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Pixy Dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

Msg: 51 (view)

Would you have sex with a machine? Posted: 11/16/2009 1:01:54 AM
My good male friend, may he rest in peace had a "Butt"... he invited a group of us over for dinner as we did on a weekly basis and he had discussed this device many a times.... so we bugged him and he had this one in reserve, hadn't been used yet... and it felt like skin and you sprinkled powder on it, and it had the normal orfice's that you could engage in... I was amazed but not surprised, it felt so real for 150.00 and it sat right there on his coffee table so we could look at it.. I say more power to the guys who want them... h*ll yeah we have our own devices... altho I have no idea what the one the OP discusses, but sounds like I'd have lots of explaining to do with guests in the house.

Pixy Dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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Tattoos on the breasts Posted: 11/16/2009 12:43:13 AM
what about a mole?

Pixy Dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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Kissing during sex; cuddling after sex. Posted: 11/16/2009 12:42:08 AM
Personally I love deep kisses before, during, or after.... it just represents the passion for me.... I love to kiss anyway.. I would be very disappointed in a man who didn't kiss.... and I do realize that there are those that don't really enjoy kissing.. no matter what they might say in the beginning.... a man I once dated told me that he had kissed me more than he had his ex for the 16 yrs that they were married... that should have been my first sign... lmao... As far as cuddling, yes, I think cuddling is important, but will say that I will roll away when going to sleep... just happens...

Pixy Dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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Silent Sex Posted: 11/16/2009 12:32:17 AM
I wouldn't expect a man to howl... I've had that before and it seemed extreme, but total silence and I might wonder if he's awake... guess if he doesn't snore... scratching my head....

Pixy Dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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Masturbation=cheating Posted: 11/16/2009 12:27:57 AM
Sounds like the sis is young, naive, and hasn't got a clue on what cheating means...

Pixy Dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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Nose & Ear Hair Posted: 11/16/2009 12:11:51 AM
oh if on a first date I had to sit and see nose hair, let alone ear hair, it would do me in... if that's shallow I don't care... ewww... yuck.... I am gonna make sure all the hair that shouldn't be on me is gone.. nope no stray hairs... don't want the man to find them either... I'd be mortified... geesh..

Pixy Dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not? Posted: 11/15/2009 11:36:41 PM
Rape, you've got to be kidding... So should we have a clause in our relationship contract that says it's ok to approach someone when they are sleeping???? geesh... I really think someone was looking for an out.. but RAPE??? surely they have no idea what rape really means....

Pixy Dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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Men over 45 who dye their hair Posted: 11/15/2009 11:28:25 PM
I'm afraid I'd be the pot calling the kettle black... but hmmm.... if it looks really bad... I might chuckle...

Pixy Dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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Starting a family aged 50+ Posted: 11/15/2009 11:19:46 PM
Bring on the grandkids... but this girl is done having kids of her own... no way no how....

Pixy Dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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Tolerance with age? Posted: 11/15/2009 11:17:40 PM
Personally lets hope after reaching the years of over 45 that we've realized what the important things are and what to deal with what not to.. I have realized that I do enjoy my space... I miss having someone to share in my life, but try to let go of pettiness that gets in the way of happiness... of course who wants a drunk in their life... I would think that is a given.... sigh... who has the energy to follow in that co-dependence existence... I sure don't... but tolerance is something I would hope is something I can claim at this point in my life... as long as it doesn't go against principles...

Pixy Dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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Dating A Single Child Posted: 11/15/2009 11:03:57 PM
LMFAO Rickeyes58.... No, OP there are bigger issues than his being a "only child"....

Pixy Dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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I saw my ex's new woman/I don't know what I feel Posted: 11/15/2009 11:02:16 PM
I tell you what, most people in a break up feel inferior no matter what they think they look like... anytime you go thru what your going thru you're going to pick on yourself... and I tell you what that woman definitely is feeling threatened or she wouldn't be fighting with your ex over it... For her child to behave that way shows just what kind of parenting they've gotten also... she must have really carried on in front of them and they listen to every word she says... How tacky is that for a mother? Yes, you haven't been apart from him long enough to truly detach as yet. Its new and fresh actually.. only a couple of weeks to a month.. I am sure you are figuring out all this stuff and the fact that she probably has been in the picture for awhile... I'm sorry. I went thru this years ago with my ex husband... I was beating myself up being almost 30 to his 18 year old gf... lmao... god I wish I could see all that thru clear eyes now.. I was a hot young thing but couldn't see the forest for the tree stump... geesh... Suck it up... you'll get thru this... you have long history with him, but don't let this get the best of you... Its all still fresh.. of course you are hurting... {{{{ hugs }}}}

Pixy Dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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How long does it take for you to get sick of people? Posted: 11/15/2009 10:42:59 PM
I was just checking out your age... and it seems when I was your age I wanted to hang out with my bf all the time too... but to be honest (I'm twice your age) it seems when my gf's get a bf they automatically hang out all the time... the thing to consider is how much time you have available with that person.. when people have a busy schedule it seems that you have to squeeze in time in order to have a relationship.... so dunno... The bigger question is how you do when you are on your own... if you can enjoy your space as well as being with them that's healthy... one shouldn't necessarily blend as one...

Pixy Dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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Mouth Shut or Tattle? Posted: 11/15/2009 10:37:12 PM
I just don't understand why you feel the need to break it to her.... even if he's not a friend why get mixed up in it? She'll figure it out on her own... let it go..

pixy dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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Dating a couple people but not having sex at our age Posted: 11/9/2009 4:35:05 AM
If I find myself dating more than one man and there is no sex involved (otherwise that would be kind of gross in my book) it usually means I am also not sure I like either one. And I would say that if you are truly looking for someone than sex too soon can confuse the issue... for a woman not sure about a man... I have slept with men in the past and didn't feel much afterwards and unfortunately for me they decided it was wonderful and want to continue, my problem was I didn't...so don't understand the fwb thing... But what I do like is if I sleep with a man and we agree to see each other only until we figure out if where it is going... I don't want to date anyone else... I realize that men will go where the sex is available, but I don't see that it makes the relationship any stronger or longer lasting... Yeah the double edge sword... damned if you do and damned if you don't....

pixy dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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Let's get naked Posted: 11/9/2009 3:52:36 AM
You'd think the older you get the more comfortable with your body you'd become... but I have always worried about my looks... not that it stopped me mind you... but in one of the Bridget Jones movies (second one I think) she is feeling insecure about her body and wraps up in the bedsheet the next morning... her bf looks at her and says he likes looking at her bum... she smiles and drops the sheet... I think that is all that needs to happen is for the person you're with to find you attractive... with close girlfriends, we get naked around each other when changing clothes or getting ready to go out on the town... and its only with those friends who love you no matter how you look.. meaning they aren't gonna run tell someone else about your flaws... but for the first time??? I'm gonna be nervous.. no doubt about it... and yes, wine and candles help ease the tension.. I like too people who say they are going to date someone relative to their own looks.. but if a personal trainer boyfriend wants to help me get in shape I'd like it... lolol... I have had one of those in the distant past... was kinda nice... met him when I worked at Bally's (good 15 yrs ago)and yes even then I scrutinized myself... wish I had the body now that I did then.... I have Osteoporosis which has caused me to slow down.. as being high risk for fracture. I think when you've got something chronic going on in your life that causes you to not be able to do the things you used to that you can be more worried about your appearance. I have talked to many people who have had health problems that have taken a toll on how firm they are...

pixy dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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Sitting solo on a scary Saturday (Halloween) Posted: 11/9/2009 3:15:45 AM
I had the dreaded flu so stayed home... but probably would have anyway... I still have a son living with me and a special needs brother so I can't say that I'm alone.. but I do know that since both parents are gone the siblings don't get together like we used to. I have friends come over on Thanksgiving since I don't see extended family. I am at the age where like you ,we find ourselves with nowhere to go... so its fun to have them over and enjoy friendship. Because to be honest my friends are as important as my family... we are never truly alone unless we choose to be... and if they have places to go I know we'll make it up... one day or another... But I dearly love Halloween... was just to sick to get into it this year... and like some others we only had a few trick or treaters...

pixy dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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Going out with the opposite sex while in a relationship Posted: 11/8/2009 12:38:12 AM
I wouldn't be ok with it at all... not what you're describing.. I think we should really ask ourselves the question before we do something... how would we feel about it.. I realize that people find excuses... but this should be a no brainer...not in a committed relationship...

pixy dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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How far before you cross the line? Posted: 10/31/2009 3:29:02 AM
For me it's all about intent.... most would realize what constitutes cheating... its whether or not they want to admit it....

pixy dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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Let's take a walk in the woods Posted: 10/31/2009 3:10:31 AM
Sorry I'm still laughing over the "freakin teen vampire wanna bes out there trying to capture some sort of Twilight fix". But no, if a guy wants to meet me in the woods, I'm gonna be a vampire... girls gotta protect herself ya know...Boooooo Seriously.... don't walk in the woods with strangers... bad idea... dang sounds like one of those stupid horror films where you are sitting there saying NO, DON'T OPEN THE DOOR.... NO, DON'T GO OUTSIDE ALONE... NO, DON'T SPEND THE NIGHT IN A HAUNTED HOUSE.... NO, DON'T WALK INTO A DARK ROOM... NO, DON'T CHECK OUT THE BASEMENT....

pixy dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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Why women have more sexual prospects.. Posted: 10/31/2009 1:06:33 AM
I didn't realize that sex was supposed to be about numbers... what was that quality? quantity? thingy?

pixy dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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HOW CAN YOU BREAK UP WITH SOMEONE WITHOUT CAUSING THAT PERSON PAIN? Posted: 10/31/2009 12:55:50 AM
I wonder how many times the friend has tried to break up with her. I wonder if she realizes it or not? Surely if you are in touch with a relationship you will know something is off. There is no way of not hurting someone in my opinion unless you stay til they are over you.. geesh... I think it can be really difficult(on your part) to hurt a really good person, who just isn't the one, or it can be difficult to get rid of someone that won't leave... which one is she? But actually a really decent person won't want you to stay either... Can we truly let go of someone who loves us (presuming we don't love them) cause they are the only one around at the moment? So what is the true scenario? When worrying over our own conscience we need to understand our true motives...

pixy dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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stood up on my first date. Posted: 10/22/2009 10:30:33 PM
you know alot of us have experienced the same situation, and I think it's good for you to post about it because there is someone out there who feels it's only them... it can happen to anyone... As for him???? who knows.... you would have your own book out selling millions if you had the answers...

pixy dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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Are you truly free Posted: 10/21/2009 11:59:16 PM
Yes I agree with you that there are a large percentage of people who aren't totally free from what ails them. And that because of that, they meet someone new and hold unrealistic expectations on how that person will make them feel. I think it's why there are so many complaints on here about men or women... and the things that they do to one another. You would swear sometimes that men and women don't like each other at all... I have been guilty in the past of doing just the things I am writing about. Hoping to find someone to immediately fill the shoes of my fantasy man after a broken heart. I found myself not giving men a real chance because I was too busy looking past them to something that didn't exist. Then again there are those people that you wish you could be attracted to and know it will never happen...

pixy dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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Are you truly free Posted: 10/21/2009 11:15:30 PM
I had just responded to a post and suddenly it occurred to me that perhaps we run into what we consider game players on this site and others as well because we are meeting people who are not totally free on an emotional level. I have gone on several first dates with men and either they are very angry with an ex wife over money/children or else they are trying to break up with a girlfriend. It occurs to me that maybe the one night stands are due to this wanting to get back at the significant other in their life and maybe trying to break it off or do break up but get back together in a week.. until the cycle presents itself again. I wonder about how many people out there are truly free and not emotionally tied to the drama of another person that they just can't seem to let go of... so they start chatting with someone and feel the excitement that they haven't felt in a long time and go out only to get reeled back in and the cycle repeats with someone new....

pixy dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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Left me sitting at the table, until the waitress said, he left.. Posted: 10/21/2009 11:09:20 PM
I have no idea what makes a person do that. I know I have a hard time telling someone I am not interested especially when they are otherwise very nice. I can coward out myself and leave a email instead of telling them to their face. It depends on the man and the situation though. I have yet to up and leave the date without a goodbye though. I might do that if they were totally rude and crass. Other than that no.... It is one reason why I don't like meeting for a meal on a first meet though. I would rather meet someone on neutral ground for a short time just in case. I have had a guy stand me up before. Once.. we are on speaking terms now and he since apologized, the problem lie in a off/on relationship. I believe we run into tons of those types here....

pixy dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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My ex-husband cheated = The sex was bad Posted: 10/21/2009 10:56:35 PM
I believe the reasons are as varied as there are men/women... sure could be some feel lack of sex is part of it, and believe me women can complain about it too... but when people grow apart and the intimacy isn't there they are vulnerable to distraction. The problem I see is why people feel the need to stay in a bad relationship just cause it IS a relationship... why not just leave and start over... As much as we might want to feel the expection to the rule, we normally aren't either.... so someone can become a chronic cheater... when things don't go their way cause they don't know any other way of dealing with life's issues...

pixy dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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How important is sameness to you at this stage of the game? Posted: 8/19/2009 9:43:39 PM
I don't mind differences if they don't live and breathe those differences.... Country music I really do not care for with the exception of a few... I am not a sports person but I know for the most part I'm outnumbered on that so I deal with it... but at this point in my life don't try to explain the game to me cause I don't care.... just let me do my own thing... but some men are looking for women to plop down on the sofa for hours while they WATCH the darn game... I would feel hostage after awhile... I've tried the can I bring a book???? but in the end they want me to be excited and its just not gonna happen.... now NASCAR.... uggggggg they are a whole different breed of men... its on their shirts and on the garage walls and on their ball caps... its everywhere... just don't think I can do it.... sorry... on the other hand if a man doesn't mind doing some of that on his own or with the boys I can truly entertain myself for awhile....

pixy dust

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Dating in the Dark, men vs. women after they've seen each other Posted: 8/18/2009 7:55:27 PM
Actually I don't think the show is a whole lot different then two ppl online who get swept away through email, IM and phone calls for weeks and then one night they meet in person and what happens.... one of them walks on the other.... What it means is the physical plays a huge role in how people click with one another... call it shallow but its true....

pixy dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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turned off or challenged Posted: 8/18/2009 6:05:01 PM
It would be a huge turn off to me if in reverse a guy approached me with that scheme and find he did with another former gf.... She and her friends sound immature to me....

pixy dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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why does he keeps talking about past relatinships? Posted: 8/18/2009 5:30:51 PM
Having sex really can complicate the logical aspect of how you conduct your life. We stick with people sometimes way to long when what we should do is walk away. Rather then question his motivations you should question why you feel the need to stay.

pixy dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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Flowers? Posted: 8/18/2009 4:55:07 PM
I had someone give me a dozen roses for a first date... I really liked them but it didn't ensure I would like the guy. As it turned out I didn't. I think it depends on what you are comfortable doing and would say a single stem rose would be nice without putting you out or the girl... I also do not feel its necessary but what a nice gesture...

pixy dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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My First Date With Patricia (im 59 she's 53) Posted: 8/16/2009 10:17:03 PM
I would say the women who are cooing over his original post have not been scammed enough times by someone who obviously cares more for his writing style then he does the women he encounters. Ninna must have exploded when she saw his post... I would imagine he loves to write the pretty words that attract a woman to begin with... and he has that velvet tongue and the poor women who have been taken in by it and not look at his behavior.. rolling my eyes.... and no Ninna shouldn't have posted personal information about him but the back and forth between he and she really underscores the true character of this romeo....

pixy dust

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Call me when you get in the house. Posted: 8/16/2009 9:23:21 PM
I do it on long trips... maybe not call even but send a text saying I made it home .... once in awhile I've had friends ask me to give them a call also... and I have np with letting someone know if they ask me to. Not so sure about the question... what do you mean other then this? The sincerity of it? If it's to control someone by time stamping their comings and goings then that's another matter....

pixy dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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Commitaphobic Men Posted: 8/16/2009 9:17:23 PM
Nuthin wrong with not wanting to get married again... not so sure it is in the cards for me either....but I'm not one to get drunk and call someone ranting over it either... seems a tad insecure .... just sort of rolling my eyes over the idea that he felt the need thats all....

pixy dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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Commitaphobic Men Posted: 8/16/2009 2:32:18 PM
I am still snickering over the vision of a cheating man "test driving" my vagina.... But anyway..... if a guy is gonna call me up and cry about not wanting marriage staring down into his drink then I am gonna have second thots about the whole relationship myself, not so sure I want a man with the jitters like that... I mean really... what did the OP really give up... if he was worth salvaging I would imagine she would have.... but something tells me that wasn't the first clue that he needed to be tossed back into the water... I guess I think that if a guy needs to get drunk and rant about his feelings over the phone then there is a HUGE problem... Lord knows if this is the pickings its no wonder I haven't found Mr right....

pixy dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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My friendzone issue is a bit different Posted: 8/15/2009 11:25:13 PM
In my opinion when you have a sister who would go after another sisters man I would say there is something wrong... I would say that there is lots of competition between them.... because I'm not gonna sleep with or have a relationship with my sisters ex or confuse my nieces and nephews with this type of relationship. Now I would also wonder what motivates my sisters ex to come chasing me... and I would imagine I have the answer for that...

pixy dust

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This is a loaded question but alot of people wonder about this Posted: 7/14/2009 8:51:09 AM
My impression is that OP believes when she sleeps with a man that he wants a relationship when he really wants a booty call... now I agree that sexual deviants are a different catagory of from what she is really trying to describe. OP the only fault with a woman in this situation is that she falls for the words and not the actions of a man who just wants sex from them.... just have to take your time getting to know them... and the other thing is sometimes we change our mind about "who" we might want a relationship with. In that situation enjoy what you had including the sex. It is what it is.... but if you are feeling used maybe you need to step back and regroup. Because right now I can see how you might perceive the men out there as just wanting one thing from you. So stop dating for awhile... do things with friends who care about you and will help build you up before dating again...

pixy dust

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This is a loaded question but alot of people wonder about this Posted: 7/13/2009 10:59:41 PM
Speciallady, as much as you might want to figure out the reason why people or men in your situation do the things they do, the real question besides looking for love in all the wrong places is why you sell yourself short hoping for love in these situations. Instead of wasting precious time with why they do it, you need to figure out why you gravitate towards these types... and stop it...It's very hard on ones self esteem to sell out "you" and you need to move on from that. Leave them to their game because you won't change them... all you can do is change your choice of men... find a nice man... he's out there.... But there are tons of books out there based on the peter pans of the world... he at least wears green... lol..

pixy dust

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why do most men judge women by their number of past lovers? Posted: 7/6/2009 9:19:22 PM
Get to know how a person is before you sleep with them.... then you'll know if they are slut material.... geesh... the guys who are so worried about it and has a check list of questions are too insecure for me to date... the trouble is guys want the virginal woman who has only had 5 men in 40 years yet wants her to sleep with him on a first date... it sure doesn't work both ways....

pixy dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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is it weird to ask someone to meet up after a couple of emails? Posted: 7/6/2009 5:23:32 PM
I think it depends on how comfortable a person is with meeting right away. I am not one to drag it out but sometimes it hasn't got as much to do with meeting a guy as not ready to meet any guy. Sometime your life gets in the way and this can be a escape or at least for me yet not ready to date. So sending a few emails is all you are up to. It may not be you per sae...

pixy dust

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The Big O Posted: 6/29/2009 7:08:35 PM
Yes you are young and I don't think its that unusual that you haven't found your "O" yet. It took me awhile too and I would guess from your description that you are reaching the edge before going over... sometimes that can be frustrating if it lasts too long. Thus stopping or maybe it's a fear of what comes next... relax try it by yourself so that you will know because trust me you'll know when it happens.... because of the huge release and tension leaving with a explosion... keep trying you are almost there...

pixy dust

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artistic creativity and compatibility Posted: 6/29/2009 6:53:51 PM
When one is governed by emotion which I would say that I am although I do try to apply logic and the other person is pure logic with very little emotion because in their view running on emotion is a sign of weakness and without logic isn't credible then I'd say there would be problems. If on the otherhand that you can respect one anothers differences in how you relate to the world then yes I can see it working. I tend to gravitate towards a logical male as I also believe we are attracted to those who possess a quality that we admire and want for ourselves. Being too polarized in one direction or the other in my opinion leaves out balance and finding fulfillment in life. I guess long story short if both parties are committed to respect of those differences then you can make a stab at it...

pixy dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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Long vs short hair Posted: 6/29/2009 6:27:52 PM
Funny thing I just cut my hair after a good 10 years of wearing it long... I'll let you all know if it ruins my dating life or not.... I like my hair long... and I was bored and I have a friend who had brain surgery last year and her hair just doesn't seem to want to grow on that side. I decided to show her that hair IS just hair and cut mine off. I don't believe that it will change my habits as far as answering emails however... I don't correlate my hair length with my email habits.... mmmm I will get back with you on that one too... I think feminity has more to do with attitude and how you carry yourself. I can sashay across a room and feel sexy with short hair as well as long... and the man who notices is most likely the one I'd choose anyway....

pixy dust

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MJ or Farrah - eclipse? Posted: 6/26/2009 9:54:57 PM
Interesting thing, my daughter sent me an email today saying she was upset over that fact...so I don't know... most who keep up with celebrity news realized that Farrah was on her own battle but Michael came as a shock. I compare him with Anna Nichole Smith with the buzz with painkillers.. and the field day that we will have over the next few weeks and the fate of his children...

pixy dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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breaking news!!....michael Jackson haas died! Posted: 6/26/2009 9:32:58 PM
I believe he did say that boys had overnights and slept in his bed... geesh I have my little nephews and nieces sleeping with me when they spend the night... does it mean molestation? No.... I saw in a interview where he said he slept on the floor... while they slept in his bed.... it is so easy to take a piece of fact and a vulnerable guy who believes the best in people and has alot of money for someone to set up the perfect crime scene in a time where the public is worried about molestation.. but as with the 1993 case it settled out of court for millions and then the father didn't want to press it further... so what is to be believed? mmmmm With OJ.... that man was guilty alright... no doubt in my mind.... and he got away with it until recently...

pixy dust

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Farrah Fawcett Posted: 6/26/2009 9:23:09 PM
I had been reading about Farrah's battle with cancer.... I lived through the 70's with the "Original" Charlies Angels... my brothers both in love.... lol... and I remember going to get my hair cut in the Farrah "do".... sigh.... a whole bunch of sad attempts to get that great hairdo of hers.... I remember the stylist telling me that not every woman would be able to pull off the hair cut do to different hair textures... I watched "The burning bed" and "Extremities".... both powerful movies... I was truly amazed with the talent that she put forth that was so underestimated prior.. I really want to try and sit through them again just to revisit as it's been forever since watching them.... RIP to Farrah.... a woman who as 20/20 reveled was a woman unafraid and forged ahead with her fight and allowed us to see her at her weakest/strongest real life moments .... I cried watching the show....

pixy dust

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breaking news!!....michael jackson haas died! Posted: 6/26/2009 9:13:58 PM
When MJ was in the Jackson 5 I would never admit I liked the group.. it was "bubble gum".... but when he reinvented in the 80's wow.... LOVED his music... you were lucky to watch MTV back then... but yeah... the other "stuff"... for me the jury is out on his guilt.... I see someone who's entire adulthood make no sense... so how can I make sense of his guilt or innocence.... I say RIP.... because I do truly believe he was a manchild as Paul McCartney referred to him...

Pixy dust

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which would you prefer? Posted: 6/25/2009 9:06:46 PM
Who says being single saves you from a bad relationship?

Pixy dust

Joined: 9/6/2006

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Thoughts and opinions on antidepressants Posted: 6/15/2009 8:09:35 PM
I believe the stigma is more likely that people don't want to go on antidepressants but the ones who truly are in need tend to "self medicate" through an array of illegal substances or alcohol. So if you are one of those who truly are in need of a prescription be it for life or for short term I don't see why people don't consider trying them. There are many out there and as with many chronic illness physical or mental a smorgasbord of pills developed by the pharmaceutical companies and yes they push them but yes there are those in need. To throw a wet blanket on the people who really have a need for it shows that these individuals haven't dealt much with people who are truly afflicted. Mental illness is real and has been real for a long time in history. I just got a email today showing how Opiates and Cocaine were legal and put in Vapors for those afflicted with Asthma , fainting spells, cramps etc.... instead of mental illness you were deemed possessed. So we have been trying to deal and medicate for centuries... someone who is clinically depressed and suicidal or not eating needs something.... drugs doesn't exactly make people "happy" they help them just be normal and able to process out their feelings. You still have to cope with what life throws at you, but not all of us have the chemical balance to even know where to begin to do that..

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