped you out and brought you with him.. So let it go. He gave you attention and you needed it. You fell for him when you was at your lowest and now hes gone. You will find another. Trust me. But you have to let him go.

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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Women VS Men separated status Posted: 7/18/2009 6:56:08 AM
Woman Separated Vs Man being Separated Woman - She will have sex with her ex but she dont try or go after these acts. Only when hes being serious and nice to her she will do so.. Or only if he gets her all nice and Man - He calls her all the time, checks up on her to see if shes having sex with anyone new so maybe he can pursue trying to have sex with his ex. When hes been he will call her and show up time to time to have sex.. eh, am i wrong?

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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Living Life to the Fullest? Posted: 7/18/2009 6:51:46 AM
I am living life to the fullest On profile that means = Im free, single, dont care to be serious with anyone right now, sex is fine, you buying me bunch of things would be great.. So if you want to be serious, have a family one day, be a broke cheap jiga, then kick rocks! Because - I am living life to the fullest - !

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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No Second Date Posted: 7/18/2009 6:47:25 AM
Maybe he liked you at first and then later he thought about some things you said or did and had second thoughts. Hey thats what happened to me with my last " First date " After she left, she was going to come see me again.. I didnt call her and i ignored her.. Let me tell ya. I wasnt going to say " Ok stop, kick rocks " To me thats rude also. I wanted to tell her, but i just couldnt find it in me to say " Hey, look. Your weird, i dont believe any- thing you said to me in the last 2 days after thinking about every- thing i start to wonder if your just a psycho or what. Im scared not i told you how i feel because you know where i live and you might come over with your brother or some morons and try to beat me up or worse you tear up my car.. So forgive me please. No kick rocks! " Uh, nope. Not saying a word! UNF THAT!

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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Why do ex's randomly contact you ?! Posted: 7/18/2009 6:42:35 AM
weird.. 11:11 ? yeah.. then you say " Make a wish " ? Oh man... Me and my ex did that.. Sad to say iv wrote her and said " Its 11:11 and i was thinking about you "

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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stood up on my first date. Posted: 7/18/2009 6:40:17 AM
Was he a white guy? Maybe he got shy and scared he wouldnt know how to act around you? If black guy.. Yeah, his baby momma wouldnt let him leave. hah

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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Where do u meet a nice guy? Posted: 7/16/2009 8:25:01 AM
Maybe i was a bit harsh. But im talking about " Between age of 20-30 " That IS in FACT on the internet fishing.. Or is this real life from dating sites? Oh, then yeah! Theres nice guys out there.. But they dont get play. They are too shy to talk to a girl, ask her for anything, they sit at home and dream of that bad girl to rule them and to change them in a way like the movie " Girl next door " ! But i guess its just my opinion anyways.. Who knows ?

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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Reading between the lines Posted: 7/16/2009 8:16:44 AM
Oh iv been wondering about this stuff also.. My kids come first! = If you think im going to buy you some 22's for your broke a** 78 Buick LaSabre it aint happening. Goal minded = I have bunch of dreams. Not to say im going to them, but even if they're silly, dont make fun of me! Here i am, im back on PoF = The last guy i dated beat the hell out of me. So i have bunch of issues now. So if im going to get fuked over, its only going to be from a hot guy! Looking for a nice guy. = All the guys beat my a. But yet i want a guy that will just be a rude a* and lies is ok. Just no more beatings. Not looking for sex = Dont be needy, i do put out. Asking me if i put out is stupid. Looking for Mr Right = The guy that puts up with my sht and will tolerate me being a bith. Not looking for Mr Right Now = Im looking for a hot guy to put up with my sht forver! Looking for my Soul mate = Looking for a hot guy that puts up with my kids... and my sht! And thats great in bed!! I'm not looking for a father for my kids = (Ok kids, what do you say when you see a nice man?) " Are you my daddy? " I want someone i can share my passion with = I WANT CRAZY SEX ALL NIGHT!! I want someone whom i can relate to. = Lies are welcomed to try to get into my pants.. I know when to be serious...= Ill be the devil bit*h if you push me wrong. I am Bi... = No I'm not confused I like guys and girls equally but , three somes might be cool.. If your hot! I wear my heart on my sleeve = If sex is good and you lie well, just give me some attention and i might fall really fast. Right now I'm a stay at home mom. = And i doubt that will change anytime soon. Since its nice living with my parents / Section 8. i could go on... and on... and on.... ill stop there. sheesh That helped me out bunches! Thanks!

Irishgod

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Same two questions! Posted: 7/16/2009 7:42:02 AM
If it was me... Trust me, i have before.. -= My reasons =- Are you mixed? = Trying to make conversation so i can bring in the " You are beautiful " situation involved. Have you ever dated a white guy? = Im asking because most black women dont date white men because of... whatever reasons. I have dated and been in relationships with black girls. The ones i did altho ONLY Dated white guys.. I think you are taken these questions into something else. Yeah, some just wanna bang you. Easy to weed them out. Some like black girls. Or want to experience that. If you feel him and he feels you, go with it. If not dont let it bother you..

Irishgod

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Crazy girls - anyone like 'em? Posted: 7/16/2009 7:27:18 AM
Im a bit crazy, anti a lot of things. But loving a crazy chick that cuts her self, takes meds, talks bad to her parents, yeah iv done it. She was a cool chick. Beautiful in my eyes and she loved me for that because i didnt see her as what everyone else did. Crazy I didnt expect her. I looked past it. It bothered me when she cut her self, but i kissed her scares and asked her with big eyes " Please dont. My pain is yours. You will cut us apart one day. " But then again.. im the nice guy. And you know how we are.. Crazy I dont think theres nothing wrong with wanting a non-crazy guy. I dont want to date someone that is just like me. Id choke the **** out of her.

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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Where do u meet a nice guy? Posted: 7/16/2009 7:15:19 AM
Subject: Where do u meet a nice guy? Are you serious? Nice guys? Trust me.. There is the Big difference and define of the term " Nice guys " is.. Nerdy guy that dresses funny.. Hes nice, You wanna hook up? didnt think so. Fat guy, Hes funny and knows how to cook (He likes to eat), wanna hook up? Nope! The guy that is very attractive, smells nice, tells great lies and he will call you, when hes ready to get some yumyum again.. Wanna date that nice guy? Thought so.. What is a " Nice guy " ? . Its kinda like a virgin. No one wants to date one. ONCE you give them a little attention, have sex with them, they will fall in love, get psycho and wont ever leave you alone! Blow up your phone, tell all their friends how big of a d^ck he is, blah blah.. Oh dam. i had a flash back..

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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at a lost...need help Posted: 7/16/2009 7:03:11 AM
i finally found that one person i clicked with and now she wont talk to me?!?!/quote] Sounds like you told her, she didnt want all that emotional stuff and now she feels like she has to pull away.. Let her go, if she wants to be serious as you she will come back.. If not, she did-not-want-anything-serious-right-now! Good luck..

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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Bi Girls Posted: 7/10/2009 4:44:11 AM
Women know that men love lesbians. When was there a pole on this? Did i miss the memo? You mean " Women know that guys love girl on girl porn! " ? I dont ever remember recall i love them.. Or the porn. OP - Chicks now a days thinks its cool to be bi. But they wouldnt get down and go all the way.. I remember 5-6 years ago EVERY girl under age 25 claimed to be ' Bi ' to get attention. So if i told everyone i was Bi would i get more attention? Hmm. ill think about this ..

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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why does a guy stop calling? Posted: 7/9/2009 6:10:50 PM
After having looked at your profile photos there only one reason why a guy would stop calling. HE'S A FREAKIN MORON. Or just not worthy of something so beautiful! Yeah, hes a freaking moron.. indeed.

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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Psycho? Habitual lair? Or Over Exaggerator? Posted: 7/8/2009 9:26:24 PM
But hey, you're in Independence Missouri, so I don't imagine your pool of eligible candidates is particularly large. Nope. Your correct on that.. Most iv dated was from out of state, or 30+ minutes away from me. Not you mention that, it is weird.. Maybe i should prowl around more.

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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Did I appear desperate ? Posted: 7/8/2009 5:05:37 PM
it has been awhile since I last dated wait wait wait... How long has it been? Dont put all your eggs into the first basket that walks in! Be careful if its been a while. Telling guys this and them knowing they could take advantage. " She heard a noise and she looked through the door. And saw a man she'd never seen before. Light skin, light blue eyes, a double-chin and a plastic smile. "

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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Psycho? Habitual lair? Or Over Exaggerator? Posted: 7/8/2009 4:52:21 PM
Maybe she read this post about her.. I havnt heard from her all day yet. OMG, shes prob half way here! I see on her Yahoo note " no more phone " i guess she ran out of the pre paid phone she had to get.. Yeah, shes a nanny and the child she was watching broke her what she said " My $400 dollar phone " ! I guess ill just sit here. Ignore :)

Irishgod

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Settling for somebody your own age? Posted: 7/8/2009 6:56:17 AM
Age is a problem if you let it be! People change every 5 years or so. That is the biggest concern! Because if someone changes so drastic, They might find life different and want more and more change in life! Can be bad for any relation.. If i like someone , it wont matter if they're 13 years younger. It is how i feel and what i feel for them. Age is out the door.

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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Did I appear desperate ? Posted: 7/8/2009 6:29:23 AM
If i like a chick. and she puts her self out there its a relief! If a chick i dont like puts her self all out there then i get all Blah, no thank you. IGNORE! So if you do it, he steps up, then cool! Dont sit around and wait until you fall deeper and feel like a dumbarse later. Just do it, see what happens!

Irishgod

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Introduce Yourself Here. Posted: 7/8/2009 5:50:34 AM
Jerry - KCMO all my life.. wish to leave honestly!

Irishgod

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who works nights??? Posted: 7/8/2009 5:47:56 AM
i work betwen 12:30am - 6:30am 7 nights a week. lol . So i am a grave shift! ^5

Irishgod

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Psycho? Habitual lair? Or Over Exaggerator? Posted: 7/8/2009 5:44:05 AM
Didnt have sex. But now you mention that! lol

Irishgod

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Psycho? Habitual lair? Or Over Exaggerator? Posted: 7/8/2009 5:12:47 AM
Story goes something like this. (Skipping some details) Yesterday- She said " Ok, ill come over around 7pm. " I said sure! We exchange few texts, Then nothing at all. After 3 hours go by, as soon as i pull up to work, she calls. I asked what happen when she didnt answer or return my texts, she told me she had to turn around in the middle of coming over to go bail out a cousin. When i asked her why she didnt return my calls / Texts, she said " I dont get any service out there. " So i thought nothing of it.. Today- (45 minutes to get to my place from hers) She said " Ill come over after work, i get off at 4pm " I told her that maybe a bit later since i work 3rd shift. So i texted her at 4pm, told her, she said; " 530 work? " Ok fine. Works out. Then at 5:45 i asked if shes on the way, she said " Yes, i just got out of bed bath and beyond, Im on the way now " at 7:10 she texted me and told me in a text " Should be there soon, got stuck behind a huge wreck " I texted her back and said ok.. I texted her hour later, and then 30 minutes after.. No response. I called, she didnt answer the phone.. So i figured she blew me off again like yesterday.. Then at 10:11 she texts me back finally.. WOW ! 10:15 - " Got into a wreck, im ok, wicked sore. Want me to come up for a bit? " Im like - : What? You ok? Whats the deal? : She said " Just sore, leaving the hospital now, ill cum up for a bit , i did promise! " I told her to just go home. Rest and blah blah thought she was lying! Then she did come over.. at 11:20 pm. As im standing at her car, she did have bags from the store in her car. Ok, she didnt lie about that. Ok so im like what happened? " Well, i seen the wreck on the freeway there, i got out to do CPR on someone because im RN certified. The cop told me to get back in my car and just go. So i did and when i was about to take off, Some ass doing 50 rear ended me and took off. The cop asked if i was ok, i told him my back hurts, but it always hurts. Cop told me to go to the hospital so i did! Then the cop took off and chased down the guy that hit me.. Its ok, hes in jail now. I just want to get paid. " I said uh, so hit and run? She said " Yeah. Its ok. Hes in jail now. " As i look at her car, nothing was wrong with it. ?? As we come in the house, shes acting a bit weird. Wont sit down and just had me feeling weird. Shes asks whats wrong with me.. And i said : well, i figured you was just blowing me off again like you did yesterday. She told me no. She didnt know she had to drive to bail her cousin out of jail 300 miles away. I said but i texted and called.. She said no service line. I said but you could have told me before you went into NO service area that you wasnt coming over. She had nothing to say about that.. So i thought maybe im just trippin.. I asked why she didnt reply to me between the 3 hours tonight. She said she did at 8pm but it must not have went thru.. Then i said whatever. She said her back is sore, i said ill rub it! I joked around and said " I had a guy show me the correct way of a back rub massage.. She said " Yeah i know all about it, i took classes and im certified as a masseuse. " I said : Ok, so what is the wrong thing to do when you are working on someones back when rubbing on them ? :... She said " I have no idea, that was when i was in high school " OMG! WTF? Im thinking one or the other... She wants to see me again and come over. Im thinking " Psycho? Habitual lair? Or Over Exaggerator? " Im i looking into far into this? I have NEVER met a girl and thought she was full of sh^t. Never had this feeling of " Dont call her ever again! " Any suggestions? Call her, tell her " Hey, im sorry, i cant trust you. So it will never work! " Or hell with it and see her again. Maybe im just thinking weird and could be wrong?

Irishgod

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dating women over 30, first time im 27. lol thanks Posted: 7/8/2009 4:37:56 AM
Wow. Interesting biases you have there - wonder where you found the single mamas you have been seeing, rehab? Release for work program? NA? MOST 90% has no real time for something serious as iv said before. I have dated MANY baby mommas. But when i say that i feel like im a Mother **er! ? Like i pray on them.. Nah, At my age THATS about most of single females out there that IS in fact with kids....! I did have a relation that was good, she gave me all her time, she was a great girl and i killed the relation after few years. I have also dated others, they gave me time when they could. BUT that was when i was in my 20s. NOW im in my 30s and it is in fact a bit different. You make them sound like a real loser bunch - hope you dont think ALL women with children are like that?? As iv said - Not all. Most! The good news is, hopefully you wont allow the eventual mother of your child end up like that as you have such distaste for that whole image of the struggling baby mama. I wouldnt know. Since that is a touchy subject for me since iv never seen my own child. I havnt seen her since she left me when she was pregnant! She has been with the same guy she left me for. So good for her i guess. ? So even if she was. How would i know? But thanks much for pointed that out how my opinion makes me an a and i might as well go and die now. Thanks.

Irishgod

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dating women over 30, first time im 27. lol thanks Posted: 7/7/2009 8:14:48 PM
Ummmmm most men DREAD dating single women with children? Which kind of mothers would they prefer .. married ones? No.. Single moms = No time for anything serious. They have hang ups, issues, baby daddy drama, kid(s) to take care of, job to go to, bills they cant pay.. list goes on. Iv tried, its 50/50 for me. Depends on the girl and how much they're into the person and the timing with in their life if they can make time..

Irishgod

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Is there men that are NOT obsessed with sex? Posted: 7/7/2009 6:21:02 PM
Its like a Ninja.. Ninjas dont run around talking about Ninja stuff! Non-Ninjas talk about wanting to do Ninja stuff.. So.. The guy that is always talking sex gets no sex and is wanting sex so bad they cant help FROM talking about sex... Yes, there is some of us out there that dont bring it up. Sometimes i flirt around about it. But i dont try to have a conversation about sex or the act of it. Because im ninja like.

Irishgod

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What are some of the funniest things you've had happen on your first date? Posted: 7/7/2009 6:00:34 PM
I remember this one time.. Took a girl to hang out at the casino for a first date. (We did not go there to gamble - Just to hang out) We talked, walked around, had some drinks. Back then, they used to have actual coins that would drop, not like now where its all ticket stubs.. So, as we was walking around, i found 2/3 tokens. I kept them in my hand, as we walked. She found 1 as we walking around. We talked how it would be funny that if we used these on a slot and won something. So sure enough, after a while we was trolling around looking for tokens. Had about hand full and tried few slots. After a while, we ended up leaving and splitting 135 dollars.. Was fun and we had some laughs..

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

Msg: 7 (view)

Older men for the younger women Posted: 7/7/2009 5:51:36 PM
Very hard to date any woman around my age.. See the board? Dating 30+ THEN its over 45.. in the Age of 30+ to 45+ im sure is a big difference. From what i can see, Female 28+ dont want nothing serious. They dont want kids because they have enough of them and honestly dont have time to be with someone on a note. For the 45+ im sure when kids is of age and after 20 years after their divorce they had long enough to get over their Ex. Females under 25 dont have kids, been in that abusive marriage. Still Naive, innocent in someways and is wanting to be serious because all their friends is married with kids and claim they're happy and yadda, So they want to know whats its like also.. Answer is Hell yeah id prefer someone in low 20s. And when i hit 45+ im sure it will change to 40 +

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

Msg: 41 (view)

FANTASY RAPE Posted: 7/7/2009 5:43:06 PM
This is what brought one of my first adult long terms i had when i was younger better sex life and it kept us together longer.. Why we broke it off was another. I introduced the hand that rocked the throat out of more then many reasons. Anger, Control over her, Self infliction and well, it turned her on a lot! Few girls get into it. Most it does nothing for them. Honestly, the ones that love it, cant get enough of it. The choking thing needs to be set and done correct. My first time i tried this, took many times to get it correct. I did hurt her once. We didnt have ' Safety words ' But my last long term did. I had one loved the choking so much, she would take my hand and put it on her neck while we was just sitting in the car talking.. Im sure her new man dont do it.. Sucks to be him !

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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dating women over 30, first time im 27. lol thanks Posted: 7/6/2009 7:05:14 PM
When you hit your 30s, you will see the difference is. I would stick to dating 20s even when your 36. You will see why. Unless you love baby mommas that has been in 5+ year bad marriages and has 2+ kids! Then when you hit 40s, stick to 20s.. Unless you want the woman with 2 divorces, drinking a lot type of chick that still acts hood when shes white! But hey, her kids will be grown up by then. Thats a good side tho..

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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What can I do to make a man last longer Posted: 7/6/2009 8:30:52 AM
have bunch of sex every time he is wanting it! If its 3 times a day, do it! After a while, it will get to the point where he cant cum. Trust me... Let him get sex as much as he can, everyday. The sex part wont be so over whelming for him. And one day, as iv said, he will last longer. So if that one day he dont.. id say (3 weeks) then dump him. Move on if you dont get off in that time ONLY if you give it to him as much as needed! It can be Insecurity, Over whelmed or he could just have an issue somewhere like depressed, or even stress about something. Make him very relaxed. Make him want it, but dont rush into it sometimes. Make Foreplay last so dam long, he goes limp! It sucks but the pop off wont be there anymore.

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

Msg: 28 (view)

Astrology Posted: 7/3/2009 4:50:37 PM
"My current set of irrational beliefs prevents me from accepting another set of irrational beliefs." wow. And then OP gets upset and flamed. But honestly, that is a good point. And OP gets upset when 1 says this, but OP just said " Im a christian, anything out side of it is irrational " /shrug? Ok, YES i believe it do play a roll. Just because something wasnt invented by 'God' or ' Men of God ' Dont mean its bad and its the devil. If that was said, Science is the Devil and we dabble in it soo much, we will all suffer the raft! Uh, no. Check it out. God wont hate you and others wont think you're weird for checking up on it. I'm a Pisces male. Im very attracted to Aries. They never work out.... Pisces (Sign of water) - Aries (Sign of Fire) . Do water and fire mix? That is the silly thought of it. Its like picking the strongest mascot from a sports team to see who would beat who when thats just silly.. But once you read the long list of traits, you will learn " Oh wow! im almost most of what they say about me! " Or, nothing like it..

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

Msg: 23 (view)

So i am the most confused man on earth lol Posted: 7/3/2009 4:31:40 PM
UGHHHHHHH......where the he11 is Big Daddy Jinx or the Rock Man when you need them most????? The " Guys-Guy" grab a beer, hit it, quit it, walk it off and find a new one ) type of thinking? Yeah, sometimes i guess that could help a guy out.. I hope someone relates to my thinking on a 'Hung Jury' and sometimes 'Soft guy approach' of thinking. But honestly, People will ask for help, and never take the advise that was giving to them. They have to find out on their own.

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

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Who is bored.... Posted: 7/3/2009 4:23:26 PM
I tried>>>>Fat guys nice or badboys don't like me, they think it is a crime that I am cute and chubby, And all fat guys type is Cindy Crawford look a like, woo, those nice fat guys are dumb any way, they don't realized that what Cindy Crawford have, I have too. So you're saying YOU personally have a personality just like Cindy? Or a body like her? I take it as " All cute fat guys love a skinny model " Hmm.. Well, they're attractive or they wouldnt be a " Model " Dont ya think? We all find someone perfect attractive dont mean that is the ONLY thing we want in the next person that comes along. We all know that if a fat guy HAD a model he would flip out and kill him self.. So i think your trippin big time on what i said.. I was talking Personality difference and how im 100% sure we treat our Girls and how we see them in a different perspective. Sorta..

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

Msg: 53 (view)

Please explain Love Posted: 7/3/2009 5:37:29 AM
It seems like we all are looking for that connection with someone, we spend our time on dating sites , fixing ourselves up to go out to clubs.. Meaning of life = Reproduction Is it love we seek or just companionship. Whos is we? And depending on the person. You in it to win it? Or just hit it and quit it? Is love a need or a want? Is money a need? Or a want? Think about that. You might come with a solution! Is there such a thing as Unconditional love ? Unconditional from Humans? Only moms could i thought..? What does love give you? Every emotion. Yes, even pain, guilt, tears. any thoughts ? I have many.. Why do pornos always start out the same? My thought on it is, Thats not how REAL relation sex is.. So its based on fictional people and fictional sex. NO wonder its #1! Thank You Your welcome!

Irishgod

Joined: 8/28/2006

Msg: 178 (view)

Is it racism when.... Posted: 7/3/2009 5:24:30 AM
How about... DONT SAY NOTHING AT ALL! If a Asian, ching chaw chow chicken fried rice sends you an email. READ-DELETE! How hard is that? Who cares if people think its racist. Take it off your profile before other good girls sees how Pre-Judaical you might be, and deal with the skinny, hot, nice long hair cute voice having Asian girl that emails you and just delete it then having it on your profile shows how picky you might be and to deal with. But its just a thought

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