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Joined: 10/30/2004

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Are some people meant to be alone forever ? Posted: 9/16/2006 1:55:13 PM
Ive had 3 relation ships that got progressively shorter and shorter with women I felt less and less in love with. I feel my 3 strikes are up so to speak. so to answer the question, yes I feel some people (such as myself) are meant to be alone forever....

Joined: 10/30/2004

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Stood up w/o ANY apology!!! Posted: 7/20/2006 11:31:40 AM
I totally understand where the OP is coming from. Hell I even had her number and she kept not answering. I also found that she made plans with me despite knowning full well she had to work that night. And they call women the "fairer sex"? standing people up like that is hardly fair ;)

Joined: 10/30/2004

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Guys, what do you think of the girls? Posted: 7/9/2006 1:22:58 PM
well it is definetly a mixed bag. Though I am quite disturbed about the ammount of single moms seemingly looking for someone to pick up where biological daddy left off. Ive also encountered some stuck up ****es here that just read/delete my messages (well it is kinda my fault for messaging them since they are probaly out of my league and too good to be associating with my boring funny book reading ass) and Ive even met some really really nice women here too. I even been chatting with one for the better part of a couple years. (whom Ive got a mad crush on but she hardly even knows my name and mainly just chats with me when shes bored, though she says it aint like that) but that is a whole nother can of worms to be ranted about in another rant. Overall I see some potential to meet someone really special here (though I have piss poor luck with women so it hasnt happened yet), plus you can't beat the price ;).

Joined: 10/30/2004

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Hes gay............. Posted: 7/7/2006 1:00:23 PM
OMG, I had something very similar happen to me with a girl. We were chatting and talkin back and forth on the phone then we finally meet and seemed to have a good time together. she even let me give her a kiss goodnight (at least thats what I think leaning forward with your lips puckered means) then BAM the next day I find shes gay. So well that sucks to hear that happened to ya.

Joined: 10/30/2004

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Women who suddenly are dating someone Posted: 7/1/2006 4:01:52 PM
Ive had things similar to the OP happen to me on more than a few occasions and all I can say is "Fairer sex"; my ass!

Joined: 10/30/2004

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How many times in yor life has your heart been broken?? Posted: 6/27/2006 9:38:51 PM
I'd say officially 3 times (being that I actually dated them for reals) and countless times unofficially (girls I would chat with online/talk on the phone with then various circumstances like her only wanting to be friends or her turning around twice and getting another bf that wasnt me or her turning out to be a lesbian got in the way) I have to say that it gets easier and easier to recover though Im still a little bit broken up over my first ex whom I was with the longest and loved the most...but then I just imagine her becoming a vessel for her new man's children (since he's the type that wants 6-8 kids and is in his early 20s....so she can go and enjoy that then) or her possibly being beaten (morbid but she deserves it for breaking my heart...even after I forgave her for cheating on me a couple times but thats neither here nor there) and have a good laugh and continue my attempts to go to sleep. and well the subsequent ones were a little easier to deal with because of the shorter duration and less attraction I had for said person. and after the most recent one (which we weren't really dating but it coulda been) I think Im starting to become a bit jaded and bitter and excepting of the fact that aint no woman going to love me in the near future (if ever)

Joined: 10/30/2004

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What is the dream message you want to see in your inbox? Posted: 6/15/2006 6:21:27 PM
I'd like to see a message that has the subject line of something simple like "Hey" then the body of the message would be this massive wall of text that essentially says that Im her dream man in every way from looks to interests to personality. This message would ideally come from a fairly attractive female from my area of the world.

Joined: 10/30/2004

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What is shallow, really? Posted: 6/15/2006 10:52:52 AM
well I've seen many a profile of women looking for the following in a man: A car A hot bod Being taken to a fancy dinner on a first date (oooh no no no NO!, Im not falling for THAT again. I know she'd get her fancy dinner then disappear into the night without so much as a kiss on the cheek) Money (and lot's of it) and the list goes on and on. that to me is shallow. It shouldnt matter what someone looks like or what car they drive (if any) or even where they take you to dinner. I think one should date someone based on having common interests and enjoying their personality. But I think those days are over and this both saddens and angers me because I don't have many of those shallow things women are looking for.

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