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born2rescue

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NW-BURBS***Marengo/Union, IL. Halloween party with a great band to dance to on 10/31. Posted: 10/31/2009 2:04:36 PM
ya ray thanks for having us over ! hahahaha. hope i have a ride to your house lol

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NW-BURBS***Marengo/Union, IL. Halloween party with a great band to dance to on 10/31. Posted: 10/27/2009 4:47:31 PM
Ray must have a pretty big barn to cage all these drunken dressed up animals over night. lol I hope there is not allot of barn yard frolics going on lmao. OMG is that a real sheep? or someone dressed up? Thank god i never saw broken butt mountain but the banjo from deliverance is in my head. lmao

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NW-BURBS***Marengo/Union, IL. Halloween party with a great band to dance to on 10/31. Posted: 10/15/2009 12:38:23 PM
I will be there, I have a sense of humor. I may not be a knight in shining armor but am not a ***hole wrapped in tin foil either. haha

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NW-BURBS***Marengo/Union, IL. Halloween party with a great band to dance to on 10/31. Posted: 10/15/2009 12:35:50 AM
ok ok I just get a chance to view this thread once and while. hardley any girls coming and you guys are talking about broken back mountain? UMMM

born2rescue

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profile review please Posted: 10/14/2009 10:35:07 PM
thanks, I need to move to denver hahahahaa

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NW-BURBS***Marengo/Union, IL. Halloween party with a great band to dance to on 10/31. Posted: 10/14/2009 2:17:55 PM
I think we need more woman for this party. Come on peoples keep sending those invites lol

born2rescue

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profile review please Posted: 10/14/2009 12:49:08 PM
Is there something not right with this? lol Am I using the wrong bait? haha Wondering if some great people here would help me out fixing this, or is not fixable?

born2rescue

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NW-BURBS***Marengo/Union, IL. Halloween party with a great band to dance to on 10/31. Posted: 10/9/2009 3:34:20 PM
I found my costume. I am going to just put a potato in my pants and go as a " dictator" lol

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Halloween party with a great band to dance to on 10/31. Posted: 10/2/2009 2:40:30 PM
I just figured I would be hungry lol

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Halloween party with a great band to dance to on 10/31. Posted: 9/30/2009 8:36:22 PM
I dont drink and drive, Would like to stay, all member breakfast plans anyone?

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Halloween party with a great band to dance to on 10/31. Posted: 9/30/2009 8:31:52 PM
Wow, I think I just might come. Come on people give me a push lol

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A question to all the fish in the sea Posted: 9/26/2009 9:16:56 PM
Wow, these are some good replies. I myself have never walked away. I have the experience of being the dumped and the person vanished without a trace. I can start to see why some people just cut ties completely. Its either painful or they just plain dont give a hoot!

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A question to all the fish in the sea Posted: 9/25/2009 9:40:53 PM
that was a great answer luv thats what am looking for! the honest heart answer

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A question to all the fish in the sea Posted: 9/25/2009 8:59:50 PM
Its still broken heart issue to me. (guy or girl) Its about how people can break people hearts and not care or worry. Maybe its a sign of strength or weakness. Just curious

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A question to all the fish in the sea Posted: 9/25/2009 8:49:16 PM
how many of you and be honest have just walked away. As in walked away I mean had a meaningful relationship (decent) and after 3 or 4 months or longer just decided to walk away. I define decent as got along, no abuse, not many problems. Just decided that person was not right for you and high tailed it out of there. Did you consider feeling? Did you care what they felt? Did you ever return phone calls or wonder what there up too? This is for people who did the dumping. I will thank you for your honesty upfront?

born2rescue

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Hurt Again! Need Advice! Posted: 9/24/2009 8:01:12 PM
I forgot, I cannot judge anyone, you nor her. dont know either one of you but is she on medication? sounds a little flaky

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Hurt Again! Need Advice! Posted: 9/24/2009 7:59:38 PM
the way i see it is she has u like a yo yo. she throws u out, reals u in punches u in the face and does it again over and over. Then you ask why does it hurt? She says she hates u than tell u she misses you? Sounds like control. I dated a girl that told me i was stupid, piece of shit, and it made her sick that i touched her. the sound of my voice gave her a headache etc. All withen minutes after saying that she asked me if i still loved her? I am not positive but that could be on the edge of mental abuse. You cannot sit in limbo YOU have got to make a choice.

born2rescue

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EMO Posted: 9/22/2009 9:15:57 PM
some people cry with a drop of a hat. OMG my corn flakes are soggy waa waa. some people never shed a tear, they have no heart. I was a firefighter/medic for 15 years. I will give you this, I cried, i cried plenty of times. Every single relationship I have had after it was over I put my head down and cried. I let it out, call me weak if you will but i shed it. I am sorry about your marriage thats a long time. you made it 22 years to me that is wonderful thats alot of good times. but on your side thats alot of heartache to deal with.

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EMO Posted: 9/22/2009 8:59:33 PM
Strange thing, when my ex and I broke up I cried to be honest. Her words were " stop your fake $ss tears, suck it up and put your big boy britches on" It hurt that she didnt care i cried and till this day i dont feel any less of a man doing so. Man, Woman, child, tears come from pain its human nature

born2rescue

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What Should I do? Posted: 9/22/2009 5:05:41 PM
That would be tuff, its takes strong will and lots of love to forgive a person. Could u honestly be with her knowing she has been with somebody else in between? Thats TUFF!! U may have times when your with her your thinking negative thoughts, there is no more trust its broken. If u truly loved the girl then stay away or your heart and mind will be destroyed, u will not have time to heal. Dont leave the knife in your back, pull it out cut ties and take some time for yourself to heal

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Worst way of being cheated on????????????????? Posted: 9/21/2009 8:35:20 PM
The worst way for me anyway, to go pick up a computer I let my ex borrow and bringing it home. Only to find sex pictures of 3 somes with other men. I knew she was with somebody else but didnt know there were 9 of them lol. I can laugh now its been years.

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was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it? Posted: 9/20/2009 6:59:44 PM
revenge? hmmm I have thought long and hard about it. In my head I wanted it but in my heart i knew it was wrong. This after I was cheated on. I had all the stuff, email , cell phone login to track calls. credit card info, nakid pics and movies.paswords to myspace and etc. I really could of got even. Then reality set in. revenge will make u look stupid. They say revenge is best served cold, give it time and by the time you want to serve it cold u have already forgot about it and moved on. Its hard at first but it will get better. Tell her to stay strong and raise a good child.

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broken hearted-too all Posted: 9/19/2009 3:39:35 PM
thanks all for the comments. I am not sure about the last 2 relationships but i know the first u are correct. There was a rescuing involved there if u look in depth in it. The next 2 relationships i don't think i did much of that but i could be wrong, it takes a outsider looking in. I am very reserved person by nature i guess. I have been with those 3 in the last 15 years. maybe my experience or expectations were off, who knows I must say i did lose some trust for woman after that. After i rebuilt myself i knew i could not blame all the ladies for one's mistake or lies. I could not date someone when there were feelings of miss trust in my head. That is not fair to anybody involved. So i choose to be solo until those feelings dissipate. I try to go into a relationship with full trust and a clear head,if there is not trust u dont have jack crap anyway lol I have seen people get dumped after a few year relationship and be hurt, then be in a new relationship 1 week later. WOW i say how can u do that? I take as much time as i need to clear my head of that person. Then after that is done i take additional time for me and me alone.

born2rescue

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broken hearted-too all Posted: 9/18/2009 11:08:23 PM
You may be correct. I was a firefighter/medic for 15 years for chicago. I honestly could not take it anymore, this the name. I just got a job talking with teen agers and doing firefighting part time. so much relief. I just want people to know it will get better.

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broken hearted-too all Posted: 9/18/2009 9:58:13 PM
I have been around here for a while reading threads and making friends. I figure I would share my life with the broken heart experiences. There seems to be some nice fellows and some great woman with broken hearts, here is my tale. I went to high school with a girl and we got along great though never past friends. I left for the military and came home 2 years later and we got in touch again. She had a 6 month old son by now. That did not bother me and we dated. We ended up getting married and were together for 6 years. After we were married for 3 years she asked me to consider adopting her son because the father was never around nor did he meet his son. I said yes and the court battle and the adoption process went forward. 20 thousand I took out of my saving, retirement and inheritance to adopt this child. 3 years of going back and forth to court because his real father tried to fight it, we finally won. 2 days later I was served divorce papers with a letter inside. This letter said " thanks for adopting him, now u can pay child support, this was the only way. I never loved you I just needed someone to help me with my son." she was remarried the same day the divorce was final. Ok then busted heart number #1, that destroyed me. It took time lots of time. I did not go on a date for 2 years, and cried for many nights. Lost weight, motivation, and just the will to be happy. Fast forward 2 years from divorce. I met a girl from here, we got along great. We were together about a year when she got a new job as a waitress. 2 weeks into the job she meets a new friend, she cheats and tells me she met someone else and is going to move in with them. F&K Ok broken heart #2. That hurt like hell. I kept asking myself what the hell is going on? so again took some time off to re group and fix myself Last but not least the last one. I worked with a girl for a long time. Thought she was pretty and very sweet. We dated about 4 months and let me tell u it was wonderful! I thought she was the one, I know what your thinking. How can someone be the one in 4 months? Well you just get a feeling and you fall for them not to mention i knew her long before. We used to talk allot at work about relationships and just general fun stuff and when we started dating it was magic, we were like peas and carrots hahhaha. She was never married living with her dad and he was a really nice guy. She brought up us living together and finding a place. i agreed and we went looking. We found a place. The next day she calls, " I dont want to be with you anymore" I plead I tell her I love her and please stay. She hangs up and I try to call no answer. the next day I send about 5 text messages wanting to talk. She replies that night " I want nothing to do with you, when u send someone 5 text messages and they don't reply your a stalker" I tried to call a few day later and she had her number changed. Too this day I never knew why, but i do know that she is still single. Damn that one hurt the most of them all. I really loved this girl of what i knew of her or u could say " IN LOVE" ^&^%^* damn #3, well here i am folks another 6 month break the pain went away. Its like a scar, you see the open wound and it hurts bad. in time that wound heals but scar is faint and still can be found if you look real hard. I just wanted to give my 2 cents and say guys and girls, give yourself time to heal. If you dont u will keep that wound open. its very hard. I can say this from my heart to yours it feels like death sometimes. keep your chin up and that heart will mend. You will learn new things, even though your in pain right now it will pass with time and effort on your own behalf. Everybody who says keep yourself busy is in my book 100 percent correct.

born2rescue

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profile review please Posted: 9/2/2009 6:17:00 PM
ok i made the changes some people gave advise for, what you think?

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profile review please Posted: 9/2/2009 3:01:56 PM
ok, thankyou! I guess its time for a Dr Phil profile makeover lol

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profile review please Posted: 9/2/2009 2:40:23 PM
ok thank u very much

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profile review please Posted: 9/2/2009 2:13:12 PM
I would ask all you other fishes for your opinion. Does this profile come off as bitter? I would love any help that can be thrown this way . What else could i do to? more pics? do i need to not be so blunt and to the point?

born2rescue

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Picture this!!! Posted: 12/17/2007 10:53:32 AM
you would really have to trust that person with your life, a friend of mine was dating a guy who took pics of her. well they broke up and the pics went to her place of employment she worked at a high school needless to say she is no longer employed there. So just becareful

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is it ok for a guy to cry when he gets upset Posted: 12/17/2007 10:01:27 AM
its human nature guy or girl, if you want to cry then cry, sometimes it even makes you feel better

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past regret:you know now you should never have let them go. Posted: 12/14/2007 11:19:52 AM
life is too short to worry about regrets or what if's. you never know what the next day will bring and if you keep thinking about the past it wont open your mind to the future

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Does anyone ever consider a relationship successful....even though it didn't last forever? Posted: 12/14/2007 11:06:06 AM
I believe it all depends on the relationship, as i tend to look at things if they brought joy to you some way then yes it was successful. if they hurt you, you may have learned something or became bitter. as they say things are forever in the beginning but never in the end

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ill do my best Posted: 7/31/2007 5:15:52 PM
sounds like a fun time shall i join all of u?

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does anyone still write love letters? Posted: 12/15/2006 10:49:13 PM
like what? roses are red violets or blue , pay those bill there over due? haha

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does anyone still write love letters? Posted: 12/15/2006 10:30:30 PM
i think the people who give us the bills should give us a little love note in them maybe they will get paid more often

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Why are men such cowards??? Posted: 12/15/2006 10:28:51 PM
conflict is not good but alot of us dont run we just dont want to argue about it! lol

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Long Term Relationships and Marriage Posted: 3/15/2006 5:23:25 PM
did that been there will i do it again ? i have no clue its has to be right this time

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How long should someone hold on to a relationship Posted: 3/15/2006 5:20:45 PM
if u know that they dont love ya then spring them loose

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How many people can you offend just being yourself? Posted: 11/25/2005 4:33:27 PM
my reward would be like a christmas carol 1 case of crabs 2 genital warts 3 std"s and dr bill from hell lol

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How many people can you offend just being yourself? Posted: 11/25/2005 4:22:47 PM
i think i only offended one person and i was kinda mean she kept telling me how many people she has slept with and she was going to hit a 100 and asked me if i was interested and i told her it would be like throwing a hotdog down a hallway no thanks am a a&*

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If he will come to see me? Posted: 11/25/2005 4:17:32 PM
wow that topic opened my eyes are u fricken nuts?

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How many people can you offend just being yourself? Posted: 11/25/2005 4:06:25 PM
i can offend the store clerk when i put my m&ms on layaway

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why do nice guys end up alone Posted: 11/25/2005 4:02:19 PM
thats because all the nice girls want the bad boys then complain cause they get treated bad hehehe

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He says he's a virgin..... but i am not sure Posted: 11/14/2005 10:36:51 AM
well lol dat funny

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Are you Evil or been called evil? Posted: 11/14/2005 10:34:47 AM
yes i have been called evil cause of my eyes lol

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He says he's a virgin..... but i am not sure Posted: 11/14/2005 10:27:46 AM
if there ment to be it will all work out

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He says he's a virgin..... but i am not sure Posted: 11/14/2005 10:11:53 AM
well the general answer is this yes he could be lying but he may not be depends on age if he is good looking and if he truley is a virgin and proud of it or just wants people to believe he is special to get his rocks off hmm but to judge before u dont know the exact truth makes any one judgemental

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He says he's a virgin..... but i am not sure Posted: 11/14/2005 10:06:16 AM
your just to synical

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He says he's a virgin..... but i am not sure Posted: 11/14/2005 10:00:24 AM
i agree with u and a woman wont ever tell a man how many people they have slept with neither will a man lol

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