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Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Name the number one thing keeping you single.. Posted: 2/9/2009 2:53:03 PM
#1...Cause I simply CAN'T be bothered...Been there..Done It...I am surrounded by enough different types of LUV to make up for a relationship that I don't want or need..

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Have you ever met any famous people ??? Posted: 2/9/2009 11:51:14 AM
Met & got kisses from Henry Winkler..YEP..."The FONZ"...also ..Met Jim Cutty of Blue Rodeo and was given a kiss on the hand, by the lead singer of "Trooper"

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Time to Say Quits Posted: 9/11/2008 11:43:02 AM
abc6587.. , but I did not flirt with him... would you be flirting or talking sexually daily with someone who is working on cutting his ties with you and healing the cut? Think about it... Umm..i don't believe i said anything in my post about "flirting ot talking sexually DAILY with someone" What i did say was.. "there are times when the conversations drift into sexual content...but i am firm (gentle reminders to him) and he respects that" MAYBE what i should have wrote, in my orginal post was.."(gentle reminders that flirting is inappropriate,given that we are NOT in a relationship") instead?? as that is what i meant & what i say to him. BTW..Every sexual induendo that has been made has been intiated by him & usually after he has had a few. Also the nature of my relationship lasted close to 5 years.So my healing process, and your concern about me "fooling myself" are not in question here, obviously for me..it will take more time to get back in the saddle ,so to speak. But thats OK..I am certainly not living like a nun..I am just at a point where I haven't healed completely ...It's ALL Good!! I respect myself for the decision i made to sever the relationship, take some time away to regroup and work towards keeping a friendship, that meant alot to both of US!!.I have no regrets.. I had aslo mentioned that my "advice would not work for everybody" BUT it has for me & as Animalia had stated above^^ "Go on Be Strong & be one with youself" I HAVE & I AM.. Thx for your concern.. I

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Time to Say Quits Posted: 9/11/2008 5:29:45 AM
Actualizing: Boy~o~Boy...can i identify with you..it's been ..hmmm...about 5 years of and off & on, Best Friend relationship for me.I knew, at the time that our expectations into what a "Commitment" entailed, were somewhat different..but i plowed along...believing that time would change that.... I was SOOO wrong!!! If i could do it over, i would have followed my heart from the first gut~instinct, and the first "talk "we had pertaining to our "RELATIONSHIP"status...We were on 2 totally different pages!!! It has been one of the hardest things I have had to overcome, as far as "Personal~Healing" goes. This man meant the world to me!! Best Friend..Soul mate (the closest..i have ever come to)& Lover. But his needs and wants were much different than mine...and at the risk of loosing all my self~dignity & self~respect..I cut off the "TYPE" of relationship that it was. I didn't leave him hanging but rather we discussed maturely the reasons why we needed to end the relationship. The long & short of it is..I fell in Love!! He didn't.. I distanced myself for 6 months... no contact. This hurt like HELL!! I was grieving. BUT after that time away..when we did connect again it was on a friendship basis ONLY. I try not to be in situations where it's only me & him ,alone.And to tell you the truth,its been months since i have actually seen him. We now talk everyday via MSN..are the Bestest of friends & YES there are times when the conversation tends to drift into sexual content..but i am firm (gentle reminders to him) and he respects that.We both did not want to lose the friendship that we have built & it is working !! Downside??...YES!!..I still love this man...and compare him constantly to others who have shown an interest in me.I can't physically be intimate with another, as it's just not HIM!! BUT..I would never go back to having only half ~the~cake!! It has taken alot of self~discipline & many tears, but it can be done!! I wish you all the BESTEST with this..i know its a hard one..gurl..especially when BOTH people are hurting..it can be sooo easy to fall back into the pattern again. I would suggest MOST definitely a no see/talk time~out..(for me..it was 6 months) Then ease back in and test the waters of friendship. This advice will obviously not work for everybody, some are better off saying goodbye and moving on. But for myself, the strong base of the friendship, on both our parts, was something we both valued, above all!! Never regret anything that made you smile* Take Care..

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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How do you describe this behavior? Posted: 9/2/2008 9:22:26 AM
I believe Hugsnhisses and cat22 ..summed it up the best..A lil humour while confronting your brother and watching/listening to the response.( to evlauate what you think of is NORMAL behaviour)...becoming your nephews confidante and gaining a better perspective, from his point of view. But most importantly ..Keeping your mind aware of ALL posssibilities, and investigating.Your intuition told you something was STRANGE about your Brothers behaviour..You need to act on that, as as previously mentioned..who could know better..than his twin??*I wish you ALL the very best in this..Let us know how you make out..

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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They Say It Is A Mans World, How Can It Be When The Likes Of This Happens? Posted: 8/28/2008 9:10:26 AM
***NOW..NOW !!!7733...It CAN'T always be about YOU & your FUN!!...

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Do people REALLY change? Posted: 8/28/2008 8:17:44 AM
I am a firm believer in 2nd chances..ONLY & ONLY>>when the effort is put forth, to make the necessary changes..In this case..Your EX has matured enough to finish his education and is now in a more stable job enviroment, AND he is seeking professional help for his anger issues. What I would be concerned & be questioning myself about is.. Has he REALLY dealt with the emontional side of his 2 year "Serious relationship" break~up? Just seems like he might be moving along a lil too quickly? I would agree to hanging out, or dating him and taking it slowly from there..no need to jump onto serious ground, just be cool, and play it out, easy... listen and watch for the RED flags that destroyed your relationship ,in the first place. Only YOU will know if this is something you wish to again ,persue. "Tread...but tread VERY SLOWLY"!! Good Luck..let us know how you make out!!

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Do I tell a family friend that our spouses have been having an affair right under our noses? Posted: 8/28/2008 6:17:32 AM
I am REALLYshaking my head on this one!! I mean ..it just seems as the post goes on thru 2 pages..that the OP is quickly jumping to all kinds of excuses..for the behaviour of his friend and wife. I don't understand!! DUDE, your wife is having a fK ~Fest right in front of you..in your home no less as previously stated,she is having the thrill of her life, with your stamped approval on it, as you seem to be unwilling to take the BULL(so to speak) by the horns. The wife..of your so called friend, DEFINITELY deserves to know, she will be able to DEAL, but by keeping this info silent from her, your doing her NO favours!! Do it as you see fit, letters, emails, visiting her, with another mutual friend have all been suggested, and they are all GREAT suggestions. Pick one & follow thru...( i would NOT however choose a public space for this kind of news) Why, WHY , why???? have you posted a profile to read Looking for "Intimate Encounters"??(seriously??) also you mention you are separated?? Your NOT separated, you are still residing in the same house as your wife, and emotionally you still are VERY much actively involved (5 stages along in he grieving process, or not). If you were to hook up with someone on here, or anyone in general and carry out a sexual tryist with them, it would make YOU..just as guilty as your wife!!..GAWD!! & then you have the odacity to mention your illing son, as well?? WELL, may I ask ?? what kind of moral standards are Mommy & Daddy setting IF both of you were DOING someone eles?? What kind of atmosphere is an ill child living in, at that point?? Do US & yourself a BIG favour, OK?? Change your setting to friends or chat?? as you will not be taken very seriously if you don't!! Two wrongs..my friends..does NOT equal a right!! I also would be making it CRYSTAL clear to your wife, that she has 3 months to find a job and seek out a new residence, put the wheels of separation, thru a lawyer, into motion and freeze all assets, bank accounts etc until these matters are figured out LEGALLY!! STAY away from the alcohol during this point as if you do explode with alcohol under your belt, it will better equip her with ammunition during a divorce settling!! In other words..Get your SHITE together!!! **Good Luck!!

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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They Say It Is A Mans World, How Can It Be When The Likes Of This Happens? Posted: 8/26/2008 2:48:37 PM
***GREAT words advice from posters:desert88(mess#26) Bob2013(mess#32)& Carolanne(mess#34) I agree whole heartedly with the words of advice from these posters..seems to me Shrek ,you are in a state of alcoholic denial..about the alcohol itself, your consumption, and your drama filled relationionship with Sharon. You need to Step~Up~to~the~plate and do some HEAVY duty soul searching, my friend.ONLY YOU..a "CONTROLLED YOU", can make the necessary changes towards a happier/healthier life.When you start feeling better about yourself, you maybe able to see your way clearer..and realize that other's are USING you..Stay in councelling..go to AA meetings, and eventually you'll be better empowered. "Never go back" when you end a relationship due numerous trust issues, (as you have on "numberous" occasions with this woman)She is using you as her doormat...BUT..YOU are allowing it!! Good Luck & Please follow thru with the steps you need, to pick a better road ahead!!

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Left to talk to another girl Posted: 8/11/2008 6:27:38 AM
As one poster had mentioned..the best way..i believe you should handle this is...IF there is a NEXT time..and he calls...to ask you to accompany him on some outing..ASK him, STRAIGHT~UP..on the phone.."Is this as FRIENDS?..or Is this a DATE?"...that way you both will know how to conduct the meeting. There are different protocols reguarding friends, or group dates..as in comparison to a REAL, romantic~type of date. I don't think you have the right to be angry with him over the last meeting,as you both took your own cars & met up along with other group members.I do however understand how it must have hurt. COMMUNICATION..is KEY .. Good Luck!!..

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Third date bombshell Posted: 8/7/2008 4:15:02 AM
I figure if this is the way he deals with Stess, reguarding his family..then it would be safe to say, he would revert to alcohol anytime a "STESSOR" reared its UGLY head. Just mine .99 cents worth, as i have been there and experienced that.I usually am able to somewhat get a "FEEL "for the way a man handles his Lady, by watching the interaction between him & his Mom & Sisters. I would seriously be rethinking about getting involved with this man..Good Luck...Hope this helped!!..

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Odd Little Things The Opposite Sex Does You Find Sexy or Attracts You Posted: 7/23/2008 5:31:08 PM
His Walk.. His Laughter.. His Hands.. His Boyishness.. His Scent.. His Empathy.. His Humor.. His Mouth.. **His Touch... I'm DOOMED!!...

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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I cant seem to let go of my cheating wife..Y?? Posted: 7/23/2008 8:20:07 AM
COUNSELLING!! is a must!!You are a victim..your children are victims..You are thier Daddy tho and YOU need to be OK for YOU to be ok with them & for them..I am sorry...but i disagree about the AGE thing...it makes a BIG difference as far as LIFE experience goes..Your wife is BRANCHING out...because of her LACK of experience.I just feel VERY badly for YOU & your 's.. Get some professional input into this..KNOW and UNDERSTAND...why you feel the need to go back to her..EMPOWER yourself...so you can help your babies get thru this & yourself..so that you don't make the same mistake...AGAIN..My heart goes out to ALL of you...CHIN~UP..

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Me Being Unfair or Him..... Posted: 7/22/2008 4:12:13 AM
My input?? IF you don't feel this meeting is within your "Comfy~Zone" then DO NOT do it!! Always listen to your gut instincts..And if this guy can not handle that..then time to be straight up with him and let him know that he is creeping you out!! This is pressure for you to do something that obviously ..YOU feel is not an additive that you need in your space right now, he should respect that..I think you need to have a talk with him and let him know that You've appreciated all the support he has given you BUT that he is making you feel uncomfortable pushing this meeting. IF he was meant to be more than a friend ..he will wait... Good Luck

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Past Relationships affecting future relationships . Posted: 7/19/2008 5:11:10 PM
Well -- if past events in life didn't affect future behavour -- wouldn't that be rather dumb...?. One has experiences -- one learns from those experiences --- one acts differently and hopefully in more effective ways... To do the same thing over and over while expecting different outcomes is the classic definition of insanity.. ** I agree 110%..if an INDIVIDUAL has grown..and is looking for a Long Term Relationship..then they should have already dealt with (like a mature..growing adult) past, negative experiences. I don't carry my baggage around..it's Safe.and neatly packed away in my Heart~Vault..BUT I do watch, listen.& will bolt when i see tell~tale signs of certain behaviors.For the most part..I have dealt with and come to grow with experiences of the PAST & I expect the same from any man i might concider to be a potential Love interest...IF i hear anything negative about women, in general..I am "Outta There"!!..I don't feel the need to try to convert..any man or person for that matter..if they are still feeling the BAD vibes/Hate..Just shows me they haven't made the necessary steps themselves, to begin to heal..forgive & grow..Soo what in the world could they possibly offer to me..until they do???..Your always #1...Mustang Sally... BUT i think YOU already know that!! Good Luck..

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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TRUE CONFESSIONS - only if you are brave enough Posted: 6/10/2008 9:18:08 AM
KITCHNA... LMFAO...I'm dripping tears onto my cleavage

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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TRUE CONFESSIONS - only if you are brave enough Posted: 6/10/2008 5:45:56 AM
LMAO^^ TIMBER..It's ok to release your femine~side ...(everyonce in awhile).. GOOD confession: I LOVE homemade French fry sammiches..on Fresh whole wheat bread..sprinkled with just a a lil salt..and Malt vinegar BAD confession: I could LOCK myself away when i get TOO engrossed in a book..YEAH..(I have been known to take a day off work..because i have travelled to some far~off land..in my head..and REFUSE to beam~Down to MY REALITY..AGAIN).. NAUGHTY confession: I love to WASH my partner after love~making .and preparing a tray of eatibles...(a bottle of wine included) &...taking it all back to were the magic happened..& sharing in a PICNIC

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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What normal foods have you never eaten? Posted: 4/2/2008 10:10:20 AM
Am surprized no one has mentioned it..but HERE Goes.."Creamed Corn"...like in a can...I JUST can NOT do it!!..

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Another Success... Posted: 3/31/2008 7:33:52 AM
FOXY: All the Best to YOU & YOURS!!..AWESOME to hear some ACTUAL success...Live & Love..in Peace!!

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Another Success... Posted: 3/30/2008 4:42:06 AM
I wish BOTH of you NOTHING but the VERY BESTEST!!!...You GO!!

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Equal for both Posted: 3/19/2008 2:19:08 PM
I SECOND that motion...^^^I wanna watch too...

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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some one elses name in bed... Posted: 3/19/2008 12:59:22 PM
SVI2: LMFAO...Good..VERY, VERY GOOD!!...(we'll look for him 2~gether..as i have YET to REALLY see his face!!..he is just always THERE!!)...

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Tired of being turned down Posted: 3/18/2008 5:07:50 AM
VERY WELL said..stayrose..I agree..WAY too MUCH hype on outer APPEARANCES versus' inner BEAUTY!!..Be WHO you are.. ALWAYS with a smile

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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could he have fallen out of love this easily Posted: 3/11/2008 4:36:57 PM
Seems to me ...that BOTH..parties..Need & would Benefit greatly, from taking a Little bit of a break from eachother..to re~evaluate thier feelings?? Why not suggest some downtime OP?? for the both of You?? Suggest a month apart..IF this relationship was meant to b..It will Be..But i am getting the VERY uneasy feeling that You are pushing for IT...and he is Just too insecure with the fact of loosing you altogether..to let you go! VERY unhealthy gounds for any relationship...Both of You should take some time out..and apart...and reconnect in a months time to discuss wether or not you want to continue with this relationship..IF it's salvagable or not..Good Luck!!!

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Mother/Daughter Three-some..... Posted: 6/30/2007 4:24:29 PM
THAT..my friend..was priceless!!!!...THX for the LAUGH...(It was MUCH needed today!!).. ..BUT Do TEll...

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Have you ever fallen victim to a forum player??? Posted: 6/29/2007 2:59:34 AM
I completely agree with Nick.. ...THORN....BAD BOY!!.. But where in the HELL is TDK46's rebuttal?? I am anxiously awaiting...Your ALL awesome posters...i been following you..ALL for a long time ..you ALL keep it interesting....OMG...i sound like a "FORUM PLAYER"... JUst Joking..

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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I threw him out, but want him back !!!! Posted: 6/28/2007 10:26:47 AM
THERE are 3 sides to EVERY story...HIS & HERS =THE TRUTH..My heart breaks for you...but..take a negative..into a positive...Your daughter seems to be much more happier with this outcome..she is a part of you...and a part that learns and grows from your experiences...HOLD on Tight..to her right now.She will help get you through. Many of the posters have given GREAT advice...and i REALLY think the 30-60 day rule applies to you...take some time out to enjoy this tranquility...and use it...to RE~EVALUATE...what your expectations ..are...for both YOURSELF...& Your daughter...MANY HUGS...sent your way...and IF anything i can do..just email..or post on here..

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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I never thought of HER doing what she did Posted: 6/28/2007 8:52:14 AM
Fliddlin??..unsure where you got your info from?.. that i was looking for "Intimate Encounters"??...but MY profile and preferences...CLEARLY state..."FRIENDS"...and IF you would like to take the time out to actually VIEW my profile..a lil more carefully..you would also read that...I believe marriage is to be respected...and i felt..(as in my opinion)...that MR BOSS..would not have paying off the OP..unless something eles was happening..that he was afraid of surfacing..That was my input..& I certainly DID NOT expect to get bashed because of that...??..I thought that was the whole reason for forums??..to state YOUR opinion..and feel safe in doing so?? Correct me if i am wrong..??

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Help me I'm almost 50..... Posted: 6/28/2007 8:15:28 AM
I think every woman who posted on here...and the men too.. ARE wonderfully attractive..intelligent...and amazingly insightful..YOU...ALL ..made my DAY!! And for that i send MANY~CYBER~ HUGS THX...for making a day..(i thought was going to be VERY dreary)..into a WARM & FUZZY one....YOU..ALL..ROCK!!

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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I never thought of HER doing what she did Posted: 6/27/2007 8:32:25 AM
Seems to me..(my 2 cents..anyway.)..THAT IF the OP was offered $$..after finding them in that compromising situation...then it was an OBVIOUS situation...that should NOT have been happening???....Obviously the OLD guy is worried about something?? I am thinking it was his marriage...and ANY woman who bends for ANY man..KNOWING..full well he is her boss...and there is a wife..at home..IS DEFINITELY in my book..a slut!!

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Why did this man want to hurt me so much? Posted: 6/26/2007 11:03:15 AM
I happen to agree with both Aussie...and Lovable..on this one..i think/believe it was the lack of physical intimacy that turned him off...not only that..but he hears from his "EX"??...probably brought back alot of memories ...for him. I SAY...IF your so connected and felt the attatchment so strongly...You should have acted on it..!! Its Good to be safe..I understand that..but i think in this case ..too much time was spent there..Good Luck..let us know how all this turns out??..HUGS

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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13 First Date Tips for Men Posted: 6/26/2007 10:37:12 AM
...LMAO... Good response ...SOCK....

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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It really works Posted: 6/26/2007 9:33:31 AM
I wish you BOTH all the best..NICE catch!!!

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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How to let em know I have no friends Posted: 6/26/2007 6:01:59 AM
My father once told me.."IF during your WHOLE life..you meet 2 best friends...then you have lived a rich life"...People come and go...FAMILY...is where its at... Those will be your support network...and social outlet..Hang onto them...:

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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I barely know you! Posted: 3/10/2007 4:15:11 AM
Apologies Mistic..i misspelt your user name..BAD!!

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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I barely know you! Posted: 3/10/2007 4:10:58 AM
VERY WELL said..MYSTIC..!! I can't even add to that..very informative!! ** To the OP: i agree with the other posters on here..his labelling you as his girlfriend..should have been discussed beforehand...but as Mystic has pointed out..it might simply have been a verbal blurp..(mind fart)..on his part...men might feel under pressure in this kind of a situation..unsure of how to respond..so they rely on the first thing that pops into thier head? I am glad though you had the chance to talk it over with him...and i am sorry that he decided..that your feelings weren't worth concidering..obviously..that to you..must speak in VOLUMES.. Good Luck..out there..

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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The Most Difficult Thing You've Ever Had To Do....... Posted: 2/24/2007 12:10:49 PM
miss marks..i also lost my husband..at a ripe age of 23..married only for a year..lost to heroine overdose..The hardest day of my life was seeing him inside that casket...wanting to sooo much try to wake him up..:(..i smell him, taste him and feel him all the time around me..My heart is with you..on this one..;)

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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The Most Difficult Thing You've Ever Had To Do....... Posted: 2/24/2007 5:54:04 AM
Aries...you.. beautiful woman..you've heard this before..i think If you love someone..set them free.. If they come back..they're yours.. If they don't.. They never were.. My heart breaks for your strength..in preserving "YOU"..Good Luck Baby..let us know how your making out..BIG VIRTUAL ..

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Am I wrong in taking regenge after 18 years? Posted: 2/24/2007 5:39:51 AM
"V"...YES.. you are wrong..or eles you wouldn't be posting for advice to justify what your thinking of doing.."What goes around..comes around"..(and this WILL come back on you)..IF you decide to follow thru... SAD~State~of ~Affairs..Sooo gurlfriend..Head UP..Shoulders Back..& carry on with your life..i do have to side with the majority of my fishies on here..you need someone to help..(professional) to get you..to let go of some of this pain..18 years is way too long ..my friend..Its over..its done..its past..

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Anyone out there make interesting liquers? Posted: 2/2/2007 1:09:54 AM
Yes!! Grand Marnier recipe here also..Yummmmy..

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Perhaps Plenty Of Fish has it totally right ! Posted: 2/2/2007 12:56:03 AM
Hey Montreal...how about googling for tickets for two? I'll obviously have to cook the fish..and build the hut..but HEY..lets escape this concrete jungle together..What ya think?

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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How to let em know I have no friends Posted: 1/21/2007 7:43:57 AM
Awe..bleuboo2000.. Will you be my friend too?

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Ladies Be Honest... Posted: 1/20/2007 1:32:10 PM
I have already experienced all my three...and it was delightfully..delicious..and more

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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How do you KNOW for SURE your ready to move on? Posted: 1/15/2007 3:14:09 PM
You go Gurl!!...i couldn't have said it any better..I am alone too...but i am not lonely...there is a BIG MaJOR difference..Somedays hit me worse than others tho..i must admit that..BUT i value being with ME!!...Good Luck out there..

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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friends with benefits.... Posted: 1/15/2007 1:47:45 PM
Well said Jet...^^^ i am in total agreement..Alberta?...Gee too bad..

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Here is a good one. Posted: 1/14/2007 3:56:24 PM
I do believe sister..you know were you went bad..LEARN from this..You put yourself in alot of potential danger..Lets work smarter...next time around..

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Feeling empty..throwing the towel Posted: 1/14/2007 3:14:00 AM
Come On sister.. Swee...its gonna take some kissing of frogs to get to the prince..We ALL get down sometimes..Shake it off gurl..your a beauty!!..extend your personality beyond this..into your every day world..!! Smile..Laugh..& Love..its soooo hard to do sometimes..i agree..& my heart goes out to you...but fill your time with friends and family...and STAY STRONG...don't leave US..we are here for you..

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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When do you consider yourself to be in a serious relationship Posted: 1/13/2007 4:53:48 PM
Exlusive.....sums it up for me!!...thats when you know...

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Made a mistake. Should I move on? Posted: 1/10/2007 1:18:07 PM
I agree with nicebluiz..Its time to meet the gurl from POF..and its time for HER to meet YOU...see if there is any connections..then take it from there..Good Luck..let us know what unfolds..

Lady~Gurl

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Is It Cheating If Its Only Online???? Posted: 12/20/2006 1:16:03 PM
ACE 76..i am a bit late on this response...but you had asked..if my partner was sleeping..and you were online & horny..if asking someone to HELP you out was concidered cheating? YES..my friend..it is..You are actively seeking out another LIVE person to what?..talk you thru it?..its like phone sex..I mean really..Why don't you wake your partner up..with softness and make love to the person you are with..instead of Cybering it?..I Don't Get IT!! technology rules..but takes away from the REALITY........

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