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Joined: 9/9/2006

Msg: 89 (view)

Can ugly guys get good looking girls? Posted: 10/16/2006 5:05:06 AM
Shysexyguy, I am sorry to hear about your dog. My kitty died about 2 weeks ago and I know how painful it can be to lose a pet. The women who do not answer your emails do not deserve your attention. You are an attractive guy. Be patient, someone will come along who will find you irresistable!! I feel really guilty not claudia, I was attempting sarcasm about my dog in a whole "woe is me" kind of thing. If I in anyway belittled the loss of your Cat I whole heartedly appologise. Also thanks for recognising me and complimenting me. Once again I am sorry if i belittled your loss in anyway with my veiled attempt at humour.

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Msg: 88 (view)

Can ugly guys get good looking girls? Posted: 10/16/2006 5:02:18 AM
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder,it's all up to the person as to what he or she thinks,your choice Or as it says on those t-shirts "beauty is in the eye of the beerholder".

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What are the Protocols of Modern Dating? Posted: 10/16/2006 5:00:31 AM
^^^^^ you missed 1 sparty make sure your dating women and not girls Whilst I found his list funny I have to say your retort was very quick and I liked it. Kudos.

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so, why are you still single? Posted: 10/16/2006 4:03:13 AM
God knows, it could be a number of reasons. 1. I just aint attractive to the people I find attractive. 2. I am annoying 3. I try too hard which is annoying. 4. My feet smell. Who knows, it's probably just the luck of the draw. At the end of the day i only need to meet one person who i will love for them and they will love for me so I reckon there must be over a billion females I aint even seen let alone dated yet. So there is still hope and the odds are in my favour.

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Msg: 141 (view)

does looks really count ? Posted: 10/10/2006 4:19:01 AM
waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay more appealing to me than a gorgeous man with an attitude problem and personality defects. We each place different weight and value on this things, so we each come to our own decisions about who's ok and who's not ok. So for example if I messaged you and you lived 10 miles down the road and everything for a relationship was practicable, would you respond to my message bearing in mind that how can yo ureally know someone from 10 or 20 lines on a profile. Whilst the image isn't that important for example I am more likely to message someone with no picture than someone with an airbrushed supermodel picture, you still take it into account. So seriously my profile and intrests match urs there is no age or distance issues, would you ?

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Msg: 140 (view)

does looks really count ? Posted: 10/10/2006 4:14:11 AM
men don't know what they want....so they just by the book by the cover. This statement is untrue. Whilst looks play a part, I mean i do not want to date a woman hairier than me and I think a lady should look like a lady and not dress like a man. It's more to do with personality I think the older you are the more wise you become and different things mean more to yuo when looking for a relationship. We call this maturity.

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Agressive females (when she makes the first move) Posted: 10/10/2006 4:00:37 AM
DnickieD I couldn't agree more I find it a surprise all these guys on here say they like to be contacted by women as I have found it gets me very few dates even though I can set up plenty with guys that message me. There seems a bit of confusion on here about whether there are more men than women on here or more women. Different threads contradict. In general I think there are more men on dating sites Hey if you have friends in England you think may be suitable then feel free to hook me up for chat and convo and see what it leads too. I cannot speak for all men but if a lady messages me i will respond, I mean how much effort does it take to be polite.

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Msg: 96 (view)

Agressive females (when she makes the first move) Posted: 10/10/2006 3:58:13 AM
We are here. I have been one to make a first move. On this site, I have emailed quite a few men, too. Was just told today on a reply that I am too old and not tall enough! I would rather be given a reason than ignored. I think you got lucky.

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Can ugly guys get good looking girls? Posted: 10/10/2006 3:56:37 AM
Suffice to say that women are more forgiving when it comes to looks than men are. No way, women are a lot more fussy in my opinion. I shave, I bathe, I have regular haircuts, I just happen to be unnactractive to a whole cross-section of society namely women. Actually, I joke a little of course I am attractive to some peopel but ya need that confidence to show yourself and pull it off. I think women are attracted to confidence, just a shame i have none. The big man said it before in a previous post that it is all about confidence. Ya may ask 100 girls out on a 100 dates but ya only need one of them to say yes and be the one. If ya only ask 3 out your severly decreasing your options. Maybe I should take my own advice and not be so worried of someone saying no. Let's go do it. We can all get laid by summer break On a more serious note my dog just died.

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Msg: 82 (view)

Can ugly guys get good looking girls? Posted: 10/10/2006 3:48:22 AM
I dont like the word ugly.. Everyone is beautiful to someone! Why dont you forget about the outer appearance, and concentrate on the inner beauty. Looks will fade, but character, charm and sweetness will remain forever! Can you please tell that to the English ladies to whom I have sent messages of which only about 0.1% reply. I really think they need to hear it and I need you to tell them lol

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After 30 why is it so hard to find that one person? Posted: 10/10/2006 3:11:43 AM
If I was the type to marry, I would have married when I was about 23 or somewhere around there. But I didn't. And now at my age, there are no good men left. Its my own fault, sure, but I don't even care anymore. So all in all its no loss for me! Good luck to all of you! Wow how wrong you are, you're so far up your own ass that you cannot even see the truth. I am early 30's, I am totally a committed person when it comes to a relationship. I do nto cheat I am respectful, Yet I have not been lucky enough to find "the one" well screw you if you think that makes me a bad person or "less worthwhile" just because you say so. I am totally in awe at your ignorance.

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Msg: 108 (view)

After 30 why is it so hard to find that one person? Posted: 10/10/2006 3:04:35 AM
Im kind of glad that it is so difficult to meet the right one over 30. This means I can enjoy my own life , doing the things that I like. Yeah, its selfish, but its fun! If you wish to remain single which dating in my mind does not classify as single, then what are you doing on a dating site? I am strangely curious, oh I am also anticipating some smart-ass remark such as "oh you can chat on here too" but let's look at the evidence. 100% Free Dating Site. Case closed. If I have misconstrued what you have said accept my appologies in advance or try to make it clearer in future :D I thank you for your time and have a great day.

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does looks really count ? Posted: 10/10/2006 2:57:37 AM
Yes, and so does grammer. Actually it does a little lol I concur. I mean the odd grammatical mistake, that's ok, but if you just write garbled nonsense where it looks like a 6yr old has wrote it then meh, there is no need for it. Especially in profiles; you can write what you want to say in word spell check and grammar check what you have written, then you can post it. It's not hard even if your English is poor. Although having said that I doubt I would be so condescending as to ignore people for bad grammar as I have the intelligence to read between the lines and the intelligence to be able to work out what they are saying or actually ask.

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 10/10/2006 2:51:05 AM
I guess having a photo is not always a testament to character, eh? I think you're being a little harsh. I am shy I hate my picture being taken I have a job in the public sector where is one of the students i taught came across my picture it could be awkward yet I have still put a picture up. I am with the other guy it's not a hard thing to do. I think that if you don;t publicly display a pic you should have one at least available. I personally would take the risk on a no pic scenario but i definately agree with the guy you're slating because he makes valid points. Who are you to assasinate his character because he has a differing POV. [/end rand]

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 10/10/2006 2:43:32 AM
use online ID before i meet people ( getfingered.co.uk) What is that exactly and is that an international thing ? I do find that the people of which you speak ruin it for the good guys I am indeed of the same philosophy as you which is - why lie, if you like the person you will meet and you will get found out. It ruins it for the rest of us who are essentially honest and then fly under the radar becasue the women spend 6mths chatting to like you say some fat guy who said he was an addonis. If I was a woman I would go for the average guys with average pics and see if they have an excellent personality. I actually tend to steer clear of lingerie shots aswell thos ewomen either try too hard for 1 thing, they wanna mess with guys heads, they aint even guys or they are trying to solicite for porn sites. See us men have our issues too lol

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 10/10/2006 2:37:42 AM
Yes, I have a few times. It's always a disaster so I would not recommend anyone do that for any reason. There's a reason some dont come with pics. That's not always true, some people are just shy or dunno how to get thier pic up there and if u talk to them long enough they will send a pic to your cell and u are pleasantly surprised but then they get back with thier ex after meeting you and it all goes "tits-up".

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What are the Protocols of Modern Dating? Posted: 10/4/2006 8:14:00 AM
Tough question, glad you asked lol In all honesty I don;t think there is no answers. I think if i am dating someone then i am exclusive. If i am chatting to people on pof and still at the gettign to know you stage then how can you be cheating on someone by talking to someone else. I think after a few weeks of talking to each other you should at least say I think things are going well are we going to meet and see what happens and make some sort of commitment. I made the mistake of being honest with people before about who I was meeting etc I have been told by women that there are some things that they just do not need to know. So yeah be exclusive if it's going somewhere. If you're unsure ask because everyone is different.

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What is the dream message you want to see in your inbox? Posted: 10/4/2006 5:37:10 AM
I think it's hard for a first contact. You have to sound enthusiastic and positive yet not cheesy. It's a tough call I would also liek to know what sort of messages ladies would liek in thier inbox lol

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Agressive females (when she makes the first move) Posted: 10/4/2006 5:35:20 AM
So where are these so-called first move makers? Ihavent found any first movers on here or anyone willing to respond to my mail. Is my profile invisible or what? But from past experiences I become really flattered when a woman makes the first move. Too many people now a days wait until its too late and when a woman makes the first move it bypasses all of the bs and gets the ball rolling. So lets see those first move makers. I have to agree with this not too many women do make a first move or maybe they do and we are just ugly or fugly lol

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Msg: 92 (view)

Agressive females (when she makes the first move) Posted: 10/4/2006 5:32:19 AM
In this day and age i think women should make the first move. That way it avoids any awkwardness. I think womens attitudes have changed a lot over the years and men no longer know where they stand well I don;t anyway lol besides ya know it does no harm to the ego if a lady tries to chat you up for a change :D

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Best line you have ever heard Posted: 10/4/2006 5:29:17 AM
Never heard a good line used by a bloke they all seem corny and i never had women use a line on me or not that I have noticed lol I can be quite oblivious to that sort of thing tbh lol

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 10/4/2006 5:25:54 AM
I did agree to meet someone without a pic, although I did get a pic before i actually met them but after I agreed, we got on and she was ok but circumstances dictated that it wasn;t to be as she had issues with an ex. Oh well lol

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Can ugly guys get good looking girls? Posted: 10/4/2006 5:22:46 AM
Just get yaself a good job, lot's of money and you will get one but will you keep them that's a different question.

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Msg: 113 (view)

does looks really count ? Posted: 10/4/2006 5:20:48 AM
I think they count to an extent but ya know something they aint that important. I think so long as you can find 1 or 2 things attractive about the person such as nice eyes or a nice smile and you can concentrate on them and have a good personality. I think you can say you have picked well. I do not think I am horrendous nor do I think I am incredibly handsome. I would say I am around the average mark but I good values a sense of morality and manners. I liek to be treated in the way I treat others and tend to treat others in the way they treat me. I guess from a few hundred words and a didgy passport picture you cannot tell all this from a person though ya just have to take the time to find out. I must have loads of people look at my profile and just not respond on the strength of my picture but ya know somethign if someone is that superficial that they want a 6 pac and a brad pitt look-a-like then ya know they prob aint for me anyway. I only need 1 person to make my life complete but I am just as happy to make friends along the way and ya don;t have to fancy peopel to be friends with them so why can;t peopel say i don;t fancy you but if you wanna chat then we can chat and have a laugh lol It's a crazy world and it's even crazier if you're in it lol

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After 30 why is it so hard to find that one person? Posted: 10/4/2006 4:33:31 AM
What men want in thier 30's ? Well i cannot speak for all men but only myself. I am also in the same situation, no children partly by choice partly by circumstance (as in never met the 1 who I felt I want to have them with yet). I think it's just as hard to work out what a woman wants from a man of my age. I think for me I just want someone who is kind, caring but not a mother figure. As you say a lot of people over 30 have had thier hearts broken or been hurt in a relationship I think so long as both people go into a relationship knowing this and realising there may be times when things are going to come to the surface with emotions then you can work round it. I guess from that aspect I want maturity and a willingness to discuss and compromise. A lot of the women (that have had the courtesy to reply many of them don't) who I have spoken too are in the mind set they are not going to let another man walk all over them. In my opinion this attitude dooms any potential growth of any relationshiop because you have to start each relationship new. Sure someone may have hurt you in the past but.... does that mean you have to keep hurting others in the future by not lettign anyone close. Sure words are easier said than acted upon but you should at least be willing to try it, in my opinion. I don't think looks are of prime importance, so long as you don;t have 2 heads and you make the best of what you have I think that's all anyone can ask really and I also think men are more willing to lower thier standards for the right woman. Women so it seems are a tad more superficial from experience on here. I think women are just as clueless to what men want as men are to what women want that's where communication comes in.

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