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 Author Thread: Number of people that you have dated?
 Panchoman
Joined: 9/9/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Number of people that you have dated?
Posted: 1/1/2007 4:53:00 PM
I was talking to some of the guys I work with a while ago. We got to talking about the number of girls/women that we have dated (dated, not slept with). I was surprised at how few most of them had dated.

Men, women - what is your input on this??
 Panchoman
Joined: 9/9/2006
Msg: 42 (view)
 
How do you handle if your blind date has a dissability that you did not know of?
Posted: 10/22/2006 10:14:54 AM
Never had that kind of a situation before... but I do not think that I would appreciate it if the person did not have the "honesty" or self confidence to bring it up before we were to meet...

I myself have a disability (in a wheelchair with MS). I would NEVER misrepresent myself, no NOT EVER. Aside from the need to always be honest with others, I have found out two things:

1st: it eliminates any potential complications of the negative variety (deal killer?, so be it, just move on, not MY problem).

2nd: it is (not) very surprising that with the people you would want to be with, and have gotten to know before you meet, very often almost do not "see" the disability. The disability is WHAT I AM, not WHO I AM!!
 Panchoman
Joined: 9/9/2006
Msg: 111 (view)
 
What do men really find SEXY?
Posted: 10/13/2006 12:13:59 PM
I am referring to England23...
 Panchoman
Joined: 9/9/2006
Msg: 110 (view)
 
What do men really find SEXY?
Posted: 10/13/2006 12:12:11 PM
Actually, I find your pictures quite "sexy" in a very sly way.

I'm really responding to what you wrote. You are absolutely correct, it is all about confidence, pride, and self-respect - with that you project to everyone who and what you really are...

And it sounds like you indeed "have it all", if only you'd live closer to me...
 Panchoman
Joined: 9/9/2006
Msg: 455 (view)
 
Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 10/9/2006 10:24:03 AM
Ninki and...dream...

I think perhaps, that neither of you have been with the right man/men up to this point.

You and your partner both needs very open communication before, during, and after.

Relax, enjoy, in your mind, totally dwell on what is happening... again, RELAX AND ENJOY

It should be an amazing, positive, mindbending experience...
 Panchoman
Joined: 9/9/2006
Msg: 72 (view)
 
Long hair on older women
Posted: 10/5/2006 1:55:50 PM
To all the ladies out there of any age that might be reading this.

Hair length does not define you as a person. Rather it becomes part of you and an expression of yourself. So I say, do not listen to anybody about age relative to long hair. Do only what you are comfortable with not to try too "impress" others. Personally for me, I tend to like longer hair, but short or shorter hair that "fits" the lady's personality can also be extremely pleasant (sexy) for me....
 Panchoman
Joined: 9/9/2006
Msg: 176 (view)
 
How many times a day can you handle havin sex??!!!
Posted: 9/27/2006 10:23:13 AM
Unfortunately, I am only good for three or four rounds every day or two (perhaps three if every day).

I once dated a newly divorced woman (mid-30s) who had only been with two men in her life (once in high school where it was no good at all, and approaching with her husband who obviously didn't know what he was doing either - as explained below). The first time that we were going to be intimate, she asked if I had any K-Y jelly to get her "going". A bit surprised, as she seemed to be a very sexual person, but I complied with their wishes. As things were "moving" along quite well, say about 15 minutes into it, she stopped me and said "what is going on". I asked her what she meant and she more or less replied that her former husband would be nearly asleep by now. Later, when I went to perform oral sex on her, she again hesitated, as she's never had it done to her in her life and that her husband always only wanted and expected “BJ's”. After I had explored the "territory" for quite awhile, knowing (hoping, but it seemed obvious) that she had really enjoyed it, I came up for air and asked her what she thought about it. Her answer was "would you do that again?"

Needless to say, she never asked for KY anymore...

In fact, and here is the point that I was leading towards, she soon became capable of having many orgasms in a row. Not just oraly or vaginally, but after discovering a certain "spot "on the back corner of her neck, and giving the attention to her very nice breasts that they deserved (but obviously never had), she would have orgasms while I was "attended" to these places and more. For fun, we tried counting them one night, and quit when I think we were approarchiny about 20...

Needless to say, she finally had totally discovered what true love making "WITH somebody", not "TO somebody" was all about...
 Panchoman
Joined: 9/9/2006
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Saying too during lovemaking
Posted: 9/25/2006 12:50:19 PM
Hell's Bell's... do whatever "jerks your bobbers" (both partners)
 
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