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lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 23 (view)

Is he not that into me? Posted: 11/23/2008 12:51:52 PM
Suggestion- as a little experiment, DON'T call him after you've seen him. Wait for him to call YOU. You say he can easlly go 2 weeks or more without getting in touch , and then it sounds like more often than not you contact him. If and when he does contact you, and you want to see him, OK. Then again wait for him to contact you. One of two scenarios will unfold- he begins to contact you and want t see you much more often, or- contact gradually (or apruptly) lessens til he's faded away completely. Either way, as you're on this site, you must be looking elsewhere already.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 116 (view)

Speaking of deal breakers...Do you consider this to be one?? Posted: 11/22/2008 3:19:00 PM
Sounds like this isn't the first time you've had this happen.There's a pattern there somewhere. Re-evaluating your choice of partners might be a start. There's a reason for it yes, and some of it has to do with you.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 39 (view)

can i get my boyfriend back after so much damage was done? Posted: 11/20/2008 8:13:21 PM
Why bother trying when he's made it quite clear he doesn't feel the same about you. You 're setting yourself up for a peace bond or restraining order against you, and won't get him back anyway. You do need help, like a professional counsellor.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 100 (view)

Never said we were Dating exclusively Posted: 11/20/2008 7:38:39 PM
Too bad so sad you read her wrong.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 12 (view)

Asking why they don't want a second date Posted: 11/18/2008 9:45:46 PM
Sure if it means that much to you to know why you don't rate a second date, then go ahead and ask. I have my doubts you'll get the truth, but in the event you do, and it's somewhat painful, bear in mind you did ask. We'd all like to know why a potential partner isn't interested in continuing. It could be very interesting to find out. It could also be a bit humiliating. Sometimes indifference , even feigned, is the better part of discretion.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 30 (view)

Scarification. When does this need to be brought up? Posted: 11/18/2008 9:34:16 PM
Probably the most natural time to bring it up would be whenever the person first sees it? That would make the most sense. She's goiing to be curious and maybe somewhat awkward about mentioning it or even acting like she sees it. Marks , scars or disfigurements can be difficult subjects to broach. She may want to mention it, but not know how to. You can't know how she'll feel about it til the time comes, so no point worrying.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 43 (view)

wanting to write to ex/girlfriend - your thoughts appreciated Posted: 11/18/2008 9:20:39 PM
If you really want to contact her, do it. It can't do any harm, as you're not seeing each other now anyway. If you have things to say to her, that you feel are important to you, you need to do it.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 47 (view)

staying with him/her even though your not in-love? Posted: 11/18/2008 9:04:59 PM
Sounds like you ARE using him lol. I'm sure he's figured that out but is so head over heels he overlooks it. As you have no place to go, and no job, I think it's YOU who would suffer from leaving, not him. I'm sure he'd be just fine in no time. But if you really want to resolve this, just tell him exactly what you've told us.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 171 (view)

What do you think of a man (or woman) who comes on really strong right away? Posted: 11/9/2008 6:30:36 PM
He likes her, he really likes her....just not enough. And if she's "cut him off" now, because he's not ready at this point to commit for the rest of his life- just think what he'd have to look forward to after the honeymoon. She's got that control issue happening, and he's only seeing the tip of the iceberg.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

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18 years of marriage... and now this? Posted: 10/17/2008 9:16:06 PM
Very simple- It won't be the same again, ever. What kind of heartless woman tells her husband she's been cheating on him over the phone, and when he's at work? Think about that, think about her behaviour to you these past 18 years, regardless of what she just told you. My guess is this isn't the first time, far from it. My guess also is she wants out, but she's too cowardly to do it. Much easier for her if you end things. That way you can be the bad guy, you can be the one who walked out on her. I don't think you know who she really is, what she's really like, and what she's capable of. You'll find out very shortly if you just sit back, take your time, and do nothing at all.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 103 (view)

One week after a meeting, he wants to come to my house Posted: 10/11/2008 11:24:14 PM
I'd say yes, but I could be wrong. Say sure he can come over, then have a friend there.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

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Relationship Question help! Posted: 10/5/2008 8:12:09 PM
I am sorry to hear about your relationship problems. You and your girlfriend have been together a long time, now that she's moved away this is the test of your feelings and commitment. Your girlfriend has just moved , is adjusting to life with roomates and busy with school. I suggest you remain caring and supportive, and let her decide how much time you see each other. I have a feeling she's going through some transitions now, whcih may involve relationships as well. That's not always a bad thing, you both may have some growing up to do before you're ready for something serious.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 228 (view)

Saw My Wedding ring On My X Husbands New Girlfriend! Posted: 9/29/2008 6:23:51 PM
Yes demand it back, it's yours and wasn't his to give.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 111 (view)

Do men usually love their first wife the most? Posted: 9/27/2008 4:06:01 PM
Many people enter into a subsequent relationship or even marriage, still holding strong feelings, maybe even deep love for a previous partner. In most cases the partner was the one to end the relationship and move blissfully on. The person is left behind with their unresolved feelings of pain, anguish, confusion, hurt, despair etc, that they haven't dealt with. The new partner enters their lives, is in most cases, madly in love , offers them eveything the ex denied them etc. Lust and infatuation set in and next thing you know they're in a new relationship or married to someone they don't love. Then one day someone wakes up and realizes their partner is still in love with the ex. Not a good feeling to have to acknowledge. I'm quite sure it happens very often to both men and women, with tragic results. As humans we aren't programmed to be solitary creatures, regardless of what Neil Diamond sings. I feel for anyone who ever finds themselves in that predicament, being with someone who's still into the ex. "Baggage " is a term frequently heard on here. That kind of baggage is best left unclaimed.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

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I would to ask you how important is voice for you? Posted: 9/25/2008 5:47:20 PM
Voice is SO important!! I don't speak on the phone first to every guy I've met on here, sometimes I've met without phone conversation. I have to say though, that if I speak to a guy on the phone before meeting, and the voice is unattractive, I don't meet. That's because from experience I've learned if I don't like the voice, I won't be attracted in person. It just hasn't happened. That being said, unfortunately, and inconveniently, the reverse isn't always true. I have talked to guys on the phone, and been attracted to the voice, but definately NOT attracted in persson. So it's a bit of a catch 22, a phone converstaion prior to meeting can save time effort and aggravation, if the voice doesn't do it for you. On the other hand, a seemingly attractive voice can lead to big- time let down when the person doesn't live up to their voice.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 186 (view)

first date- he farts in the restaurant!! Posted: 9/20/2008 6:23:45 PM
Ar least he didn't try to give you the old " in some cultures it's considered a compliment" excuse!

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 51 (view)

Really Need Some Advice on How-To Deal With My Ex Girlfriend!!!??? Posted: 9/20/2008 6:18:56 PM
Sounds as though you have very strong feelings for her, and may still be in love with her. Love dies hard sometimes, especiatlly when you're young and it was a long term thing. You care for her and maybe want her back, she knows this, so is making sure you're still around if and when she needs you. She may or may not regret her actions, and/ or want you back. Either way, how about this time , instead of it being all about HER- you make some good choices for YOU! What YOU want, what YOUR goals in life are, what YOU want in a relationship. She's called the shots for so long, she can't let go of that control. Take your time and think about you.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 119 (view)

3 Months, no sex? Posted: 9/7/2008 11:29:55 AM
Could be a physical reason she isn't willing to share with you right now, so is keeping herself under wraps until either the issue is resolved or she's willing to disclose. Could be a can of worms there, so if you decide to wait it out be prepared. Whatever the reason for her " modesty" , she's doing a good job keeping you hanging around at her beck and call. If thats OK with you , to be an on-call friend/ pseudo boyfriend, no problem. I think she's hedging her bets. There's antoher guy lurking around somewhere, whether anything's happened with him yet or not. She's playing you along while she see's how things pan out with him. Call her on the friend thing. Tell her if you and she are friends, that's fine, but no hot steamy passonate whatever it is you've been doing. Right now she's got what she wants from you, it's all about HER.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 99 (view)

Worst clothes to wear on a first date... Posted: 9/4/2008 8:38:05 PM
Worse clothes on a guy........sweat pants, sweaters of all descriptions ( I find sweaters or " jumpers' as they say in U.K., very unsexy) cowboy boots- No No No......dress shoes with pointy toes, " muscle " shirts with no muscle, silky shirts , anything with B.O. That's about it!

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 92 (view)

My boyfriend and I don't have sex. Posted: 9/4/2008 5:39:31 PM
You " have him on a short leash" ?? Who's using who here I wonder. You've been in the situation over a year, and you're finally " getting annoyed"?? You " don't know how long you can put up with it" . I say you're doing a great job so far. He's no doubt hoping that " annoyance" leads to BYE BYE very soon. Personally I think he's got a long wait.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 159 (view)

Sorry Hun, I'm Pregnant... Posted: 8/26/2008 9:21:43 PM
Your friend will grow up , some day, when he finds himeslf with a woman he doesn't love or want to be with, and a child he never intended to father and now has to support for the next 20 years. You did your part, you spoke openly to him and expressed your concerns. He'll grow up, he might want to resume your friendship. You've been a good friend. Good friends are few and far between. It hurts to lose friends. Be happy and proud for who you are.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 86 (view)

My boyfriend and I don't have sex. Posted: 8/21/2008 8:33:14 AM
You say you're "annoyed" with him and "not sure" how much longer you can put up with it. It's been a year already, and you're still around. Obviously he's got something you want badly enough to stick around for. You're attached and on a dating site. Maybe he's smarter than you think.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 31 (view)

Is he a possible pedophile? Posted: 8/16/2008 6:11:10 PM
I suggest to anyone on here who's occupation involves children or young people. to be be very cautious about revealing that fact before you know the person and are comfortable chatting with them. There are predators out there looking for people such as yourself who are in postions of trust with children. To me his comments about the students coming on to you and remarks about spanking are definate red flags and you're wise to be wary. Many out there are into sexual fantasies and fetishs with younger people, as well as physical inappropriateness. Those of us with children at home also need to be extra cautious.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

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Is she controlling? Posted: 7/24/2008 4:31:04 PM
I think the issue of wearing proper protective headgear on a motorcycle is common sense. However I don't see her reasoning to be anything to do with looking out for YOUR best interest and safety. It's all about HER and HER kids, how it would affect THEM if you got killed or maimed. Surely with a bit of reasoning, you can see for yourselfl what her priorities are in a relationship with you. It's all about her, and her kids. Is that what you want for yourself, years down the line?? You need to get your own priorites straight, before jumping feet first into something serious with this woman. First of all, your number one priority is YOU. Your health, your safety, your choices, the value you place on yourself and your life. Once you establish all that, so you feel comfortable and confident enouigh to take on what looks like someone else's mega- baggage of phobias, insecurites issues etc, then best of luck to you!

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 34 (view)

Girl suggested activity for first date... Posted: 7/21/2008 8:50:06 PM
It means she's hungry and her fridge is empty....that's all!!

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 985 (view)

Long hair on older women Posted: 7/18/2008 7:25:09 PM
I like long hair I cannot lie, but when I see Posh Beck's short sleek ' do..... I wonder, would it look anywhere near as good on me?? As long as Madonna's got her flowing sexy locks , all of us older ladies can flaunt ours!

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 73 (view)

Child support as a weapon? Would you date a girl with drama like this? Posted: 7/14/2008 6:52:30 PM
You're entitled to your opinion of course. Relationhips tend to end on bad notes generally. If there's children and money involved it seeems to bring out the worst . It's easy to generalize and say all women who threaten to withold visiton or go against a court order, are mad parents . If there's a court order in place, specifying visition and custody, and either parent defies it, there's grounds for legal action. Whether chid support payment is in errears or not, the visitation rights are a separate issue. Both support payment and visition and custody are dealt with separately. Witholding visitation becasue of a payment discrepancy is not going to resolve either issue, as far as the laws concerned. Both parents need to make themselves informed ot the law and their rights, and be considerate of the needs and feelings of their chld. Practically speaking, if you see a woman who is using her child as an emotional weapn against the father , for whatever reason , it's a good indication of her own personal issues, respect and concern for her child, and her value system. Be warned and be aware, you could be next.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 28 (view)

He's found someone else now wants to be bestfriends with me. Posted: 7/5/2008 8:09:28 AM
Yes good plan, when you see him remember how he's mslead and manipulated you to use you till he met someone he finds more fascinating. Better yet , DON'T see him. He's the farthest thing from a friend. He's a " Friend" alright, to HIMSELF - not YOU!!

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 42 (view)

When a guys says, I think we went a lil fast;maybe we could b just friends for now Posted: 6/12/2008 9:32:24 PM
Means he got ahead of himself, jumped in feet first, got caught up in initial ferver of excitement, scared himself off etc. You can agree to be friends and see what happens. Both of you mght decide that's all you really want anyway.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 373 (view)

Am I wrong, you make the call... Posted: 6/12/2008 8:25:11 PM
Ask her out again and tell her it's dutch, if you're that despertate to see her. She's a cheap sponger who asked you to go with her so she could get a free meal, even if you didn't order anything yourself.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 445 (view)

wat if she lied about age....... do you continue anyway? Posted: 6/12/2008 8:07:03 PM
Her real age in itself doesn't change her as the person you fell in love with, what's changed is your perception or image of who you think she is. Or maybe who you wanted her to be. She found herself trapped in her lie about her age. She sensed early on your potential disapproval of her white lie, as time went by the truth became harder to admit to. No doubt many hints were dropped which showed her what your reaction to her lie would be when it came to light, which prevented her from admitting she'd knocked several years off her age. Your reaction when she finally did confess is predictable. She knew and expected to be dumped and she was. So why post on here, you obviously got the result you were hoping for.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 47 (view)

I'm a Complete Wackjob (Jerk) Posted: 6/10/2008 8:33:16 PM
You took pleasure in being perverse. At first it was unintentional, as you were very attracted and interested in her. But after the initial faux pas for whatever reason, it became intentional and pleasurable. Whether or not you'll do the same again given opportunity and inclination, is rather likely. In fact , I'm quite certain if you examine behaviour previous to this incident, you would uncover more the of same, to so some extent or another. The lady was very interested. It wouldn't have happened if she'd played a little more hard to get. Keep that in mind when choosing a partner- you need a strong-willed lady, with a certain aloofness and reserve about her, to capture and maintain your interest. Miss Congeniality no doubt was attracted to your apparent lack of interest. That in turn spurred her on to double her effort to charm you. Keep that in mind for future reference- ladies who try too hard aren't for you.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 41 (view)

New relationship is making me ill - not his fault! Posted: 6/10/2008 9:10:20 AM
Yes you're right about that- the emotional problems you're lving with are a a time -b0mb ticking away inside you, and it is only a matter of time. The bomb of course can be diffused, with expert help. That's where the counselling comes in. Realistically speaking, problems of this magnatude and long-standing duration, can' t be resolved overnight. The counselling can only at this pont begin to delay and hopefuly avert for a period of time. If you feel this guy cares enough to want to know the truth, as time is of the esence- consider sitting him down and saying exacly what you've said on here. Don't mince words ot keep anything back. You deseerve to have someone who loves you for you, wherever you are in your life at this point. If he's the guy to do that, you'll know.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 47 (view)

losing control of everything Posted: 4/7/2008 4:19:07 PM
Change the locks, throw hisl stuff outside, call the police, file charges, get a restraining order, and think about moving. Your kids are worth alot more than that.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 44 (view)

Is this true about marrying someone in law enforcement? Posted: 4/7/2008 4:15:18 PM
All girls go for guys in Uniform , especially cops and firefighters. That might explain the high divorce rate. With all those willing and ready lady admirers, the temptation to stray is never too far away.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 184 (view)

does size really matter in an engagement ring? Posted: 4/6/2008 1:26:19 PM
Some crossed lines of communication there, and some unexpressed expectations. Obviously the size of the diamond matters very much to her. So why hasn't she spoken up about it long before? If the guy can't afford something more to her taste, she needs to be upfront and offer to pay the difference. I 'm sure between the two of them they could manage to scrape together enough to get her a ring she's not ashamed of. The major and unexpressed issue is, of course, not the diamond, or it's size. It's the fact that she and he have much different values and expectations, and that for whatever reason, she'd rather stew in silence, than speak up.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 84 (view)

Ordering food Posted: 4/6/2008 1:15:07 PM
Was she PAYING??? LOL... just kidding, as I very much doubt it. But IF she was, well, it would be SLIGHTLY less pushy and obnoxious. Not to mention presumptuous and over- bearing. But only slightly.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 62 (view)

Bizarre Message Posted: 3/31/2008 3:13:22 PM
It seems like NOBODY answers this guy's messages, and that's kind of sad. I know how it feels to send what I think is a friendly message and not get a reply. Some of us are lucky enough not to face that each and EVERY time we send a message. Sometimes a reply is in order, even if there's no interest in persuing romantically. Someone's taken the time and made the effor to contact. A simple Hello back, and a kind word, might just make someone's day.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 32 (view)

Stupid....stupid...stupid.... Posted: 3/31/2008 3:06:07 PM
What part of " you were a roomate he had sex with " don't you understand?

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 45 (view)

only time at her apartment Posted: 3/31/2008 7:31:44 AM
I wouldn't worry too much about it. She's OK with it enough to continue seeing him on his terms. She must feel he's worth staying in every Saturday night alone with. How many married couples spend years in that routine, and no one thinks anything about it? Could be she's a homebody, and he's a her-home body. Maybe his apartment's not near as nice or cmfortable as hers, and he feels self-conscious? As the song goes.....Live and let live.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 41 (view)

Being Honest about your Past Posted: 3/16/2008 1:53:13 PM
Yes go for it, tell him ALL and more. Everything he wants to know, and whatever's left that he doesn't. The skeletons will be out of the closet, the ghosts can be exterminated, any guilty little secrets won't be secret anymore, he'll be privy to more than he ever bargained for. Then when all the cards are layed out on the table, in full view in the broad light of day, what's left fot him to torture himself thinking about? Then and only then wil it be plain if he's got lasing feelings for you, and worth the time effort , angst etc of continuing with. If you don't feel bad about your past, and have nothing to hide, or even if you harbour some regrets, why cling to any of it?

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 47 (view)

Hidden Secrets revealed Posted: 3/16/2008 8:46:14 AM
Your reaction to learning that your wife of 35 years has been keeping a life-altering secret from you all these years is normal, warranated, expected, and not at all extreme. What you have you to realize and understand about yourself, is that what your'been experiencing since your wife's " confession" is in fact grief. You're going throug a greiving process, for the person you thought you knew all those years, and the relationship you thought you had. Everything you believed about your relationship with your wife, has been shattered. You've had to come to terms with the fact that the relationshp you thought you had, was based on an incomplete knowledge of this woman, lies , cover-ups and omissions on her part for the last 35 years, about her life before you. You say there's more to the story. What you've revealed already is huge and overwhelming for anyone to deal with. I hope you're cutting yourself some slack here, and going easy on youreslf. Whatever your reaction to your wife's c onfession, remember it's normal, it's completely valid, you have every right to feel whatever way you want. Accept yourself and your feelings. You''re world's been pullied out from under you, you've been dealt a heavy and unexpected blow. Whatever your feelings for your wife at this point, keep in mind you need to nurture and be kind to youreslf and respect your feelings.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 205 (view)

My New Girlfriends Nuts! Posted: 3/13/2008 9:52:35 PM
It's a sign of things to come . If she's a " new" grilfriend, and that demanding possessive etc, you can only expect things to get worse. You deleted your friends from your MSN because she'e insecure, needy and jealous? I hope your former friends don't take you back when you're finshed with her. You don't deserve them. You need to get a bit of self-respect. If you're willing to be treated like a doormat, that's what you'll get. Sad. Is that the best you thnk you can get?

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 66 (view)

He is still active on POF Posted: 3/12/2008 6:46:20 PM
Guess you've seen the writing on the wall more than a few times by now. Why you chose to overlook it, makes excuses, gloss over it etc is beyond me. Whatever he says, whatever his excuses, and whatever promises he makes- he's still on here looking. You may be " exclusive" physically, ( or NOT as case my be) that however has NOT made him " committed" to you and only you. He's on a dating site, talking to, messaging, and perhaps MEETING others. I would bet on the meeting part too. If you can accept all that- fine. If not- quit whining and crying and move on.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 45 (view)

OOPS I DID IT AGAIN Posted: 3/9/2008 5:06:24 PM
She realized the next day , after you slept over, that she wasn't into and didn't want to see you again. Since she no doubt thought you were a nice guy, who was good company, she had to search pretty hard to find a reason to dump you. The light thing sounds very inane and ridiculous. Whether you asked her where the light was, ot didn't ( your leaving the bathroom door open could ibe considerd too familiar) she pounced on that as her excuse. She needed an OUT and you provided it. Don't lose any sleep over it.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 10 (view)

Why Didn't He Call? (discuss an article) Posted: 3/8/2008 6:51:20 PM
Men move in mysterious ways, who can fathom the secret of their deepest longings, , dreams and hearfelt yearnings?? Not ME!! Thats for sure. When Barry met Sally, he quickly tossed the other girl to the curb, without a word of explanation. Barry Stinks!!! Nasty Barry! He coud have at least made a feeble attmept at closure. No harm done, I'm sure. If he doesn't call , and I'm into him- yes that's a problem. A BIG problem. But, maybe Mr. Better-than-Barry, is , even as we speak, poised on the brink of diving, ever so gracefully and purposefully, into the as yet unchartered ocean of my psyche.

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 32 (view)

To go or not to go? Posted: 3/6/2008 4:20:27 PM
No it's not at all rude or selfish of you to ASK that she not invite your ex bf and his new gf. However, if you ask and she decides to invite them anyway, that's totally her perogative. It's her birthday and her party, and she has every right to invite who she wants. You know you will be upset and depressed if you got the party and see your ex and his new love there. This where you need to take the high road, and do the classy and mature thing. It's your best friend's birthday, she wants you there. You want to be there for her, and should be. Time to put your own feelings, concerns, attitudes about your ex and his gf to the side. For ONE NIGHT. One night only, for your friend's sake. You can do it, becasue you have the self control, maturity and self respect. Give your friend this one night, the way SHE wants it. Not the way YOU want it. That's what true lasting friendship is all about. You have every other nght of the year to be upset over your ex. This is HER night. So go , look amazing, smile the whole night, and give your friend the best birthday of her life!

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 21 (view)

Guys, what happens to us at age 50??? Posted: 3/2/2008 5:11:40 PM
You've just given all of us ladies the heads up that you're still in love with your ex, and want her back!! Wow, that's like posting a giantic red flag and warning to any lady who might find herself interested- LOVE MY EX - PERSUE AT OWN RISK!!

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 233 (view)

When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her. Posted: 3/2/2008 5:01:51 PM
Us ladies can feel that way too, about very good looking guys. It seems the more attracted I am to a man, the more tongue-tied, shy, and awkard I feel about even approaching him, let alone iniate some kind of conversation! In cases like that, where I find myself in close proximity to a guy I find very attractive, I'm usually blushing , stammering and glggling like a school -girl! Not the most sophisticated lady in the world, and I'm sure he knows it! Oh well, sometimes even just being within drooling distance is good enough!

lisafine

Joined: 9/14/2006

Msg: 21 (view)

Cant be in a relationship because I see my son. Posted: 2/18/2008 10:39:03 AM
Your ex-gf ( emphasis on the GIRL as opposed to grown woman) who had problems with the time you spent with your son, instead of alone with her, is a selfish immature person. She 's not capable of understanding your responsibilities to your son, and his importance in your life. I do hope throughout the 2 years you spent with this woman, you continued to make your son your prority. If not that's 2 years gone from his childhood neither of you will get back. Give yourself a kick in the backside for spending that lenght of time trying to appease this woman. Nothing would satisfy her, if she couldn't be happy that you made time for your child, and made him number one in your life.

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