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freezebear4

Joined: 9/3/2006

Msg: 25 (view)

What is the biggest flaw you would overlook while dating? Posted: 5/26/2008 6:43:31 PM
except bad body odor . lets se e how many are turned on by bad hygiene??? any one want to tell me you are turned on by a smelly woman or man ????? I mean when you are on a date going to restaurant and jacket or clothes of man or woman stink . Isnt it just nauseating? Gosh what bad body odor I think . so then I try to go out with him again and this was in the winter on a cold day . Gosh imagine what does he smell like on a hot day or after a work out ? I have been with a man after sex and we both still smell great. I want my man to smell delicious. How about you guys ? Dont you like your woman to smell delicious ? GET BACK TO ME . MY USER NAME IS freezebear4 . Thanks

freezebear4

Joined: 9/3/2006

Msg: 24 (view)

What is the biggest flaw you would overlook while dating? Posted: 5/26/2008 6:36:21 PM
I have tryed to over look this before but it just doesnt work for me .maybe a smaller framed girl real small girls and small men should be together unless they dont care and can be sexually satisfyed with a small penis or rather large one 13 -14 inches that would hurt!

freezebear4

Joined: 9/3/2006

Msg: 257 (view)

Guy I met online keeps asking for money Posted: 5/26/2008 6:31:20 PM
I saw scams like this listed on Dr PHIL go to Dr Phil .com and they will tell you to check if his computer is in Nigeria . first of all he needs to be in jail . Dr Phil has gotten these people off the computer and into jail . I forgot what date the show was but if you email them they will tell you and maybe even send you a dvd or video of the show so you can protect your money and self from this man . Please dont take any money and dont send any . I heard of a girl trying to cash check andthe bank came back to her to get the money . and it was a fake scam . really and she fell in love with this guy . she was sending him money real money . and when he paid her back it was not a real check . she was going t o meet him at airport and he lied and never showed up . she kept believing his lies . they just want the money they wont ever come to america and never was here.

freezebear4

Joined: 9/3/2006

Msg: 9 (view)

Amish Cooking Posted: 4/16/2008 7:48:44 PM
They cook German foods Most their origins are from Germany . Alot cook Scandinavian dishes .But getting a good German cook book will help you .

freezebear4

Joined: 9/3/2006

Msg: 43 (view)

meeting men that are virgins at 38 and 51 and 53 Posted: 4/16/2008 7:35:08 PM
If there are men there must be woman virgins of all ages because I have already talked to 3 virgins one younger than I 38 and otheres wre51 and 53 . All 3 had never been married . Should I date a man that is an older virgin in his 50s? next question : what should I do when a man has bad odor? my email is dandgwh@srt.com if any one wants to comment or privately send me an email telling me how to deal with both problems . I have been sexually active most my life and love sex but I dont know if I can be with a virgin. also what do I SAY or should I buy deodorant for him and leave it in car maybe not say anything any suggestions . I like thedates but we are planning todate more and I cant stand his strong bad odor . He has to take more showers or wash his BO jacket also . How do I deal with this problem . thanks

freezebear4

Joined: 9/3/2006

Msg: 34 (view)

Men Who've Passed Their Expiration Date Posted: 4/6/2008 12:39:58 AM
Hi my problem is the guys are always saying I had my kids and raisedthemalready. So what am I supposd to do . I can chase after younger guys I guess . but I am almost 49 . I AM still attractive sexy and fun to be with I like gardening and watering the lawn but I m full of alot of life and fun . I am full of variety .I mean I like to keep busy with so many things I AM INTEESTED IN . hobbies sports kids family and having and nuturing a relationship and freindship /best of freinds hopefully more /marriage again asome day . some of my freinds tell me I look and act like I am 28-30 age . SO WHY not date all ages and see what happens . What do you think . my last was 31. and He and I had nothing in common our goals were so different.

freezebear4

Joined: 9/3/2006

Msg: 81 (view)

when do you stop chasing? Posted: 4/4/2008 9:59:24 PM
I dated once and the guy didnt call for a month he was still interested . and then every time he wanted to see me was just 2ce a month and not call inbetween and we married and was for 10 years . I thought it was weird until hesaid it takes him longer to fall in love . It took us 2 years before we had sex and became intamate kissed after 9 months . weird but we really got to know each other first before we were readyfor sex . and I thought he was not interested he was just waiting to get to really know me . even after 10 years I didnt know him .so never stop chasing if you love him and want him or he wants you never stop chasing . love can take a life time to form into thereal thing. but we are divorced now so what does that say we didnt know each other good enoughtostay together forever even though we loved each other.

freezebear4

Joined: 9/3/2006

Msg: 16 (view)

saying i love you too soon Posted: 12/1/2007 2:14:01 PM
the guy I was dating sayed Ilove you too soon . but he sayed it like i am falling inlove with you then hesayed I know I love you . it was 3 weeks intpo relationship about after the 10th date or seing each other he wanted to sleep with me he sayed it was aseriousrelationship for him andthats whthe thought it was in his head .he left after the 5th week I WAS crushed I thas been about2 months and I am still thinkingof him I have dated but it hurts when guys lye . by that time I did and had fallen in love with him . I really did but how can some one who loves you just get up andsay goodby for no reason. he always said it didnt matter if I worked or wasatay at home mom . he has money and now more because he has 2 jobs . well my 8 year old daughter isso sad she thoughtthe world of him and had so much fun with him . I just was what he wantd and all ofa sudden I was not . H e told me his parents respect and hisdaughter were moe important .I said how come we cant all be important in his life .he said we are through . I was so upset he couldnt handle a successful realtionship . I have been in a realationship similar in past with a man who was so successful but himself he didnt think he deserved all the success adn blessing that came to him he kept telling people this and he killed himself at 37 years young . I was devastated and now have to raise mine and his daughter alone.I wish guys wouldnt freak out especially ift here profile says they want long term and mariage . why keep contridicting themselves saying they want a certain realationship and not really wanting that kind of realtionship. so when a man says he does and then he doesnt he doesnt with you or I have learned he doesnt want me he wants something else or someone else and I was used until he decided wht he wanted .I dont like that being used until he figures what he really wnts one guy sayed weight didnt matter but it really did to him so I lost wieght and alot and he still left . now I am not an ugly girl I am not a barbie either . I used to be younger and I GUESS my wrinkles show it but still I am being hounded by young guys because they want a n older woman . I think they just fantasise being with one and then getting one they really want a younger girl . but sometimes they say no no thatis not true . well I WISH GUYS wouldnt play the games . they are always complaining about us its snowing here and im going to go outside now and make a snowman have a great day every one .

freezebear4

Joined: 9/3/2006

Msg: 744 (view)

Long hair on older women Posted: 11/25/2007 12:16:50 AM
I have started going gray well Iam thinking ofgoing saltandpepper until I AM ALL GRAY THEN DYE ITALL BLOND ITWILL LOOK BETTER BUT NOW WHEN I COLOR IT IT IS 3 COLORS . DO YOU AGREE IISHOULDGOSALT AND PEPPER ORCOLOR IT AND HIGHLIGHT ITLIKE I HAVE BEEN DOING .NOT INTHISPICTURE THOUGH .ITLOOKS GRAYAROUNDTHEFRONT TEMPLES I HATE IT AND I DOLOOK YOUNGER IF ICOLOR IRAT LEASTDO ROOT TREATMENT RIGHT IN FRONT WHEREITGETS ALL GRAY WHATDOYOU SUGGEST IM CONTACTING OTHE WOMAN RANDOMELY TOSEE WHATTHEYTHINK I AM 48 AND MANY MEN HAVE TOLD ME I LOOK 28 AND IN PERSON I AMSO MUCH PRETTIER THAN THATPICTURE AND USUALLY IUSE OLIVE OIL SPRAY FROM WALMART TO TAMETHE FRIZZIES THAT ISA HORRIBLEPICTUREOF ME.

freezebear4

Joined: 9/3/2006

Msg: 743 (view)

Long hair on older women Posted: 11/24/2007 11:45:31 PM
i wish mine would grow past my waist it strats getting looking bad after my shoulders . but i will keep trying togrow it and whatever legnth it gets to Iwill makes sure it stays healthy and alwayslooks healthy . wetting it sometimes makes itt hewet look and no onecan see if it gets frizzy or splitends so until i need a trim and i do it my self itdoesnt cost anything myhairlooks good pretty much mostofthe time good luck ladys on your hair andeverything else .getting old is hell know it is harderto look youngerand eat ing rightand drinkinglots ofwaterwill keep yourskinlookinggreat remember if youlivein cold areas like me i need to keep my skin dewy notdriedout when myhands getdryed I put oliveoil on my whole body and alittle on my ends and through my hair . tyr it you will see its only 3.45in walmart ladys it is aspray fo r yourhair but iuse it allover . anothersuggestion is emu oil alittle dabeach day you will see amiracle changing before your eyes yourlocal drugstroe will have emuoil in a littlebottle all you need is 1/2adrop foreach hand each cheek undr youreyes and onthe ends of your hair is great . goodluck ladys. I LOVE long hair on a guy so I CAN run my hands through his hair if its in good condition.

freezebear4

Joined: 9/3/2006

Msg: 742 (view)

Long hair on older women Posted: 11/24/2007 11:28:33 PM
I know a lady with beautiful white hair to her but her hair turned gray then shecoloredit whiteblond shewas blond sheis60and looks 30.shehasayounglookingface sheconditions her hair and washesitonly onceaweek itissosoft .I AM 48 andmy hairissoft I USE A generic brandofshampoo andconditioner to match withthemore expensivebrand NEXUSAND MATRIX IT WORKS THE SAME ON MY HAIR I use hotoil treatments oncea month and I COLOR IT A LIGHT BROWN WITH BLOND HIGHLIGHTS SO IT LOOKS SEXY AND THE COLOR IS HONEYBROWN Guys and gals sayitssoft and in great condition sometimes itgets fizzy I PUTOLIVEOILA COUPLE OF DROPS AND RUB IT INTOTHEHAIR AND KEeP BRUSHING 3X ADAY ATLEAST. i am 48and I have had guys tell me Ilook 28 . plus I DO put facial cream and vaseline on my body and take care of my skin drink lots of water and I AM far from perfect but when 25 year olds tell you you look hot and look 28-30 yearsold that does make me feel good. well ladys take care of your hairshort or long and especially your skin on yourface . protect it from the sun . I HAVE ALWAYS USED SUNSCREEN EVEN WHEN I WAS YOUNGER A CHILD ANDIN MY TEENS AND 2O'S . WELL GOODLUCK LADYS . IF YOURHAIR IS STRAGGLY ORTHINNING OUT GIVE IT A CUTTO SHOULDERS OR EVEN SHORTER THEN IT WILL LOOK HEALTHIER . i have seen some guys want long hair and they dont take careof it . it is too thin or the splitends its not lookinggood give it a good trim . you willlook better with it short i have tryed 2ce to cut my hair short it just makes me look fat . i didnt like it on me i looked like a man . and not feminene at all and why cant woman over 50 look sexy beactive and look great? IKNEW A 70 YEAROLDLADY SHE WAS SO HIP . SHE LOOKED LIKE SHE WAS 40 ANDAMAZING BEAUTIFUL LADY ANDYES SHEWAS SEXY BECAUSE SHE EXERCISED EVERY DAY AND KEPT IN SHAPE. SO IM GOINGTO KEEP IT UP TAKE CARE OF MY SKIN HAIR AND BODY EVERYDAY.

freezebear4

Joined: 9/3/2006

Msg: 40 (view)

Can a sex fling become the real thing? Posted: 11/19/2007 10:04:41 PM
yes nuture the relationship .both of you haveto nuture it and then it will become a freindship first usually if the2 want itto grow it will outside the bedroom also .

freezebear4

Joined: 9/3/2006

Msg: 34 (view)

When is the right time to sleep with a Man your getting to know, without him dumping you after? Posted: 11/19/2007 9:54:11 PM
some people take longer to getto know than 3 months but I have gottento know someone in 3 weeks once we talked and was togethr every single day all day

freezebear4

Joined: 9/3/2006

Msg: 33 (view)

When is the right time to sleep with a Man your getting to know, without him dumping you after? Posted: 11/19/2007 9:52:33 PM
WE waited 9 months but wewere just freinds notthinking of anything intamate so we werent really waiting .the freindhip turned into more then we became intamateafter9 months . we were married for 9 years. once I WAITED 0NE HOUR AFTER WE FIRST MET SAME DAY AND THE REALTIONSHIP LASTED 5 YEARS WEDID NOT BEREAK UP BECAUSE WE SLEPT TOGETHER ON FIRST DATE AND HE WASNT EVEN THE MOST ATTRACTIVE GUY . BUT WE DID FALL IN LOVE WITH EACH OTHER AFTER A COUPLE OR MONTHS BECAUSE WE BOTH WANTD A RELATIONSHIP TO FORM AND WE KEPT GOING OUT . SO AMAZINGLY IT LASTED AFTER I SLEPTWITH HIM AFTER ONE HOUR OF KNOWING HIM HA. IT WAS AWSOME . ANOTHER TIME I WAS FREINDS FIRST SLEPT WITH GUY AFTER 1 MONTH OFDATING . WELL IT NEVER PROGRESSED INTO ANYTHING OTHER THAN HE WAS MY HANDY MAN AROUND MY HOUSE AND W e had sex for fun once in awhile when ever we both felt like getting together for it never got into serious relationship with this guy. I T LASTED FOR 3YEARS . I am looking for freinds activity partners andalong trm relationship .eventually I WANT to be married forever

freezebear4

Joined: 9/3/2006

Msg: 32 (view)

When is the right time to sleep with a Man your getting to know, without him dumping you after? Posted: 11/19/2007 9:36:28 PM
This is the best post yet . Its the only way to catch a man or a woman and keep them forever .

freezebear4

Joined: 9/3/2006

Msg: 63 (view)

A Relationship Without Sexual Intercourse Posted: 11/12/2007 10:31:33 PM
my freind and I werefreinds for9 months before sex was introducedto the relationship . afterwards we had sex every day 2 times a day andit was the best sex i have ever had in my life . we have been married for 16 years and still going strong inthe bed room but not 2ce aday maybe 2caweek now . If we exercise and getinto better shape both of us wouldwantit more maybe and be able to doit moretimesaweek . a isenough now some days

freezebear4

Joined: 9/3/2006

Msg: 821 (view)

can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers? Posted: 6/19/2007 3:53:18 AM
NO smoking at all no smoking anything! no cigars no chewing gross! no smoking cigarettes of any kind and no smoking crack . smoking ciggareetes and pot they both causes lung and mouth throat cancer what good is potif it if it causes all that and lowsperm count if you want children one day or retarded or delayed children in spech or cause learning disabilities. it also causes you tolead to other drugs it is just a plain common sense that itis bad for you . more than good for you it should not be legal in any state even for medical reasons there are better drugs for pain that are much stronger to help pain and calm you down, its just palin dumb and you get dumber because it kills and slows down growth of brain cells and learning cant happen so that also means less concentration when driving and you might kill others than what good is it going to do if you end up injail or the hospital if you hurt yourself . Itsjustplain NO SENSE AT ALL!

freezebear4

Joined: 9/3/2006

Msg: 147 (view)

Are Christians the only ones going to Heaven??? Posted: 6/3/2007 5:04:19 PM
if and if youdont havearelationship with God when you are living it is private. you are right because itisjust apersonal private matter between you and God even when you die and you wont feel or be consious of anything anyhow when youaredead you ar dead if some want to hope they will be consious that we are going to paradise no one reallyknows untilwe get there . forthe hell thing God would never send any one there.

freezebear4

Joined: 9/3/2006

Msg: 146 (view)

Are Christians the only ones going to Heaven??? Posted: 6/3/2007 4:58:21 PM
I remember learning that Jesus sayed he was maried to his church he was the priest and his church was the bride that if thefollowers followed itwas to be his religion and theirs and thats how Ctholic religion cameto be. so I dont know about that Jeus' religion was catholic first it was he was a jew and grew up as that but when he found his religion and wanted followers to follow he sayed this is my Catechism. first it was paganism and then it was jewish religion then it was catholic religion when jesus came along . after all the translations first jewish then greek/latin then english its really hard to say what is the true religion what the true bible is . after the catholic religion then all the other religions camealong .

freezebear4

Joined: 9/3/2006

Msg: 145 (view)

Are Christians the only ones going to Heaven??? Posted: 6/3/2007 4:48:06 PM
God would never dam any one to betortured in hell .only satan dos that . he will punish but not torture some one hes a loving God and he might not let them into heaven but where do they go if there is no hell because the bible doesnt mention hell it says fire toture or other kinds of mean things the devil might do to a person but God would never punish so severe I dont think so.

freezebear4

Joined: 9/3/2006

Msg: 144 (view)

heaven and hell Posted: 6/3/2007 4:42:45 PM
would God really send a person to hell ? satan would torture you but God would not , he is a loving God and never would do such a thing I think he wont put you into heaven or into paradise as the scripture says no where does it really literallysay heaven orhell .not the first bible thetorah I am not jewish but that was the first bible . after that every thing cahnged in all theother bibles . Jewish scholars whohave written and researched say the New American Bible is the closest to theHebrew translation /it was translated into English .

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