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 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 97 (view)
 
Staying on POF when in a relationship
Posted: 3/28/2012 8:25:54 AM

I had actually closed my acct after about 6 months-then he recreated it again for me, telling me that i needed to make sure i left my options open and to make friends...


I think it means it's time to look for a new boyfriend, he isn't really wanting a relationship with you.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 97 (view)
 
Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 3/27/2012 12:16:14 PM
Mutual masturbation can be pretty satisfying with the right person. I've had cyber, phone and cam sex at different periods in my life. It provided me with an intimacy I couldn't get from masturbating to porn.

I have an awesome sex life, partly because I experiment with cerebral sex. I learned what men are really thinking, what they really desire and what turns them off.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 70 (view)
 
Can't Meet Family
Posted: 3/27/2012 12:04:16 PM
His reasons or excuses would be irreverent to me, spending holidays together is a necessity for me. I'd rather be single then with someone who is immature or dishonest.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 100 (view)
 
what can make a spark go away?
Posted: 3/27/2012 10:55:33 AM
Insincerity, dishonesty or narcissistic traits.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 86 (view)
 
Staying on POF when in a relationship
Posted: 3/27/2012 10:53:29 AM
Well for one, he didn't keep his word to hide his profile. That show he either placates the "little woman" or lacks conviction in his words both are traits I can do without in any relationship.

I believe relationships are reciprocal; if a man doesn't want to strive for my happiness, then he isn't really that interested and I limit my investment in the relationship until he proves otherwise.

My boyfriend wants me to be happy, he cares that I trust him and wants me to love him. I think that is how it should be, if you're seeking a LTR.

BTW I'm on POF for the forums and he knows about it.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 32 (view)
 
I can't stop thinking about him!
Posted: 3/19/2012 9:57:57 PM
^^^^
I was being sarcastic, I thought it was obvious my advice was mocking. That is why I asked if she was really 44.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 31 (view)
 
When ure child is in an abusive relationship
Posted: 3/17/2012 9:10:31 AM
Teenager - Get evidence, then call the police. Get my child into therapy so we can find the root of the problem that allows them to find an abusive relationship acceptable.

Adult - I'd let them know I was there for them always, and would do anything to help them once they were ready to help themselves.

There will be a moment when the abused person starts to question their relationship, at that moment I would ask them. "What would you do if I was in an abusive relationship?" "What would you do if your child was in an abusive relationship?" With the hopes it gave them prospective.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 6 (view)
 
I can't stop thinking about him!
Posted: 3/17/2012 8:45:43 AM

Would you be reluctant to ring someone who told you they had a boyfriend/girlfriend? I don't want to two time though - I want to do the right thing, I just want to know if he likes me first. What should I do? Should I ring him, and how do I keep it light yet convey what I want to. or should I put it in a text?


I can't believe your 44 years old. Seriously?

I think you should call him, tell him how you feel and how you think about him all the time, tell him how you'll leave your boyfriend for him. Don't forget to tell him how you've never done this before and how you're a very honest and trust worthy personal normally.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 55 (view)
 
SHE SAID A FULL BACKGROUND CHECK IS NEEDED FOR ONLINE DATING
Posted: 3/17/2012 8:16:00 AM
That would be an "OH HELL NO" for me. Living in fear is not attractive. Neither is a person so mistrusting of other people and their own instincts/decisions.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Confidence or Realistic?
Posted: 2/10/2012 7:54:23 AM
Confidence is necessary but I don't find it reason to be attracted to someone. I wouldn't date someone who lacked confidence because I would find it a turn off.

Now charisma is a totally different story. If someone is charismatic, they can have more leeway in the looks department.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 15 (view)
 
40... The Burmuda Triangle for dating?
Posted: 2/10/2012 7:44:56 AM
OP - I don't think you're ready to date yet. I didn't date during my kids formative years because I didn't have the time or energy to invest in a relationship. I had a long term lover who met my need for intimacy and didn't place any demands or expectations on me.

I don't think I would date someone with young kids, I've been a mother for 20+ years, and it's my intention to enjoy my freedom until grandchildren arrive. I'm not saying I would never date a man with kids but he would have to be an exceptional father for me to consider it.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Favorite movie quotes
Posted: 2/10/2012 12:12:16 AM
Last night you were unhinged. You were like some desperate, howling demon. You frightened me. Do it again! Anjelica Huston - Adams Family

“I pulled this gas tank from an old Chevy. I wanted to blow it up, so I did. What I didn’t think about was all the little bits of metal that were going to fly out in every direction. I almost killed myself. I woke up in this hospital and this doctor was like, ‘Son…’ and I said ‘Don’t call me son, you ****ing****’ And he was like, ‘You blew off your nut.’ (pause) I just lost my nut, like that. I went ****ing crazy. I assaulted a nurse or a doctor, I don’t really remember. I got arrested. I went to juvee. All I could think about was my ****ing nut, man. I’m missing a nut. What am I going to do? I had to go looking for it, right? So I busted out of juvee and I went searching. I couldn’t find my nut. (pause) Well, there was this one night I was sitting there and I was taking a shit and I was looking at my balls and I was staring at this little piece of flabby sack where my left nut used to be. And then I saw my right nut for the first time. I was like, **** MAN, MY NUT! Look I have one, I still have a nut. Right? It’s a good nut, it works. God or the ****ing devil or whoever the **** it is, you know, he left me with one good nut. I still have a ****ing nut and it works. And my ****ing****works too. (pause) Okay, you lost your wife. And you lost your mom. I lost my nut. Joseph Gordon-Levitt - Hesher
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 57 (view)
 
Angry Daters
Posted: 2/9/2012 10:28:01 AM

Don't worry lucasz, when women get to be in the 50's and still on this site god knows how many years and still have no luck still looking for to fit her needs, they will lower their standards and pursue you. What they say is what they don't mean such as ''not into playing games'' ''not looking for one thing only'' ''no drama'' ''who is fun, lovable, honest, sincere, caring, compassionate'' I agree what they are looking for and not looking for, when i answer ''YES'' to all, they will not respond. Women do the talk, but won't do the walk. If you disagree with me, proof me wrong why not go out with lucasz?


Lowered expectation, really? If you believe for someone to be interested in you they need to lower their expectation then it's time to do personal inventory. I think that is the root of the problem with the angry dater, they believe everyone must change to meet their wants, needs and desires.

I went through a period where I wasn't attracting the type of man I'm accustom to dating and my first thought was to blame being over 40, to blame men for being shallow. Then I looked at myself. I was a workaholic, all I did was work, all my interests revolved around work and my appearance was less then stellar. I wouldn't even want to date myself.

Dating to me is like retail commerce. You have sell yourself, honestly. And you have to watch for sales that too good to be true because they usually are. And you have to be the best version of yourself you can be.

And get offline. When you're really living life and enjoying it, people will seek you out.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Best sex toys, anyone use a radio controlled remote vibrator?
Posted: 2/9/2012 9:40:14 AM
A remote vibrating egg would be very nice and the sound is muffled.

I think the butterfly for an extended amount of time would be awful, the over stimulation would have her jerking like she was having a seizure eventually.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 12 (view)
 
A guy ABSTAINING until marriage
Posted: 2/8/2012 1:20:23 PM
All the power to you for your choice to abstain. You can't really miss what you've never had so it's possible you're attain your goal.

A 33 year old virgin with idealization of perfection runs the risk of being a 43 year old asexual virgin.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 257 (view)
 
Why men run at the first sign of pregnancy?
Posted: 2/8/2012 12:49:01 PM
I raised my children without my ex husband or his money. There are many single parents like myself who just raise their kids without the need for support either financial or physical.

And truthfully my type of parent wouldn't date most of the bitter people in these forums. I would never allow someone with a negative attitude about single parents or children to infect my functional life. Nor want someone whose dating experiences made them jaded, either they make poor life choices to allow themselves to be victimized repeatedly or they have a victim type of personality.

I only had sex with people I would want in my life if in the event an unintentional pregnancy occurred. Contraceptives fail sometimes and that always made me extremely selective who I took that risk with.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 2/7/2012 7:15:57 PM
In relationship my partner is always Dominant, when a 3rd person enters into our sex life, it depends on the person.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 227 (view)
 
is kinky sex ds, bdsm, a bad thing
Posted: 2/7/2012 7:09:20 PM
is kinky sex bad? Only the best kind of bad, if I'm really bad it's even better.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Is it actually possible to find a man who...
Posted: 2/7/2012 6:40:02 PM
I've been on dates that felt like a job interview but I think it was because the guy was undecided about me and wanted to find something either positive or negative to help him decided.

I can honestly say nobody has ever asked me to raise their kids but I rarely date men with kids..actually I never do anymore. I'm not closed off to the idea but I seem to only attract men who don't have kids.

Nobody has ever wanted to rush into marriage. But I'm anti-marriage minded so that could play a part.

And I don't really get the last question.

Your profile kind of reads like you're egocentric and with a sense of entitlement, the type of man you're going to attract will be similar to you or a bit masochistic.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 228 (view)
 
Why men run at the first sign of pregnancy?
Posted: 2/7/2012 10:42:12 AM

And for the ladies:

Combined Hormonal Pill Progestin-Only Pill (Mini-Pill)
Patch Progestin-Only Injection
Male Condom Female Condom
Films, Foams, and Jellies Copper Intrauterine Device (IUD)
Progestin-Only Intrauterine System (IUS)


While this is a valid point, it still annoys me. Many women are harmed and permanently injured by chemical and medical devices to prevent pregnancy. I suspect if men could get knocked up, or had similar birth control options (a male IUD shoved into their ball sack or take chemical that alter their biology that make them insane) the dismissive attitude would diminish.


Diaphragm with Spermicide Cervical Cap with Spermicide


That is how I got my youngest son.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 44 (view)
 
Angry Daters
Posted: 2/7/2012 10:25:44 AM
I see a lot of groupings and labels tossed around this thread and I think that correlates a lot with the "angry dater" label. We are all to often looking to categorize people we meet and label them, not to find out who they are but to shell out a bunch of preconceived notions on them from our past experience with other people of the same label. Sometimes this is giving someone to much credit or others not enough. If someone had bad experiences (very likely if your on here in your 30s like me) than this can bring out anger to someone new based on someone old.


Labels help to identity a problem. I don't care why someone is "angry" what I care is that they stay out of my space. I date for fun, I seek relationships to have someone to share hard earned great life and enjoy my retirement. I have no desire to weed through a persons emotional problems or try to understand why the act like an ***hole because they were hurt.


I find alot of the women in their 30's are very angry daters lol. Their childhood fantasy has been smashed by their ex ... they're frustrated with men because they won't conform to that said fantasy, so they write profiles where the word "Douche-Bag" is in every second sentence.

So it's simple. I'll stick to 25 year olds that aren't emotionally scarred and haven't been ''rode hard and put away wet'' so to speak. Nothing worse than dealing with some other guys damaged goods.


This isn't a new concept. I've know plenty of men who dated younger because they wanted someone who is untainted. Cougars started because women wanted men who weren't post divorce paranoid.

It's a ironic, you'd state the obvious to bash women over 30, then incite negativity by stating you'll be flamed for your opinion. Passive aggressive much?
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Squirting
Posted: 2/6/2012 11:25:14 PM
My former lover with ninja sex skills taught me how and I will be eternally grateful. The intensity of the orgasm is out of this world.

Some porn stars cheat, they douche without voiding all the water immediately, saving it for the climax scene.

I have no idea how to teach someone how to squirt. But it's a combination of tightening the pelvic muscles and relaxing at the right moment.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 48 (view)
 
Lack of emotion; sign of a problem?
Posted: 2/6/2012 11:15:51 PM
I've been there. My apathy wasn't chemical or situational depression, it was a normal reaction to boredom. Life got kick when I accepted I am a kinky libertarian who needs to live outside the box. Now I do and say exactly what I want.

You know those really old people who are totally outrageous because they have nothing to lose? That is how I live.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 225 (view)
 
Why men run at the first sign of pregnancy?
Posted: 2/6/2012 10:52:16 AM

So a woman can easily get knocked up playing this game. Like "Honey Im on the pill"



Both people are responsible.


Yes so that is why I tell my sons "the person who doesn't want a baby is responsible for contraception"

My sons don't want children so they are responsible for contraception.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 221 (view)
 
Why men run at the first sign of pregnancy?
Posted: 2/6/2012 5:04:30 AM

my question is this. why do women say they can not have kids? yet end up being preggo by a one night stand, and expect this man to marry them and support a child that they had no choice in?? instead of going after the doctor that told them they could never get pregnant, they go after the guy they had sex with instead of the doctor that told them that they were infertile????


They had no choice? They had a choice and they chose to believe a BS story so they could enjoy sex without a condom.

I've told my sons many many many many times "the person responsible for contraception is the one who doesn't want a baby."
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 94 (view)
 
Big vaginas-fact or fallacy?
Posted: 2/6/2012 4:49:31 AM
God I hate this topic and it just keeps popping back up. Every time I see it I start to do kegals. All three of my sons were over 10lbs at birth..I had a nip and tuck done to my punani a few years ago because frankly the idea of having a loose vagina is so the opposite of sexy.

I think there needs to be tread about sagging balls
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 104 (view)
 
If they cheat with you, will they cheat on you. Is this always the case??
Posted: 2/6/2012 4:41:51 AM

Msbeave - how do you know your friend has been faithful? Never really know.


You're right I don't know. I don't think overlapping cheaters will ever be faithful but I do think sometimes a person can make a mistake, learn from it and not repeat the action.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 101 (view)
 
If All the Good Ones Are Taken .....
Posted: 2/6/2012 4:38:19 AM

Snapped up?Doesn't sound like any time was spent getting to know the man.Selected for looks,job,assets?A man can be just an Object to some women....


Especially the ones with biological clocks tick tocking. But to remove the gender bias. People can see other people as object to help them achieve personal success or goals.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Guys who collect...held to a different standard?
Posted: 2/5/2012 11:45:48 AM
I suppose the stereotypes associated with guys who collect comics, toys etc could be off putting to someone who is rigid in their idea of what men are supposed to do. My only caution is if the collection interfered with his quality of life or mine.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 34 (view)
 
Would You Rather Be Wanted Or Needed In a Relationship?
Posted: 2/5/2012 10:58:48 AM


I want to be adored, craved, cherished, wanted, needed, depended on, cared for, coveted, essential, lusted, and desired.

And to do the same back. And be able to allow all the above to ebb and flow naturally without being overly worried. Because all of that is part of a relationship. And not everything will be present ALL of the time.

Thats the type of relationship I think is worthwhile.


Actually after reading this I reflected on my original answer and realized being needed it's a horrible thing. Thanks for the perspective.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Told me to get rid of my pets
Posted: 2/5/2012 10:53:10 AM
I have 2 dogs and a cranky cat and get mind numbing migraines from animal hair. I am definitely allergic but manage by keeping the pet out of my bedroom. I date a guy who was a "dedicated cat person", his house was a wad of cat hair, his cats slept all over the house, he always had trace hair on his clothes. The cat hair was a problem for me, it wasn't the reason I stopped dating him but definitely was a factor. To me pets are like kids, if I don't like your parenting style, I'm not likely to keep dating you and the same applies to pets. I wouldn't ask someone to get rid of their pets ever but honestly I pretty much am relieved when someone I'm dating is pet less.

I would never get rid of my pets for anyone, they are part of our family, I love those little migraine inducers. I would talk to him and make him aware how important your animals are too you, if he doesn't respect your relationship with them, then I'd tell him bye bye.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 92 (view)
 
If they cheat with you, will they cheat on you. Is this always the case??
Posted: 2/5/2012 10:04:21 AM
I have a friend who is kinky, he was married to a non-kinky woman for 20 years, with a kinky mistress on the side most of the marriage. Ten years ago, ended his relationship with his mistress and wife to be with his current kinky wife. The current wife told him he had to attend therapy to resolve his intimacy issues before she would be in a relationship with him. He has been faithful to her.

And that is the only case I know of a cheater reforming.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 95 (view)
 
If All the Good Ones Are Taken .....
Posted: 2/5/2012 9:46:11 AM
I dislike the idiom "all the good ones are taken" because in theory it implies if you're not in a relationship you're bad. But in practicality is has truth.

I've known men who were ready for a relationship, they were everything most women seek and they were snapped up like a Black Friday special at Walmart.

(I didn't want to make this gender specific but men are my only personal example)
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Would You Rather Be Wanted Or Needed In a Relationship?
Posted: 2/5/2012 9:22:05 AM
Wanted. The idea of someone I'm dating needing me actually give me anxiety.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Angry Daters
Posted: 2/4/2012 8:55:33 PM
It sounds like the OP is looking for a back-door opportunity to bash men. Perhaps she should examine her own hostility and distrust issues before laying them on others. I've had my share of bad experiences and then some and have said so on my profile. But I'm still trying, if not very well.


My post was not gender specific and if I choose to bash someone I wouldn't need a backdoor. I am in no way a man hater so you must be projecting your own self loathing. You are talking out of your ass, at no point on POF have I demonstrated, trust or anger issues in my forum posts.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 180 (view)
 
Just Me...Or are men becoming more Passive?
Posted: 2/4/2012 10:46:52 AM
The chemistry of a woman requires a Dominant male around her to take charge of certain life issues.......without this Dominant male, we are swimming aimlessly.


A woman can be the Dominant in the relationship too. I think there needs to be a leader in the relationship for it to function smoothly, and it should be whoever is the most emotionally intelligent.


I wish men were agressive. I am all for the women's rights thing but damn let some old fashioned ideas stand. I like when men talk to me or ask me out. :) Just saying. I like aggressive men


Perhaps you mean assertive men, aggressive men tend to be those one who can't take no for an answer and harass us until we want to shoot them.

I find it amusing how many woman claim they want an dominant man but then claim they are controlling or potentially abusive for being dominant.

I`m in a relationship with a dominant man, he makes all the final decision in our relationship, I can make a suggesting but his word is the final. We have no power struggles and we rarely fight because I agreed to trust him to always put our relationship above his own wants.

The majority of extremely successful men are dominant men, they have no desire to have power struggles or play by woman rules. I`m pretty sure they don`t look for women on POF.


It might be that you are really just picking men that
just don't care about you.. I'm not trying to be harsh, but you can get caught up
with someone that is just biding their time with you till the "right" girl comes along.
I'd back off a bit when this occurrs and see how long the relationship lasts after that.


I agree, when a man is really is interested he actively want to make you want him as much as he wants you.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Date/Movie Night at the Home: How soon before you go?
Posted: 2/3/2012 10:43:48 PM

Date/Movie night at the home means sex.


Yup.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 428 (view)
 
why do people stay on POF after meeting someone?
Posted: 2/3/2012 10:40:06 PM
I like the forums. I haven't used POF to date since the mouth breather incident of 2006.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 188 (view)
 
sex on the first date
Posted: 2/3/2012 10:31:31 PM
I think it's tragic that my gender is more likely to call a woman a whore or slut, then most men. If my honesty and responsibility for my sex make a slut then I'm proud to be a slut.

Sluts do have more fun, my boyfriend can attest to that..he is a slut too.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Over the top?
Posted: 2/3/2012 10:20:02 PM
If a guy insisted on me getting my nails done, hair, I'd wonder why he needed to upgrade my appearance. I'd actually be annoyed.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 178 (view)
 
sex on the first date
Posted: 2/3/2012 12:43:02 PM
If you can't beat 'em join them,ey?
That attitude sounds just as horrible coming from a woman as it does a man.


I don't see relationships as competitions or participate in gender wars. And I don't believe women are victims!

I'm not going to pretend to be falling in love with someone to justify my acting on my lust for them. Provided I am honest, I am not responsible for how they feel. If a guy isn't relationship material that is hardly my fault, if he is willing to have sex without a relationship that is again his choice. And the same applies to women.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 173 (view)
 
sex on the first date
Posted: 2/3/2012 9:52:53 AM
If I have sex on the first or second date, it's because I'm horny and don't see the man as relationship potential so if he thinks I'm a slut or a whore it's irrelevant.

My former lover who works in law enforcement, once interrogated (yes interrogated) just as I was close to climax to see if I have sex with everyone by the second date. It may have been my most honest moment with him, it's impossible to be dishonest during aggressive intercourse with someone who has interrogation skills. He never got over my full answer. And I never got over the fact he tried to have sex with me on the first date with the pretense he was looking for a relationship.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Why wait????
Posted: 2/3/2012 12:32:11 AM
One of the reasons I quit online dating was the sense of obligation to respond to messages. Some people live very full lives and have little left mentally or emotionally to respond to messages. I`ve taken days to respond to someone I was interested in because I wanted to send a thoughtful message instead of my usual impersonal response.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 166 (view)
 
Just Me...Or are men becoming more Passive?
Posted: 2/3/2012 12:03:41 AM
Alpha males can be passive when they don't care to invest time or energy. I suspect the same applies to beta.


you can blame your feminazi cohorts for this. Feminism has destroyed the natural male/female roles in relationships. It has turned many once proud and bold men into passive manginas. This is a perfect example of the ole addage "be careful what you ask for".


Oh such bitter BS. Wimps come in all genders, and what you're describing is an insecure person with no personal boundaries.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 66 (view)
 
Holding back your feelings until you get the thumbs up...
Posted: 2/2/2012 2:44:50 AM
It's great he was honest but why? Was he trying to create completion, letting her down gently or subtly asking her slow it down.

If I don't inspired a man to want to invest his available time with me, then I'll move him the "friend zone" while he keeps looking for his ideal woman. And he usually stays there because I don't want to be with someone who isn't blow away by my awesomeness. Seriously
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 277 (view)
 
She was looking for LTR, but has a FWB on the side?
Posted: 2/2/2012 2:05:54 AM
She was honest, I wouldn't have disclosed that information so early, it's really none of your business until you're actually dating.

I had a lover for 5 years, we frequented each others beds when we were single. My current boyfriend made such an impression on me, I severed all ties to "my back up plan" after the first date.

I'd rather have a lover, then desperately dating to fill my need for sex. And for some people sex is a need not a want.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Do you Believe in the 6 Date Rule...?
Posted: 2/2/2012 1:02:55 AM
Ugh no! I think rules to dating turn it into game.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 35 (view)
 
At what point did your new relationship go foul and why?
Posted: 2/2/2012 12:46:59 AM
If my date referred to us being in relationship on the second date, I'd be leery.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 105 (view)
 
Can we talk about relationships without sex? I'm not talking ''a little'' sex I mean none. Possible?
Posted: 2/2/2012 12:15:09 AM
for me sex is part of the relationship, sexually is as important as any other dynamic.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 528 (view)
 
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 2/2/2012 12:11:09 AM
I would pay for the kind of sex I enjoy if I couldn't score penis on my own any longer. Sex is a need (for me) and I'd rather pay a profession to do the job right, then get unsatisfying sex for free. Which I suspect so many professional men use escorts.
 
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