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frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 165 (view)

Never married & no kids Posted: 2/4/2008 10:24:28 PM
geneseo I would ditto what you said, do people want someone that has screwed up a lot or someone that has had good judgement?

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

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A nightowl living with a morning person.... Posted: 1/8/2008 7:36:44 AM
Ignoble I used to be like that, it drove me crazy. I finally talked to my doctor about it and he prescribed a sleeping aid for me. That was the best thing I ever did. Now I get a good nights sleep. Still don't go to bed untill 11 or 12, but it is better than being up all night.

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

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Bartending 101 Posted: 11/30/2007 7:15:37 AM
I have a very simple one that is great for winter time. Hot chocolate and rum.

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 135 (view)

Woman Sues Police After Losing Baby Posted: 2/11/2007 1:24:31 PM
I used to work for the KCMO police dept. you have no idea what the police have to deal with. I am sure they just assumed that she was not telling the truth, this is the normal situation. It turned out bad, but do you want this woman to have another child! More policeman die from car checks than anything else.

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

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Tomorrow - how do I be strong? Posted: 2/11/2007 12:38:55 PM
I have found in times of trouble like this it helps to change as many things in your life as you can. Keep your mind busy so you do not have time to think about your problems.

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

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mightbeme04's own kick-butt chili Posted: 2/10/2007 3:59:45 PM
Everybody loves my chilli and I just follow the directions on the can of chilli beans and add a red onion and hot peppers.

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

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artistic/creative people and relationships Posted: 2/10/2007 3:52:38 PM
I think that is a good question because I find that non-artist do not appreciate the things that I do. I think artistic people help challenge other artistic people to do better work. I don't use that info. to find a mate.

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

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Could you resist ? Posted: 2/10/2007 3:44:56 PM
This is real easy, just use the golden rule, what would you want someone else to do if they were at your house?

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 34 (view)

Who gets over 300 messages a day? Posted: 2/8/2007 4:58:42 PM
Hey Decemberman That's about as well as I have seen it put.

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 49 (view)

Truth Hurts Posted: 2/3/2007 12:16:09 PM
What about people that have never been married compared to people that have been married more than three times?

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

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Am I being played???? Posted: 2/1/2007 3:15:41 PM
If you want to talk to him, why don't you call him? Why is it up to him to make the call?

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 48 (view)

What happened to old fashioned dating? Posted: 1/28/2007 1:32:58 PM
Sher You hit it on the head. When women started burning their bras they were also destroying man-woman relationships. I know when I open a door for a woman I don't know they look surprised. When I walk on the street side when I am with a woman they have no idea what I am doing. I don't pull a chair out for a woman anymore becuse some of them take offense. I would love to go back to the 70's, it was a lot more fun!

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

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SYMPTOMS OF LOVE Posted: 1/26/2007 7:07:14 PM
If it is love, you will know it. It is the most wonderful thing that can happen to you!

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 363 (view)

Tatoos on a women turn on or turn off Posted: 1/18/2007 7:22:12 PM
I look at it about the same as people that walk around with a baseball cap on backwards, it usually is a sign of ignorance, not always but look at the percentage of people in prison that have tatoos.

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 296 (view)

Dating men who have never been married Posted: 1/18/2007 7:15:11 PM
I am over 50 and never been married. Thank god, I think of all the women I could have married and didn't. I would have been one of those guys that's been married 5 times. I am uncle Barry to many kids and been an influence in their lives. There is a big difference between giving to your own kids and giving to kids that you care for that are not yours. The stigma of never being married has nothing to do with what kind of person you are.

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

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A question for the Guys...Ever been TOO BUSY TO CALL? Posted: 1/18/2007 4:39:34 PM
Most of the time I don't think people are that busy. I have had situations where I had to keep working to get done and when I was done I was too tired to call anyone till the next day. Some jobs are pretty demanding so you just have use judgement.

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

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how to kiss someone? Posted: 1/12/2007 2:38:05 PM
You have to keep in mind that some people do not know how to kiss, so this theory could be misleading. If both people are good at kissing and they both get turned on, then yes there can be sparks flying all over the place!

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

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Anyone else always fall in love but are never loved back? Posted: 1/11/2007 8:32:43 PM
Actually I just met someone on this site that I really like, don't know where it is going but, that is up to us. Just keep having fun! Don't worry about it, it will happen! Barry

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

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Untraditional gender roles, can you handle it? Posted: 1/4/2007 3:59:43 PM
I think the bottom line is that the work should be split up equal so one person does not have to do most of the work.

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

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The problem with online dating.... Posted: 12/21/2006 6:47:12 PM
Just to give you some positive feed back I have dated a number of women off of the internet, many of them are now my friends. One of my friends just married one of them. This is no different than anything else, it just takes time!

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 284 (view)

Why do men do the diappearing act? Posted: 12/21/2006 6:39:40 PM
If I were you I would buy a dictionary!

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 46 (view)

Where are all the good guys? Posted: 12/21/2006 6:37:53 PM
I agree with wingtech, most women don't know a good one when they see it.

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

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Prostitute Murders?????? Would any other job be specified??? Posted: 12/19/2006 4:47:55 AM
I think it is important to bring out the fact that prostitutes get murdered, it's part of the job. The point here is if you want to stay alive don't become a prostitute.

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 104 (view)

He Loves Everything About You, Except Your Cat Posted: 12/18/2006 5:05:50 PM
Most peoples pets are the same as children to them. It is a package deal. If the love is not strong enough to overcome this, then it is not strong enough.

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 38 (view)

English Couples. Why is our divorce rate so high? Posted: 12/17/2006 8:29:26 PM
The secret to a good relationship is two houses!

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 47 (view)

That Very Small Intimacy Posted: 12/15/2006 5:54:47 PM
The secret to a good realationship is two houses! When you are together you don't even have to think about it. You are making out whenever you are together!

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 337 (view)

Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy? Posted: 12/15/2006 5:50:55 PM
You have to understand, they want a great body or a pocket ful of money. Don't take it personally.

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

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Great Expectations and Matchmaking Posted: 12/15/2006 5:40:54 PM
I am from KC, how do you find out about the local events?

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 193 (view)

Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type? Posted: 12/14/2006 4:13:43 PM
I don't think the love of sex is man or woman, it is an individual thing. You are into sex or you are not. There are those of us that work at making sex the best we can and there are those that can take it or leave it.

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

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Its simple to make a woman happy... Posted: 12/7/2006 12:22:06 PM
Finally a woman that is honest about it. I have said this for years but they always deny it.

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

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A good backrub in a relationship Posted: 12/3/2006 9:24:04 AM
How about a book on massage, maybe that would get him into it.

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 161 (view)

How do we feel about Michael Richards? Posted: 12/1/2006 7:35:01 PM
I could never understand why black comics can say niger every other word but when a white comic uses the word it is bad. I guess we need a National Association of White people to defend us. It's too bad that the largest minority in this country (the white man) has no organization to stand up for him. Why don't we try letting everyone else do all the work and the white man can go on welfare. Let me know I am old and tired.

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 167 (view)

How many of you would date a man with no car or license??? Posted: 12/1/2006 7:24:21 PM
Hey, if you are 65 or older I can understand ,otherwise, happy trails!

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

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my scary dream Posted: 12/1/2006 7:21:24 PM
I still have dreams about women I have been with over 20 years ago. Once someone is in your heart they never leave.

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 64 (view)

Technology: The death of relationships Posted: 12/1/2006 4:58:01 PM
The bottom line is that there is no reason to get married unless you want to raise children. If love is not a strong enough bond to hold you together then you shouldn't be. As far as sex toys go, I think they are wonderful, use them together or alone they enhance sex for one or two. People have to become more dedicated to sex in their relationships, open up your minds!

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

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How quirky is too quirky when it comes to a date? Posted: 12/1/2006 4:50:06 PM
I don't know if this fits in or not but it was a lot of fun! I met this woman for drinks at one of my favorite places and we hit it off very well. She asked me if I would like to come back to her place for dinner. I said," sure sounds fun". I followed her back to her place and we had a wonderful evening. We went out a few times after that but, it did not work out but ,we still had a great time! I think whatever you do if it is clicking it doesn't matter.

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

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The days of US Hedgemony are ova! Posted: 12/1/2006 4:34:57 PM
The bottom line is Bush has already brought us to the bottom of the barrel. The alternative is not much better, but anything will be better than what we have.

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

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Saudi Girl Sentenced to More Lashes Than Her Rapists Posted: 12/1/2006 1:45:19 PM
These are the animals we are allowing into our country. These people are the "Pit Bulls" of the world and should be treated as such.

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

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Need advice.. am I overreacting..? Posted: 12/1/2006 12:30:00 PM
Keep in mind that some people do not have time for dating or a relationship even if they want one. If he keeps his lifestyle this will never change.

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 394 (view)

Have you ever paid to use a dating site? Posted: 12/1/2006 12:19:59 PM
POF is the best arrangement because the pay sites have other motives. I have met a number of woman on Yahoo, but I have been with them for several years, they are my provider so it is convienant. Like I always say it is a numbers game. You have to remember there are people on this site that have already found someone, but their profile is still on here but they never check it. It makes you feel like you are being ignored, but many times that has nothing to do with it.

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 56 (view)

why are men intimidated when a woman asks them out? Posted: 11/28/2006 3:47:54 PM
I have no problem with it, it happens all the time just because I am a busy person and don't have time to plan for these things so I love it when a woman takes care of it!

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

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so she lies Posted: 11/28/2006 3:42:41 PM
Two words I would tell her"Happy Trails".

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 24 (view)

cyber stalking.........what's your opinion on it? Posted: 11/28/2006 3:36:32 PM
The bottom line here is that the internet is no different than real life, you have to have your guard up. If it sounds too good to be true it probably isn't. Don't spend months talking to someone before you meet them. A couple of phone calls and then meet somewhere neutral. Once you meet the person you should get a gut feeling about what kind of person they are and go from there!

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

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Has anyone ever been dumped via email? Posted: 11/28/2006 3:23:35 PM
You gotta be glad it happened before you got any closer to a flake like that!

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

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why do girtls always say they just wanna be friends Posted: 11/28/2006 3:20:52 PM
Don't take internet dating serious, just have fun with it. Most of these women think they are going to meet prince charming and until they figure out that is not going to happen they will be giving you the brush off.

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

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Manners during an IM conversation? Posted: 11/27/2006 9:52:01 PM
I think you have to give people time. I usually check my mail and then do somethig else. I also leave town and don't check mail for days. Sometimes it takes me weeks to get back to people, but it is my lifestyle, not becuse I don't want to

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 124 (view)

Dating a woman who has been abused in the past Posted: 11/27/2006 9:41:15 PM
I have been threw that and you think because you are a good guy that you can heal that, you can not! It takes time and you cannot do it. They have to do it on their own, you cannot do it for them. If you want to be a friend they can use that, a relationship will fail!!

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

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Dreams of your Ex???? Posted: 11/27/2006 9:29:29 PM
The women I thought I would spend the rest of my life with, has been gone for twenty years and I still dream about her ,but I'm glad we are not together, becuse the reason you left will always be there. The cool thing is that you love someone that much!

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 246 (view)

Breastfeeding on a plane. Posted: 11/27/2006 8:06:01 PM
It's called tacky! I would be willing to bet she was not sitting in first class because she had none. If you do not have any more class than that you should take the bus!

frenchbearman

Joined: 9/11/2006

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when is a guy ready? Posted: 11/27/2006 7:58:05 PM
I am sure the people that play the lottery ask the same thing, " how come I never win" the odds are about the same. You have to keep playing or you are never going to find that person. Some people get lucky and some people don't.

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