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scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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being on this site..... Posted: 6/9/2008 8:12:51 AM
I have found on here that what they say isnt always what they mean, There are men & im sure woman as well that will tell u how much they like u, that they think about u all the time, cant wait to get home to talk to u, see u...He treats u great!!, u think this man is amazing!!..So u think i have found the man i've been searching for let him know u feel the same way about him & for awhile things are great!!, Then out of no where he says I just want to be Friends, hes pulled the rug from under ya, & pulled your heart out at the same. For alot of Men & woman its a game, how many can i get to fall for me. Once they know they have u they dont want u any more. scandalous

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Genuine NON-Cheatin Man Posted: 5/18/2008 8:02:35 AM
Mr Internet...Great words of wisdom!..Places like these sites are great hang outs for players, they know ppl are looking for that special someone & they play on it, they dont care who they hurt as long as there getting some, they say & do what ever it takes to win your trust & heart... I know a girl that met a man long distantes they got along great!! so she thought,.. she was trying to figer out how to shorten the distantes coz she thought she found her "soul mate" then came the line I think u should just be friends...Players sooner or later get found out though coz woman also met & yes we talk.

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Not interested in a long termrelationship, this might work for you. Posted: 11/24/2007 7:49:03 AM
dr jekyll....By the sounds of it,.. U's have the perfect thing going on ..Theres to much b/s that gos on here (meaning the site) ppl say what they think they need to say to get what they want then after awhile they move on to the next,..But the two of u's have a great communication u both know where the other stands, your both happy with the way things are theres no pressure... U's do have the perfect relationship that works for u's. I think thats where ppl get scared off, The word "Relationship" tied down, dont have a life any more, wich is far from the truth. Maybe if we all aproched it the way u two have more ppl would end up in very good long lasting Relationships. Communication is a big factor in any Relationship, friendship, & more with out it u have nothing. Keep on doing what your doing your both happy dont worry about the negative stuff ppl say, like i said u's have the perfect thing going on....

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Not interested in a long termrelationship, this might work for you. Posted: 11/16/2007 9:21:33 PM
Well at least you both know where you stand with each other,..Neither one of yous is leading the other one one, And you both are happy with the arrangement & it is working for the both of yous... nezus,..Woman can & do get feelings for men & still keep there independence,..what i see happen to both women & men is one leads the other on, as in telling the other, i really like you, cant wait to see you & talk to you, making it seem as though they really want to be you them,win there trust, play on there feelings, they make love adding to there feelings. When there done with you, there gone, move on to the next. Having a relationship has become difficult, No one wants to work on them anymore, when it gets alittle tough, go on a site like this & you can find someone elce for a shot time, or for ever long you want them for,..It seems like no one is in it for the long haul any more. dr jekyll, Good luck, & you never know the two of yous may just end up together, & have a great relationship, yous know each other well, your just not in the same place, Yet. scandalous

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Hot Butter rum batter. Posted: 11/7/2007 8:41:46 AM
MMMMM Hot butter run, your man, a blanket, a fire place,.. couldnt ask for a better night.

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Friendship Cake Posted: 11/7/2007 8:09:39 AM
This sounds really good, can u do the same thing to the ingredients u add when making Christmas cake?..instead of the way do it,..i make the cake then after baking it i soak cheese cloth in rum & drape it over the cake & i keep repeating that until Christmas , u cant taste the run, but the cake is moist & very good.

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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PUDDING SHOTS Posted: 11/7/2007 7:36:23 AM
This sounds really yummy, have to try it, And with the right person, eatable body paint,MMMMM

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Not looking for the long term, but it found me... Posted: 10/29/2007 5:33:28 AM
Thats great, Congratulation!!!..

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Ever feel like your going to be alone forever? Posted: 6/22/2007 4:00:37 PM
latinlover40,...I am so sorry for your loss,..they say time will heal,... we go through the steps, cry...get mad...ask way..& ya think there will be no one that can take her place. There is no rush for u to find someone, take your time make friends & u never know. I wish u well,..take care..scandalous4701

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Why men wont date independant women Posted: 5/30/2007 9:05:54 AM
foolish21,..U just hit the nail right on the head, u said everything that needs to be explaned about an independant woman in a short sentence... Finely a man that understands a woman, i dont need or want all the material stuff that some men think & know in some case;s will kept a woman around, if u have to buy someone to keep them there not worth it. Having someone in my life knowing he's there because i make him happy & we are both adding to our life's & just being together, is the best gift i think anyone could hope for. Good luck everyone, in time we will all find the love we are looking for,.. u can't put a price on true ...scandalous4701

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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I caught a women I've been sleeping with inserting my used condom inside her Posted: 5/3/2007 3:28:17 PM
Well he is asking for some help, & u more or less said what he said was not true,..I would get defensive to, what he is going through is scary, this girl is trying to have his baby & doing it how ever way she can,..There isnt to much u can do, u say u already spoke to someone about this, a lawyer i hope, ..make sure u get the name of who u where speaking to & wright everything down that u told him & everything he or she said to u, the date u called, that way if u end up in court u have proff u called a lawyer telling him/her what happened, & that u where getting advice on what u can do. Next time flush it, there are alot of crazy ppl in this world & u met one, i hope everything works out for u, take care..scandalous

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Went through a bad break up...how long should it take to mend? Posted: 3/20/2007 4:59:43 PM
MikeyFlo, Im so sorry u got hurt like that,.. they say time heals all wounds, keep yourself busy,go out with friends,..dont go to places that u & her went that will just bring back memories & open up that wound thats what your trying to stay away from. U will feel that anger & sadness she really hurt u,.. I dont understand how its so easy for another person "male" or "female" to hurt someone elce & think nothing of it & just walk away leaving that person crushed, i was just woundering did u meet her on this site?or anyother one?,..I find that on these sites your told what they think u need to hear, . so that u think ,. Hey this is going great & u fall for them, "But" there still out there looking,..Well look at it this way, Her loss she had a good thing left it for ,what things he can buy her , that wont last long,..U know that saying..What gos around comes around..U will heal but no one can tell u how long it might take, Lots of luck take care.. ..Scandalous.

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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How long before you know hes not interested Posted: 3/14/2007 10:47:17 AM
I agree with u ccuervo 79,..In a nut shell...Busy means Not interested, theres always time in the day to talk to friends, inless u just cant be bothered,.. after two texts & one call & u get nothen in return for get it, it was only one date though, so its not that big a deal but if u"s were more involved it would hurt alot more to be treated this way so your lucky in that sence, move on u will find mr right in time, lots of luck, take care..scandalous4701.

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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SWEETEST MOST ROMANTIC THING HES/SHES EVER DONE Posted: 2/7/2007 3:46:56 PM
A very long time ago i lived with my b/f of 11 years,..He ran me a bath had candles around the washroom & while i was in there relaxing enjoying, he was in our bedroom putting red & yellow rose peddles all over the bed & candles on the night stands, i came out he layed me on the bed & gave me the most incredible message,i felt like i was floating,..The rest of the night i was all his, hehehe

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Sensual Desserts for two and helpful hints.......mmmmm Posted: 1/31/2007 8:36:54 PM
MMMMMMMmmmmmm yummmie they all sound soooooo good,now i just need a warm bodyed man to try them with

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Thank you to Plentyoffish. I've now got a partner for life. Posted: 1/31/2007 8:20:38 PM
Congrats,.I love to hear that two ppl have made that special connection & are looking forword to spending the rest of there lives together,it gives us that are still looking for that special connection some hope,,i wish the two of u all the best in life,and always remamber never go to bed angry with each other, & give each other a Kiss & hug in the Morning, & at night & always befor u leave each other,& just because. Take care,..scandalous.

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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not good enough? yeah, right. Posted: 1/30/2007 2:10:12 PM
jr5052,.U hit the nail right on the head,.there are alot ppl that will end up old & alone,..because they have made up this perfect pic of a person thats not even real, yet they will keep serching & never find them, Why,because no ones good enough for them,.never let anyone make u feel u are not good enough, Happy,

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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A Few Extra Pounds Posted: 1/28/2007 12:22:54 PM
Well for one im far from being jealous & yes i do know how much fat a female body needs or doesn"t, if u are keeping up with this topic u would have seen over half the ppl are saying the same thing,..And i was not putting skinny ppl down ,i was skinny at one time 120lb soaken wet,i was putting this towords men more then woman, most woman are trying to live up to mens expectation of them to be "barbie dolls"so they will be accepted, And whats really funny is that the men that want the small frame girls, there is that better,..are nothen to look at either,neither men or woman should be as picky as they are,..hmmm well over half the ppl in this world are in the "Average" range meaning u as well,.yes this topic hits very close to home i know someone that ended up in the hospital because she thought she wasnt skinny enough. why cant we get past this " to fat,to skinny" and just take ppl for who they are.

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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A Few Extra Pounds Posted: 1/28/2007 8:15:42 AM
Maidendg u took the words right out of my mouth,..notlob63"athletic i think not, wishfull thinking ya, skinny is as unhealthy as "fat". Skinny girls are only worried about themselfs there looks,& the guys that only want the skinny girls are also worried about her looks so when ya think about it the two belong together. I think guys go for the barbie type because there insecure about themselfs & she makes him look & feel good about himself. But in the end dont we all want the samethings,to love & be loved unconditionally to share the rest of our lives with that person,. we need to look deeper then the outer body,its whats inside that really counts in the end,.Just my thoughts happy ,scandalous,. no im not fat,but im gald im not barbie,lol

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Let's get the BLOOD pumping! Posted: 11/16/2006 10:06:44 AM
I love the fall,.leafs changing, crisp air,.ohhh ya the first snow fall love it,my son & i get out there make snow angels have snow ball fights,& if im with someone all the more fun hehe,im like a big kid,.spring/summer love them to,..U are so right there isnt anything more exhilarating than being where & doing all the thing u have said,..I like being with someone when out there enjoying nature it just makes it all the more better.

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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I still love you but I am not in love with you..... Posted: 11/13/2006 10:56:08 AM
Yeah i heard the "its not u" line befor to,i dont think people know how to be honest anymore,..but u are so right about"i dont want to f@ck u anymore but i do want to f@uck other people,..

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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To every girl....love Trish Posted: 11/11/2006 11:09:31 AM
Trish,..This is a beautiful poem,.. You have put into true words what every girl has felt or is feeling now. Thank u...

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Fishes that found their Fishes on this site Posted: 10/16/2006 8:24:24 PM
Yes i am still single,i was told stop looking and u will meet someone,i have been on this site for a little under a year but i have met alot of nice people,made some really good friends Like the saying go's Good things come to those that wait,..Im really happy for all u men&women that have met your fishys gives us that havent met anyone yet some hope,..Take care.

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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No more POF dating experiences Posted: 10/15/2006 3:42:57 PM
No your not alone,im sure there are alot on here that feel the same as u do,..I know i do.

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Not ready for a relationship right now Posted: 10/14/2006 10:20:39 AM
Well those words can go for men as well"Men are an enigma wrapped in a riddle",last month i went out with a guy, yes we chated befor that as well we got along great he even said we like the samethings,we never ran out of things to talk about,it felt like i had know him for alot longer then we did, he was smart, warm loving, easy to talk to,he made me feel like this could be the one he never lead me to beleave other wise,we had an amazing last night together,he sent me an e-mail saying the samething,..i told him how i felt about him then 2 days later he e-mailed me,saying your a great girl u will find someone,bluh,bluh,bluh,i thought what the he$$ just happend,then i find out he has done the samething to a few girls from here,i have made some good friends on here,..Men & woman need to know what they want befor coming on sites like this one,dont say long term if your not sure,..dont play people we dont want it done to us so dont do it to others,thats just my thought...lots of luck to everyone take care & be true to yourself & others.

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Why do People hurt the ones that love them? Posted: 10/11/2006 10:43:29 PM
delia c,..words of great wisdom,..we shouldnt test love or use love,. we should treasure it,..to love some one is to live,.. people are scared to love because they have been hurt so much,..i think this is why there isnt any trust left,why are some people trying so hard to destory it?? its a no win situation.

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Wish me luck Posted: 10/10/2006 9:06:33 AM
Thats awesome im sooo happy for u, finely some great news for some one on here,.it gives us that have just about given up some hope.

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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FAQ - Image Problems / Instructions to Upload Posted: 10/6/2006 12:06:19 PM
K im trying to put new pic on my profile & it keeps saying err,i have tryed all the things that are outlined, my pics are fine,so why cant i put them up????..

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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I feel Stupid, I was scamed Posted: 10/6/2006 9:19:33 AM
Im sorry that happened to u,i dont think its nieve,like me u trust people,your careing ,i really liked this guy we got along great he was very nice sweet,acted like he cared,then he says i dont feel a connection, oh ok but u couldnt tell me that befor.I had a wall up,i let it down for him i let him in,so i know what u mean when u say u feel dum, Kelhot31..i am learning lessons on here to,i was told by a good friend to take my rose coloured glasses off dont wear your heart on your shoulder,lol..Be carefull with who u give your heart to as well as your money they will run with both if u let them.Take care,lots of luck.

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Why Some People Will Remain Single Posted: 10/4/2006 4:32:39 PM
Scamp7 your spelling is fine,..You are sooo right in every thing u have said, i have wondered if anyone one here will find who they are looking for??, people are way to judgemental,. U go one 1 or 2 dates & think well u are not the "one" how does one know for sure? like u say, U may have very well walked away from the one that is perfect for u , Ohh sorry i didnt say it the same as u, lol ,people are not looking deep enough taking the time to get to know each other,..Words to live by "Look within oneself for ones imperfections befor sitting in judgements on others, Yaaa thanks i have that song stuck in my head

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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You start a relationship and sex ends it. Or did it? Posted: 10/3/2006 8:22:27 AM
Great post, But, yeop the big but,lol,..u seem to be pointing out that its all the women,there are alot of men that do use ,i really like u , we get along great,being passionate leading the women to think there is going to be a relationship,Men are just as manipulative as women are when it comes to getting what they want,we all want a relationship but it just seems to me we act like im going to hurt u befor u can hurt me thing,there are alot of bitter people on here,I also think that alot of men/women when we havent felt that bond the closeness that a relationship gives us we use sex to fill in what we are missing & in the end we dont feel any better & we have hurt the other person,sex should be the last stage of getting to know that person,there is so much more in a relatisonship,we need to slow down enjoy each other & then the Making love part will fall into place,and because u waited to full in love first making love to each other will be,well words cant describe it. I really enjoy reading these posts i have learned alot from them,..lots of luck in findind mr/miss right for now,

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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You start a relationship and sex ends it. Or did it? Posted: 10/2/2006 1:26:53 PM
I dont think sex is a reward ,it is a special bond between two people ,its just to bad some people use it for selffish needs, I am there for him i get great pleasure knowing he is satisfied,and i think that if two people can just lay there in each others arms and not have to say a word & know that this is where they are happy that is a great relationship, I think a man is equal to a woman if he does not want to talk he shouldnt have to if he doesnt want sex thats ok to,.. i agree with u in some of what u say but in other things i dont agree with u ,all woman are not the same just as all men are not the same, U are so right when u say.....Definition they both give unconditionally thats what makes a great relationship,..I dont understand we are all "well most" of use are looking for sameone on here so why is "real love" so hard to find??No one wants to get hurt yet thats whats happening..Lots of luck,be true to yourself keep it real.

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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Confused About Connection Posted: 10/2/2006 7:44:43 AM
WOW,..jessie145,the same thing happened to me,everything was going great we got along he said he like me, made me dinner rented a movie,,an other time took dinner to his place, we talked,he was very passionate. Then a few days later he said im sorry i dont feel a connection he said a girl broke his heart,that he was chasing a ghost??,i didnt understand it either,i cant beleave how close your story is to what happend to me.

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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You start a relationship and sex ends it. Or did it? Posted: 9/30/2006 9:42:09 AM
WOW, tallandsweet u hit the nail right on the head,.that is sooo true,they say long term but thats not at all what some want, some do need to know the difference between the 2.."one night stand" or long term, let the other person know where they stand it would save alot of heart ache. scandalous4701

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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No Games? Bullshit. Posted: 9/26/2006 6:42:03 PM
Yelp,I hear u,im a woman & i have right on my profile dont into head games,BUT men play them just as much as woman do,..Why is it so hard to fine some one that tells the truth,that they want the same things as u??Guys have on there profile long term but when it comes down to it they say oh im taking a break,..or a gut feeling tells me to take a break yet there still online looking?,come one just tell the truth, i have met a few men but all they wanted was sex,all i am looking for is to be with some one that we can bring our worlds together & become one in time nothen happens over night,people just dont give it a chance,they think if i dont feel anything in the 2 or4 yr they move on to the next one,it takes more time then that to get to know some one,go on a few dates start of as friends.If we all just slow down not be in such a hurry to find "the one"we are looking for we may just fine him/her,just a thought,take care all & lots of luck. scandalous4701

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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You want honesty from a man...here you go... Posted: 9/24/2006 12:38:29 PM
WOW...Great post it may be long but worth reading every bit of it, u have a great understanding of things,and im quite sure u will find who u are looking for thank u sooo much for your input take care..scanadlous.

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

Msg: 398 (view)

Ever feel like your going to be alone forever? Posted: 9/24/2006 12:09:14 PM
I dont understand it,..we are all on this site looking for the samething,.so why are we all still alone??,we have guys/girls looking for long term,but thats not the case when ya meet,then we have married men& woman looking for a good time,or just looking for a one nightstand.I find on this site that alot of guys say one thing but mean another,just let each other know if u want to meet again dont leave each other hanging,i have made alot of friend but im looking for a partner to,..I do feel the same as all of u,that there is no one out there for me,it is lonely,but i do beleave we are all meant to be with someone,dont stress your self there isnt a time limit, enjoy life we all will meet the one that we are meant to be with in time..take care & good luck to every one...scandalous.

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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what is so wrong with me? Posted: 9/21/2006 7:48:53 PM
I hear ya jmo1981,it happens to me as well,..we meet everythings going really well at the end of the night he ask to see me again,& either we do or we dont & he tells me hes married with kids,or he say well im not looking for long term now or he say i just want a f;'#kbuddy i dont understand it either,i seem to really attract the married ones & they dont understand why i dont want to be with them,lol, im about to give up on trying,..well i dont think i helped much.so i'll shut up now..lol,take care..scandalous

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

Msg: 73 (view)

Why is it ok for a men to date 4 or 5 women at a time.......... Posted: 9/21/2006 6:20:35 PM
WOW, finley a man with valus thats great,..i totally agree with u i dont understand why men & woman have to have more then one partner??.

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

Msg: 109 (view)

would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure? Posted: 9/19/2006 8:15:38 AM
Men can be equally bitter,i have met men from here that are there wifes divorced & there very bitter about it, a lot of times u may get along great,then u get married and find u cant live together your totally different from one another,in my option its better to live together first,..if we all stayed away from some one that has been divorced, we would all be pretty lonely unless u are very young,..well good luck to very one that is truely looking for there lost love dont give up she/he is out there & u never know u may have already been with her/him & dident realize it give people a chance isnt that what its all about,take care,..scandalous.

scandalous4701

Joined: 9/5/2006

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My Ex is trying to take my daughter away just because I wont get back with him.... Posted: 9/15/2006 4:13:44 PM
I know what u are going through,..I went through it all 3 yrs ago & it hurts like h.ll, we where together for 9 yrs,he was very controlling,& then after the baby was born things really changed & yes he wanted a child,when our son was a year we split up i got an apt,he would call & tell me to bring the baby over to see him i did,& he would come over have a coffee talk then we would fight, he didnt pay any att to our son,it was like that for 3 yrs he seen other girls i didnt care but then i met someone & he lost it,saying know one was going to raise his son,he called the guy at work called my house 10 times a day,showed up where ever we where i went through h.ll, the guy i was seeing couldnt handle it so we split up i understood it was alot of bs, then my ex showed up at my house one day saying i wrought u a letter,please read it so i went in the house opened it & it was court papers,i was shocked we had been getting along lately,i didnt know what to do who to call,i cryed for days,well to make along storie short,he lied in court & won,.i know what u guys "well the ones that say u have to be a bad mom to lose" that is soooo far form that truth,i sent him an e-mail asking him not to do this taking our son from me would kill me,he changed my words in that e-mail made it like i was sayin other things,"not good for myside,it got right out off hand,he said my daughter was hitting our son she wasnt,i had letters from friend & neighbours on my behalf,i even had a vido tape of my son saying he wants to come back home with me..but my "so called lawer" didnt use any of what i had,so i lost,my son is now living with his dad FOR NOW,so u dont HAVE to be a "bad" mom to lose in court i know a few people that have gone through this,It is in who u know & your lawer,so please make sure u have a good lawer,check into more then just one,Dont send any e-mails to him,i learnd that the hard way,best of luck,if u want to talk let me know i will send u my addy k,oh & yes im taking him back to court.

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