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 Author Thread: he says he wants more, but doesnt show it?
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 65 (view)
 
he says he wants more, but doesnt show it?
Posted: 7/19/2012 6:47:03 AM
If he says he want more and doesnt show it , try to stay away girl
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Ending a Relationship or Friendship....do's and don'ts & personal choices
Posted: 7/18/2012 3:35:33 AM
I believe if its mutual i owe an explanation, calmness
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 186 (view)
 
Why Do People Cheat ?
Posted: 7/15/2012 1:56:03 AM
i see your point ,
i will see it as choice again , human are drawn to look , fantasize,act , i can **** around, date any intimate intent i want,
i believe I.E form part in human instinct natural as well, its up to human what and how they choose sex and emotion , going out with someone else is a choice not just natural, depends on each human, and im not against all people who cheat as well, its nothing about sex ,but wont get into details with that.

i will take a personal experience one of my past relationship 3 years or more, where i was born and grew up
not meaning im a nice guy ,ive never cheat on her , i believe she didnt do it either , i had a big network of friends, aquaintances,male and female that i cant keep count of ,women more beautiful than her , i go anywhere i want without her party , beach, get drunk, all other kind of entertainment, ive never done it , and i sure can do it if i want with all this opportunity , i look make my eyes happy, thats all , and its nothing about religious belief, controlling my emotion , choice or whatever excuse, i wont buy any and i break up through life choice not for another girl.
poster i will leave everyting there i still consider myself as a dummy , wont get back on that thread again
i know nothing, got other stuff to test in life still ....
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 182 (view)
 
Why Do People Cheat ?
Posted: 7/13/2012 5:25:42 PM
I see it as an excuse when comparing human species to nature, mammals etc,
I just believe that the act to go with multiple is natural for some,i sure can play in this field but it wont be natural in this regard to dolphins nature, if a dolphin come across my way by multiple i dont care if it works or not.

I dont believe in fantasy either, but
i believe when two person truely want to be with each other for who they are,with no personal gain, interest,advantage and not forcing themselves to be together, no other mammals can stand up to them, it comes to natural, i love sex but life doesnt revolve around sex only for all human,
i believe human have eyes, ears,heart, mind and other senses with experiences they have, how each human balance their set of preferences , how to use all these settings is up to each human in what they believe and what they are
looking for...
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 179 (view)
 
Why Do People Cheat ?
Posted: 7/12/2012 12:30:31 AM
hey poster ,
if you think monogamy is a CHOICE not for everyone, i dont believe that,i believe people are born monogamous as well and choose who they want to be with,
Those who cant stay in a relationship at all and cant communicate be true in what they want sure they are born your"natural" may be born cheaters sorry,with no remorse, regret, comparing human to nature and "natural" is like its ok indirectly for that type of immoral behaviour im not perfect, i wont buy that , not all humans are like that, same for those who want multiple sex which i wont say its wrong, thats how they choose or born your "natural "
people cheat through influences, society, lack of something in their relationship , and a lot of factors,
some choose the easy way, they find it hard to work on their relationship, i think to each their own
for my dolphin when the time come it will happen.
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 177 (view)
 
Why Do People Cheat ?
Posted: 7/11/2012 2:48:31 AM
May be im confused with your post then, i believe there is a lot of dolphins in the world,
all i can think, both should be true to each other which is normal,
whether they just want sex,date/find someone else or any other contract ...
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 15 (view)
 
whats the point of being a good man if your not seen
Posted: 7/10/2012 8:43:26 AM
Man i dont know what a good man is either,
i think you get affected too much with online advertisement,
why dont you skip,use it as a helpful shortcut in your search, you dont have to go over yourself to meet
a princess requirements with a long want list , you might find what you are looking for ...
women wont see and know you if you dont do some work , create opportunity in real life as well through your interest
just a thought
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 34 (view)
 
Should I be 100% honest about previous relationship mistakes?
Posted: 7/9/2012 10:19:20 AM
I think you should be open about it when asked, depends where the relationship is going
its kind of good to tell everything from the start as well, but some will run away too mate
complicated sometimes this dating game lol
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 175 (view)
 
Why Do People Cheat ?
Posted: 7/9/2012 9:54:17 AM
So I guess cheating just is natural,
disgree with you above poster not in my system, yes im wired like dolphins lol
my freedom and peace of mind is gold to me, if i give it to someone while in a relationship i would prefer she tells me and give it back to me my philosophy is truth, no other way
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 44 (view)
 
Should dating advice on the forums be taken with a grain of salt?
Posted: 7/9/2012 4:05:27 AM
I wont call it advice,
its people opinions how they see a thread based on their experience, there are other ways someone form what they have to say, some really try to give an insight, point of view on a thread which is interesting,for some its simply fun , I think its up to the op ,how he want to use, what he find useful and agree with his own reasoning, what he want to test from what he is experiencing, all in your hand bro
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 216 (view)
 
A guy who doesn't read books. Deal breaker?
Posted: 7/9/2012 2:24:23 AM
I think its a deal breaker for you not everyone, its your own preferences you set your date to have ,
i can date someone who,
doesnt read
doesnt support the same team in whatever sports
doesnt support the same views of politics
and the list goes on , if i had to really put restrictions i will die alone
up to you how you like your prince to be
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Just a fun song about smoking
Posted: 7/7/2012 3:51:39 AM
burn one down -ben harper ~
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Am I being selfish?
Posted: 7/7/2012 3:20:10 AM
I think she is being selfish, all new all good and i believe she will be back one day
its normal they will turn against you from what she is telling without them knowing the whole scene, sad sometimes when kids dont realise what they are doing , you will give advice , talk , try to do whats good for them at this age its like talking to a wall sometimes,hope you have other people who you can talk to , i could say let her live and dont care about her anymore, but i do know its not common for a mum to do that to her child , life ...
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Insomnia and..
Posted: 7/6/2012 11:04:42 PM
Its your issue which is not letting you sleep ,
the problem is im a guy, i could date in any way i want if you understand what i mean
and seperate my issue by working on it easy peasy knowing how to fix it with a time set is a relief, take each day as it come ,may be some books which will learn you something new when you feel bored,that you are interested in ,non fiction is not bad , once you get through this event , you will be someone different,
for sex drive no solution for you girl , i think you have the answer for that ...
ps i think pot, alcohol is useless take it when you feel happy later not for issues
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 49 (view)
 
Is a married person welcome on the POF forums?
Posted: 7/6/2012 9:45:48 AM
Hey op i think its for everyone, married, engaged, whatever thats your business and your fish,
why do you care about majority and minority to post on a forum,
its free, feel free
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Suffering from confidence problems?
Posted: 7/6/2012 9:21:13 AM
Personally man,
talk , make joke , just be yourself, be natural same as with people you already know ,
say what you think, some will have different views, taste etc just take it easy,
i dont have labels in my book, i consider myself kind of shy type with a mix of i dont know
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Feel like I am trying to make the relationship work, but she is not willing to meet me half way.
Posted: 7/6/2012 1:20:02 AM
I know what you mean , may be you should speak your mind by not trying to be nice and understand her ,and let her deal with it ,she will have a choice aknowledge and make it work or her way only which will give you an insight what to do
with your relationship and where you stand
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 39 (view)
 
New partner wants to be friends with the ex
Posted: 6/30/2012 3:57:47 PM
wanderer1999 im with all your posts
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Cheaters are people too
Posted: 6/27/2012 8:45:58 PM
I think ackowledgement to yourself is peace,
you cant fix the past
but can be a different person
keep it up man
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 40 (view)
 
religous differences in a relationship...Do u think it will work?
Posted: 6/27/2012 5:59:55 AM
My thought , if you two get along and understand each othher ,
F... everything you hear outside what you are both living together
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Better off single or with a partner???
Posted: 6/27/2012 4:33:24 AM
I would say better off single than with someone who you cant accept or be accepted for who you are,
I do think you are missing out may be , depends why you cant date
my thought for now
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Self sabotage - advices?
Posted: 6/26/2012 6:16:04 AM
balance is the key of happiness - find it girl
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Self sabotage - advices?
Posted: 6/24/2012 6:42:39 AM
I agree with igor,

I think cause you are the type who like dealing with your issues on your own,private person
may be you should date offline as well, communication is different, you get an insight of the person and might feel more comfortable to keep in touch and open yourself later which i think might be difficult too, depends who you meet when you just move to a different area, i might be wrong at the same time you dont want them to feel used and be used if i get you, you can tell the guy if you feel like it, hope he will understand you, may be you are looking for trust somewhere

or

fix your issue first then start dating
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Waiting for the right guy on POF?
Posted: 6/24/2012 12:49:25 AM
op ,may be you should ask them to give a description of Mr.right
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 20 (view)
 
When did game basically become mind-fu**ing you into saying yes
Posted: 6/23/2012 9:34:13 PM
Mate i can get laid every week with that attitude,
I dont think you need to leave america but sure you can if you want , its everywhere
may be theres is something you need to fix in yourself and some self awareness might help, time
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 180 (view)
 
Anyone else only come here for the forums?
Posted: 6/23/2012 9:16:05 PM
since ive click on the forum , it took me back to a world that ive lost track ...
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 18 (view)
 
cheating wife ???? now im here
Posted: 6/23/2012 6:19:10 AM
If it cant be fixed, accept the reality ,find someone else ,
unless you want to sign a contract with worry again , good luck
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 33 (view)
 
We're exclusive - does the POF account need to be hidden?
Posted: 6/22/2012 11:51:38 PM
I think it should be done after both sign the exclusive agreement,and
its something that you both shouldnt have to ask, what to do with pof and go with the flow ,
different person have different rules, so up to you op which one you want to follow and acceptable to you
to me he still want to date, but who knows may be not , just bored sometimes
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Tough Spot
Posted: 6/22/2012 9:29:09 AM
Im with msg 6, ask away
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Is this normal?
Posted: 6/20/2012 6:55:36 AM
agree with jac,
sometimes it can come to a point where,
she will control other part of your normal life
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 27 (view)
 
if ur dating someone & they still have profiles & r actively seeking other partners, is that ok o?
Posted: 6/19/2012 8:43:59 AM
do you feel wrong or right with that?
follow your answer anytime that happen to you
i think you are wrong just in case fish
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 36 (view)
 
I don't understand how you could feel that way
Posted: 6/19/2012 7:26:32 AM
lol op just asking like a lack of compassion
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 49 (view)
 
Do dating sites really work?
Posted: 6/18/2012 5:35:08 AM
Thats a nice thread,
im in a complex situation, which i want to change and find someone long term
i can count how many msg i sent last 6 months, i wonder if its worth that change start dating now
or find someone later in real life , keep hanging on the forum, i see same people all the time
keeps me wondering my chances
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 19 (view)
 
I don't understand how you could feel that way
Posted: 6/18/2012 2:29:00 AM
may be for you its simple, basic, depends what it is exactly and how the other person is receiving it
agree with msg 12
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 60 (view)
 
Winning?
Posted: 6/17/2012 10:38:42 PM
nice rant op lol, its just a bad luck not all women
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Crossing the line? Friends want to see your dates profile?
Posted: 6/17/2012 9:07:12 PM
depends how close you are with your friends
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 77 (view)
 
Without marriage
Posted: 6/16/2012 10:31:32 PM
I think it depends on the person , personally marriage is nothing
to what you both are living , enjoying , doing together
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 99 (view)
 
What is a deal breaker?
Posted: 6/16/2012 6:00:10 AM
anything you personally dont like, you see bad , you cant get involved with someone
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 494 (view)
 
Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 6/15/2012 8:34:29 AM
im with you msg 493
goodluck mate, keep using your right
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 489 (view)
 
Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 6/15/2012 7:14:58 AM
thought,
the more i read thread the more im surprised, is this pof really more important than your girlfriend,
are you really in a serious relationship, which is more important to you , the girl or that privacy,
she let you come on pof, what worst there can be if she just want to have a look in any way , serious or just want to
play a trick, annoy you with that
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 487 (view)
 
Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 6/15/2012 5:10:37 AM
If she has trust issues , why did you choose her to be your girlfriend, my personal view of a relationship is transparency, as long as you are treating her right,giving her whatever she needs/ want, there should be
no law involved, you both create your own rules , are you creating more conflict or less in your relationship with your thread, are you happy really with her or hiding something... just a thought
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 97 (view)
 
How do you learn to trust again?
Posted: 6/15/2012 1:09:36 AM
It depends how you accept things in life , its for both gender,
depends who you pick and trust until proven guilty thats one way i can think
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Always dumped, is it me?
Posted: 6/15/2012 12:24:47 AM
let them go, there is more fish in the sea , stay optimistic dont change who you are with an open mind keep moving, your filters will upgrade by itself
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 36 (view)
 
becoming emotionally unattached
Posted: 6/13/2012 4:34:41 AM
I think you should date someone else, may be casual to not get hurt again, get to know someone else, i dont know how far you live from him, try to stay away, this cycle may last for years, some men dont realise what they are doing
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 99 (view)
 
im dating, but im lonely..
Posted: 6/13/2012 12:28:27 AM
Tell him honestly that you want him to be open with you,
stop being selfish
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 17 (view)
 
What is your idea about this online personal interactions process?
Posted: 6/12/2012 11:02:29 PM
My idea is similar to yours
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Really don't understand guys..
Posted: 6/12/2012 9:09:14 AM
The only solution ,see if you can get a lie detector
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 89 (view)
 
Is it still lying when a person reveals the truth about themselves *before* a planned meet & greet?
Posted: 6/12/2012 8:53:10 AM
but op i think it depends on you , can you date someone with kids or not
i personally cant cause of my past experience, but hope he doesnt have more
lies coming , cause for some people its a weakness for them to start a relationship
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 115 (view)
 
Revenge is sweet but is it necessary?
Posted: 6/12/2012 5:42:35 AM
I dont think it is ,till now i dont have enemies and feel good
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 86 (view)
 
Is it still lying when a person reveals the truth about themselves *before* a planned meet & greet?
Posted: 6/12/2012 5:16:53 AM
I would be shocked too if pursuing something long term
 
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