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steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 33 (view)

BF suddenly freaked out Posted: 10/4/2008 7:45:20 AM
My marriage ended by "text message" with the papers showing up shortly after . Some people are just that way. (not good with confrontations) not really mean,just cold.

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 50 (view)

Please define mind games Posted: 10/3/2008 8:55:43 PM
Here is one that was played on me. A very attractive young lady contacted me. We dated for a while. (long story,and I will skip most of it) The game was that she would tell off the other guy she was dating,and put him down every way she could with me. Then to impress him she would do the same thing with me. And her "sole-mate" would buy this,and their relationship would be restored. He's still dating her. I do not need the drama. And told her about the time I was hiding in the closet with a 45. She never called me again. (scared her, I think) that works

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 90 (view)

Speaking of deal breakers...Do you consider this to be one?? Posted: 10/3/2008 8:33:10 PM
I better call the girl I was out with last night. Right?

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 32 (view)

Am I being naive?? Posted: 10/3/2008 8:30:35 PM
Pain builds walls. He has a wall there. You just didn't make it over the wall.

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 733 (view)

would guys date a female cop? Posted: 10/2/2008 8:18:00 PM
Yes I would,But no she wouldn't.

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 55 (view)

Not attracted Posted: 9/28/2008 8:20:03 AM
Not sure what you should do. He should go drive trucks. Home once a month for about four days,with money in his pocket. (and very horny) The rest of the time he is a phone call at the end of the day for you. For him every day is an adventure,with new people and places. You said he likes to sit around. Tell him to sit in a driver's seat,(they pay you for that!) Laptops work at truck stops. And if he is a gamer he can get a killer laptop for that,and wireless internet is at most truck stops as well. (just an idea)

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 287 (view)

Why is a great person like you single? Posted: 9/27/2008 8:49:12 AM
Because marriage is a great institution,for those who wish to be institutionalized.

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 149 (view)

Are there any nice guys left? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 9/24/2008 6:32:34 PM
I am a driver. So is my ex wife. I bailed out and went local. She could not. He can not. You don't know how deep this goes. The road owns him,and you never will. Ask him to make the choice. If he does, you will lose. Any other options? Just one. pick the same life he does. Or walk away. This will not end well. But at least you can walk away. JD

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 23 (view)

2 years, and all of a sudden.. Posted: 8/26/2008 8:30:24 PM
Tell him you just want to be friends. (the relationship kiss of death) If he has a brain,He will run for the hills.

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 726 (view)

would you date a stripper? Posted: 8/24/2008 5:11:35 PM
Yes. Where do I get one?

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 103 (view)

Another victory against fundamentalist discrimination Posted: 8/19/2008 4:06:33 PM
You have conveniently forgotten that this would result in bringing another human being into a life style that might not be the best environment for that other human being. And who sleeps with who has little to do with raising that child in a normal environment. This also hardly qualifies as a routine medical care. Even if a court over in the land of fruits and nuts thinks so!

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 57 (view)

Why do men ask me what do I do for a living? Posted: 8/16/2008 5:28:20 PM
If you are a paid escort, they might not want to date you. If you are a stripper they might want to get more one dollar bills. If you are a mugger they might want to carry less cash? I take it back about not wanting to date a paid escort. (Who am I to judge)

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 28 (view)

Should you state in your profile that you’re looking for marriage? Posted: 8/15/2008 5:38:56 PM
Just act like everyone else. (completely independent,and disinterested). If they know you want a marriage they run for the hills. (women to).

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 29 (view)

Concealed Carry Laws in Cities / Suburbs = Terrible Idea Posted: 8/14/2008 4:22:32 PM
I think it is great that some people trust their government totally, Hate guns,and will remain unarmed because they also trust their fellow man. I don't, I don't,and I won't.

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 39 (view)

Does No Car Mean No Action? Posted: 8/12/2008 7:57:23 PM
If it does,I think we have sunk a little lower on the civilization scale. Don't you think? And I have no problem with a girl who has no car. That just means I have a better chance of getting her on the back of my bike.

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 117 (view)

Another Sacrifice at the Alter of Morality Posted: 8/11/2008 7:57:23 PM
My son is 14. Is the only one of four children who likes guns. (and shoots them rather well) He also has long hair,dyes it black,and constantly pisses off teachers,and students alike. But he knows right from wrong,and targets from people. If he were to point a gun at someone and pull the trigger he would be a murderer. And I don't think it would have anything to do with "the 'culture of guns' and the 'culture of homophobia" It has to do with knowing right from wrong! Homosexuality is wrong,(my opinion), Murder is also! The hell with being politically correct.

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 85 (view)

forum activity reducing chances of getting dates? Posted: 8/11/2008 3:08:24 PM
Maybe. However I want to date people who like me for who I am. If that is why they don't,so be it.

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 37 (view)

Do husband`s and fathers have constitutional rights like everyone else? Posted: 8/9/2008 9:24:55 PM
Thank you for stating the facts. My first marriage ended for many reasons. But one of those reasons had something to do with me seeing where it was going. And I was the one who would have had the charges pending,and their life ruined because of them. Not the nut case I was married to. She calls sometimes. (after 27 years) and says she still loves me. But I still do not want my life destroyed. To bad the laws are the way they are. But they are.

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 191 (view)

He brought his Fanny with him... Posted: 8/9/2008 8:07:05 PM
I have a friend who uses a fanny pack to conceal a handgun. He was a cop before he retired. But with his size and build this is really the only way to do it. No clue about your date, But there is one reason.

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 9 (view)

does anyone understand how men think? Posted: 8/8/2008 11:47:55 AM
Your cool. But you left out one part of the information I believe. How old were these guys? This one cuts both way if they are younger than you are. I date younger women most of the time. And if you do that you take the chance that they with run off with someone else. Not fair, just fact.

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 30 (view)

Another Gun Doesn't Kill People. Two Dead. Posted: 7/28/2008 10:05:26 PM
Good point. Here is another. You hear about school shootings. Illegal to carry in school isn't it? You brought up one in a church. How many people pack a heat in a church? You do the math. "terrorist" seem to want to kill victims that don't shoot back. Don't they?

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 28 (view)

How many men vs women have been stood up? Posted: 7/20/2008 6:31:08 AM
I do not do that. I do go on dates in which I won't call the other person back again. At that point it is because there was no attraction,and I only knew this after we meet (80% or so). Or something they said,or did really came up as a "red flag" (no match,no more dates) (another 15% of the total) Smoking,being married, Talking about sex,(for or against), Trying to drag me (unwillingly) into bed , questioning everything and being scared of me. And yes there is still 5% left. Thank God for them. Now where are they?

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

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NY Gun Buy Back Program Posted: 7/19/2008 12:40:37 PM
I think anyone willing to part with their way of protecting them selfs,and their family. Most likely stole the gun,and have no family that is not already in Jail . And this is only a step forward if you are wanting the government in total control of your life.

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 499 (view)

Why do guys always do this to me? Does anyone else have this problem?... Posted: 7/15/2008 8:01:54 PM
I think the guys that are doing this to you are married to the girls that keep doing this to me!

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 206 (view)

Why are there so many crazy women in this world? Posted: 7/13/2008 10:45:23 AM
Why are they all here? That is the question!

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

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FOND HER HERE! Posted: 7/12/2008 8:24:09 AM
Think about it, If the pay site does it's job. They no longer have clients. No they are not worth paying for,Right?

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 54 (view)

Do you feel guilty!!!! Posted: 7/12/2008 8:20:07 AM
I am talking to about fifty people more or less. You have time to feel guilty? One thing though. Anything gets into the relationship category. And the rules change. I even put it on the profiles. I did a few months ago. sadly things did not work out. So here I am again.

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 110 (view)

Why do most women act like money isn't an issue? Posted: 7/11/2008 7:38:37 PM
"some women want to be taken care of. they want to get married, get pregnant, and not work." (phone numbers please! )

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 94 (view)

Why Men Don't Write Long First Msg's Posted: 7/11/2008 6:35:33 AM
And someone thinks you can get to know anyone by email? I move to the phone,and if nothing scares me there. I want to meet. If anything does, I do not care to meet. I am looking for a mutual need here. Most of these people don't need anyone. Let alone am old fashion,hard working,truck driver. Who cares more about love than getting laid.

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 274 (view)

I Still CRY at Night ALONE!! Posted: 7/4/2008 9:52:20 AM
I am just going to say this. I am about your age. And I am still looking. Be careful,there is a reason some of these people are on here,and not in a relationship.

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 56 (view)

cell phone/guest etiquette Posted: 6/30/2008 4:11:09 PM
That's why it works out so well to get the girl on the bike. Try talking to someone on the back of my Harley. No way!

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 2 (view)

PickUp Trucks run Empty Posted: 6/4/2008 6:31:31 PM
NO! that is not what it is about to begin with.(I live in Texas)

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 35 (view)

How much of your dating comes from the internet? Posted: 6/1/2008 9:52:23 AM
Been doing the internet dating thing for about ten years now. I have never really found much of any place to meet women other than right here. Meet my last wife here. (divorced about two years ago) And the last three LTRs were also from the internet. There are really nice people out there. But most of them have been burned. (I know the feeling well)

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 98 (view)

Is this normal? Posted: 5/26/2008 8:00:15 PM
Nope,he has a problem. (trust me on this,I married a stalker once). It gets much worse,and you do not want to be there. PS: If you slept with someone else while with him,forget anything I just said. (But you still might need to leave)

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 12 (view)

Friends First??? I beg your pardon……. Posted: 5/25/2008 10:58:50 AM
Thank you! someone said it,If you are just looking for friends,Get a dog! that friend thing in a relationship,can be considered the kiss of death!

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 2 (view)

Love Conquers All Posted: 5/25/2008 10:55:25 AM
I wish, I would like to believe, really I would

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 8 (view)

Why do men lie about what they want Posted: 5/24/2008 8:32:09 AM
Ok, get real. I am dating (if you can call it that) someone who said she was single on her profile. (she is married) Said she loved me and wanted a future with me,And was pregnant with her boyfriends child at the time. She is now spending the weekend with him, I am sitting here 1500miles away,with no way to even contact her. While she decides if she still has an interest in him. ( Or a future with me.) By the way, My profile said I was looking for a Long term relationship. (I still am), I have yet to be intimate with this girl because short term sex is not what I am looking for. But I do wonder,(as I am sure many other men do) If she might take this relationship more valuable to her if she knew what I was like in bed. Might this explain the chance these men would be willing to take?

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 216 (view)

Why men don´t want to get committed these days Posted: 5/23/2008 7:36:34 PM
I want to get committed, I just don't want to end up being committed (in a mental way).

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 28 (view)

After they get the phone number they don't call Posted: 5/22/2008 4:22:49 PM
I've also noticed this. I use skpe as well. And my cell is an out of town number so my son can always call from Dallas. I just set up a smart phone to work with that number and use the wireless network at home.(works really well) However, I do have a land line,and do give it out.(but yes,I have noticed this)

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 17 (view)

why do all women say slow down?? Posted: 5/18/2008 9:20:22 AM
They say "slow down" when you are interested in them. If your moving to slow to begin with they will tell you how interested they are, speed you up, and then shut you down because you are moving to fast. Then they will confess that they are still married,are not ready for a relationship,and feel something for you any way. Then they will make a date with you,break it,and confess that they are pregnant with the child of their ex boy friend,and have to go try and work it out with them. But that they are confused,and still love you,but they still have to go talk to them because of the baby,and might end up sleeping with them while they are there if they are drugged and tied to a chair and spanked. But maybe thats just the girls I date?

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 13 (view)

how long do u wait for the one u love? Posted: 5/18/2008 7:08:35 AM
Your getting played, walk away. If you have nothing better to do with your life than wait,Then stay till you really get hurt.

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 30 (view)

How did your first time meeting up w/ someone from POF go? Posted: 5/18/2008 7:01:46 AM
I found my last wife on the net. I knew all about her before we meet, The 1st hug was great,and a long time coming (about two years). Stupid thing is. If I had run into this person on the street,she would not have gotten a 2nd look from me. I would have missed a lot. I always expect someone has used the best picture of them self that they can lay their hands on,(they may not look as good in person) However, once in a while,they show up,and you wonder where in the world they got that terrible picture . And at that point I always wonder why they are still running around lose, and are not wearing a ring yet. To bad I usually find out. (you win a few you lose a few)

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 165 (view)

Guys asking to meet with you immediately Posted: 5/18/2008 6:47:41 AM
Depend on what you want in a relationship, Real or email?

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 316 (view)

are the pay sites scamming us Posted: 5/18/2008 6:44:48 AM
Well said, And once again, If they gave us what we all want. Like undying love forever with a totally hot ex striper who wants to be told what to do in bed, and tied up and handcuffed once in a while. (just a thought) they would be out of business right?

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 24 (view)

My Ego's Been Bruised; How Do I Cope? Posted: 5/18/2008 6:37:00 AM
There is someone for every one,(he wasn't the one) Move on.

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 25 (view)

What do you reckon? Posted: 5/18/2008 6:33:52 AM
Your asking the people on a singles dating web site about having a successful relationship?

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 266 (view)

How old is too old to still be living with your parents? Would you date someone that still did? Posted: 5/18/2008 6:29:50 AM
My mom is 84, I have been through three marriages,and three live in long term relationships. I have boots that have outlasted most of my relationships. But my mom is still my mom. And she resides in the front bed room of my house. Think about it.

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 14 (view)

advice needed please ! Posted: 5/17/2008 6:43:27 AM
Go for it. If you do not,you are always going to wonder what you missed.

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 4 (view)

Have i waited too long to try again? Posted: 5/17/2008 6:34:19 AM
Know the feeling, Two years now for me. Found someone,lost someone just now. Man that was fast. Don't give up.

steelcowboy59

Joined: 9/1/2006

Msg: 59 (view)

How do you deal with strong feelings for someone who does not feel the same? Posted: 5/17/2008 6:29:09 AM
You can't . Besides that in is human nature for someone to run if they are pursued. Being honest and caring for someone does have it's disadvantages.

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