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Traveling Man MS

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First Date-Met On POF-Click-Her Place-The Unexpected Posted: 8/24/2008 7:22:35 AM
It must suck being homosexual!!! That sucks getting called gay by a dude in a pink shirt! ;) Tough situation for certain, but not something you can't overcome. Think about the stories you'll tell your children! "Well kids, on our first date your mother......." Awesome. One phrase comes to mind.......paralysis by analysis. Stop over-analyzing and just chalk it up to one of those embarrassing moments that you can laugh about later on in life whether you are together or not. If you feel you must try to figure out everyone's motivations for doing something you'll spend your life like a modern day Hamlet rather than someone that lived life. It's nice to see that you called her and decided to get to know each other further. Good luck to you.

Traveling Man MS

Joined: 9/7/2006

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am i in danger? Posted: 8/24/2008 6:51:28 AM
My landline is tied to a hangar 56 miles from my house...I don't have one at home... Is that where you bury the bodies then?

Traveling Man MS

Joined: 9/7/2006

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Ditching Posted: 8/16/2008 3:41:25 PM
Start dating us ugly guys, we're too desperate to stand anyone up!

Traveling Man MS

Joined: 9/7/2006

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Anyone watching the Olympics? Posted: 8/16/2008 7:25:58 AM
Not to mention that we came in 4th several times including shot put missing out by 1 cm for the bronze and 200 m breast stroke swimming missing out by .09 seconds. In both of these cases they performed either their personal best or a Canadian record. If we send people over there as our best and they perform at their top level and provide personal best records, I think we should be extremely proud of them and how they performed. Our women's pole vaulter was on TV after not qualifying for the final jumps and she was visibly upset that she let our country down. Rather than denigrating these people that put their own blood, sweat and tears literally in representing us, not to mention the amount of their own personal uncompensated time. I understand that some of you are complaining that our athletes don't get the same perks that other nations give to their athletes, but is that really the goal of these Olympics? Is it all about hardware and medal count? Or is it about sportsmanship, supporting our athletes who are doing their very best, and the experience they get from traveling abroad and competing on the world stage? Do we really want paid athletes of the state who do nothing but that, or accomplished athletes that have full and rounded out lives and are productive citizens in our country? Personally, I prefer the latter and feel that is more the spirit of who we are as Canadians. Should they be compensated? Absolutely. Should their expenses be paid? Absolutely. Should they be able to live a comfortable lifestyle? Absolutely. Should they be paid only to be athletes by the government outside of an organized professional sport or through commercial sponsorship? Not by my accounting. But then, I'm as proud of Dylan Armstrong for finishing 4th in shot put and giving his very best as I am Carol Huynh for getting gold and doing her very best. They both, along with the rest of the contingent, did us proud as Canadians no matter what place they came in. By the way, I felt the need to put the word "swimming" after 200 m breast stroke because most POF'ers are perverts and you would see a huge increase in those wanting to join the "breast stroke team".

Traveling Man MS

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Anyone watching the Olympics? Posted: 8/16/2008 1:43:11 AM
We just won silver in 2 man sculls.

Traveling Man MS

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K - curious at what point/timeframe is it time to say time to log off POF or any other dating websit Posted: 8/16/2008 1:08:29 AM
When you use the word "time" 3 or more times in one title of a thread.........it's time.

Traveling Man MS

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Anyone watching the Olympics? Posted: 8/16/2008 12:43:44 AM
Well, we have a medal, we just don't know what colour yet. Carol Huynh in women's freestyle 48 kg wrestling final some time tomorrow (or is that today?). She is wrestling a Japanese wrestler for Gold, so let's think good thoughts and see if she can't bring home the top hardware.

Traveling Man MS

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Using Subliminal Message in Music To Get Her In Bed Posted: 8/16/2008 12:04:00 AM
Now that we can put songs in our profiles, do you think they have one that makes women answer my messages to them?

Traveling Man MS

Joined: 9/7/2006

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Are you a 'Giver' or a 'Taker'? Posted: 7/30/2008 7:41:04 PM
Wow, if there were really this large a percentage of givers in the world, it would be a much better place than it currently is! I guess we can only take everyone at their word and assume that POF-Ontario is not representative of society in general. Not a lot of people with balance in their lives/relationships. But I guess if you are okay being a giver (or taker) and you have a partner that fits your lifestyle well. My viewpoint is that at times you need to be malleable and sometimes be a giver and sometimes a taker depending on your specific situation as a whole and at any given time. And if your partner can be as malleable and thoughtful, they will know when to be the giver and when to be the taker. That's the ultimate relationship to me. I also try to live life, or at least partly, by this thought: Try to do something every day/week/month/year (whatever time frame is appropriate for you) for someone else who couldn't possibly repay you. Do it not because you want the recognition immediately, but because it's the right thing to do, because it will make things better for but one other person, because it may become infectious and others will do it as well. Even if it is shoveling someone's driveway who couldn't do it themselves or something as simple as that. I think if someone were to try to adopt that attitude even just a little, the world would be a better place. I try to, don't succeed all the time, but when I do, I feel good about myself without having someone else have to affirm that.

Traveling Man MS

Joined: 9/7/2006

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birthday blow job Posted: 7/26/2008 3:48:35 AM
you could change gift giving as we all know it! It sure would make re-gifting something to think about!

Traveling Man MS

Joined: 9/7/2006

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Would You Feel Violated If Posted: 7/21/2008 6:12:34 PM
I think I might feel violated by being told that information. I'm ok with it in the abstract but unless we are flirting or involved, I don't think I really want to know. So, basically if you are attracted to the guy you wouldn't feel that way, but if he was an ugly troll you'd feel violated?

Traveling Man MS

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I've got a date, would like some advice!!! Posted: 7/19/2008 9:01:41 AM
If you really want him to like you, here is some sage advice: Show up naked, bring beer.

Traveling Man MS

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Why do some men do not take care of themselves? Posted: 7/19/2008 8:02:17 AM
Funny, funny thread. Awesome stuff. I do wonder why this is under "Sex & Sexuality". Is it because people have foot fetishes? Or fungal fetishes?

Traveling Man MS

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Why would anyone want to date you? Posted: 7/16/2008 8:55:21 PM
They don't. Thanks for completely shattering what little self-confidence I had. I will be sure to cite you in my suicide note I leave behind.

Traveling Man MS

Joined: 9/7/2006

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Did you cum YET? Posted: 7/16/2008 4:40:59 PM
I just don't see this as an all or nothing proposition. If men are intuitively supposed to know how a woman is feeling at all times, then you are going to be sorely disappointed. On the other hand, I could see how if as a woman you get asked that question every time it would get very annoying. Once in a while if a guy asks because he really cares and wants you to get yours I can't see it being too bad of a thing. When I'm with a woman, I find that you can explore and figure things out as you go because you get the feedback you need, but I have been with some that I either just wasn't doing it for her or she was uptight or just couldn't communicate. I asked the question more or less and she said she had. Could she have lied to me? Yes. But if you're going to lie about that, I'll never understand you. So long as partners you're giving each other feedback as necessary, then the question shouldn't cum up, pardon the pun. And I'm not even going to start with the fact that women, generally speaking, need to be in a mood to get there, or that mood needs to be built. Then the fact that not all women are the same, that is for sure. Again, it's not an all or nothing thing and I don't think that is how it was meant.

Traveling Man MS

Joined: 9/7/2006

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why do big girls think they are average Posted: 7/15/2008 5:11:34 PM
Just so you know, this phenomenon is not isolated to Alberta. I just had a girl ask to chat, so I say okay. She's listed as "Average" for body type and since I'm "A Few Extra Pounds" I figure it can't be too bad, can it? Well, I add her to my MSN and she shows me some pictures and holy cow. She has to be pushing 300 lbs for fun. I don't know where that is average and when you're 5'1" that is nowhere near average. Then of course she starts with the, "what do you think?" So, I ask her why she listed herself as average and she says it attracts more men. I tell her "not this man" and then I'm all of a sudden a shallow jerk. Nice! It's just as prevalent here in Ontario as it is in Alberta.

Traveling Man MS

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fourplay or sex. Which ones better if you had to choose Posted: 7/15/2008 1:48:13 PM
That's hard to say. By 'fourplay' do you mean group sex? Or do you actually mean foreplay? Why would one have to choose? Foreplay is called 'fore'play for a reason. It happens before traditional intercourse type sex. And if you do it right foreplay starts in the morning where, as a guy, you tell your woman how beautiful she is and give her a nice hug with a little squeeze, then send her an email during the day to tell her how much you miss her and can't wait to get her home and be with her, and then a phone call before you leave work with a sexy bent............continue to turn her brain on throughout the day and keep it up during the evening. By the time she gets home from work and sees you vacuuming she'll jump you right there........as long as you promise to clean up the mess. ;)

Traveling Man MS

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what should i do about this girl from work Posted: 7/15/2008 1:23:28 PM
First off, you don't have "such strong feelings" for her since you hardly know her. You may be infatuated with her, maybe even lustful feelings, but how do you have strong feelings for someone you don't even know? Methinks the feelings you have are in your pants and not your heart or even brain. Don't fish off the company pier, it's always a mess.

Traveling Man MS

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The Interview Date Posted: 7/15/2008 1:17:17 PM
Actually, rapture, I think the OP is a man, but that's really neither here nor there. The fact is it happens. I have one specific question that drives me nuts that's as bad as "Tell me about yourself" and that's "Why are you single?" So, you want me to tell you ALL about myself and then you want me to tell you why I'm single? Then you have to give a pat answer to the single thing like "I choose to be single" or "haven't found the right woman yet" or "I'm having too much fun being single". None of which are answers anyone wants to hear as they all beg other questions that go in the wrong direction. How about asking simple questions like "What hobbies do you have?" "Where have you traveled to?" or something that is a little more conversationalist? Then letting it flow from there. And there's nothing worse than the whole relationship recap conversation where you have to answer such gems as "When was your last relationship?", "Why did it end?", "Who broke up with whom?"

Traveling Man MS

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Can't be wife/mother and whore in the bedroom? Posted: 7/15/2008 12:37:34 PM
He has even said he'd be worried that he'd want to cheat in the future, which is not something he'd want to do. Mmmmmm, anyone want their cake and eat it too? Sure he doesn't want to cheat. But he can't help it, he has a "complex". I'm calling shenanigans on this one. It sounds like he wants to be with you to fulfill one part of what he desires, yet have the ability to get some strange on the side. I know someone that is doing this right now. You're in the process of buying right into this. Eventually you may even allow him the odd indiscretion as long as he's "taking care of his fatherly duties at home". I'm usually on the guy's side because I like to root for the underdog, but here I smell BS. If he's attracted to you and will have sex with you there is a compromise to be made in that he could tone down his freaky side a little and you can spice things up a bit.......if he's willing to share. If he wants to hook a car battery to his nipples while you fist-fvck him while farm animals have their way with you, you may want to reconsider. Good luck with that.

Traveling Man MS

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Why couldn't he be honest? Posted: 7/15/2008 7:12:02 AM
Maybe he was "playing the field"? It's not always the smartest move, but until you are an exclusive couple some people feel they should keep some lines in the water. And when confronted, most people (not just guys) aren't willing to spill the beans. Again, not the smartest move, but they feel it's the right thing to do to not hurt feelings and/or 'not get caught'. It is what it is. If you are willing to open up the subject and find out he's lying, move on. Liars are liars, generally speaking. I will reiterate a concept about disappointment and expectations. All disappointment is directly derived from expectation. You are disappointed because you had the original expectation that he was going to stop messaging with other women, which wasn't the case. You then confronted him (or at least had a friend do so) and he lied when you expected him to tell the truth which exacerbated the situation. The first disappointment you could control and not have the expectation you did. The second one, well, I think honesty should be an expectation so you are better off finding this out now rather than later. Between Seafarer and bigshrek, they have things figured out it seems. Giant, broad, sweeping generalizations usually work best I find. ;)

Traveling Man MS

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Why do Babes dig ugly guys? Posted: 7/15/2008 6:40:29 AM
I don't get upset when I see this, it just gives me hope. And it's obviously not true that "babes dig ugly guys" or I'd be beating them off with a stick. Okay, I wouldn't beat anyone with a stick, I'd let them flock to me, but it's just not true. It's a rarity when it does happen and good for them. I'm just glad I'm not "balb", whatever that is.

Traveling Man MS

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Sex and Parenthood.... Posted: 7/15/2008 6:33:09 AM
As a single guy, more often than not at my age the available women are single Moms. That's fine as I think kids are great, but I leave it up to the woman to determine the best time when to meet the child(ren) (although too early raises red flags) but I have mild concerns about intimacy with kids. My last long term girlfriend had a daughter, however the daughter was a teenager and was with her friends, gone to bed, etc. often enough for us to be intimate. Younger children tend to do the wake up and call for Mommy and/or come into the bedroom. Awkward at best and I like to avoid that and the questions that ensue unless the relationship is advanced enough. As a single guy, how do you approach this? When do you ask the woman to send the child to Grandma'a so we can have alone time? Is that ever appropriate or is it construed as "I don't like your kids I only want you"? Should intimate moments be planned out more? Does that lose the romance and spontaneity? Is that a turn off? It's sort of a similar look, just from the other side.

Traveling Man MS

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Would you cheat,knowing what you know now... Posted: 7/15/2008 6:07:01 AM
Nope. Pretty simple for me. What I know now is what makes me who I am. I have never cheated and to the best of my knowledge I've not been cheated on. I have suspicions, but that's all they are. For me, cheating either emotionally or physically is not a selective or opportunistic concept, but rather a morals and respect based reality. Before thoughts of cheating occur I look at the actual relationship and determine if this is something worth continuing and communicate with my significant other. If it doesn't work out, then it's time to move on and then it is okay to pursue something with someone else. To me, to cheat and say that the relationship was over, or didn't get sex at home or another of many excuses I hear is ridiculous. Either party needs to grow a set and end the relationship before starting a new one. OP, you did the right thing as tempted as you may have been. Beyond that, it's hard to comment on whether you should have ended your relationship any earlier or not, so I won't comment.

Traveling Man MS

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If everyone in the world was blind, would you still be single? Posted: 7/14/2008 8:46:43 PM
If everyone else was blind I'd be a stud. But that is not the case. And as a sexual, visual creature, part of attraction is physical. Call it shallow if you will, it's just simply the truth. Could I overcome some lack of physical attraction if the other parts of the puzzle were overwhelmingly present? Sure. But that isn't always the case. If I'm shallow because I expect there to be MUTUAL physical attraction, then I'm shallow for sure. As for her question, it probably shouldn't have gotten that far. If I were in your shoes and she started berating me for being shallow, I would have explained myself once calmly letting her know that I didn't feel there was physical attraction. Beyond that, you are going to be defending yourself to every woman you meet that you aren't attracted to accuses you of being shallow. Stick to your guns, but also don't close your eyes to those that you may not be physically attracted to immediately, but the other parts of attraction are there such as emotional, intellectual and even spiritual.

Traveling Man MS

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I was just reminded... Posted: 7/14/2008 7:31:35 PM
Running around naked after a bath.

Traveling Man MS

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Cheesiest Pick up lines Posted: 7/14/2008 9:49:38 AM
I nearly fell off of my chair one night. At a bar and a buddy of mine starts talking to a chick sitting next to us. Let me preface this by saying she was very good looking. In about 5 minutes he breaks out this gem, "Hey baby, listen. I've been on an absolute tear this week. In fact, if I took you home and fvcked you, you'd be by far the ugliest chick I've fvcked all week." Not 5 minutes later they left the bar together. I was absolutely dumb-founded as he's not a great looking guy or anything, just didn't care so much that it gave the air of confidence. I learned from the situation and just used my confidence differently. It still was pretty amazing to see it actually work.

Traveling Man MS

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She can't have children Posted: 7/14/2008 9:10:23 AM
But she doesn't have the right to go psycho on him because he wants a family, and because she offered him one of her old cell phones. It's a little known fact, Normie, that in some societies deep in the Amazon that the offering of a cellular device, be it a cell phone, PDA, or other similar device constitutes an offer of marriage. This may or may not come with a family in the future. Upon accepting said device constituted the acceptance of the proposal of marriage and therefore she was very much justified in getting angry. (Cliff Claven would be so proud)

Traveling Man MS

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Just went on a first date (coffee date) Posted: 7/14/2008 9:05:21 AM
It sounds like a lame first date. you are short 5 bucks and did not even get a kiss! Hell, if she really liked you she would have put a couple more quarters in the meter. Or you should have offered to at least put some in for her if she wanted to hang out more. I tell you if I don't even get a kiss on the first date I am not going on a second date. First date usually ends in making out and sometimes more. such as a handjob/blowjob but that's usually a 2nd date affair. My typical dates last 2-4 hours. consisiting of dinner or a movie. It costs me anywhere from $25-$50. If it goes well there is lots of talking and kissing. Let me give you a hint, even though a hooker calls it a date, it really isn't a date. And at $25-$50, it isn't a very high priced hooker you're seeing at that! Anyway, OP, often people will build in "escapes" just in case things definitely don't go well. Hers is obviously a parking meter that has little time on it. That doesn't mean she doesn't want to see you again, her time just ran out. For me, it's lunch. 1 hour and out. Then I can think about it and go to the next step. The only way you'll really find out is to call and ask for a 2nd date. Go for it and see what happens. If she says no, then you have your answer. Otherwise, you're just getting lame advice from all of us armchair psychologists. Go to the source. As well, as someone else said, stop being a chick and over analyzing things!

Traveling Man MS

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The Art of Conversing Posted: 7/14/2008 8:54:58 AM
CassaGo, what you addressed is just online conversation. If you are face-to-face the "no time to answer" doesn't apply. I understand what the OP is saying in this regard. I agree with you on the "Tell me about yourself" question. I hate that one. I always answer that one with "What would you like to know more specifically?" I'm not sure that the art of conversation is dead or dying, but I find that we have become such creatures of instant/immediate gratification that if we don't have an immediate spark or great conversation then we all shut down. This doesn't take into account nerves, jitters and such. We expect it to be great right out of the shoot or it's time to move on. Think about how many 1st dates people have nowadays. It's all over on these forums. That's why I look at having lunch 1st dates. They are usually an hour long, you can get to know someone and not have the pressure of an all day bore-a-thon, yet you get to know the person. Where it goes from there rests entirely on the patience of the two involved. If it doesn't go well at all, probably time to move on. If it was just okay, maybe you don't abandon the situation immediately and try a few more dates before calling it quits. If it goes well, maybe you have dinner that night. If it goes well, drive straight to the Justice of the Peace and get hitched!

Traveling Man MS

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Lost in Translation... Posted: 7/13/2008 8:00:59 PM
Distance : just over 1000 miles Monetary situation : hahahahahahaha.......... ::cries:: Transportation : A car that might make it. -The person is DEFINITELY worth the time. -Actually, the right head was doing the thinkin.... it just all felt right. Well, it sounds like you don't have a hell of a lot of choice. Keep in touch with her, you each may be able to vacation in each other's locale and spend that time together and if after a few tries you may look at seeing each other more often. By my calculations you're talking about 14 hours drive one way. You say she is worth it, that's 28 hours of driving with a car that might make it to spend a part of a weekend with her. Only you can answer where this goes. Or should I say "he" can answer that. As I said before, long distance relationships are very difficult at best. If it were me, I'd chalk it up to a wonderful time and go along my way. But that's just me.

Traveling Man MS

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Does intelligence turn you on? Posted: 7/13/2008 7:51:21 PM
Simple answer...........yes. Reason-----> I don't have to explain things to her, she can figure out quickly that I actually mean what I say, and perhaps she could teach me a few things. And maybe, just maybe she is smart enough to realize that I may be able to repay the favour.

Traveling Man MS

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For our first date, I wanted to take her fishing.... Posted: 7/13/2008 7:38:17 PM
This is good advice. One of the least underused secrets in life I've found is NOT even attempting to get into people's heads. Most of the time we'll never know the "real" reason why someone did what they did. So what should we do? Move on and not wait around. If she comes back to you, you have a choice to make then, but until the time that she is free and open to you, keep looking and eventually something else will happen for you if you want it to. Don't give up, there are a lot of people out there without serious complications who want to be in relationships. As far as I'm concerned, I basically try to take people at their word. It's just easier than trying to read minds, figure out ulterior motives or other agendas. If she says it's just too complicated (as you say you understand), then take that for the truth. Sure, you could have easily had a great time as did she, then she got home to a confused and disillusioned daughter and had messages from a jack ass ex-hubby and she just decided that although you're a great guy the timing just is not good at all. That certainly happens. It may mean that eventually her life will become less complicated or it never will. Either way, there are lots of women out there and although she seems great to you now, it obviously isn't possible to happen right now. With that says, from my vantage point you have 2 choices (okay, maybe more, but 2 basic ones). One, you could wait for her, when you do see her you can be supportive and hope that at some point her life gets better and you are able to get together. Two, you could move on and keep your options open and she either comes around or doesn't. That's how I see it, anyway.

Traveling Man MS

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HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 7/12/2008 6:28:39 PM
I found this extremely inconsiderate and it pissed me off to the point where I dont think I will blow him again. Yes, this is probably the best way to deal with it. Deny him oral pleasure ever again, but continue dating him without ever having a discussion with him about it. That's how the best relationships last........ lack of communication. Good luck.

Traveling Man MS

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the ya got off didn't ya / guys Posted: 7/12/2008 6:20:48 PM
I like to tell women that I'm a two pump chump, don't last more than 2 minutes and wouldn't know a vagina if it were right in front of me. That way if I do pretty much anything good I'm a hero. It's called setting expectations. All disappointment is derived from expectations, so if the woman I am with isn't expecting much, I'll probably never disappoint her. Sound like a plan?

Traveling Man MS

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Lost in Translation... Posted: 7/12/2008 7:38:31 AM
geez...people, this isnt 'chat' he's asking valid questions with a given scenario... sigh post on... I would love to post, but I'm waiting for him to answer some of your questions. The size of the geographical area would be my biggest question. More detail is needed in order to answer. It sounds like he had a great time and feels more emotionally involved than just a week full of great sex and conversation, so the easy answer is go for it. But, if they live 1000 miles apart and he doesn't have transportation, the monetary means to go back and forth or the time to, then it's not such an easy answer. Long distance relationships are very, very difficult at best. Once frustration sets in, it gets even more difficult. If you are patient, flexible and have the means to be able to make it work, then it's a little easier. Until we know more from the OP, then I don't think any of us can really answer any of the questions intelligently.

Traveling Man MS

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Shorter men: Thought about dancing?? Posted: 7/12/2008 7:28:15 AM
I like to slow dance with really tall, well endowed women.

Traveling Man MS

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he doesn't wear a condom Posted: 7/12/2008 7:20:37 AM
I love these threads. I mean, you know what's right and you know what everyone is going to say, why the hell post this? Of course, use a condom or don't have sex. Those are the rational choices. If you want to continue to put yourself at risk, then go ahead and have sex with the guy sans condom. It's pretty simple and entirely up to you, not a forum full of strangers. It's like playing Russian Roulette with a gun only shooting yourself in the thigh. You have one bullet in the gun and you spin the revolver and you really get off on the rush of pulling the trigger. You know it's wrong and that eventually you are going to hurt yourself. That's just simple probability. Eventually you will shoot yourself in the thigh, you may not kill yourself but it will sure hurt a hell of a lot and the game is over indefinitely. You may even hit your femoral artery and bleed to death, but most likely you'll just be injured anywhere from a flesh wound to serious damage. We can all say, "Don't do it. Don't pull the trigger, that's just crazy!" But if you think that the rush is "hott" enough you're going to pull that trigger again and again until something bad happens. You're either emotionally scarred or physically scarred. But if you keep pulling that trigger, either one or both situations are likely to occur. Good luck!

Traveling Man MS

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The older woman Posted: 7/7/2008 5:49:18 PM
the hotest sex i have ever had was with a female 67 and i was 38. Grandpa?

Traveling Man MS

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Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around? Posted: 7/6/2008 6:36:40 PM
I've seen it where it is on during a stag or a poker night or something like that, but it's basically on in the background and most guys are laughing at it. No one is whacking off to it. But to jut purposely get together to watch porn is a little weird. I do have to tell a story, however. In a previous business life I had to stop at a client's home to have him sign some documents. Of course you have to do the "small talk" thing and he picks up the remote and starts flipping through channels and puts on hard core porn. He then talks about how he can't believe it is on his satellite package because he has a son and doesn't want his son watching it. Then, he just leaves it on. Didn't change the channel, just left it on. Let's just say I got the signatures and got out of there. Oh, did I mention he was a hairdresser? Odd, very odd.

Traveling Man MS

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Getting The Block Posted: 7/5/2008 7:38:58 AM
I find it just as odd when someone messages you and expresses interest and you respond to them and get n0thing in return back. Why message in the first place? It's just as perplexing as this whole block thing. I've never been blocked that I'm aware of, but I can understand why you'd be confused.

Traveling Man MS

Joined: 9/7/2006

Msg: 492 (view)

Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/4/2008 11:21:53 AM
Nope, they all cheat. Also, all other generalizations are completely true as stated on here. This place is the greatest generalization site I've ever seen. Everyone seems to hit the nail on the head with their generalizations. I can't wait for the next generalization thread is started. Perhaps I can inspire someone with some great ones like: Why do all men ONLY want sex? Why do all women ONLY want money? I'm sure there are many more things that you can take isolated incidents and completely generalize across an entire gender, race, religion or culture that haven't been thought of yet.

Traveling Man MS

Joined: 9/7/2006

Msg: 89 (view)

Nipple colour Posted: 7/3/2008 3:45:00 PM
I'm just happy when the nipple makes an appearance. Don't even get me started on the labia!

Traveling Man MS

Joined: 9/7/2006

Msg: 5 (view)

Strangest Compliment Posted: 7/1/2008 9:14:12 PM
Nice balls. Seriously. Not sure if that is good, but if she is able to compliment me on my genitals it really can't be all that bad. I also got the eyebrows thing, but it was a pity compliment since I had just complained that they were bushy. The pity part was obvious since she later agreed that they are bushy.

Traveling Man MS

Joined: 9/7/2006

Msg: 84 (view)

Settling Posted: 7/1/2008 9:02:03 PM
I can't wait to settle. It's going to be so mediocre! It could only be topped by the fact that I'll be the subject of someone else settling. I'm just aiming for about 6/10. Anything higher would be a bonus and bordering on not just settling. I only dare to dream.

Traveling Man MS

Joined: 9/7/2006

Msg: 15 (view)

Should I let him know I'm interested? Posted: 7/1/2008 8:40:55 PM
Or pass him a note in study hall. Classic! I would also suggest try to play as many games and be totally aloof. Okay, not really. Just go ahead and let him know that you enjoy his company and spending time with him. You don't have to declare your love for the dude, just let him know. If he then turns and hightails it out of there, did you really lose anything? Probably not, since he isn't really for you if that happens. Stop over-thinking things. Go for it in a normal manner like an adult. If that doesn't work, skywriting is another option.

Traveling Man MS

Joined: 9/7/2006

Msg: 133 (view)

Hi just had a date from hell....again Posted: 7/1/2008 8:23:44 PM
Finally this thread has gotten good. Even broke down to borderline racial slurs. Awesome! Keep up the good work folks, you're getting more appealing by the minute.

Traveling Man MS

Joined: 9/7/2006

Msg: 5 (view)

Need some advice... Posted: 7/1/2008 6:13:47 PM
How about just saying, "This is ____________." Insert his name on the blank line. But as someone else said, just ask him what he thinks. Don't be all serious about it when you discuss, make it fun. Or a simple, "You're coming to my family reunion next week, how do you want me to introduce you?" It really isn't something you should worry about, but rather than asking us, ask the dude you're with. Communication.........

Traveling Man MS

Joined: 9/7/2006

Msg: 18 (view)

Hot friends sister, what to do? Is it right? Posted: 6/30/2008 8:32:55 PM
Might work in a class G porno (the highest quality rating that exists in that "industry") I think I'm just as interested to know how you know the class ratings in the porno industry! I had no idea. I just thought there was hard core, soft core and really bad porn and that was it. I've had sex with one of my older sister's friends, is that sort of similar?

Traveling Man MS

Joined: 9/7/2006

Msg: 16 (view)

I hate it when men do this during lovemaking Posted: 6/30/2008 8:21:43 PM
ummmmz...maybe they're so used to being 'alone' that they can't get off anymore aside from that...? I am guessing that this may be partially true. In a lot of cases, a man that is 'alone', as this young lady put it so eloquently put it, he is unable to get off otherwise. I'll bet the Viagra had something to do with it, and I would bet the other dude was lying about using meds. As for the anal, I can't comment as it doesn't do anything for me, but some guys get off on a prostate massage. As for getting two dudes that do that, bad luck is all I can say. Keep trying and I'm sure you will find a better lover. Now, don't forget, sometimes you may want to do something for your lover that doesn't necessarily do anything for you but it does please him just as you should expect he would do the same for you. Sure we would like all of our love making sessions to result in orgasm after orgasm for both partners, but we all know that doesn't always happen. I can understand that the first time that you are intimate you would rather this doesn't happen and most likely it won't next time. But, we all know that three time's a charm! Good luck.

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