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raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 253 (view)

When he doesn't tip enough......... Posted: 11/24/2007 8:19:56 AM
I've always thought it was customary for the person who isn't paying for dinner to leave the tip. This is the way I've seen it done both with my parents and my friends, and besides if a girl is willing to leave the tip on a first date it shows that she was more interested in me for than just the free dinner.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

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Has anyone had to deal with a dating gap like this? Posted: 11/24/2007 8:17:13 AM
There really is no difference in strategy. The difference is that you are no longer in school and not meeting a lot of attractive single women everyday. Join clubs, organizations, volunteer and most of all make friends. The key to dating after you turn 21 is not hitting up the bars as a single man on the prowl, but in social networking as one of your buddies will say to you one day "Hey I'm having this get together and there is this really cute girl I want you to meet."

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 132 (view)

How closely do you look at someone's teeth? Posted: 11/24/2007 8:11:13 AM
When I was growing up I had some pretty horribly crooked teeth and was mocked mercilessly for it and called some pretty nasty names. I put up with braces for like 4 years, but I lost my retainer so my teeth are still kind of crooked and I am very self conscious about it. And as a result I am very critical of teeth myself. It's one of the first things I notice in a woman, and I think missing, broken, rotten teeth are just gross on anyone. I don't mind yellow or false teeth so much and I give a bit of leeway when it comes to them being crooked, but missing teeth is a deal breaker for me.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 32 (view)

Is my boyfriend gay if he looks at gay porn? Posted: 11/24/2007 8:07:26 AM
Yes If he still watches straight porn then he is bisexual. Either way you probably don't want to be dating a guy who spends a lot of time watching porn.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 34 (view)

Why does it seem there are no more good women out there? Posted: 4/15/2007 4:03:12 PM
Oh there are nice women out there, but they are all taken. And yes, there is such a thing as too nice!

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

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is he just after sex? Posted: 3/18/2007 7:46:22 AM
How many times has he done this? Are you picking up the tab sometimes? Here's a hint: When a guy asks a woman out, he does so becuase he finds you sexuall attractive. Yes, later on when eh gets to know you he will appreciate you for how good you are with kids, how much you love animals, or your mad programming skillz. But when he meets you on the quad and says "Hey let's go get some coffee!" it's becuase he thinks you are cute, and would like to get into your pants. Obviously he wants to move on to more than friends. No one would put up with a friend who never picks up the tab not even Bill Gates or****Cheney. As to why he isn't always pestering you maybe he is a "nice guy" and doesn't feel like it would be proper to bring it up. Though yeah, after the third dat or so you both should have an idea that you are on the same page. If you don't find him attractive give him the "friends speech". If you do find him attractive, then let him know! Don't leave the poor guy hanging with an empty wallet at the end of the night. Or else he will be on the heartbroken forums and posting about how bitter he is. Preparing for flamewar!

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 15 (view)

Friends v. Booty Calls Posted: 1/1/2007 5:38:16 PM
So let me get this striaight, you don't find him sexually attractive at all, but basically keep him around becuase he seems to attract all the hot guys around you? What is he getting out of this relationship? Sounds like you are using him (and be honest, if a guy you liked only let you tag along when he went out clubbing becuase you make a good wingchick, we would all denounce him as a player and another user.) Yeah it is crappy that he flakes on you, but I'm thinking maybe you guys aren't that great of friends at all. Besides, as a guy who has been used by women to introduce them to all the hot guys I know, that behaviour is annoying in women.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

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look at you like a sis or too good of friends Posted: 1/1/2007 5:33:04 PM
1) He is not gay...I know that How do you know? 2) I'm not ugly...I have no problems with getting a man in bed and for more than 1 night Well, yes, but are they men as attractive as this guy, or are they the usual rejects you are tired of dating? And OMG! You can get random men to sleep with you! That's like such a random accomplishment. I bet your mother is proud. 3) HAVE YOU LOOKED IN THE MIRROR LATELY, RAXDANTLOR! YOU LOOK GAY AND I WOULD BE REPULSED BY YOU!!!! I may me repulsive, mean, and dirt poor, but at least I have the courage to not hide this fact. And just how does someone look gay? Just becuase I wouldn't date you must mean I'm gay! Oh yes, it has nothing to do with the fact we have nothing at all in common and you're comments are ignorant. See, and I'm willing to bet that in a few days you will be crying about how men don't like you becuase they ar eall shallow and don't appriciate you for your mind, but then again you call people you don't even know gay. Finally, let's say that I am gay, would you really have a problem with that? Do you really expect to attract a quality man while being homophobic? The problem is I'm one of the guys...I like muddin, fishin, and that good dirty stuff instead of gettin manicures and pedicures and SHOPPING Oh puhlease! That's like me crying that the problem that women don't like is becuase I'm unattractive, don't do sports, and I'm just a big nerd. It would have nothing to do with the fact that I'm angry young man who is bitter, see all women as being livfesucking succubi or that I have impossibly high standards for women.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 19 (view)

How many dates before the first kiss??? Posted: 1/1/2007 5:14:17 PM
He's just not that into you. I would say that he is gay, but if he is having threesomes with 21 y/o women, then I guess that is not the problem.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

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look at you like a sis or too good of friends Posted: 1/1/2007 5:02:58 PM
HELP!!!! What is up with the lines... (1) "we are too good of friends to get involved" I thought it was a good thing to be friends first before you got into a relationship. That way you know the person, their likes and dislikes and what they do to have fun. (2) "You are like a kid sister" All I can say to that is WTF. It means: 1) He is gay! 2) You are too ugly to sleep with! In both instances he somehow finds sex with you repulsive.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 27 (view)

How do you recover from a REALLLY lame line Posted: 11/19/2006 9:43:52 PM
So i was talking to my next door neighbor of whom i have this crush on. he looks like my type and everything and hes never really showin intrest and never has shown non-intrest, he just is freindly and also never has women over... i think. now he is over for 20 mins and we talked about this and that and my way of telling him he was hot and making a pass at him was to say "you look just like larry the cable guy" So you go after dudes that look like Larry the Cable guy? WTF? Seriously, I go around purposely using bad pick up lines, and try to giggle my way past them. Most of the women I meet will laugh with me (or at me) too, and it really helps to break the ice.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

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Is There a Man Out There That Can Give Me Advice? Posted: 11/19/2006 9:27:03 PM
My question is, is there a man out there who goest to the movies by himself on a Saturday night? Yes, I go to the movies and out to eat by myself a lot. Of course, I don't have a girlfriend so ummm yeah... I think the real issue is that it is obvious this dude is using you for the cash. I wouldn't be surprised if he has other women on the side.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 27 (view)

Are you sick and tired of all the confident talk from women. Posted: 11/6/2006 2:48:40 PM
You may be a confident man but if you do not appeal to them physically or they dont appeal to you physically - that confidence is then used against you by renameing it "arrogance" Thank you. That is exactly what I was going to say. Oh and men you don't have to worry about your looks that much, I can tell you that as a man who has gone from the sucessful career to screwing up and working at McDonald's at 26, money plays an important role too.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

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Men what would you pick Posted: 11/6/2006 2:32:22 PM
Oh gods, a fantasy scneario, the good looking girl who would stay young and hot forever or the frumpy chick? I ain't going to lie to you. I'm going to pick girl number one. For the exact same reason a woman would pick me as a friend while dating the good looking guy who treats her like crap. The sex is amazing, I'd be the envy of all my friends, and I still have that funny, intelligent and most of all caring firend to come talk to when I get bored of the sex or tired of the lies.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

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Your woman makes more money? Is it an issue? Posted: 11/6/2006 2:24:49 PM
Not an issue for me at all! I'm a manual laborer and only take home less than $15k/yr so it wouldn't be hard to find a woman who makes more money than I do. The hard part is of course finding a woman who would seriously want to date a nerd with such a small income.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

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Friends into lovers: how do you get there (and what signals do you send)? Posted: 11/6/2006 2:11:27 PM
Beffers, OK, this is all well and good... But I want to have some insight on the other way around... What if it's the woman that's the friend and she wants more? How does she go about getting there? If a guy is treating a female that is interested in as a strictly platonic firend then it means one of two things: a) He is gay. b) You are way beneath his standards. In general, once you devolop romantic feelings for a person who only see you as a frient, it's time to move on. She/He has made up her mind long, long ago, and nothign will get you out of friendsville. And guys, don't be a chump, if you are firends with a woman, don't give her special treatment because she is female. In my experience, women who always saw me as "just a friend" always tried to take advantage of the fact that I wanted to have sex with them to get what they wanted. What's worse, is I'm pretty sure women feel entitled to the special treatment.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

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he googles everything I say Posted: 11/1/2006 8:26:27 PM
Now I call bullturd! There are no turtles in BC. It's like way too freaking cold! You probably just saw ninja that were using a turtle disguise in order to sneak beef jerky into the U.S which annoys me since I get all my beef jerky from the pirates.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

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Why, why, why are men so into love the outdoors thing Posted: 10/31/2006 8:01:46 PM
Why, why, why are men so into "love the outdoors" and want to go camping and fishing and quadding?? Pleeeeessssssse somebody tell me. Are there really that many women who do this? I don't know of any women who want to sit in the bush with bugs crawling around and strange animals in the forest, and even if it's in a camper trailer (ewww trailer), who wants to cook and clean and make beds and sweep floors on a holiday. Not this cookie. Anyway, it's just a question. Do you really find women who like this stuff? Inquiring minds want to know. Because maybe while going through some ancestral memories I get this notion that a woman would find nothing sexier than watching me capture and kill a small animal for our dinner and cook it on a fire. I even like to grunt while doing it. In all seriousness, when I take a girl out camping with me as a date, I do all the planning, cooking, cleaning. She just has to sit in the shade and enjoy the scenery and my company.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

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Need some feedback Posted: 10/31/2006 7:43:12 PM
She would say “This is something God is telling her she should do. Everyone is behind her this time. Her friends her family they all support her. She said she understands that to me it feels like experiencing death, she said she has God in her heart that is why she is able to manage it better then me”. Oh this is complete bullturd! First, I am assuming she is talking about the Christian god, and well, the Bible is pretty clear about divorce. It is crystal clear about adultery. My advice to you, divorce her, and don't be a puss and let ehr have everything! Fight her tooth and nail in the courts. SHE CHEATED ON YOU! And while we are at it, make sure you get a DNA test on your kid before you wind up paying 18 years of child support on the rock star's kid. And for the love of Eris, don't ever sleep with her again. You sleep with her again, you will not only be getting a disease (I'd so be getting tested right now), but it's pretty much giving her your testicles on a platter.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 19 (view)

CHEATER WEBSITES - DO THEY WORK? Posted: 10/24/2006 7:33:33 PM
They never work. For instance, I'm a notorious playa, but I never get caught! Oh damn!

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

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what to do when in love with your best friend Posted: 10/24/2006 7:28:47 PM
I know he at least likes me neither one of wants to cross that friendship line. Whoa! Trust me he wants to cross that firendship line. It is my personal theory that men just really aren't really after platonic friendships with women. If a guy wants to be your platonic friend it means. -He is lying and wants to take it to the next level, but doesn't want to scare you off by saying what he really wants. -He is gay. -He thinks you are ugly. And well, by looking at your picture I don't think it's that last one. I see no reason why two normal single people of the opposite sex who like each other can't move on past the "just friends" stage. But yeah, bottom line, you'll never hear a guy say "I don't want to ruin our firendship."

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 44 (view)

sex before marriage Posted: 10/8/2006 3:26:05 PM
No, it's not immoral. Honestly, how many adult relationships lasting longer than a month are also celibate?

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 81 (view)

Can ugly guys get good looking girls? Posted: 10/8/2006 3:23:01 PM
Q: Can ugly guysget good looking girls? A: Yes, that's what money is for!

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 90 (view)

how do guys move on so quickly?? Posted: 10/8/2006 3:14:44 PM
Quite simply because he is more attractive than you and therefore was able to find another oman beofre you could find another man. When my ex fiancee dumped me, I was devastated and nursed a broken heart for three years. She was talking to a guy before we broke up, seeing him steady within 6 months, and within a year had moved cross country to be with him. Why because she was a curvy sex goddess, and I was an unemployed nerd. You can look at my profile and pretty much guess that most women aren't going to lust after my body. That is how break ups work, and oh, if he dumped you he probably had a much bigger headstart on dating than you.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

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can someone tell what a woman means. Posted: 10/8/2006 3:09:10 PM
She's crazy. Or maybe it's a way fo her saying I want my cake and eat it too.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

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Has anyone here given up or thinking about it? Posted: 10/8/2006 3:08:08 PM
Personally, I gave up about a year ago, and never been happier. It cuts down on the amount of bullshit in my like by like 86%, and when I do run across a woman who wants my attention I make her work for it. They usually storm off angry at me because I'm not the guy who would bend over backwards to impress them that they thought I was. Oh well it just means more money for me in the long run.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

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Ever wonder if you are the one at fault for your broken heart? Posted: 10/8/2006 2:53:19 PM
You won't begin to heal until you accept the responsibility for breaking your own heart and learning what you can do to prevent it form happening.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 46 (view)

Is this considered cheating?? Posted: 10/8/2006 2:52:24 PM
No talk, That's exactly what my ex-fiancee was doing to me. About two months before we broke up, her last serious boyfriend, a guy who broke up with her by phone simply saying "There is this girl in WI I want to ****, so goodbye, gets her cell phone number and they start chatting. At the time, I thought nothing of it because I am not the jealous type and think it is good to try and patch things up with the people who have hurt us. Like I said about two months later, she dumps me right when my life hit an all time low no job, facing eviction, credit cards maxed out, etc. I was pretty bitter about it for a while, but a little over a year later just when I am about to move on and already had gone through another cycle of being independant to unemployed, facing eviction, etc. she sends me an IM and says she had been thinking about me. We decide to meet up for a date, her treat and catch up on old times. I was still in love with her at this moment, and foolishly thought I had a chance. Turns out she spent the entire time talking about her ex boyfriend and how the trip to Maine to visit him was awesome. I finally ask her point blank if she is getitng back together with him, and then she drops the bombshell "She had been dating him for over six months now, and it wasn't cheating, but as soon as she dumped me because "I lacked faith" he moved right in and claimed he had found Jesus and was a new man. She also told me that in two months she will be moving cross country to live with him. My response was I cut her off from my life, and spent the better part of the next year and a half cursing her. She doesn't speak to me anymore, but really have I lost anything considering how while I was still hurting I meant nothing to her and she went to an ex?

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 61 (view)

Would you cheat on your woman if... Posted: 10/8/2006 2:30:44 PM
People cheat because they can. It has nothing to do with their partner being perfect or being a mess. People will cheat because it benefits them. Here is a simple formula to remeber: If the Gain from one night stand > Loss from being found out, then the person will cheat. Now one night stands are not my thing for this reason. Women rarely approach me for no strings attached sex, and I am rarely in a relationship so i tend to place a little more value on a girlfriend than what soem guys would. So back when I was in a relationship, I was totally in love (or whipped) and usually would talk at length about my fiancee. This turned any woman who would flirt with me off obviously, and I would go back to drinking and wonder why these women had no interest in me when I was single. I won't say I would never cheat on a woman, but it would be highly unlikely.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 32 (view)

Why are you so hypocritical? Posted: 10/8/2006 2:19:35 PM
Traditionally it stems formt he fact that without DNA testing, a man can never be absolutly sure which kids are his and which are from some other guy. So you can either have a society where all the villages men get together and all play father, bu if you want to have any rules about inheirtance, then a man had to make sure which kids were his or else some **stard would get all the loot. Hence why most societies had very strict rules about monogamy, and since the rules were written and enforced by men, of course, they were never enforced fairly. And I wouldn't want to brag about hitting a certain number. When I was younger and stupid, I would brag about getting laid, but in the end a lot of women I really liked and wanted to date fasely accused I was a player simply because I had sex with "that ho". And well, to be honest, if I met a 19 y/o girl and all I new about her was that she had been with 10 other guys it would be slightly intimidating, and the fact that she is a hot redhead automatically means I'm already thinking about having sex with her.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 23 (view)

For Guys:would you ever take a grl seriusly after she's slept w/u? Posted: 10/8/2006 1:50:39 PM
Yes, I can't imagine havign sex with a woman I couldn't take seriously.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 47 (view)

Public Bathrooms Posted: 10/8/2006 1:47:00 PM
I personally shunned the public restrooms for #2 until college. It only took about a week before I lost all qualms about dropping off a load in front of another person when I shared one bathroom with every other guy on that floor. Statistically, any time you go in there someone else will be in there too.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 57 (view)

why is it that white men tend to like skinny, white women? Posted: 10/5/2006 2:29:51 PM
Onegreatm8, Thanks, your post actually made me laugh. And yes, I do realize what I said was a racist sterotype and incoherent. I'm just trying to stir shit up. Why because I am bored. I'm surprised anyone takes this thread seriously.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

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why is it that white men tend to like skinny, white women? Posted: 10/4/2006 7:54:58 PM
Sorry raxdantlor, when I read your post and looked at your picture I thought you were describing yourself for a second there. Well, if you could actually read, you would have seen where I am NOT a woman, so far that is two black men tonite who couldn't tell the difference between a nerdy fat white guy and a white chick.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 49 (view)

why is it that white men tend to like skinny, white women? Posted: 10/4/2006 7:46:29 PM
Woman...are you on drugs ,Or are you trying to write your autobiography ? Then again, 100 year old white nasty strippers weighing in at just under 1 metric ton without teeth might be all the pickins' in Salisbee, Texas. Look, I expected to be shouted down for saying something racist, but Slow Hand, either you are just confused about your sexuality or you are just proving my point that all white people look the same to you. Now, the fact you couldn't read the part of my profile where it says I am NOT a woman probably only shows you are illiterate as well.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 72 (view)

Why are you on POF? Posted: 10/3/2006 6:51:44 PM
Well, I just wanted to troll away on the boards while I am bored, but let's be honest. Sex.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

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why is it that white men tend to like skinny, white women? Posted: 10/3/2006 6:50:48 PM
why is it that white men tend to like skinny, white women? And hispanic men like women who are curvy? I was once wondering why I would see black men just chasing after the nastiest, fattest white women, why they would get lapdances from that one woman who should have retired like 20 years ago, or why black firends keep going on and on about how the chick the the mullet and missing teeth was so damn hot and I should ask her. The simple fact is that white people all look the same to them. Seriously, ever notice why your black friends call you by your brother's name? Even though he is 7 years younger and 50 pounds lighter?

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

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broken hearted from a long distant relationship Posted: 10/3/2006 5:10:20 PM
long distance relay race??? I think you have the wrong forum you want....relayracers.com Oh gods, not that racist forum!

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

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hugging/cheek to cheek pics Posted: 9/19/2006 6:55:36 PM
It's been going on for years. I remeber those early days of internet, and those awkward first picture exchanges and I get some picture of a girl and all her firends dressed up for prom and hearing "yeah I'm the on on the right, etc." It's really awkward if she is butt ugly, and the friend in the picture is hot! At least I'm original. I post pictures of me in a ren fest costume!

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 151 (view)

Why is it so hard to meet someone that is good hearted and attractive??? Posted: 9/19/2006 6:51:28 PM
They are rare to begin with, and the ones that exist are already taken. Lower your standards (don't really) or lean to slow down and enjoy being single (he no fat guy who keeps you up all night snoring).

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 97 (view)

How do you get a cute girl to dump her bf? Posted: 9/19/2006 6:43:47 PM
Most(probably all) of the cute girls my age in my town are taken and have boyfriends. You can, 1) Look for cute girls in other towns. (You're 24, you should have acess to a car, and if you don't you should save up to get a car before you worry about dating.) 2) Have discreet affairs with married women in your area. (Great way to get shot at, none of the women will be reliable girlfriend material, but hey you are getting sex with attractive women.) 3) Lower your standards. (I know plenty of cute girls with no personality. I know plenty of not so attractive girls who are still beautiful and fun to talk to.) Is there any way to get a cute girl I like to dump her boyfriend? Other than getting him drunk, making out with him, and having the girl you like walk in on you, no probably not. Just forget about her and move on. And please don't give me the "be friends first" comment. It does not work. I read too many cases on here about the failure rate of that dilemma. Oh it does work. Some of the wildest, hottest, sweatiest sex I've have was with women I was firends with. I was firends with them for a long time (were talking on the course of years), and guess what it only worked because I genuinely wanted to be friends with them. Sure, I would go through periods of making gross and perverted comments in awkwards attempts to get them naked, they jsut put up with it because I'm such a fascinating bloke. But yeah, if you're only into the cute girl for the sex, then she already senses that and it's time to bail!

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 8 (view)

why doesnt she want me back Posted: 9/19/2006 5:58:47 PM
Carlos, It's only two months. It took me three years to get over my ex. It just takes time.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

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Loner likes it that way.. Posted: 9/19/2006 5:43:46 PM
Arealangel, Yeah it sound slike he ex did him rotten, and that is why he just retreats into his shell. He may also be doing it because let's face it he is probably no fun after these phone calls. I know I wasn't, and I really alienated the very few firends I had at the time when I would let my ex get to me. He just has to realize that ex's don't matter, and you are completly different. And thanks the gods not everyone is so heartless as his ex.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 46 (view)

why doesnt sex mean anything to (most) guys? Posted: 9/18/2006 8:50:52 PM
Raxdantlor, I can't believe you just posted that! that was a riot! I'm glad I amused someone today. Woen after all love a guy with a sense of humor. .laugh: Oh wait, I read your rpofile and you are serious. No, if I was serious, I would have posted that I was looking for a date, relationship etc. You need to work on the confidence first then worry about the Ladies. All the confidence in the world isn't really going to change the fact that the right woman doesn't exist or if an attractive, sucessful and single woman were on this site, that she would actually really take me seriously. It's called reality. I think you all need a severe reality check if you think enough confidence could make the impossible, possible. And well, if I was really that concerned about the ladies, wouldn't I try to butter up the profile, make contacts with more than one person, and not post stupid shit like this? Posts like this and your dryspell is going to carry on for years to come. The dry spell only affects sex, and well this may come as a shock to you, but even I could get laid. Again, I've got friends. I may miss the sex, but I enjoy keeping all my money and the freedom much, much better.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 11 (view)

On the Shelf Posted: 9/18/2006 5:58:47 PM
Whats a native irish to do?!!? Drink beer? Ok sorry, but you know as part Irish/Norseman/Native American, I can totally crack wise about those kinds of things and it's not racist at all. We're not known for out looks as a race, What the hell? I absolutly and totally, adore redheads and pale skin, and well, what race has redheads and pale skin? The Irish! So I mean it's fair to say if there I see a redhead, she has a little Irish in her, or a big one in her if I had my way! Giggity! Giggity! So anyways, you're a brunette, but even then I'd prolly think you're more sexy than Helga. And 27 is not too old! I'm 27 and I hope it's not too old though my best friend and his wife are trying to tell me about time ticking away and how there are no single women with no kids at my age, etc. Good luck seriously.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 11 (view)

Fairytales Posted: 9/18/2006 5:48:52 PM
What about H.P. Lovecraft or Steven King?

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 27 (view)

probably a stupid question Posted: 9/18/2006 5:43:48 PM
""go get me this, go get me that."" She was playing you. Better not advertise this too much you might get a lot of dates all of a sudden. lol.... after the second "go get me this", you should have gone and not come back.... I would have said I don't care if you make a scene, but you're going to be the one trying to beg for a someone to take some crazy, screaming woman home. Better yet, you could call her cell while your headed out the door and say "You can make your scene now!"

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 26 (view)

probably a stupid question Posted: 9/18/2006 5:39:34 PM
If she asked me out, I would offer to pay my share. If she wanted to pay for everything, then I wouldn't mind. Just as long as it's clear that dessert's not on me.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 7 (view)

Why do women pretend to be something they are not? Posted: 9/18/2006 5:15:14 PM
Fun, Maybe there was somethign she really, really liked about you, and didn't want to tell you the truth about how she really felt about your hobbies so you would like her back. Like OMG he is sooo fine, but he's into Dungeons and Dragons what do I do? Or OMG he is soooo funny, but he volunteers at a nursing home, what a dork! I dunno, but in general people lie to get what they want when honesty won't be enough.

raxdantlor

Joined: 9/11/2006

Msg: 42 (view)

why doesnt sex mean anything to (most) guys? Posted: 9/18/2006 5:09:15 PM
Jarbarian, I forgot about the seeking approval aspect, but that is part of the dynamic. I have met a lot of women that had some low self esteem and issues with daddy. A lot of these women were not surprisingly quite promiscuious, and well to be honest, it was also a factor in why I cut them more slack. That was until I realized that by being the "nice guy" and being their "friend" I am giving them exactly what they want. In short, they come to me for the ego boost, to get told how wonderful and special they are, only to run out and get crushed by another man, and repeat cycle. Eventually I learned I didn't want what I thought from women like these (a long term exclusive relationship) and I was not ever going to get what I really wanted and they knew what I really wanted (sex). So I just sat back and analyzied each girl from the perspective of are they a good enoug friend to keep talking to, and turns out most of them weren't.

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