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D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 28 (view)

intimidated by chick mechanics? Posted: 6/23/2007 8:41:28 AM
Well missholly I myself am a mechanic , and raised my 2 daughters to be mechanically inclined . By the age of 12 my oldestwas my working partner on the weekends and became very proficient at brake jobs on tractor trailers . I owned my own service truck before my divorce and it was all lost during the divorce . I moved away after the divorce due to reasons betwen my ex and myself which left a lot of my customers unhappy as I gave quality service and worked weekends . I have refered some of my old customers to my daughter who is now 19 , and she has proved herself to the few she decided to do some work for , unfortunatly being a mechanic isnt what she wants to do , but she would be a great one . I had to laff when I talked to some old friends who told me that she has been seen greasy as hell but smiling like the cheshire cat when she completes an 13 axle brake job on a rig and making in 1 day what it takes her 2 weeks at her normal job . Have fun with it and go for it if it is what you enjoy .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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Do you change lightbulbs with your penis? Posted: 6/19/2007 8:59:50 AM
Well being a man I just had to try it , and now I have to post here so everyone can learn from my mistakes Turn the elctricity off FIRST

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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Favorite Shirts with Words Posted: 6/19/2007 8:25:10 AM
I tried to buy a shirt off a kid , offered 50 and the silk shirt I was wearing but still no go The shirt said " Im trying to see things from your point of view , but Im not sure I can get my head that far up my ass " I still want that shirt , I will wear it with pride .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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If a woman has a few scars..does it make you look at them different Posted: 6/18/2007 6:17:13 PM
Your not alone in feeling uneasy about the scars , Im a 40 man who actually has a decent body , hell still have a 6 pack stomach but do to scars and a skin issue I cant get rid off I am rarely seen without long sleeves and full pants . Not much you can do but be yourself and realize that a person that loves you loves all of you , scars included .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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Singles travel trips Posted: 6/18/2007 7:31:42 AM
I am now awaiting my passport , although Im not planning any cruises or anything I am thinking about venturing off and seeing some more of the world . Ya it would be nice to have a S/O to do this with but being single does leave one open to anything . Who knows what or where my adventure will find me .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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Paying Child support for a child that is not mine Posted: 6/18/2007 6:36:28 AM
Ahh yes I know of what you speak , met her the day she found out she was pregnant . 13 yrs later when the house was paid for I was told she never really loved me but I was a good provider . DONT hold it against the kids . I still love the girl like she is my own

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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A walkabout Posted: 6/17/2007 8:48:31 PM
Oh ya , I have skills that can get work almost anywhere , really have nothing holding me here that I cant just come back to the house when I want . As long as I keep in touch with my kids who are spread out now anyways , and that can be done easy enough . Its not like Im running from anything , more like trying to find something that I am not what it is I am lookin for .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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A walkabout Posted: 6/17/2007 2:22:04 PM
Just like in the movie Crocidile Dundee when he talks about it . Has anyone else ever done this ? I am at a point right now where this is becoming a vrey real possibilty , with the curveballs life throws at us . Not to run away from problems , but to escape people here in general . Ever been tired of how you have been treated and walked ? Seriously thinkin about packin a backpack , lockin up the house and goin wanderin for a few years here . I seen a lot of Canada an USA as a teenager , thinkin about revisiting some of those places .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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Avocado and melon facepacks? Posted: 6/17/2007 1:32:24 PM
My ex wife while I was with her was a hairstylist and studied for a few other aspects of being a beautician so ya , I have suffered through a couple of those scenarios . I dont know which was worse , the facial crap or letting her shave me with a straight razor , number 11 stroke is a killer .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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What is it with guys (or girls) saying looking for friends or talk/email when they are really.... Posted: 6/17/2007 9:00:37 AM
Wow , Thats some ability to paint everyone with 1 wide sweeping brush satating Everyone wants sex , perhaps you should get out and find a few actual t friends instead of the lowlifes that have drawn you to this conclusion . Believe it or not some of us here actually do wish to talk and make friends , not just show you pics of our peckers and masturbate .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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Things I've learned while I was drunk.... Posted: 6/16/2007 5:18:17 PM
Tha tPeterborough police dont find humour in a man standing in the of the street with his pants around his ankles , no matter how funny his buddies like the joke ( how a newfie pulls up his socks ) . The wife seen even less humour in it than the cops did and told them to keep me lol . Ahhhh good times lol

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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Would you consider...? Posted: 6/16/2007 4:17:08 PM
Thats when I met my ex wife , the day she found out she was pregnant so yes it can happen . Just hope you dont do to him what happened to me 13 yrs in , house just about paid for and I got the I dont love you anymore curveball . Its all good though I got 2 awesome daughters from the deal .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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Would You Help An Ex In Need? Posted: 6/16/2007 6:38:07 AM
I have been VERY fortunate in this regards . Perhaps it is a direct result of how things were handled during the marriage and how it ended as well but I know Karma is alive and well . Just 3 weeks ago after an excruciating nerve racking trip halfway across the country to rescue my daughter from the Greyhound strike , then back west another 25oo miles with a car and trailer load of kids and belongings I ended up stranded 1500 miles from home with a blown engine in my car and Visa maxed due to troubles endured from a trip that took twice as long as it should have . Being as I can be pigheaded as the kids call me I decided to hitchike it home broke . As soon as she heard what I had done and left myself be stranded in order to get the kids to their destination I got a call on my cell from her . She booked my flight , arranged my taxi ride , booked a hotel and then a bus ride the final 200 miles to get me home . The best part is when I called to arrange paying her back she informed me that she had billed the kids that I had helped . Let me tell you , if she says they owe her , they will pay to shut her up lol . After all of that I can honestly say she restored my hope for humanty , if only for a short while .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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Never was loved Posted: 6/15/2007 7:20:14 AM
I met my wife the day she found out she was pregnant ( not mine ) . 13 yrs later , ironicaly as the house was almost paid for I was asked to leave and told I was chosen as I was a good provider . Yup it hurts . Karma has a way of working it all out though , the man she loves now is with her for the same reason and now I hear " he dosent love me " . Take it all in stride and use it as a learning experience to make better choices in the future . Actions speak louder than words , small gestures speak volumes .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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Body Exploring... Posted: 6/14/2007 5:22:33 PM
Just goes to show you that all women have their own desires . I spent a long time learning how to tease and explore and my last S/O actually told me that my exploring pissed her off and just hurry up and put it in . I felt I was robbed of my pleasure , literally didnt want foreplay or oral and heaven forbid if I took longer than 10 min to get there . Cant say as I actually miss her now lol . Peace all

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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Really confused and don't know what to do! Posted: 6/13/2007 4:29:38 PM
Wow , it saddens me to see stuff like this , if a guy tries to kiss you he is a dog and if he dosent hes gay . Couldnt possibly be that he is just as shy as her and maybe even a touch respectfull ?

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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Strap-on Posted: 6/13/2007 3:37:11 PM
Like others have said I think the daddy part is a little over the top , but whatever floats his boat if your up to it . On a side note , Soxred , why is it in todays society where bisexual women seems to be trendy you dont think a man can be bisexual ? Are you saying people in general cant be Bisexual or is it just guys who cant be ?

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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Horrific Habits and Other Deal Breakers Posted: 6/13/2007 12:59:56 PM
This one im sad to say happened almost the entire duration of my last relationship . Uggg it still bothers me to think about it . She was very insecure about men and relationships . EVERYTIME and I do mean everytime we were out and about if I even talked to another woman she would walk up to me and grab my package . She said she had 2 reasons for this , 1 , to supposedly show that I was taken and 2, to see if I was aroused by said other woman .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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Happy Fathers Day Mom Posted: 6/13/2007 10:18:03 AM
I seriously dont understand parents that abandon kids ????? I mean I live 1000 miles from my kids and I still havent missed an important function , be it school or cadets . It just baffles me . The last SO I had lived less than 30 miles away and didnt visit the kid in the 5 yrs I was around until he heard the boy wanted to start calling me dad ( his decision ) and she couldnt understand my need to be there for my kids . People can be mighty strange in their thinking .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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When it comes to the opposite sex, what is your weakness? Posted: 6/12/2007 1:40:40 PM
The smell of her hair and the taste of their skin on the back ( nape ) of their neck .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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single woman and the furnace scam Posted: 6/12/2007 11:57:58 AM
Being a mechanic I have rescued a few women from outrages bills from garages that have done unauthorized work and then gave them a horrendous bill . I have seen Speedy Muffler do 3 grand worth of work on a car that they had no authorization to do , they had the poor woman in tears , fortunatly she was getting a haircut by my wife and she called me . Boy was Speedy pissed when I showed up with the 125 to pay for the quoted job and they had no recourse but to give me the car .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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jealous Posted: 6/12/2007 10:01:18 AM
Curly , have you ever thought of becoming a therapist ? You always seem to give the most rational objective advice . If everyone had a friend as grounded and sensible as you it would be a much better world . Many kudos to you

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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Huge ego and too much pride, do they have any place in dating? Posted: 6/12/2007 9:34:00 AM
I know of what you speak of OP , ive done the same thing . I live a comfortable life and just felt way out of my league let alone the sneers from people she knew when they found out I was a mechanic .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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She brought her dog on the date? Posted: 6/12/2007 9:25:22 AM
In response to the question about using animals to get dates . My brother used to take my Boxer for walks all the time for just that reason . His reasoning was I was already married and he seen it as a chick magnate , damned if he wasnt right . Peace all

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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Are all sex toys so shoddily and cheaply made? Posted: 6/12/2007 6:45:35 AM
Or you can have someone like me who is mechanically inclined custom make something of quality in thier workshop lol . Surprisingly enough it was the only thing I didnt let my last g/f keep and it was what she was upset about the most LMAO Peace all

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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ex is getting remarried and wants my kid to call her MOM Posted: 6/12/2007 6:40:12 AM
Well Im not sure of how to deal with your situation but I will say it has been an issue with many people . I met my exwife the day she found out she was pregnant , was with her for 13 yrs . I raised the girl like my own and we had another of which I was the father . She grew up knowing me as dad , I started talking to her and explaining that I wasnt her biological father around her 8th birthday as I didnt want her upset like I was at 17 to find out I had been lied to about half brothers and sisters . Their was never a problem ntil we divorced , then the ex started telling her not to call me dad anymore . All I can say is to let the kid do what feels right to them , I know it drove a wedge between my ex and daughter by fighting about it when she got a new guy and wanted them to call him dad . It got so bad that I moved the oldest into her own appartment when she was 16 to get away from it . That just irked the ex even more as I gave the kid the support money to pay her bills . Fox

D.Fox

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Dog People Posted: 6/10/2007 9:32:32 AM
Its great to hear so many nice stories about people and the animals that love them , gives hope for humantiy . I myself am a lover of Boxers and have had the pleasure of sharing my life with them . My last boxer , Gabby was my best friend and companion for years , she went to work with me for over 5 years until my divorce . The hardest part about my divorce aside from being apart from my kids was the loss of my dog , Gabby stayed behind to continue her job as protector of the house , when in reality you could have robbed us blind if you left her couch and gave her the box of her favorite cookies . So much can be surmised when you watch how people interact with animals , it can show compassion or lack thereof as well their level of patience . I personally feel you can tell how a person will be as a parent by watching them with animals , lots of similarities about raising a dog and raising kids . As well as if you read up on many of our past criminals regarding murderers and rapists and the likes many times it has been noted that they were cruel to defenseless animals at a young age . Now all that negativity aside I will say that I am hoping to find a puppy soon to enjoy life with , they dont care if I am fugly or what my financial status is lol .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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Is this a deal breaker? Posted: 6/10/2007 6:15:26 AM
Dealbreaker for sure next time for me . My parents owned a restaurant when I was young so I learned to cook young , I was taught to make sokmething from nothing and make it tasty . Th elast relationship I was in the woman only wanted to eat McDonalds constantly , she would drive the 30 miles to town to get burgers . I found it insulting after cooking a roast and all the fixings to have her walk in the door with soggy burgers and cold fries . The only good thing that resulted was that I opened up a new world to her young son , he loved my cooking . The unfortunate thing is after I left she fed him crap constantly and now he is 9 yrs old and 155 lbs . Now when I look for another mate in life I will watch for this and end it early if she is a take out fast food regular .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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a town you don't know to meet a guy you don't know Posted: 6/4/2007 9:14:52 AM
Wow OP I dont understand it ???? I know Peterborough fairly well ( lived there for 10 yrs ) and it being a college and university city and thier being so many people there your age during the school year I cant understand why you are having to travel to meet a guy ? Is that really you in the pics ? If so , you definatly are not BBW , ya got the beautiful woman part but big you are not . I could understand if you were posting about a guy bein a****or they all want sex too fast or some other variation of the guy bein an idiot . Your looks are not the problem with your situation .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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about single mums Posted: 6/2/2007 7:54:17 AM
Wow glas , you sure know how to appear the idiot dont you . As a divorced father of 2 wonderful daughters ( 1 of which is not mine biologically ) I take offence to your posting , apparently you are all knowing and all seeing , unfortunatly you are blind and I would hazard a guess at unstable as well . So just because my ex wife and I agreed amicably that we werent for each other I am a a neglegant and a psyco ? You need to learn not to paint us all with the same brush there fella . I am still the father I was when I was with my wife , never missed a school function or any other activity in thier lives , have financed many activities for them , talked on a daily basis , guided with love and trust as well as many other fatherly duties which I do with pleasure . Now to the OP , unless you have a genuine love for kids , and can accept any child unconditionally you should not be dating single mothers , I say this not for your safety , but the feelings and safety of the child . It can do untold amounts of damage to a child to endure the break up of adults . Even though its not thier fault they most times feel it was thier fault or had a part in the break up . Personally , some of the greatest times of my life , my best memories are of times spent with kids , and not just my own . Peace all

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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taking a day off work Posted: 5/29/2007 6:39:34 AM
Lmao , Ive had my wife ( at the time ) come to my work and tell my boss he could have me back when she was done with me , if I could still walk . We hadnt seen each other for a month with me working away from home . She travelled 400 miles to get me , now that made me feel wanted lol . The boss just called me a lucky so and so and said see ya monday , it was on a Thursday . When I got back to work they had covered my toolbox with condoms and vaseline LMAO .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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kissing with tongues Posted: 5/28/2007 11:48:22 AM
Wow Diva , I salute you . Its great to hear you say that . Each woman is different and although there are some things that go to far to early kissing is the least of the worries . Anyone should be able to take 5 minutes and convey the message of what they like through steering them in the right direction as you have said . If the experience of the date was good enough to warrant a kiss in the first place surely its worth a little guidance . AS well as it has been said before , this is not a gender specifac problem . Peace

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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Not Right Now!! Posted: 5/16/2007 8:58:17 AM
Wow I see a few women saying they would respect him and even feel that he was a keeper , which is very different from what I have experienced . Its nice to see some women can understand that not all men want just sex , some of us actually want to have a relationship . Both times I have done this it was not well recieved , actually got very nasty and abusive , in retrospect it is funny because one had just finished telling me how she hated guys that were just after sex , yet when I said not yet all hell broke loose . I have to laff at the guy who said he must be gay , yup I must be , couldnt be I have integrity or morals as they seem to have been lost in todays society .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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Sex & The Number Question Posted: 5/15/2007 10:13:16 AM
Are my eyes playin games on me ? Did a woman just say that the bigger the numbers equates to being better able to please ? Does that mean that because I chose to be faithfull in a 13 yr marriage and learned to please my wife that the male slut who got his rocks off and left 50 women unsatisfied is a better lover than I ? That just doesent make sense to me . Like I have said to many a man who brags about how many he has been with " sure you have been with lots , but how many asled you back for a repeat because of quality ? " I myself have a very low number , but everyone has offered it again because of attention to detail that I strive for in this scenario . This I guess is just my outdated way of thinking .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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What does treating somone like this mean? Posted: 5/15/2007 9:31:58 AM
You really need to stop listening to the friends who say he is using you . How can it be that he is using you ? You state that he does whatever you ask of him , whether it be sex or manual labour . I know a guy like him , ME , it really does sound like he cares about you and respects you , but may be somewhat shy or worried that you will find the BBD and leave him by the wayside . The only way to know is to have this disscussion with him and let him know what you feel .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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What were your S.A.T. scores? Posted: 5/15/2007 9:05:54 AM
Here in Canada we do not have SAT scores . I do wonder what your reason for asking is though , as I have always had bit of a different view of people who put so much emphasis on education . Yes I agree education is needed to get by in todays world , but if you look back in history many of our greatest people , from politics to bussiness had very little formal education . Although I may be considered a lowly mechanic by many , with no formal education to speak of , I am amazed at the amount of people who have university degrees and lots of letters behind their name , how utterly dumb they can be in a real life situation . I find that many times people who claim to be smart are like a fish out of water if anything but what they are trained in is discussed . There is something that is not taught in schools which I have much more faith in , its called common sense , add to that a little ambition and a thirst for success and you have a combination that will far surpass a college diploma .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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I KNOCKED HIM BACK and.... Posted: 5/9/2007 8:06:14 AM
Diamond , you are an utter idiot . I can imagine your the type to say well she said no but her body said yes . Idiots like you are a dime a dozen . I hope when you end up in jail and some guy is bending you over he uses your mentality . No means just that , no , its not maybe its not sometimes it plainly means NO . Hell he had the chance to tell her not to bother coming over if she didnt want sex , save the cash of feeding her and go get a hooker if the damn sex is so important . I almost feel sorry for your mentality , but I have to ask , did it hurt when you fell from the stupid tree and hit every damn branch on the way down ? Ya ya your a tough guy , wanna threaten me ? That sounds about your mentality buddy . I pity any woman whom you meet , she has a world of dissapointment comin .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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Life's most simplest pleasures................ Posted: 5/9/2007 7:18:49 AM
While alone , watching the sunset over the lake and enjoying the beauty nature provides . That can make a bad day just melt away . With another , an unsolicited " I love you " from my daughters , when I have a S/O , a hug from behing and a thank you while Im doing the dishes .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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Okay, what went wrong?? Posted: 5/9/2007 6:08:10 AM
Wow , even given the facts of it and the women still play the married card and call him a creep . Lets look at what the lady has said , first she cancelled twice before they meet up , and then after what she called a good date she sent him a message via text that she will see if he gets another date . Unfortunately text messages do not convey humour . He may view that as game playing , I probably would .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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How controling was that b&stard you dumped? Posted: 5/9/2007 5:52:21 AM
I was very pleased to see thi post by Puss (quote)This happens to both men and women though, to be fair.(quote) Yes it can go both ways , and given the different ways of abuse it dosent always mean the man is a puzzy , somtimes you can be held hostage through kids .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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Would you date a woman that is pregnant? Posted: 5/8/2007 5:52:36 AM
Just a little side note on this topic while its being discussed . If you actually do start to date a woman that is preegnant and happen to live with her for 6 months or so depending on what the laws are where you live you can be financially held responsible for child support even if it is not yours . Once you accept the responsibility of being the man in her life it can include child support later on . This I can attest to , I paid for a child that wasnt mine biologically . Im not saying I didnt want to , but not all men can love anothers child unconditionally , as well you may want to consider that the actual father may end up back in the picture .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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not telling the truth about being engaged.... Posted: 5/8/2007 5:38:42 AM
Im not sure why you say he lied ? I mean I personally think that her cheating would make me view a woman as someone I wouldnt spend the rest of my life with . Thats not a lie on his part at all , and then next time it was discussed her gave you the reason why he thought that way . I dont see it that he lied . As well to be honest if he had of said it all the first time out it may have seemed like he was attention seeking pity me type thing . I would have done it the same actually .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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Would a man be willing to help a single woman,,,,, Posted: 5/7/2007 10:01:18 AM
Yes I already help a single mother of 4 , but , and this is a BIG but , it can sometimes turn around and bite ur azz . By that I mean it becomes expected of the fixer , and beyond that it can be unappreciated . Let me ask you this , if you know the plumber wants 200 and a guy fixed it for you , would you have any trouble tossing the guy 40 ? Even 20 , just make sure he is offered something so he dosent feel used . I enjoy helping people , but thats what turns me offf the fastest . If someone helps you make sure they know its appreciated in some way , whatever is possible by you , regardless of monetary value .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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I dont know what to think Posted: 5/7/2007 9:53:10 AM
Hmmmmm ??????? The guy is introducing you to his friends and requests that you tell your parents about your relationship . How can this be viewed as anything but honest and genuine ? I mean we see all these posts about lying and hiding things , that I can understand but not this scenario , heck the guy is being very upfront and open about it . Not tryin to dump on you OP , but why do women complain about all the crappy guys out there and then when they get one that is upfront and open you question that as well ? Now if your going to say well its happened in the past then you arent giving this guy a fair shake , dont make this guy pay for someone elses mistakes . Be happy that you have met a guy that is proud to introduce you to his buddies . Enjoy the openess of this man OP Peace all

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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Pregnant...and she asked me out. Posted: 5/7/2007 7:42:59 AM
Dude , Ive been in your shoes 19 yrs ago , heard all the your a great guy stuff . This situation may not be the same but be carefull , she may be lookin for a daddy now . My ex wife told me after 13 yrs and a divorce that it was the pressure of the baby why she hooke up with me . Im not sayin I regret it , hell I got 2 beautiful daughters out of the deal , but the no love stings . And yes , the oldest isnt mine but Im still dad to her , always will be . You also have to worry about the natural father gettin back in the picture . Tread lightly buddy , be her friend ya , but take it VERY VERY VERY slow with her .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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Anxiety ? Posted: 5/6/2007 11:52:17 AM
Thanks for the replies ladies , I appreciate the honesty . Yesiamcute , when you posted that all I could picture was the scene in Meet the parents movie when the woman opens her legs and you see just that lol . I am glad to hear that women take into consideration about the guy and it being a while , I brought this subject up with some friends and I was amazed at the replies I got , lets just say they werent as forgiving as you ladies have been , but then again they are selfish to begin with at least I hope that explains it . Some people just cant fathom the idea of waiting to be in a relationship before sex , many around where I live see it as recreation and monogamy isnt on their list of priorities . To each their own I guess .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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Favorite Shirts with Words Posted: 5/6/2007 6:19:59 AM
Oh ya I forgot one , when my wife was in the hospital getting ready to deliver our first born her dad brought her a new nightie to wear in the hospital . On the front of it it said " I should have swallowed " . That got a lot of laffs in the delivery dept .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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Here's the deal... Posted: 5/5/2007 5:38:35 PM
A few points I would like to make about some of the postings , Im not sure how to quote so bear with me A few posters are questioning if ther were problems in the marriage before the cheating stared . This is totaly irrelivant as the time to discuss that is before an affair not after . As well a few have questioned his finding the mail on her phone , she has already destroyed any trust that was there , hell she should now be an open book freely offering anything he requires to rebuild trust . Now to the OP , buddy I have been there and believe me when I tell you that she is showing a complete lack of respect or concern for your feelings by continuing to see him outside of work . I would be quick to get legal representation after her giving that ultimatum , odds are if she is saying that she already has got hers . I would have no guilt in leaving a copy of any such evidence on his wife's car as well , what she does with it is her buisness . I feel for ya buddy , but now is the time to move , you can always stop legal proceedings but it is difficult to catch up if she beats you to it . As well do as others have said about the bank accounts before she cleans you out . Take it from a guy who has traveled that road .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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At what point do you stop sexual contact? Posted: 5/5/2007 5:09:44 PM
Im here to tell you it does happen with guys , I woke up one morning ( in my own bed ) with what I thought was my girlfriend giving me head ( mornin wood and all ) and it wasnt my girlfriend it was my neighbour ( uggg ugly as sin itself ) gobblin me up . Man women get real mad when being rejected , but I found out later that it was set up by the g/f to test me .

D.Fox

Joined: 9/1/2006

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Anxiety ? Posted: 5/5/2007 4:41:52 PM
Ok ladies heres the question , Say you have been out of the dating loop for a while and havent had sex since your last relationship ie ; no FWB or one night stands , and you start a new relationship with a fellow that progresses with both people feeling an attraction . The guy is being honest with you , respectful and you decide that intimacy would be welcomed . Do you have feelings of anxiety stemming from your lack of practice so to speak , not that you havent done it before just that its been a while , say a few years ? As well would you have understanding about the duration of the sex the first time or two ? I hope I have conveyed my question properly so you understand what I am asking about Thanks in advance Fox

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