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blackmanx

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Men, barber or hairdresser? Posted: 8/29/2005 12:25:26 PM
barber shop.

blackmanx

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Letting Go Posted: 8/29/2005 10:41:35 AM
Right you are.

blackmanx

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My ex... Posted: 8/29/2005 10:40:52 AM
I avoid my ex.

blackmanx

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What Do Women Think of Guys with Fetishes? Posted: 5/29/2005 2:31:00 PM
I'm a man with fetishes.

blackmanx

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chivarly Posted: 5/29/2005 9:45:23 AM
I am often polite and helpful to both sexes.

blackmanx

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My Other Half Turns Evil Posted: 4/21/2005 9:30:25 AM
This is what it means to be me....forever.

blackmanx

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Control Freak or Being Smart? Posted: 4/21/2005 9:28:10 AM
I am immortal....no one can be my equal.....I have no rival....born to be the rulers of your world....yeah. (Highlander theme song, originally performed by Queen).

blackmanx

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My Other Half Turns Evil Posted: 4/21/2005 2:40:47 AM
WHAT ????? I loved her. Since we got together, men and women have made their moves on me and I turned them down. I loved Wendy !!! I was willing to forsake all others just to make her happy. And she rewards me by snapping ? I'm starting to wonder if the whole bisexual black guy thing may have blinded me to some important things. Maybe Wendy was evil all along and I just couldn't see it. I truly did care for her and that's how she rewards me ? I'm gonna have a chat with some authorities toward restricting her access to my workplace, home and school. I sensed she may have become my enemy and there's no telling what she might do.

blackmanx

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Pursue the Male Way Posted: 4/21/2005 2:37:30 AM
Pursuing more than one woman at a time gives a man a better chance to find a decent mate. It's a " Don't put all your eggs in one basket" theory. Chicks are tricky. A guy's got to watch out and try to find a decent one. They are rare, those decent ones. Some of us don't believe there is such a thing as a good woman anymore. Mostly, we encounter the evil rotten ones. We became bad guys in order to survive in a world filled with the evil rotten ones. Many men may enjoy the power and freedom of the playah ( and it is great !!!) but none would turn away a good woman. But women turn away good men all the time and seem really drawn to really BAD men. WHY ? Men don't like bad women. Even when they sleep with them. A bad woman will bring you pain. Women LOVE Bad Guys, no one knows why. That's why I think chicks bring most of their pain on themselves.

blackmanx

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My Other Half Turns Evil Posted: 4/20/2005 4:49:30 PM
Thanks, mate. I have given her a wide berth and told my family and friends what she has done. All of them know that the girl I once loved has gone psycho. I'm so sorry about Wendy. I loved her. Very much. More than I ever cared for any woman or man I've had a romantic relationship with. Maybe guys like me aren't meant to be loved. I've done a lot of bad things in the past. I've broken the hearts of both women and men I've had sexual/romantic relations with. Maybe it's the universe's way of paying me back. I thank you for your advice. Peace.

blackmanx

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Why are most women so flakey? Posted: 4/20/2005 4:47:04 PM
dont know

blackmanx

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Races- can they mix? Posted: 4/20/2005 3:01:36 AM
My grandfather was a white man from France who went to Haiti, fell in love with a black woman and married her. They lived together down there for decades and had seven children, including my mother. What does that tell you ?

blackmanx

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My Other Half Turns Evil Posted: 4/18/2005 3:33:10 PM
I am not making things more complicated for myself. My beloved girlfriend is acting like a demon from hell. I never thought she would become that way ! She hurt a kid ! A child !!!! In my worst day, I couldn't bring myself to hurt a kid !! She did it without batting an eyelash. Also, she is threatening to reveal my bisexuality to the world unless I get back with her. I told her that I am not sure that I want her since she's acting like Lucifer's daughter. I keep on wondering what I did to deserve this or what brought this on. It came out of the blue. I dont know what I'm gonna do.

blackmanx

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Why are most women so flakey? Posted: 4/18/2005 3:30:34 PM
I dont know. Ask God.

blackmanx

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Guys... Need your opinion on this Q. Posted: 4/18/2005 3:12:05 PM
There's more to love than making love.

blackmanx

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My Other Half Turns Evil Posted: 4/18/2005 3:07:57 PM
Why does this have to happen to me ? I thought I had it made. A girl who accepts me for who and what I am (annoying bisexual male) and cares for me. I thought we were meant to be together. I didnt think anyone could accept me the way I am. Why does everything have to be ruined ?

blackmanx

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What is the best way to a womans' heart ? Posted: 4/18/2005 3:06:28 PM
i dont know.

blackmanx

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My Other Half Turns Evil Posted: 4/18/2005 2:42:36 PM
Lately, things haven't been going well.... My girlfriend Wendy has changed from a loving and supportive girlfriend into something I hardly recognize. She's bitter now and she swears a lot. She's been doing it for a long time (1 month now). She's become aggressive and not in a good way. I've seen her hit a small boy HARD for picking up his fallen candy and after she did I grabbed her and told her that it's not cool with me. She looked at me with venom in her eyes. I don't know what to do. I always thought our relationship was meant to be. I am a bisexual black man and I know that not many women can accept me just the way I am. Wendy is the first girl I've dated who's accepted my bisexuality. I was in love with her and even thought about moving in with her. I even thought of us living together and having kids. That's up in the air right now. I walked away from her three days ago. I haven't answered her phone calls. On the phone, sometimes she sounds sweet and other times she sounds like the devil. I dont know why she's changed. It seems the person whom I loved is gone. I love Wendy but hate what she's becoming. She used to love kids, now she hurts them. She used to care about people, now she laughs about homeless people and the pain they go through. I am not sure if I want to be with her. She's apologized but I'm not sure if I can trust her again. Lately, I've been hanging out with a guy named John. I used to know him in high school. He played football back then. It's been a long time since I've seen him. Months ago, I ran into him. He's told me that he's gay. He works as a security consultant. He has a son with a lady and he doesn't live with them even though he has joint custody. We've been hanging out. I've introduced him to my friends and family and they like him. All of them like him. They think he's great. John tells me that he is OUT to his family and looking for a good man to be with. The other day, I was feeling down because of my girlfriend's transformation into her evil self and John took me to Boston. We spent the day together and later slept in the same bed WITHOUT DOING IT ! It was one of the best nights of my life. I dont know what to do anymore. I still love Wendy but she's turned bad. When she was angry a few days ago, I hung up the phone because I felt like swearing at her but didnt want to hurt her feelings. She called back and told me that unless I talked to her, she'd tell everyone my secret. She'd tell the world that I am bisexual. That really worried me. I wish she wouldn't be like that. I also have some feelings for John but I refuse to cheat on my girlfriend. I don't know what I want. What should I do ?

blackmanx

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What Makes a Good Man ? Posted: 4/17/2005 5:11:51 PM
At my school, there's a loudmouth kid named Jon from NJ. He's real tough on the outside but he's actually a really nice guy. He let a homeless man stay in his dorm one really cold winter night. The homeless couldnt reach a shelter and might have died of exposure if it wasnt for Jon. I consider Jon a good man, even though he gets on my nerves. What makes a good man in your eyes ?

blackmanx

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Sexual Phobias Posted: 4/17/2005 5:08:37 PM
Ugh !

blackmanx

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What Makes a Good Woman ? Posted: 4/17/2005 5:07:35 PM
I've recently met someone I consider to be a good woman. Jan, the lady who runs the hotline for abused men. She does this out of the kindness of her heart and she's helped me personally. I consider her among the better members of the female gender. What do you think makes a good woman ?

blackmanx

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Violent Woman Faces Charges of Attempted Murder Posted: 4/16/2005 2:56:21 PM
Actually, the MRAs have been around long before my birth and I hope they will s till be around long after I have died. As long as feminists distort facts, manipulate governments and laws in order to gain unfair advantages and hurt good men, MRAs NEED to EXIST !!! An opposing force to counteract the evil feminazis. They are like a plague upon the earth. someone needs to stop them or huMANity's days could be over. I appoint....ME !!!!

blackmanx

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Girlfriend Going Bonkers !!!! Posted: 4/16/2005 2:28:10 PM
Ooookay !!!

blackmanx

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Violent Woman Faces Charges of Attempted Murder Posted: 4/16/2005 2:14:59 PM
MRAs or Men's Rights Activists are popping up all over the place because the system is biased against men. Female Criminals get away with crimes that male criminals can't get away with by playing the Gender Card. I hope the MRAs gain politcal momentum and one day take on the feminazis who hate men so much and change the laws and policies to make them gender-neutral and FAIR to women and men. Most chicks don't play fair, that's what guys dont get. I get it just fine. I got it a long time ago. No hesitation. No mercy. Just doing what must be done.

blackmanx

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Violent Woman Faces Charges of Attempted Murder Posted: 4/16/2005 2:07:07 PM
I'm not bashing, just sharing some interesting news. I thought I'd get a discussion started.

blackmanx

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Violent Woman Faces Charges of Attempted Murder Posted: 4/16/2005 12:40:55 PM
Violent Women run rampant in America. I've always said it. Now, one of them has viciously attacked her husband with a hammer. She has hit him so hard that he suffered brain damage and is paralyzed on his left side. She is on trial and faces 25 years in jail for attempted murder if convicted. http://www.nydailynews.com/front/story/300514p-257186c.html

blackmanx

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is there any trustworthy woman Posted: 4/16/2005 12:10:49 PM
maybe

blackmanx

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Your wife is bi sexual and cheats with a lady would you be more forgiving then if it was with a man Posted: 4/15/2005 4:32:01 PM
I dont agree with anyone using bisexuality as an excuse to cheat. I'm a bisexual man. I've dated both hetero and bi women. I've also dated gay and bi men. All of them expected me to be faithful. That's what I did. I did not use my bisexuality as an excuse to cheat. I'm with a girl now. She knows I'm bi and she's cool with it. I love her so much. I'd never cheat on her with either man, woman or machine. Got that ????

blackmanx

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Prude Boyfriend Posted: 4/15/2005 7:41:36 AM
Give him time. Believe it or not, the annoying bisexual black guy that I am was once shy around women.

blackmanx

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Girlfriend Going Bonkers !!!! Posted: 4/15/2005 7:34:33 AM
Hmm.

blackmanx

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When dating a SOCIAL WORKER Why, do they lie and cheat SO MUCH Posted: 4/15/2005 6:10:42 AM
Social Workers are BAD in my opinion but they are bad professionally in that Social Services are biased against MEN. No Shelters for Men. No help for Men. No counseling. Nada. I don't know how they are personally, though. I've never dated one. Strange, what you said. hmm.

blackmanx

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Why won't Women Date Nice Romantic Overweight Gentlemen Posted: 4/14/2005 12:55:16 PM
i dont know. they're crazy, you know.

blackmanx

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This is what it means to be ME....forever. Posted: 4/14/2005 12:53:52 PM
I find opposition wherever I go. At home. At school. In the courtroom. In the streets. everywhere. All of you like to bother me for many reasons when I am trying to help you or at least do my thing and be left alone. Why not stop bothering me ? Nope. I don't give a damn about any of you. Or anyone on the planet. I am a god among men. Seriously.

blackmanx

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This is what it means to be ME....forever. Posted: 4/14/2005 10:58:46 AM
Ok, here goes nothing. I am 20 years old. I came to the USA when I was 14 years old. I came from Haiti. I am living in Boston with my aunt, uncle, sister and their two cousins. I graduated high school in 2003. I am a deeply closeted bisexual black male. I don't tell anyone about myself. Currently, I am studying Computer & Internet Management at a private two-year college in New England. Back in 2001, my father was traveling from Haiti to America with my passport. He was arrested. As for my passport, It got seized by the department of immigration. I used to come to America from Haiti on vacations. One day, my family decided that we would stay. So, stay my sister and I did. I don't have legal papers. I cannot work. A few years ago, when I was still a minor, my uncle adopted me and my sister. He became legally responsible for us and applied for residency with the bureau of immigration. We've gotten answers from them but nothing definite. I don't have a social security number. I don't have the right to work. Basically, my family takes care of me. I'm a brilliant student and in high school, I won a scholarship which I couldn't accept because of my immigrant status. I don't have a green card or social security number. We've had some problems at home. My sister has become a violent loudmouth whom I stay away from. My aunt is sometimes verbally abusive. My uncle is ever-silent and anti-social. My other two cousins are smart-mouths. This is what it means to be Steeves aka BlackManXXX. I wake up everyday to go to school. It was decided that I would study Computer & Internet Management. I would prefer Criminal Justice. I'm better at Criminal Justice. Nope. The family made t he decision and I am studying something I am not liking too much. I was supposed to graduate in May 2005 but it seems that December 2005 is gonna be my graduation time. My life basically sucks. I have written a 160-page book about the existence of gay and bisexual men and the women and men in their lives. It's very controversial and erotic. It also needs some editing. I am trying to find a publishing house. I'm trying to stay alive. I want to make it. I would really like to become a US Citizen, graduate from college, get a job and then get my own apartment and live my own life. Right now I am enduring some nasty conditions. Rude and dangerous relatives. Unpleasant classmates. Female stalkers. Psycho Sisters. ect. I have certain things that I believe in. I want to help the Gay Rights Movement gain new momentum. I also want to help the Men's Rights Movement. The Justice system is biased against men. Just look at Divorce Laws. Also look at Custody Laws, Sexual Harassment Policies. Also look into False Allegations of Domestic Violence and Sexual Harassment and Assault. Men are always assumed to be the wrong-doers. This is BIAS at its worst and I want to fight it. I want to create Shelters for Male Victims of Domestic Violence. I also want to change the biased laws. I have so many things I need to get done. Someday I will. I have it within me to succeed. Someday I will. This is what it means to be ME....forever.

blackmanx

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Love of YOUR life Posted: 4/12/2005 7:46:24 PM
He sounds great !! Go get him !!!

blackmanx

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Scary Girl Posted: 4/12/2005 7:45:22 PM
I guess you are right. I wish I could spot the bad ones but I dont have a way to do that. I can't detect the evil ones. They look exactly like the good ones.

blackmanx

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Scary Girl Posted: 4/12/2005 7:32:44 PM
I seem to attract a lot of crazy people. I dont know why. I just wish I could lead a normal life. I can't. Why ? All I want is to graduate from college, get a hjob and live in a house with the woman of my dreams and make babies. Instead, I'm jetting around the country helping Male Victims of Domestic Violence.I'm also occasionally stalked by gay men ( I used to date some) and angrry woman ( some I used to date, others hate me for different reasons) and it's just not fun. I look forward to finding peace....someday.

blackmanx

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Scary Girl Posted: 4/12/2005 4:09:08 PM
Ok. Something worries me. At my school, there's this girl named Kristen. She's a weirdo. We never really met. I just saw her around. I never introduced myself to her or anything. Yet I became the focus of her unwanted attention. A few months ago, she started following me places. It got to the point that I felt threatened and my family felt uncomfortable. I told Wendy (my gf) who advised me to tell school officials. I told my school advisor that I had good reason to believe this girl might be stalking me. My advisor and some other school officials had a chat with her and she backed off. I felt like I could finally breathe. Most men think that having a female stalker is cool but it's not. I actually felt scared !!!! Lately, she's been giving me dirty looks. I dont like staying anywhere alone with her and always make sure that there is someone else around, usually one of my friends. This girl terrifies me. I feel scared/uncomfortable everytime she is around. This is not a misoginist rant. This is not a joke. This is real. What do I do ?

blackmanx

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Pussy Exercises... Posted: 4/12/2005 3:18:57 PM
I didnt know about this !! WOW !!!

blackmanx

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New Boyfriend Is a Puzzle Posted: 4/12/2005 10:41:12 AM
ah,luv !

blackmanx

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Gender Issues Epiphany Posted: 4/11/2005 7:20:47 PM
secretsunfolded, you are a smart and interesting person. Stay that way !! I wish more people saw the world the way you do.

blackmanx

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Are American women out of control Posted: 4/11/2005 7:01:40 PM
We got bad seeds on both sides.

blackmanx

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Gender Issues Epiphany Posted: 4/11/2005 6:51:31 PM
Okay. Let's try this one more time. There are good male leaders. There are good female leaders. There are male criminals and female criminals. Good and bad are not gender-biased. A male leader can lead just as well as a female leader can. It depends on ability and will, not gender. Seriously. You can't just look at someone and decide what kind of leader they can make. You have to watch them in action and learn. Bashing either gender is wrong and all. Men, respect women. Women, respect men. People, respect each other. Live the golden rule. Peace.

blackmanx

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(-; ) ? ( Female Serial Killers ) ? ( ;-) Posted: 4/11/2005 6:50:25 PM
Okay. Let's try this one more time. There are good male leaders. There are good female leaders. There are male criminals and female criminals. Good and bad are not gender-biased. A male leader can lead just as well as a female leader can. It depends on ability and will, not gender. Seriously. You can't just look at someone and decide what kind of leader they can make. You have to watch them in action and learn. Bashing either gender is wrong and all. Men, respect women. Women, respect men. People, respect each other. Live the golden rule. Peace.

blackmanx

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Fat Girls CAN be Sexual :) and so can anyone of any size:) Posted: 4/11/2005 6:32:06 PM
Yeah !!!

blackmanx

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Aquarius Male & Scorpio Female Posted: 4/11/2005 6:30:19 PM
Lady, I resent that. Way to ruin my night ! Now I'm gonna sleep with one eye open !!!!!

blackmanx

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Gender Issues Epiphany Posted: 4/11/2005 6:27:59 PM
I never said I thought females should rule the world. I believe in equality and power-share. A male leader with a female counterpart presiding over world issues and discussing everything together. In an ideal government, you'd have several representatives. A gay representative. A bisexual representative. A white representative. A black representative. A lesbian representative. An MRA (Men's Rights Activist) represensatitive and a feminist representative. I dont think women are more evolved than men. Nowadays, there are more opportunity for women. Evolution takes place at a biological and genetic level. The men and women of today are genetically identical to those who walked the earth 10 000 years. They are still Homo Sapiens. One species. Two genders. Many races. Many orientations. One people. I don't think men and women should be on separate camps, dammit ! We should UNITE and be together, like we used to be in the beginning.

blackmanx

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Love of YOUR life Posted: 4/11/2005 6:10:58 PM
who is the love of your life ?

blackmanx

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Love of YOUR life Posted: 4/11/2005 5:38:05 PM
I made some changes....lol.

blackmanx

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Gender Issues Epiphany Posted: 4/11/2005 5:28:04 PM
I just realized that Men are Stupid. Take this example. I make flyers with information about legal help for male victims of domestic violence (lawyers, shelters, books, websites, ect). I hand them out to people. I've gotten wonderful responses from most of the women. Many agree that DV Laws are biased. Most men weren't that bright. Many rejected the message without reading it. Some men were smart and took it with them. Most weren't. I consider myself an MRA or Men's Rights Activist. Lately, when confronted with the intelligence of the feminists and the stupidity of men, I wonder if I am on the right side. If women are smarter, they deserve to rule the world. Look what men have made of it in 2000 years of man-leading civilization ? What surprises me within my own movement is that the most dedicated MRAs are WOMEN. Many women fight for Men's rights while most men dont know that the MRA movement exists. I feel as though if most men dont educate themselves and get smart real soon, the world will get worse. For the record, I have no problem following the leadership of a fair and competent female leader. I ask the same fairness and competence of my male leaders. They dont always have it. I apologize to any woman or man my posts may have offended. I now see the light. This is no BS. The epiphany hit me tonight. peace.

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