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stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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To Help and ex or to not help an ex Posted: 3/17/2007 4:12:23 AM
I would leave it alone for the sole fact that if he REALLY IS unhappy, you already KNOW he's a cheater and if you approached him about something like that, he might start remembering the good times he had with you and he might want to rekindle the old flame. Even worse...he might catch YOU at a weak point and all the sudden you're having "sex with the ex" and you've just become the "other" woman. Stay out of it unless you want to get involved with him again!

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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american accents Posted: 3/17/2007 3:58:20 AM
I'm an American guy who's a sucker for foreign accents and even a few of regional accents found in the U.S. They are great conversation starters and people want to talk to you just because they want to hear you speak. My best friend is from the UK and when he's at home in England I've noticed the girls don't pay as much attention to him...but when he comes to visit me in the US...he's fighting them off with a stick. I don't think he realizes how easy it is to get laid in the US if you have a European accent. I seem to get a lot more attention from women when I'm in the UK too. Australia was even better. (love those Aussie accents too!) It's funny how just about any European accent is viewed as attractive when most other accents around the world do not seem as popular.

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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Women want to change men - do men ever want to change? Posted: 3/16/2007 11:34:48 PM
I think most men want to change their life for the better...I mean really...isn't there always SOMETHING you can change about yourself? In my own experience...I've found that I fair MUCH better when trying to fix a problem in my life if I have someone who loves me and stands by me through it all. It gives me a little extra something to work towards knowing it will make the one I love a little happier. HOWEVER...I think most women don't really know HOW to show their support in a way that men respond to. It usually manifests itself in nagging and yelling. For example. If I made the decision to quit smoking and she caught me out back with a cigarette...how she responds to the situation will impact my behavior drastically. If she were to get angry and start yelling at me...my first reaction would be to become defensive and would certainly in no way reinforce my resolve to quit...and I might even light up in front of her next time in response. On the OTHER hand...if she were to handle it with a little grace and dignity and show her dissap0intment by a few kind words of encouragement...I'd feel like a total****and my resolve would become even stronger. A good woman can easily be responsible for making a good man an even better man. It's easy...use ENCOURAGEMENT instead of DISCOURAGEMENT!

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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American Culture and sex Posted: 1/9/2007 4:04:12 PM
I disagree completely. I've been around the world several times and although I've run into far more sexually liberated countries than us (especially in SOME parts of Europe)....America has to be close to the top. At the same time...we are a country of extremes. We have the best and the worst of everything. It all evens out.

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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Jarheads and people's first impression... Posted: 1/7/2007 1:51:02 AM
I've had a few girls tell me they don't date Marines because of the reasons you stated...but for every one of those...I had ten that wanted to date me BECAUSE I was a Marine. I don't think I ever walked into a civilian bar in my dress blues without at least one girl striking up a conversation with me. It was great while it lasted...God I miss those days.

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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What defines kinky? Posted: 1/7/2007 12:29:54 AM
I'm not sure what kinky is to everyone else...but to me kinky would probably involve midgets, ceiling fans and maybe a goat or two. I'm just too easy I guess.

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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To shave or not to shave....I say, Not Posted: 1/7/2007 12:24:18 AM
^^^one time: You're missing the whole point . It has nothing to do with looking like a kid and everything to do with making it look, feel, and dare I say taste?, a whole lot nicer. The last thing I want to be thinking about is a kid while I'm playing doctor.

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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To shave or not to shave....I say, Not Posted: 1/6/2007 10:38:28 PM
Sorry...just can't agree with that one. The hair in the mouth thing is a pretty good argument in my book. Not to mention, it just looks better. I don't get why anyone thinks it has anything to do with prepubescence, if a woman has hips and a chest, it kind of throw that whole argument out of the water. Shave it baby!

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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long hair? Posted: 1/6/2007 4:22:56 PM
YES!.......................................................................... .

stonedalien

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Birthday Sex = is it wrong? Posted: 1/6/2007 2:24:59 PM
Don't know all the circumstances, but I would be a little concerned about only a kiss or two after three months! If she's saving herself, I suppose that's one thing, but I think I would be having second thoughts about how life would be like with her if you ever took it to the next level. I don't see anything wrong with little birthday scrog, even if you had to ask for it. Three months is certainly a long enough time to wait.

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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It Stands to Reason.... Posted: 1/4/2007 9:13:37 PM
I suppose it makes sense. I could definitely see how it could work, but I think it would be much more fun to exercise those muscles with a work out partner. It would certainly motivate me to exercise more often.

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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Cute or Hot? Posted: 1/4/2007 9:05:27 PM
This whole thread got started because I called deadwhre "cute" and was properly reprimanded for it! deadwhre you're ****ing hot! (nice hard slap on the ass leaving hand print)

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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Cute or Hot? Posted: 1/4/2007 8:19:00 PM
ok....got it. No more "cute!" From now on it's "you're ****ing hot baby" followed by a nice hard slap on the ass. Geez...no wonder I haven't been getting laid! lol.

stonedalien

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Support 1st U.S. Army Officer to Speak Out Against Iraq War Posted: 1/4/2007 4:18:49 PM
As he should be...this thread should have been deleted.

stonedalien

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Cute or Hot? Posted: 1/4/2007 3:13:39 PM
Do girls really have a problem with being called cute? Whenever I call a girl "cute" they always respond with "why does everyone call me cute?" like it's not a good thing. Personally, I like "cute" every bit as much as "hot"

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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does a womans voice matter? Posted: 1/3/2007 9:14:37 PM
There are voices that I find attractive and there are voices that I find annoying, but I am easy to get along with and it would be a rare case that would be a dealbreaker with ONE exception. If you TALK or SOUND like you're from the hood or grew up in a trailer, you won't hear back from me. The WAY you talk says a lot about you. It doesn't matter to me if you DID grow up in a trailer or come from the hood. Just don't TALK like you did. It sounds uneducated, unfeminine and crude.

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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a yes or a no Posted: 1/3/2007 8:48:54 PM
For me it's all about getting along with someone. Girls who have a "I don't take no shit from anyone!" attitude are immediately blacklisted in my book no matter how hot they are. I have a lot of faults and I'm going to make mistakes. I want to be myself and not have to have to worry about walking around on egg shells every time I'm around a girl. If she sounds outgoing, social, easy to get along with, or is not easily angered or annoyed by little things, she just might get a message from me. Girls who are on the adventurous side (or at least desire to be) will usually get a message from me. OP I would definitely have messaged you had I been a few years younger and lived closer.

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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Do guys hold out? Posted: 12/31/2006 2:43:50 PM
He's gay or he has some kind of sexual intimacy problem...either way....

stonedalien

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POLYGYNY IN THE MORMON MOVEMENT Posted: 12/30/2006 1:27:02 PM
i can't believe any mormons didn't chime in on this. I'm not even a mormon , but I am from Utah and I can't believe all the false information I've seen in this thread. First...mormons don't even practice polygamy, they abandoned polygamy 150 years ago and having more than one wife will get you excommunicated from the mormon church. Strutter: Don't know where you're getting your information, but EVERYTHING you said was false. You must be reading some pretty heavy anti-mormon crap to believe that. This is not a post to debate religion or mormonism...but before people start posting something as fact...they should probably look into it little deeper.

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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Am I Over Reacting? Posted: 12/28/2006 8:52:35 PM
Yep...you're overreacting. If you were rude to tell me in telling me that you had a problem with it...I would probably have apologized nicely for it and never called you again. If you're going to overreact over something like that it would make me wonder if I"m going to have to walk on eggshells around you. Do you really think he MEANT to say the wrong name?

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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Am I shallow??? Posted: 12/28/2006 8:40:32 PM
I think it would be ok to tell him as long as you made CERTAIN that he knows it was appreciated! Guys really aren't the best when it comes to picking out jewelry...it's doubtful that he wanted you to have that particular piece of jewelry more than he wanted you to gush all over him for it. So tell him...but do something nice in return to show him that you appreciated it! Do something REALLY REALLY nice!

stonedalien

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being alone Posted: 12/27/2006 3:12:55 AM
I know more women than guys who are guilty of this, but probably because their children provide a sort of pseudo relationship . Personally, I don't see how anyone does it. I'm way too social a person. I thought it would be fun to live alone for a while, but I'm finding it increasingly boring and I find myself going out twice as often. Maybe I just need to find a girlfriend!

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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If you had a year to travel, where would you go? Why? Posted: 12/26/2006 8:17:00 PM
I'd do it all! I've been fortunate enough to have traveled around the world a few times, I went to over 40 different countries while I was in the Marine Corps. I'd love to go revisit all the places I've been. Especially Europe after the sweeping changes that have taken place over the last decade. One of my life's dreams is to find the right girl, buy a sail boat, and sail it around the world with her. One day it will happen.

stonedalien

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skydiving Posted: 12/26/2006 5:03:35 PM
I've been jumping for 15 years...I still need it like sex.

stonedalien

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Ready Posted: 12/26/2006 4:44:19 PM
It means that he's ready for a relationship..but not with you. OR...he just wanted to get in your pants...and now that he has... Sorry to be the one to break it to you.

stonedalien

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Buying you're way in or just respectful Posted: 12/26/2006 4:21:55 PM
He sounds like a "nice guy" and he's most definitely in love with you. I wouldn't go so far as to call it "buying your way in". But he IS looking for something more. He's acting on his male impulses to prove to you that he is a "provider". He's ALSO showing you that he's respectful by not "invading your space" $75 is actually not a lot of money to spend on someone you really like, but probably more than he should have spent if you haven't shown any reciprocal interest in him. If he's doing it a little too often, he must really be in love, but I don't think it's suspicious at all. I'd be careful not to take advantage of him, especially if you're not interested. l would tell him before he drains his bank account. Guys tend to get pretty stupid when they're in love.

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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Please help me with my profile! Posted: 12/25/2006 6:31:07 PM
What profile? There's nothing there! A profile is an ad selling YOU, not an application to date you. You need a couple of more pictures. Tell them what they're going to get when they date you. What's in it for them? What are you looking for? Keep it positive and if there's a negative that you feel is important for them to know...put a little humor in it. There's nothing wrong with your profile except for the fact that there's nothing in it!

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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help me???????????? Posted: 12/25/2006 9:04:23 AM
It has nothing to do with the fact that you have kids...it has to do with YOU. Think about who you're trying to sell when you write a profile...you or your kids? Everything about your profile says "RED F***ING FLAG!" You're still married and your forum posts are all about your problems, I just don't see even one positive aspect to dating you. I'm not saying you don't have any positive qualities...all I'm saying is they aren't in your profile. I know your kids are your life, but a guy isn't looking to date your kids. A guy already knows your kids are more important than he is, he doesn't need reminders. You have to tell him what's in it for him. Your profile is an advertisement about you. Yours if full of negatives.

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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seduction Posted: 12/24/2006 8:43:10 PM
Sure it's true that "SOME" men do that. But it's also true that men by nature are providers and want to do those things for someone they are attracted to. If I'm out on a date with a girl I really like and she innocently makes a comment that she wants something, my hand unconsciously reaches for my wallet. Just because a guy is paying some compliments and buying her things doesn't mean that his intentions are to get her in the sack. In fact I would go so far as to say that if my intentions were purely physical...I would be more inclined to do it as inexpensively as possible because it's a short term investment. It's more likely that a guy who buys things for a girl is subconsciously playing into his role as a provider. Of course that's not to say that there aren't men out there who don't mind blowing the extra cash to get in a girl's pants, but in my opinion...it would be much cheaper to buy a hooker than to pay someone's rent. You might have heard the saying..."it's cheaper to rent them than to buy them."

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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do men not feel the same sense of violation as women? Posted: 12/24/2006 7:45:00 PM
I really have NO clue whatsoever why it's different...it just is. I wouldn't feel violated...I would feel flattered...and of course if I woke up like that...I'd be feeling really, really good. Maybe a little embarrassed afterwards, but definitely not violated. I'm not trying to justify it at all...it's still wrong. Wish I had a better explanation.

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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Are Women More Critical Of Their Bodies...... Posted: 12/24/2006 3:26:52 PM
I can totally understand how women are so critical of their bodies, but far more attractive than a perfect body is a woman who exudes sexual confidence. Who wouldn't prefer a perfect body over a less than perfect one? But if you're talking about what REALLY revs my engines, it's when a woman turns the whole mystical feminine seductress thing on overload. A soft moan or whisper in my ear will send my engines into overdrive, and the last thing on my mind are your imperfections. I know a lot of girls with "less than perfect" bodies who I am completely turned on by because of the way the wear their femininity. If a woman is confident enough to take her clothes off in front of me without making any insecure comments about her body. THAT is a REAL turn on. But if she's going to point out her imperfections to me and look for validation that I'm ok with her body...I'm going to be thinking about what she just pointed out to me. Get it? I don't think I would have put it as crudely as "Hazy Vistas" but he actually did nail that one pretty good.

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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roaming hands Posted: 12/24/2006 2:35:44 PM
I think it's important for a woman to send clear signals about what's ok and what's not. It really CAN be confusing about what she wants and what she doesn't. If we've both shared a very deep passionate kiss in private...I'm naturally going to assume that the next step is to cop a little "feel", but if her body language isn't saying that loud and clear...I'm left wondering as to "when" it's ok. I always start out a little ways away and slowly work towards where I want to go. If I'm starting to get too close...I expect her hand to stop mine. For me, all it takes is once, (well ok...maybe twice if she's really, really hot) and I'll get the message long before I ever reach anywhere forbidden.

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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To tell or not to tell. Posted: 12/24/2006 2:19:32 PM
I'm surprised that so many guys don't care why. When I message someone, it's because I'm genuinely interested in them. A girl could not answer your email for any number of reasons. Maybe she's temporarily involved with someone she met and is deleting ALL the mail she got that week, or maybe she was just in a pissy mood....who knows. I've been known to message a girl I really like more than once if I'm really into her. And occasionally, I get a positive response back. I would especially like to know if the reason is something that I"m able to improve on. I think if a guy has taken the time to write you a well thought out message in a genuine attempt to get to know you, the only decent thing to do is give a short reply back stating why you're not interested. You can be brutally honest without being a ****. I'll respect you a lot more if you have the balls to put me down nicely instead of ignoring me. Of course...I don't think the canned one-liners saying "damn you're hot baby" deserve any response other than "read, deleted"

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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serial daters Posted: 12/24/2006 9:29:47 AM
I can't really explain why...I guess it's just in men's nature to be jealous. When I first started dating online...I felt threatened by all the responses girls get as opposed to guys. If she's attractive, she's probably got a dozen guys who have messaged her who are more attractive than you are, another dozen who are richer, another dozen who are funnier and she's probably talking to ALL of them at some point. There's NOTHING you can do about it! After realizing and accepting that fact...online dating suddenly became much easier for me. I just try and be myself and if she shows interest, great...if not...on to the next one. It should be the same for both sexes.

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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do you guys expect a kiss goodnight after a date? Posted: 12/24/2006 9:14:32 AM
I don't expect ANYTHING other than friendly conversation...I've been on many dates where we just didn't click and it just ended in a friendly hug or a handshake. It's ALL about the woman. She's either going to want the kiss (or more) or she doesn't. Pushing the issue is not going to help the guy's case AT ALL and will probably hurt it if you're too pushy. If she wants a kiss from me on the first date, she should be making her signals loud and clear because I won't even go in for the kiss unless I know for certain that I'm not going to be rejected...I would be completely embarrassed. Here's a good tip if you're not completely sure....just reach out and touch her hair. If she pulls away...she's definitely not ready...if she lets you play with her hair...she's probably feeling it and she won't back away from a kiss.

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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Dangerous Sports Posted: 12/24/2006 8:54:49 AM
interesting...I was expecting more answers like #2. That's actually kind of good to know BECAUSE it's such a big part of my life. But just so everyone doesn't get the wrong idea. It doesn't dominate my life, nor do I ever put the one I'm with on the back burner to satisfy my own desires. Erai...a "dropzone" is where you skydive...or more specifically, the landing area.

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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Why are you on POF? Posted: 12/24/2006 4:59:14 AM
I'd love to answer this question. I'm looking for a girlfriend. IF that leads to something else...we'll see what happens...but for right now...I'm looking for someone to hang out with who has like minded ideas about life or even someone who doesn't but does not mind tagging along to watch. I don't want to worry about finding a date for Saturday night. Someone to talk to before I go to bed. Someone to call when I've had a bad day or someone to think about when I'm in a good mood.

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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IS IT OKAY TO DATE BOTH GUYS? Posted: 12/23/2006 6:25:18 PM
I think men a jealous by nature. Men are very competitive when it comes to women and maybe they will have a problem with it. But that shouldn't stop you from seeing both of them until you've made a decision which one you like best. Just be honest and upfront with them. TELL them you're dating the friend too. But keep sex out of the equation until you've made a decision...that might cause friction between them. Make them work for it (but not too hard) you might enjoy the benefits of seeing who likes YOU more.

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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Dangerous Sports Posted: 12/23/2006 6:17:14 PM
I have a question for the girls. I do a lot of adrenaline based activities that could be construed as dangerous. I blast that all over my profile because I want to weed out the ones who are totally not ok with it. My real preference is to find someone who WANTS to do it with me. But, my question is...Is this a totally unattractive quality to have? Most girlfriends I've had in the past TELL me they're ok with it...but when it comes down to it...they get nervous and angry every time I spend a day at the dropzone. I'm very curious to know how women in general really feel about this.

stonedalien

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Mountain Climbers Posted: 12/21/2006 12:20:24 PM
Thank you perhaps199. You said it well.

stonedalien

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Mountain Climbers Posted: 12/20/2006 11:37:51 PM
wow...what a boring life you must lead! I wish there was some way to explain it to you, but there are some people who will just never get it. It's those people who you call dangerous and stupid that have risked their lives or even perhaps given it in the pursuit of LIVING life, not dying for it. Maybe you're forgetting that it's those people with the spirit of adventure that make things happen in this world. Have you ever driven a car or ridden in an airplane? Those were once activities that you would have referred to as dangerous or stupid. I'll also have you know, that those who are "professional" risk takers are among the safest people you'll ever meet. They wear their seat belts when driving, they check and recheck their gear ad nausea and they take every precaution possible to PREVENT the loss of life. If there was a death wish involved...there are far easier ways of accomplishing it. But aside from all that...if I die doing what I love, so be it...it has to be far better than living out the rest of my days in a nursing home having never truly experienced life. Sure there are parts of my life I'm not proud of...but one thing no one can ever say about me is that I didn't try to live my life to the fullest!

stonedalien

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How do men function?!! Posted: 12/20/2006 6:15:38 AM
I think you must be really sick...maybe you should go see a doctor. This is just perverted and unnatural. Shame on you.

stonedalien

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Dealing with a Lovers Little Obsession Posted: 12/19/2006 12:00:36 AM
I don't get it...what exactly do you have to deal with? Does it embarrass you? If so..it sounds like the problem is YOURS...not hers. If this is part of what brings her happiness...why would you have a problem with it? So what if it's a little childish. Maybe that's the point..she's remembering a small piece of her childhood that brought her joy. If I were you...I would embrace it and book your next vacation to Disney. It seems to me that she would be a relatively easy and inexpensive girl to shop for come Christmas. i would hold on to that one!

stonedalien

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living the expensive lifestlye. Posted: 12/16/2006 4:55:43 PM
Sounds like she's having a difficult time adjusting to the real world. I might cut her a break until I see that she has what it takes to make it on her own...but as of right now...it looks like she's on the road to ruin.

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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hair smelling Posted: 12/16/2006 4:40:01 PM
I don't know why that sounds perverted...it's really not...that's why they make perfumed hair products! But the answer is yes. I would say it's a pretty good indication that he's into you.

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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Do amazing blowjobs give you a different perspective / feeling for a woman? Posted: 12/16/2006 3:57:05 PM
No...it wouldn't make much of a difference in determining whether I loved her or not. Although that might be something I might love ABOUT her. Ashamedly, the best sex I've ever had was not with someone I was in love with. The fact that she was a freak in bed had nothing to do with my feelings for her. (of course that doesn't mean that I didn't enjoy the hell out of it!) However! Let me point out that although it's not a determining factor, it would definitely be high on my list of desirable attributes in a long term relationship!

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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Does it seem the older you get the faster the years go by? Posted: 12/14/2006 12:49:47 AM
You're only as old as the woman you feel. It's just an imagination of your figment.

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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Are there professions that make a woman more or less desirable to you men? Posted: 12/13/2006 1:40:38 AM
I wouldn't put this in the "high importance" category...but I definitely have preferences. Now before I start getting hate mail...let me preface this by saying that I in NO WAY condemning any women for doing what they want to do in life and I am all about women who want to make it in a man's world...I'll cheer them on all day if that's what they want. But you're asking if I found any professions more desirable or not. And yes...I definitely find women who do traditional men's jobs as less desirable. But that's only a preference...that doesn't mean that I won't support someone I love 100% if that's what they want to do. I don't think that makes me chauvinistic...just a personal preference as far as attractiveness. I spent 9 years in the Marine Corps. Granted...most of the women Marines that I knew liked girls just as much as I do...but I still never had a thing for even the straight, feminine, attractive ones. I preferred to date girls outside of the military because I thought of them as more feminine. Air Force chicks don't count. Love 'em.

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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why do men,well most of them? Posted: 12/13/2006 1:23:27 AM
I'm sure conditioning has something to do with it, but I think it's nature mostly. I came from a very good home where I was brought up right and we were never berated or belittled for crying...but as an adult...I think I've cried maybe three times that I can remember...twice over the deaths of someone close, and once (maybe twice) over my divorce of ten years. (that doesn't include happy tears) I "feel" just as strongly as anyone but I don't feel the need to cry to release any tension or pent up emotions. I guess I'm guilty of holding back tears sometimes...and I admit...maybe I'd feel somewhat embarrassed if I did cry...but I really don't think it has much to do with letting it all out. At least for me.

stonedalien

Joined: 9/2/2006

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When she won't do oral sex Posted: 12/12/2006 2:08:57 PM
I thought we were talking about good old fashioned BJ's...what is "kinky" about that? I only know a handful of people who have never got one or never given one.

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