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MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

Msg: 62 (view)

West Lafayette - Sat Nov. 21, 2009 - Neon Cactus - 8pm to close Posted: 11/15/2009 12:31:57 PM
No boots and hats! They don't play country!

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

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Indy Halloween Party*Zanna Doo at the Rathskeller*Oct 31st Posted: 10/8/2009 9:59:17 AM
Ok that sounds great! Never been to this bar before. Is the party mostly outside?

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

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Indy Halloween Party*Zanna Doo at the Rathskeller*Oct 31st Posted: 10/8/2009 12:14:09 AM
Lol yes I did! Didn't I put you on house arrest?

MelloDLyn

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Indy Halloween Party*Zanna Doo at the Rathskeller*Oct 31st Posted: 10/7/2009 10:12:55 PM
I have not been to a party since the one at Clancey's in Jan. I think. I live in West Lafayette and just got my costume and would love to come. I won't go to a party alone. Anyone going alone or want to meet and hang out??? I went to the one last year at Clancey's and had a blast! HELP!!! Melody

MelloDLyn

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9/26 Krazy Street Grille in Indianapolis, IN at 7 p.m. Posted: 9/21/2009 10:20:26 PM
I am excited about coming to the party! I have not been to one for 8 months. I am ready to party!!

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

Msg: 27 (view)

Flowers? Posted: 8/19/2009 8:48:03 AM
I think it is nice since most men don't do it. My last one I got a dozen white roses and then before he dropped me off he asked what my fave flower was and I said carnations. He made a quick stop while I was talking on the phone with my son and got me a dozen white carnations. I was impressed! My house smells so good now!

MelloDLyn

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Msg: 106 (view)

what's your perfect man/woman? Posted: 8/19/2009 8:45:01 AM
There is no such thing!

MelloDLyn

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Msg: 39 (view)

Female Orgasms...The greatest joy on Earth.... Posted: 8/19/2009 8:43:53 AM
I am the same way. If my partner don't get off then I am not satisfied. I would rather my partner get off then myself. You have to find a partner that feels the same way, so you both get satisfied. So since u satisfied her she wants you to experience the same. She is missing out on your grand finale so she is being cheated in a sense!

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

Msg: 57 (view)

Shoot Guns on a first date!! Posted: 8/17/2009 9:04:02 AM
I think it would be a great date if we went to a shooting range. Not just out in the country or woods somewhere. That is on my list of to dos.

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

Msg: 58 (view)

Hey....I really need help Posted: 8/17/2009 9:02:28 AM
I don't talk to anyone that sends em. They are usually looking for sex. I don't respond if they have their shirt off. Why would it matter what their body looks like unless you are going to date them and like their personality and have chemistry? I would not meet him. He sends those out to alot of women. If u just want sex then go get it.

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

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Is it prostitution when... Posted: 8/17/2009 9:00:19 AM
I don't think so! U didn't have sex with him. Probably a bored married man looking for some excitement. Maybe he don't get any at home!

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

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good body or face? Posted: 8/17/2009 8:58:41 AM
I would pick the face over the body! I can't do ugly!

MelloDLyn

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The marrying type? Posted: 8/17/2009 8:56:46 AM
I just look at the person and what is going on in their life right now. If they have kids that is a bigger issue. Their stability and do I have chemistry with them. Sometimes where they live matters. This is just a start, time will truly tell.

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

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What do you girls think about guys with guns? Posted: 8/14/2009 10:30:17 AM
I went to meet a guy and later he opened the back of his suv and it was full of all kinds of high powered rifles and guns! Then he showed me he had one on his leg all nite and one on his hip! That was the end of that one!

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

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Do people hide to much? Posted: 8/14/2009 10:25:01 AM
I don't know about the women on here since I don't look for women but yes the men always seem to hide too much. Mainly the fact they are married! I get sick of going out with guys then find out they are married.

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

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Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me Posted: 8/14/2009 10:22:31 AM
Maybe he likes men better! Maybe is really gay and hasn't ever faced it!

MelloDLyn

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I think Girls have it a lot easier than Guys when it comes to Love, Dating, Relationships, etc. Posted: 8/14/2009 10:19:04 AM
If your referring to this site then u have it all wrong. 90% of the men on here seem to have a problem with speaking the truth! I very rarely run across an honest man on here. So I would say guys have it easier! If women think they are having luck on here its just because they are not smart enough to see thru the man.

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

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The Deep Spot Posted: 8/12/2009 8:55:54 PM
No man has ever hit my deep spots! Lol probably because they are not long enough! I would think a man would have to have a number of good inches on it to do this! Am I right? I seemed to always get the boys that never grew up, or should I say grew inches!

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

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what does open minded mean to you Posted: 8/12/2009 8:51:16 PM
Yep u would find it in mine! Well I mean open minded sexually. What I mean is every guy I seem to meet has some type of sexual hang up. They always have a list of don't likes and don't dos! I want it all! Can't I have the whole package, my cake and eat it too? I want someone that would try something before saying they don't like it. I would try something is they asked me so I would expect the same thing. I think as men age they get more boring and as women age they want to experience more!

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

Msg: 248 (view)

Do women cook anymore?? Posted: 8/12/2009 8:48:16 PM
I'm looking for a man that wants to cook for me!

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

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if someone scared you by seeming too eager. . . Posted: 8/12/2009 8:47:35 PM
It has happened too many times to count. Yes I say slow down and would still give em a chance but they always get all crazy! Then I'm done with them. They should be understanding and say ok. I don't act like that so never been on the other side!

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

Msg: 156 (view)

Long vs short hair Posted: 8/11/2009 9:28:13 PM
I don't think the length of your hair really matters. I know what I want for sure. I also have a full mail box and can't respond to each email.

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

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if a girls says your a great catch Posted: 8/11/2009 3:29:42 PM
Its a nice way of saying I am not interested!

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

Msg: 67 (view)

another dating site calls us losers Posted: 8/11/2009 3:28:19 PM
They are just calling it like it is! The majority I have met are losers! The majority anyone I know on here has met are losers so wouldn't u assume it's full of them?

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

Msg: 68 (view)

Strange things spoken during sex. Question for the ladies. Posted: 8/11/2009 3:26:14 PM
No never been asked weird questions in the heat of the moment. I don't ask them either.

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

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Sleeping Styles Posted: 8/10/2009 11:02:08 AM
I feel the exact same way u said about sleeping on your back. I use to be a stomach sleeper but now I am a side sleeper!

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

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Speed dating vs. online dating Posted: 8/10/2009 9:32:39 AM
Speed dating or lock and key events are so much better. U know instantly if there is a connection. There is no wasting time.

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

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Is it right to ask a girl to put their life on hold for you? Posted: 8/10/2009 9:23:57 AM
No not unless your engaged! I did that for someone and it didn't work out and I felt like so much of my life passed me by. Someone I know just met a guy and he was goin away and they knew each other a month and got married and they are very happy! She hated being single and now she has someone so it doesn't matter to her he is so far away.

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

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Can poisonous people change? Posted: 8/10/2009 9:21:31 AM
None that I have seen. Anyone can say they are doing something but doesn't mean they are. Mental health issues require being monitored all the time. They usually don't know they have the issues or refuse to believe it. You shouldn't of broke the no contact rule it is there for a reason. Sounds like u need some counseling yourself. She can't get in your head and play games unless u let her. There are normal people out there. My opinion is she won't change.

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

Msg: 123 (view)

When are you most happiest? Posted: 8/10/2009 9:17:01 AM
I am most happiest spending time with my 2 kids or my 2 dogs!

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

Msg: 28 (view)

Child support while she is at University Posted: 8/9/2009 10:49:16 AM
My daughter went to college 3 years ago and the support ended because the judge said she is not living at home anymore. I was between jobs when I went to court and they said I had to pay 30% of her tuition and books and living expenses. So even if u dont' have money u owe. U just get loans thru the universtiy. U should take her to court and get this stuff in writing!

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

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Slept with 83 people Posted: 8/9/2009 10:39:57 AM
The past is the past! Leave it in the past and move forward!

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

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You get her # thru POF email,when do you call? Posted: 8/9/2009 10:36:38 AM
Yes call right away before someone else sweeps her off her feet!

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

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If someone emails you with misspelled words and bad grammar, do you respond? Posted: 8/9/2009 10:34:38 AM
I don't respond to non spellers. Some people use im or texting lingo and that is fine, anyone with brains can figure out what they are saying. I hate when people tell me I didn't spell right and it is texting short cuts. If I were typing a professional letter I would not do it but in emails and ims and if I text I do. Nothing wrong with short and sweet!

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

Msg: 94 (view)

When is the BF/GF title official? Posted: 8/9/2009 10:31:00 AM
When u discuss it and u decide your in a one on one relationship!

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

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Is it gaming when a girl looks at your profile, is that like a smile from across the room Posted: 8/8/2009 6:00:40 PM
No it is called seeing if we have interest. When no message is left it means no interest and we get so sick of those guys then thinking we are interested when we did not contact them.

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

Msg: 87 (view)

How much should a man chase you to show he is interested? Posted: 8/8/2009 5:56:33 PM
If they are really into u they talk to u on the phone right away and set up a meeting before u are taken. If they don't then they are not interested in u.

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

Msg: 27 (view)

First sexual encounter with a new mate Posted: 8/8/2009 5:54:42 PM
Well usually it just sucks so I move on. For almost 3 years I have not found anyone that I consider good. Have not been with many but the ones I did try were awful. I like someone very experienced in the bedroom, not a timid person. Also for the first time I prefer a bed so u can get all crazy!

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

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3 somes Posted: 8/8/2009 5:51:59 PM
Why question it? I have always wanted to and not one guy I dated would ever agree to this. Your a lucky girl!

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

Msg: 28 (view)

The best sex ever !!! Posted: 8/8/2009 5:50:37 PM
The best sex I ever had was almost 3 years ago. I like men that have large packages. It seems to excite me the most and have not met any his size since. Everyone since is itty bitty! Hard to be happy after having the other. Although it wasn't a one niter, yes I would do it again.

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

Msg: 352 (view)

do you look like your pictures? Posted: 8/7/2009 9:07:14 AM
Everyone I have met says I look better in person than my pics. Most people I meet don't look as good as their pics. Glad I can say its the other way around for me.

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

Msg: 38 (view)

Have you ever dated someone that killed your pet? Posted: 8/7/2009 9:05:45 AM
I think that is sick and u should of called the police on her. She needs help. You can't not trust other women because of a crazy one.

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

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Closing your eyes when kissing, making love. Posted: 8/7/2009 8:59:56 AM
When I close my eyes I'm not thinking just feeling. I'm goin with the moment!

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

Msg: 28 (view)

Hairy backs -- yea or nay? Posted: 8/6/2009 11:49:34 AM
I like guys with hairy legs but hairy back is not a turn on to me. I feel like I am with an ape instead of a man. Get it waxed or have her shave it for u. I keep myself clean shaven except when I'm not involved with someone I do slack off some since no one is going to see or know I may go a week without shaving down there. I shave my legs daily.

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

Msg: 66 (view)

tickling as foreplay Posted: 8/6/2009 11:47:01 AM
I hate to be tickled and so I don't tickle anyone especially as a form of foreplay. I find tickling more a form of wrestling with your partner.

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

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Men Shaved??? Posted: 8/6/2009 11:45:36 AM
I only like clean shaven men! I can't stand pubic hair.

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

Msg: 80 (view)

Do guys like it when u call them daddy in bed? Posted: 8/6/2009 11:44:33 AM
I would never call a guy big daddy in bed. I think that is sick! Why would I want the thought of my father going thru my mind. The few I met that said call me big daddy I have ran fast as I can from them.

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

Msg: 262 (view)

One for the girls.... Oral sex after intercourse Posted: 8/6/2009 11:42:37 AM
Yes I have and do with the right person. If I'm in a loving one on one relationship then why not. When u do it u don't think wow what do I taste like. That doesn't cross your mind. U do it because it is the heat of the moment and u don't think just do.

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

Msg: 107 (view)

Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/5/2009 2:55:36 PM
Why do womean love porn so much? I love it too. It has nothing to do with my partner. It is just a major turn on to me. It isn't about me checking out the other men it is just the act of what is goin on. It excites u.

MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004

Msg: 204 (view)

single mom body issues Posted: 8/5/2009 2:52:18 PM
I don't really think it bothers men. So many women have the same issues as yourself. I was blessed with great skin and never got any after 2 kids. Just don't think about it and go with the flow.

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