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 Author Thread: Nonstop calling and texting
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Nonstop calling and texting
Posted: 10/6/2008 8:29:42 AM
Thats why I don't have a cell phone. When I had one everyone was always texting and calling me it wasn't just relationships but family and friends too. I never knew how people had the time to do that all day because it interferred with work and everything. I found it much better to just go without it and have the good ole land line and answering machine lol.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 175 (view)
 
When is it too old to still want children?
Posted: 10/6/2008 8:24:05 AM
My sister was in her 40's when she had her kids. She said it was great because she had her career and everything when she was younger. She said being more settled in life made her a better mother. She had all the time in the world to spend on her kids since everything else had been taken care of. She married a much younger man though and I think that had a lot to do with it.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 82 (view)
 
Wearing Lingerie for no reason but to feel great for yourself!
Posted: 6/17/2008 8:24:14 AM
I'm a lingerie lover myself. I have to say when I have a hard day at work I normally hit the mall for some satin and lace. I just love to buy the stuff just puts me in a whole better mood. I just feel better when I wear it. It makes you feel sexy and more attractive. I think it has been more for me then my ex boyfriends because I think they liked me in anything lol. Most guys like me in their shirt better then anything else. I always think it funny we spend hundreds on silk and lace yet his cotton button-down is the article of choice. I think lingerie is normally about you feeling sexy then anything else. When you feel good your more confident in the bedroom.

Color of Choice : Aqua Blue or Black
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 43 (view)
 
He Stood Me Up
Posted: 3/23/2008 12:38:26 PM
I wouldn't !!! He can't be all that into you if he can't put down what he's doing to a least call you. It only takes 5 seconds to call you up and say he can't do it today. Everyone has that much time only the president is to busy to call people. It just sounds like a lot of heartache over someone and its only the second date just imagine what will happen if you actually had a relationship with him. If he has no time then move on. I think if a guy really likes you he'll make the time for you.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 212 (view)
 
Would you leave the dating sites if you got in a serious relationship?
Posted: 3/19/2008 12:55:34 PM
Isn't that what we are here for to find someone? I love to be able to close my account and be done with online dating. I think thats the problem with online dating it becomes this quest for the perfect person. We let a lot of the good fish that didn't met up with what we wanted go. When in truth they might of been a great fish to date. I think sometime during your life you have to settle for "almost perfect" otherwise you'll be alone forever. I know this guy who been on hundreds of online dates. He said he had this addiction to online dating. He would meet a girl then that night another girl would write him and he lose interest in the one he just met. Because somehow she just didn't measure up to the next girl. He became addicted always thinking the next girl be better. He's online dating became this quest to find this perfect girl but in reality no one is perfect. I think you really need to stop looking for perfection this isn't online shopping where you can keep sending them back. Stay in focus why your here and the real reasons your here. Once I find that guy that really wants a relationship and makes an effort to have that. I won't think twice about leaving the ocean of fish for mine.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Why do somewoman cry after they have sex
Posted: 3/13/2008 8:30:46 AM
Its just the emotional release of your body. Its just like crying when your happy or sad. I noticed as I get older I cry on a drop of a dime. I think as we age tears get more tuned into our emotions then when we were younger...... you could just play it off as " wow its hot in here" maybe he'll think your just sweating lol or Say " that was amazing. I never cam that hard before. It brought me to tears" praise is always good for the male ego lol But really i wouldn't worry over it if he's really the right guy a little tear or two he won't go running for the hills.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 104 (view)
 
If relationships could revert to the 1950's era......
Posted: 3/10/2008 10:42:27 AM
I do think we do need to return to family life and core values. I think the world is getting out of hand. What happened to people sticking together and wanting to be with eachother. I think now days people tend to "if its not good why fix it when I can leave "or they marry knowing they can get out of it. Gender roles are so screwed up now we don't know how to be anymore. Least in the 1950's we knew what was wanted and expected now its just a ball of mess.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 283 (view)
 
Would u date at guy or marry guy who is in the military?
Posted: 3/10/2008 10:34:11 AM
When I love someone I'll follow them where ever they want to go. I think its so hard to find love sometimes it worth giving up a little here and there to be with him. Besides uniforms are hot. Who can say no to a guy that looks good in a uniform plus say " yes mam"? I know, I sure melt like butter and be happy about it.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 88 (view)
 
Sorry Hun, I'm Pregnant...
Posted: 3/4/2008 3:11:58 PM
Well I think it takes two to tangle. He was willing to take the chance otherwise he would of wore protection. Accidents happen it part of life a lot of babies are concieved while on the pill. Its not 100% proof by far. I had a friend that it made her more fertile instead of protecting against it. I don't understand why your so upset at your friend it was his choice not your to make. A baby is a gift no matter planned or unplanned its always meant to be.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Am I just jaded or are people falling in love with the first person they meet?
Posted: 1/17/2008 3:20:01 PM
I think you have to be open to love for it to happen to you. I think real love comes over time. What you feel when you first meet someone is just the "dream" of it all. After two years together and still going is love lol. People fall in love with the newest of it. Similar to when you get a new shirt and wear it all the time but after awhile you get tired of it. We get a new one. I think people confuse love with the romance or newness to a relationship. Love is something that doesn't die and is forever. I have to give everyone that can fall in love kudos for being open to love. Not closing themselves off because of bad experiences. Never be affraid to jump in and see what happens sometimes. Get lost in the moments that might lead to love.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 227 (view)
 
Why are women so hung up on a mans height?
Posted: 10/20/2007 4:42:59 PM
I don't know. I had a guy tell me I was to tall so he wouldn't date me. I'm only 5'8". So I think it goes both ways. People in general are why to picky, especially people online. They treat it like online shopping order not like they're real people with feelings.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 22 (view)
 
girlfriend hacks into boyfriends email account
Posted: 10/13/2007 7:22:47 PM
Well if that's true, it shouldn't matter. She must feel threatened otherwise she wouldn't feel she needs to look at his emails. If your dating everything should be open even your emails. You should be able to read hers and she should be able to read yours. It is a little underhanded how she went about it but if it makes her feel more secure, let her and she eventually will stop when she doesn't find anything important. She probably was burnt in the past by a guy cheating with girls online and holds some baguage there. Maybe best to just ask for eachothers email passwords and move on from it.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 37 (view)
 
I have a really messed up scenario I need help with a.s.a.p.?
Posted: 10/11/2007 6:00:19 PM
I think your cousin is probably telling you the truth. You know her a lot longer then you have know him. I think its wrong that you're on the guys' side over your own family. You barely know this guy and I don't think she would tell you that he's rotten unless he was. If your having doubts it normally means you see some truth in it otherwise you wouldn't be seeking out advice on it. Your questioning him just as you are questioning your cousin intention. I wouldn't throw off what your cousin is saying just because you don't want to hear the truth of it.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 69 (view)
 
Why women always want to know?
Posted: 10/5/2007 10:10:10 AM
They want to know if you have committment issues or not. Most guys go on dates thinking of it as a "date". When women go on a date we are thinking about the future and will it go anywhere. We are always looking for that "committment". No matter what a woman tells you, we are all looking for the "happy ever after". Knowing about past relationships tells us a little bit of what your there for and where it will go. Knowing you committed in the past to someone I guess tells us you might committ in the future. I guess we are looking for baguage or understanding of our past issues if you have dealt with them too. Even on the first date we are looking for the relationship so we are trying to find out as much as we can before we fall in love and get hurt.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 15 (view)
 
She broke my heart take her back or move on? Little help here.
Posted: 9/27/2007 10:04:57 AM
I think if you broke up in the past you had issues that couldn't be worked out. We tend to forget after time the problems in past relationships and only remember better times. When you start dating again you seem to start remembering why you broke up and actually you'll break up again. I think its always better to start fresh and new with someone new and move on from the past.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Girl interested in me who's almost legal age-
Posted: 9/27/2007 9:58:22 AM
If you really like eachother I don't think a few months of only being friends is that bad. I would wait unless you want to be "Bubba's new girlfriend" in jail.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Who is to blame if a woman accidentally gets pregnamt?
Posted: 9/4/2007 9:50:06 AM
hmm... your both to blame. If your having sex there's always that chance. Its sorta the chance you take when you have sex. You still can get pregnant on the pill ,using condoms even when you been "fixed" i know a few guys that still had some live ones. So it really is russian roulette maybe if you use all 3 your good :)
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 70 (view)
 
Horrible kisser = deal breaker????
Posted: 8/31/2007 7:55:52 PM
Yes, awful kisses means no chemistry to me. I hate the wet sloppy kiss. I need to melt a little bit when he kisses me otherwise its not really worth it, don't you think? A girl needs something to look forward to after putting up with all the BS of dating. A good kiss makes it sorta worth it all.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 15 (view)
 
OMG She knows where I live!
Posted: 8/15/2007 12:29:53 PM
For the most part if she has your phone number she can find out where you live. Nothing really a secret when your online dating. You can pretty much run a seach on someone's name or number and find out more then you ever wanted to know. So it probably doesn't really matter if she knows where you live or not. If she really wants to know she can find you lol When your dating its all about chances.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Arrange to meet someone and their a no show
Posted: 8/2/2007 7:25:19 PM
Happens to me all the time. It hard to find soemoen thats serious about meeting and the whole online dating thing. I don't way anyone would think to be so cruel yet it happens more time then I think a girl can take. it one thing to be rejected after meeting its another to not meet and be rejected. I'm very sorry that happened to you but just make the best of your time. I once had a guy not show at a winery and tasting. I just did it on my own. I had never been ther so i played tourist for the day. So even though he didn't show I still got to see the town and sites. So maybe check out other things around and have a back up plan if they don't show.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 75 (view)
 
Chivary vs. Equal Rights/Responsibility in today's PoF dating world.
Posted: 5/24/2007 11:00:29 AM
I think chivary will always win out over equal rights. I rather have a guy treat me with respect and like a woman then one of the guys. Who wants equal rights?
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Why Can't I find the Right Guy for me?!
Posted: 5/21/2007 4:35:08 PM
When I lived in the city the best guys were always at the dog park, sport events or gym :). The bar is just a meat market with nothing to offer but meat. lol
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 76 (view)
 
Why so many women take this so serious... LOL??
Posted: 5/20/2007 7:46:17 AM
I think its because its a dating site. We're here to date and why waste time talking to people you have no interest it. Why waste someone's time when they could be out there finding the person they are suppose to be with? If your not seriously looking for someone then why are you here? Join a chat room if you want to just talk.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 61 (view)
 
Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 5/19/2007 7:58:58 PM
I don't think it probably really matters to a guy either way. I just know when I have lingerie on the "Jezabel" comes out . Sexual confidence is hard to come by when your naked. Lingerie just gives you that confidence. It covers up some off those undesirible spots and enhance the good one :) It's a win, win situation. Bring on satin and lace any day
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Size really does matter?
Posted: 5/18/2007 12:41:07 PM
What makes me feel secure in a relationship is if he emotionally available. I get insecure when I have to do a lot of guessing. I like someone that's honest and straight forward. I need space where I don't feel smothered but enough relationship time together that I feel wanted and loved. I think you really need to trust eachother. That is what security really is and it hard to find that bond. I don't think pocketbook matters so much when your giving and getting what you want out of a relationship. When your not happy is when you start bringing things in to make yourself happy. It nice when you have extra money to do things but I take a guy making out on the couch with me over a fancy dinner and nice clothes anyday.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Engagement rings...down under at least...
Posted: 5/18/2007 12:29:05 PM
I think if you don't marry the person you should give back the ring its only fair. It's a token of intent if your not keeping your promise then why wouldn't you give it back? But if it was giving as a gift such as a birthday gift or christmas then I think it would be her's to keep. Because gifts were exchanged or if you had been married you should be able to keep it. That's just my 2 cents
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 55 (view)
 
Dating a women your not physically attracted to
Posted: 5/18/2007 11:19:24 AM
I think you can grow to love someone sometimes attraction is over time. People are to quick to think that fireworks happen at first site. Lasting friendship and a change in mind set sometimes is the answer. Forget what your friends are saying or your views that a girl should be a trophey. Are you on the same page on life? do you want the same things? then maybe you have a relationship that over time will be a strong one. Attraction is only skin deep sometimes whats beneath the skin is what really matters in life. By the way, everyone look the same in the dark
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 156 (view)
 
Are you willing to relocate for LOVE? How far would you go for LOVE?
Posted: 5/18/2007 10:47:58 AM
I would move in the US for love. I mean love only comes around once in awhile. If it was the right person and I really thought we would really work. Why wouldn't you? I'm not sure if I move out of the US then you have to deal with a very different way of life and other factors. I think you have to find what is realistic to you. If you move your putting a lot of your life in their hands. They'll have to be your only friend and family for awhile. I think they need to be willing to be that and do that.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 190 (view)
 
men in uniforms
Posted: 5/17/2007 7:25:34 AM
Danii, I have the same problem a guy in uniform I melt like butter. A suit of any sort so makes a man no matter who he is. Put a nice fitting suit on and I'm ready to rip it off lol Every girl likes an officer and a gentleman thats the attraction. We are all taught at a early age how a knight will save us one day. We can't help it, its imbreeded.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 15 (view)
 
POF Outing!! Backpacking anyone?
Posted: 3/24/2007 5:52:07 PM
I hike ludington all the time. Sounds like fun. Let me know. I'll come along on the local hikes. Isle Royale is a little far away for me but I like to go local and it be fun to have people to hike with. So if you wouldn't mind just an extra local hiker I be willing to join for a hike here and there.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 93 (view)
 
Do we have a right to know of our partners past or not?
Posted: 3/10/2007 7:08:43 PM
I think its best to get everything put in the open. I think if you know eachother's past it helps you understand their actions of today. Helps you work together to work through past baguage.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Do all Michigan Women hibernate in the winter ?
Posted: 3/4/2007 5:51:10 PM
Its way to cold for nothing but cuddling inside lol
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 45 (view)
 
people without pics
Posted: 3/3/2007 10:25:42 AM
Yeah, no picture you have something to hide. But I don't think having a picture guarantees your going to be attracted to that person in "real life" either. Picture or not its still a game of chance. That why I never get why guys ask for more pictures. Like five on my profile isn't enough. I do get annoyed with the whole webcam and "I want more pictures" like I'm just some piece of meat and knowing anything about me is the last thing on their minds. I think that why online relationships don't work. People are to concerned on the physical and not if that person has a personality that matches mine. Yeah I want to know who I'm talking to but I think when you need 20 pictures or have to be displayed on webcam to prove your who you are thats a problem to.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 18 (view)
 
cut off age for night clubs
Posted: 3/2/2007 8:50:33 PM
I think anyone over 30 is to old for a dance club. Clubs are for when your in college and having fun exploring life. You should be more grounded by time your in your 30's and done sowing your oats. I don't think 29 is to old but you are pushing it. My opinion anyone going to dance clubs is trying to hold on to their youth and that just sad. They all need to grow up and smell the roses. Nothing sadder then seeing a 50 year old guy trying to dance at the bar with 20 year olds. Every girl is saying to herself "god he's old. what's he doing here" There's a time in your life you just need to grow up.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 99 (view)
 
what do woman consider average weight?
Posted: 3/2/2007 8:42:18 PM
Everyone sees themselves better then what they are. We all have an image of what we are and what we look like. Most people in the world think they are good looking. When they look in the mirror they see what they want to see. Just because you don't see that doesn't make you wrong or right or them wrong or right. Your question will never have an answer because everyone sees themselves differently and will have a different answer. I think if weight is an issue for you probably online dating isn't a good place to find your dream girl. Weight is to open and depends on the person's body type. What is good for one is to big for another.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 98 (view)
 
what do woman consider average weight?
Posted: 3/2/2007 8:42:07 PM
Everyone sees themselves better then what they are. We all have an image of what we are and what we look like. Most people in the world think they are good looking. When they look in the mirror they see what they want to see. Just because you don't see that doesn't make you wrong or right or them wrong or right. Your question will never have an answer because everyone sees themselves differently and will have a different answer. I think if weight is an issue for you probably online dating isn't a good place to find your dream girl. Weight is to open and depends on the person's body type. What is good for one is to big for another.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 97 (view)
 
what do woman consider average weight?
Posted: 3/2/2007 8:42:02 PM
Everyone sees themselves better then what they are. We all have an image of what we are and what we look like. Most people in the world think they are good looking. When they look in the mirror they see what they want to see. Just because you don't see that doesn't make you wrong or right or them wrong or right. Your question will never have an answer because everyone sees themselves differently and will have a different answer. I think if weight is an issue for you probably online dating isn't a good place to find your dream girl. Weight is to open and depends on the person's body type. What is good for one is to big for another.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 109 (view)
 
Can you have amazing chemistry with someone you have never met?
Posted: 3/2/2007 8:31:36 PM
I don't think so. I think its probably all in your head. Your in love with a fantasy. Everything dies once you meet and you have to start at rock bottom again. I met guys that I thought I had a real connection with but in the end after meeting their was nothing there in person. Do I think you can? maybe be its a slim chance that it will work out in "real life". Everything changes once you meet in person. Its best to not over think the situation or make it into a love affair. You'll only get hurt in the process. My advice is to always meet fairly quickly so you don't get to attached and try to think of it as a blind date. Romantic soul mates are a nice thought but rarely they are. I believe the longer you wait to met the more hurt you can get if rejected and its best to protect your heart from the evil male. Not to say there isn't a person out there for you but most the time you have to weed out a lot of the ones that aren't.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 60 (view)
 
Pulling Hair
Posted: 2/20/2007 4:41:58 PM
I hate my hair pulled! its the biggest turn off if a guy pulls my hair. I had a date that all night he thought it was funny to hear me scream when it pulled my hair. I think it's stupid and immature not a turn on at all.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 35 (view)
 
What do you girls like us guys to call you?
Posted: 2/15/2007 4:05:00 PM
I like it when guys call me pet names. I think it somewhat different especially if they have a special one just for you. I think it depends on the guy though. But a guy use to call me kitten and I always thought it was cute. Sweetheart or honey is ok with me too. I never really cared for baby or dear. I always found "dear" somewhat negative sounding. I not sure why I feel that way but it never felt like a good pet name. It right up there with mam. But for the most part I think your name is the best. It is your name :)
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 109 (view)
 
Would You Respond To Someone Who Doesn't Have A Photo?
Posted: 2/15/2007 5:56:39 AM
I would correspond but I feel after a couple weeks you really should have a picture. You have to have a little physical attraction to someone. I like to think i'm all about personality but I know chemistry does matter a little bit. I wouldn't meet anyone unless I knew what they looked like. I just think you should have a picture and a full name when meeting anyone from online. Just for safety if nothing else. I once had a really bad experience with someone online that didn't give me a photo or full his name. I met him anyways at a coffee shop. Never again will I not have that sort of information. But I'm a girl it might be different for a man.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Is pregnancy a good reason to get married?
Posted: 2/11/2007 11:08:50 AM
Well if he's sleeping with her he got to like her on some level. I think sometimes marriage does work when you have common goals and values. I think he doing the right thing and you should be supporting him in his decission if this is what he wishes. I don't think you should fight with your friends. Its his decission to make and you should just be his ear. Your views on the matter shouldn't sway him to your side of it or any side. When you have sex with someone you have to be willing to take whatever comes from it and thats always something that might come of it. And he knew that in the beginning.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 12 (view)
 
What is your idea of the perfect person of the opposite gender?
Posted: 2/8/2007 5:07:14 PM
perfect guy for me lol

1. Communication, someone that is open and able to talk about things. Someone able to hash stuff out instead of phrases like “I don’t know" or "what I’m I suppose to say”. I don’t care say something though lol

2.Honesty and Loyalty, I want to be able to trust someone. Someone that will tell me like it is and won’t lie. I rather know then get hurt in the end by it.

3.Time and Affection, I like to actually date and have a relationship. I don’t think I’m needy but I do like attention. I like sex but I believe making out, kissing and talking is the key to real partnership.

4.Make a decision and stick with it, I hate when I have to always make the decisions of what we do or where we go. I want to do things you want to do as well as stuff I like to do. Along with issues like if you want to date, marriage, kids….. Either you want it or you don’t. I hate when a guy changes his mind all the time.

5.Romantic and Spontaneous, I like to be romantic and I would like someone that once in awhile can spring something nice on me too. I like someone that can love me as such as I can love them.

6.Sense of humor, someone that can be goofy and doesn’t mind putting up with me being so. Someone that likes to laugh and not be serious all the time.

7.Chemistry, I need to think he's hot. Doesn't have to be the all american guy but has to have that something that makes me melt.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 772 (view)
 
what is everyones opin on tattoos?
Posted: 2/3/2007 6:41:25 PM
I think one or two is ok on a guy. Depends on what it is and where. I guess, I do think they are a little sexy on guy. I had an ex that had a tiger on his back shoulder blade. I always thought it was cool. I think women it depends on where it is and what it is too. I think they can make a woman look a little cheap or white trashy. I worked with a girl at the office that had one covering her leg. Just didn't look right in a business suit.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 195 (view)
 
Cross your legs until he cancels his POF account#2!
Posted: 2/3/2007 6:26:43 PM
What does it matter. I dated a guy for two years and was living with him. We hadn't met online so I never thought he be online dating. One day i went on his computer and he had ads on 3 dating sites. So it doesnt matter so he cancels it whos to know what he doing. Guys want there cake and eat it too. More and more I date the less I think dating is worth it.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 72 (view)
 
Is it possible for a poor guy to beat a rich guy in the quest for love?
Posted: 2/2/2007 4:27:17 PM
I don't see why money matters when all a girl really wants is your time and attention. Yeah gifts are nice I can't say I turn them down but for the most part if your really there. I take that over anything in the world. A guy actually committed to making things work. One that calls every night to tuck you in and doesn't mind when you have a little emotional outbreak.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 161 (view)
 
Will you give up the personals if you find one that sticks??
Posted: 2/2/2007 4:02:28 PM
I give up pretty much everything to fidn that special someone. Wouldn't everyone who want to go from one to the next. When you can have someone to come home to every night.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 15 (view)
 
ladies i cant be that bad looking can I
Posted: 2/2/2007 9:42:31 AM
I know the feeling alone forever. I never can seem to keep a guy around either. Teh always seem to walk out the door. I feel like giving up also. But I still beleive there has to be one out there that will stick it out. So don't give up especially at 20 you still have a lot of years to date and find someone. Just have fun a girl will come along.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 35 (view)
 
mmmm little problem
Posted: 2/2/2007 8:58:49 AM
I think if he didn't want you in the first place why are you staying around. There was something about you that he didn't want to be with and he blew you off. I wouldn't give him the light of day. You'll just end up hurt again. He using you as his free counsling session because he's feeling bad. Sounds like he has mental problems on top of it. Tell him well if you feel like killing yourself maybe you should check yourself into the hospital. Medical professional are the only people that can really help him. I think you need to step back from it. Give him a number to people that can help him and find yourself someone that deserves you. It is no good being with a man that isn't in it for the long haul. Who needs that emotional upheaval.
 sweetdaisy75
Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 246 (view)
 
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 2/2/2007 8:35:40 AM
I would say better I'm more selfish about my needs and wants now then I was in my 20's. I was more concerned with them back then. Now I want to get something out of it and have it mean something.
 
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