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Morphinit71

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Single night!!!!! Dj, food and lots of booze!!!! Feb 2nd Posted: 1/31/2007 12:25:01 AM
if I had a reliable car, I'd go. Any females planning on attending from the Milwaukee area??? edit...not that I'm interested in a female just feel safer carpooling with one/just being honest.ya know?!

Morphinit71

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Single night!!!!! Dj, food and lots of booze!!!! Feb 2nd Posted: 1/30/2007 11:16:25 PM
Sounds cool, wish it was closer.

morphinit71

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help help help help help help help Posted: 2/28/2006 9:29:37 PM
i don't know if this was said yet, but part of the marraige vows clearly say to forsake all others. doesn't that mean anything anymore. this is serious to some of us. have some morals.

morphinit71

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protect yourself from telemarketers Posted: 1/24/2006 2:46:11 PM
i'm 34 and i finally got a cell phone last year. i don't use it a lot but it sure is convenient. i know if i go over in minutes, my bill would be sky high. anyways, sorry again for the mis- information and have a good day.

morphinit71

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protect yourself from telemarketers Posted: 1/24/2006 12:35:39 PM
that's strange......my mom insists that it's legit. she said she called the number from her cell phone and it worked. i'm sorry if i'm wrong, i just thought that i'd pass along some good info. telemarketers irritate me.

morphinit71

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napolean dynamite Posted: 1/24/2006 7:04:19 AM
i never saw the movie but my two 14 year old neices think that the main character is hot. i must be missing something.

morphinit71

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protect yourself from telemarketers [American Cell phone users] Posted: 1/24/2006 6:56:10 AM
JUST A REMINDER....31 days from today, all cell phone numbers are being released to telemarketing companies and you will start to receive sale calls. ...YOU WILL BE CHARGED FOR THESE CALLS... To prevent this, call the following number from your cell phone: 888-382-1222 It is the National DO NOT CALL list. It will only take a minute of your time. It blocks your number for five (5) years. HELP OTHERS BY PASSING THIS ON TO ALL YOUR FRIENDS

Morphinit71

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I've met the man of my dreams Posted: 11/10/2005 4:14:34 PM
my sister met her husband at work and the first day they met, she told a fellow co-worker that ''there is the man i'm going to marry''. they just celebrated their 15th anniversary and have four wonderful children. they are beginning to look alike...scary lol.

Morphinit71

Joined: 10/31/2004

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just got married Posted: 11/7/2005 5:43:14 AM
i love to hear of success stories, so congrats. and i like when married people add to the forums because they have insight and experience and maybe just thr right advice to give to others on a range of topics. so there

Morphinit71

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A little worried about how I might be viewed if I do something Posted: 10/20/2005 8:38:44 PM
not to sound insensitive to your feelings of pain from memories, but there might always be some kind of reminder of this person that passed on. no matter where you reside. was this your son's mother... you are a living example of how to deal with grief to him, maybe inside, he is hurting too. talking about the good memories together might help. also although it may be difficult, try changing your mindset when you are near the accident site. this is where the angels came to take her to a place she can watch over you and your son.... when i interperet things in a more positve sense [although far fetched in some people's minds] then i can deal with greif better, move on with my life more productively and not run from feelings. i don't care if i had to live in the ugliest, hick ridden, flea infested town to be near my son..........ok that's a litttle exaduration, but i know that he needs you around especially if he lost one parent already. just my opinion take it or leave it. hugs

Morphinit71

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am i capable of being loved??? Posted: 10/18/2005 6:52:11 PM
It is so hard to do, but it can be done. When my ex and I split he would call to "talk about our son" and the conversation was never about our son. I made a rule that as soon as the conversation slighted from our son then I would hang up/walk away. melissanicole.....i come across your posts from time to time and i have to say that you are so filled with wisdom and empathy. i have gotten help and insight from you. i've noticed that once in a while someone floats by with posts that are negative and saying that people complain in these forums too much, but others are looking for support and because of people like you with your advice and ideas, help can truley be had. for real. just had to say that, so thanks to all the supportive posters out there

Morphinit71

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Deadbeats! Posted: 10/18/2005 4:34:02 PM
i want to vent a little here. i wonder if the non costodial parent actually realizes how much money it takes to raise a child. i'm sure that the ones raising kids can confirm that it is stagerring. i have a 12 year old son and a 6 year old daughter. today i recieived 52 dollars in child support for the first time in over a year. the ''father'' disappears for years, months, days at a time and always blames other people and his bad hand dealt in life. i haven't heard from him in over a year and received a card yesterday from him proclaiming love for us. he is known to do this through the years and always writes with an undertone of ''victim''. he also wanted to know where every penny of his measly child support went. duh.......if he had to pay what i pay, his head would spin like reagan from the excorsist. i understand that there are bad parents who neglect their kids, but usually if it's bad enough as to where the kids aren't being kept up with necessities, someone will take notice i.e. school, church, family ect.

Morphinit71

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Am I being unreasonable now? Posted: 10/17/2005 3:41:11 PM
man, i can relate to you after re-reading your original post. he said that if you take him to court for the cs, he'll sign over rights. ha...it's not that easy. you should do research on anything he threatens or says to see if it's even plausible. he knows that he will have to pay, unless you help him by lying for him and he's just trying to scare you. don't make any moves until you have legit consultation or representation. he is full of sh/it.

Morphinit71

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Am I being unreasonable now? Posted: 10/17/2005 3:33:47 PM
this guy sounds like a loser. do not relieve his obligation for back child support because that is your son's money. he probably has a plan that if he takes this child for every other week for a length of time, he can prove to the courts that it's a joint custody situation and maybe get off not paying future child support. just do what you've been doing all along......putting your child first. btw....i speak from experience.

Morphinit71

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Tom Cruise, Scientology, and a very upset Father In Law Posted: 10/15/2005 11:51:17 AM
maybe someone will talk some sense into katie before she has this baby. or maybe when that uterus starts contracting without pain meds and she feels the kind of pain that can only be described by me as out of the depths of hell, she'll put aside all this brainwashing and opt for another route. and to not be able to have contact with the child for a week, according to info on scientology that i've read, is not very emotionally healthy for either mother/child imo.

Morphinit71

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I dont understand why i cant get repondances..am i that ugly?? Posted: 10/6/2005 6:54:46 AM
''manoman'' being shallow isn't cool. how would you feel if you got into a disfiguring accident. would you still love yourself/inner beauty stands the test of time/outer beauty is not guarenteed forever. sorry if i'm repeating anything.....i didn't read every post.

Morphinit71

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How do I move on from a women who has my kids and still has feelings for me? Posted: 10/4/2005 2:14:50 PM
''I change my personality quite easy, I act how others act around me, so if everyone is happy, I'm happy, all sad, I'm sad, so on so on, I believe I'm quite emotional'' if this is true about you, raising kids to become healthy minded adults with a profound sense of security and self esteem may be almost impossible. you see, children are bundles of emotions and feelings and when they are freaking out about things, as a parent, we need to maintain a level head and not become lost in their emotions. they need be able to rely on us to be mature. someone has to be the parent. i'm not trying to be cruel so please don't take it that way. ot...be upfront to your childrens' mother about your intentions to have an active role in their lives and try to limit the alone time with her because the lust part can just prolong all this drama.

Morphinit71

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What to do ? Posted: 9/27/2005 1:09:36 AM
ok....you say that it's hard to find family oriented type women, but are seeking an intimate incounter in your profile. seems like you may be a bit confused. I wonder what advise you are seeking. you want to know how to handle the situation? Well, considering that relationships and marraige is something that needs maturity on both parts to be of any substance, I would suggest taking a step back and re-evaluating what you truely want and be real by acting on it or not acting on it. I hope this wasn't too vauge. <[sp] ?

Morphinit71

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What is a Man? Posted: 9/24/2005 5:10:40 PM
djpapparitchey......... a hard man is EASY to find!

Morphinit71

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Men dating single mothers Posted: 9/22/2005 5:59:14 PM
drink, some of us single moms are not living in poverty...... last i heard, mcdonald's doesn't pay an extreme amount of money.

Morphinit71

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dilema,...PETS LEFT BEHIND,.... Posted: 9/21/2005 10:40:27 AM
I was wondering if anyone heard the news story about the family that got rescued and the rescuers refused to take their dog ''Snowball'' the liitle boy was so traumatized and upset that he was throwing up. Someone put up a reward for the rescue of this dog on the internet. Did they ever get reunited? Anyone know? It's so very heartbreaking that so many people, children in particular have lost so much and to lose their pet.....humans are so quick to determine that they are so much more important and worthy to live over other creatures but I believe that we should put more effort into protecting animals instead of using them for our selfish ''needs'' or dismissing them so quickly. Thank God there are some humane people out there who ARE giving their efforts and concern toward the rescue of these worthy beings who depend on us for help in their survival. Those who are saying that it was a choice between humans or animals, well with a bit more time and effort, they could have accomodated many of these pets along with their owners> not all, but alot, and to me only GOD can judge if one life is more important than the other.

morphinit71

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Abandonment Posted: 9/16/2005 6:09:50 PM
mcbobly.... I agree with the advice you gave. My daughter's father abandonded us and came to court when she was 5 months old. He had never laid his eyes on her and the judge was about to give him joint custody along with a child support payment plan. Up until then he hadn't paid a penny. A person who can abandon their child and then be handed over joint custody......the judge was retarded. So I had to get a lawyer and prove that he was unfit, which wasn't too hard with his records, but it was worth it rather than handing my child over to the ''care'' of a man who didn't have the back bone to face his responsibilities. well, who knows if this post helps you, but thanks for letting me vent a little.

morphinit71

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Confused!! Posted: 9/9/2005 6:05:42 AM
Norolim said....Go alone, eat the food, mingle and talk to people as if you were single. If you run across him be polite but casual. It will be hard and will take a lot of self control but I'm positive you're strong enough to pull it off. And just remember it's your friends big day. Concentrate on her. I agree with this. This may difficult, but if you weaken and try to discuss your relationship status with him that day, then you'll make it much worse for yourself. not that you were going to do this, but it would be tempting to bring it up considering you live far away, the break-up just happened and emotions are running high, you know? If you think that a confrontation with him might occur at the wedding, then maybe you should avoid the whole thing, however, I would just put it in my mind that this is my friend's day and stay strong like people are saying. jmo

morphinit71

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how many online dates have you had? Posted: 8/15/2005 8:35:28 PM
000000000000000

morphinit71

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Would you do this for your man??? Posted: 8/11/2005 10:12:27 AM
thank you

morphinit71

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Would you do this for your man??? Posted: 8/11/2005 10:09:09 AM
this situation has many more ramifications than a broken vase. if he is such a great man like you say, then he would not even allow you to cover this for him. and i like what someone said about the child, what would you advise your child to do, take the blame for someone else's actions or always be true to yourself.

morphinit71

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found out that u are having a baby Posted: 8/7/2005 10:03:09 PM
if you plan on following through with this pregnancy, yes, you should tell him because he has a right to know. definitly. face to face and one on one would be good when you two have this discussion. or maybe have a friend, parent, sibling ect. there as well for support. but not in front of his new girlfriend/s.

morphinit71

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is love worth it??? Posted: 8/6/2005 5:29:01 PM
^^^GREAT insight!^^^

morphinit71

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is love worth it??? Posted: 8/5/2005 9:01:36 PM
well, it's not a good way for me to live because my child looks to me as a role model in so many things. how to treat others for example. if i chose to go through life dis-trusting everyone for a couple of people who deeply wronged me, it shows my child to be the same way. and for me, it took a loooooong time and alot of work to get past all of that. some say kids are resilient and they have their own mind, but they do look to us more than we think they do and they are like sponges. we[parents] are more influential/powerful than you think. we can't be perfect, but we can grow and forgive and start over.

morphinit71

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is love worth it??? Posted: 8/5/2005 8:47:27 PM
is love worth it/am I worthy of love? this is something i have struggled with my entire life. love seemed to be very conditional in my home growing up/ i always felt that i only could earn other's love by doing things for them. there was too much anger,not enough communication. years and years of this has made me confused and lacking in healthy social skills. I can't say that i've ever had a functional relationship with a man and I've been accused of settling for those who were not equally yolked whatever that means. due to my lack of self worth and internal fears, I chose those two men that were both incapable of anything healthy. I'm talking ''bottom of the barrel'' and guess what?! I knew it from day ONE! I chose them because I wouldn't have to truly be loved. My fault. It's been 2 years since I saw the last one. 2 years of celibacy.[whatever]. >>people can get over all kinds of hurt.....Someone said on another thread that it helps to forgive because then you can truly let go. I have forgiven my family, forgiven these men for all the ways they hurt me and most importantly, I have forgiven myself for making poor choices in life. After all this forgiveness, the doors to love have been blown open. I can actually see the real possibilities and now i know that i AM worthy of love. It just irritates me when someone allows hurt to consume them to the point of just giving up on love. Then it all becomes about self gratification. Believe me, I know about fear of commitment and I know about being consumed with thoughts of ''what THEY did to me" I gave my love to the ones who could never reciprocate. i did this because i became comfortable with rejection and chaos. not anymore. so it irritates me because i was trapped and i know there's a way out. but everyone's different......i wanted out of the pits of self hatred and hatred for others. what do i have now? hope.

morphinit71

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StepChild Posted: 8/5/2005 7:55:33 PM
How about..these are OUR CHILDREN...Brittany Angelina and Cameron or whatever I'm going to agree with Doc on this one. [there's a first time for everything] It sounds considerate enough.

morphinit71

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is love worth it??? Posted: 8/5/2005 5:07:10 PM
I cannot understand the attitudes of some people in some of these threads. like the ones who think it's ok to date and dump the other person when the other person starts to develop stronger feelings for them. if you're a non-commitable person and have absolutely no desire to commit ever, then why not just go out with others that only want a booty call too. I know that I can't give names here, but there are those that are lurking around who feels it's ok to just dump someone because they thought they made it clear to them that they are like this. i hope i'm not being too vauge, just getting this out. Most of us have been stabbed in the back, hurt by others, yet, we do not give up on potential love/ companionship/relationship. Especially if you have a child because this child is looking to us as example of how to treat others. Is it cool that they grow up thinking that it's ok have relationships/ non-relationships like this? No matter how hurt we were in the past, as long as there's a breath in my body, I will never give up! love is always a gamble, but you have to be willing to experience pain to have real joy in your life. and i believe the good outweighs the bad. That's how strong love can be. jmo

morphinit71

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Is Internet shorthand causing you headaches too? Posted: 8/2/2005 3:52:46 PM
one thing that is strange is when someone says they are in collage instead of college. i've seen that a few times

morphinit71

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Favorite Lines from Movies about Relationships Posted: 7/31/2005 8:48:39 PM
Lois: How would you like it if I made your life a living hell? Ace: Well, Lois, I'm not quite ready for a relationship right now, but maybe I'll give you a call sometime. Ace Ventura: Pet Detective

morphinit71

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Favorite Lines from Movies about Relationships Posted: 7/29/2005 10:44:58 AM
I'm very sorry I've ever met you. And I'm sorry that I allowed myself to love you for all those years. I'm sorry that I did nothing but be there for you every minute of every hour and support you in you're every MOVE. I'm sorry! [lol] +The First Wives Club+

morphinit71

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do and dont .............. Posted: 7/29/2005 6:36:53 AM
dsbsky, you are very wise, i love what you posted, a person who you described is an absolute keeper.

morphinit71

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I need advise Posted: 7/24/2005 5:15:43 PM
wow... great advice from everyone!! You should print those responses out and anytime you're feeling ''weak'' or vulnerable to this guy, read them over again!

morphinit71

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I neep help! Posted: 7/23/2005 2:46:48 PM
if this guy is mature in other areas of his life, holds down a job, pays bills, is respectful, ect........i say he's a keeper. most of us have little things we do that some may consider child-like. nothing wrong with his choice of entertainment as long as the good out weigh the bad so to speak. at least he's not going to strip clubs with the guys every thursday. hehe

morphinit71

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I Guess There is No Miss Right For Me :o(... Posted: 7/22/2005 1:13:55 PM
Javan2, ok that was a little immature on my part, it's just that he's a schmuck. but i agree with you for the most part, thanks

morphinit71

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I Guess There is No Miss Right For Me :o(... Posted: 7/22/2005 1:04:40 PM
You're right ManDog but Richard Gere is older than me. I think it unlikely he spent years fighting a parasitic malady from a Third World sh**thole though. Would like to have his money thou.. you look like Richard Gere's GREAT-GRANDPA! furthermore, you would need 100X the $$$ he has to land ANYONE! btw< have a nice day.

morphinit71

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I Guess There is No Miss Right For Me :o(... Posted: 7/22/2005 12:56:12 PM
[I like someone untarnished and brainwashed by the kind of nonsense easily found on here.] yeah.....so YOU can brainwash her yourself with your BS [ I see Real Deal 'folded' her hand!! ] see, people/this is some whacked out game he's playing

morphinit71

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I Guess There is No Miss Right For Me :o(... Posted: 7/22/2005 10:30:36 AM
Don't worry about Mr. Happy and the Macadamia Brothers. They're doing just fine! and you can give all the credit to Mr. HAND Thanks, I needed a good laugh! [too easy]

morphinit71

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I Guess There is No Miss Right For Me :o(... Posted: 7/22/2005 8:40:42 AM
I read most of your posts in theses forums Doc and recognized the sarcasm right away in this one. Beyond all of your egotism and words of superiority lies one of the lowest self esteems I've ever come across. Simply put, you hate yourself. So you have chosen to sit in front of your computer unleashing all of this negatism trying to make yourself feel justified in the ''beliefs'' you have. Just realize that these thoughts about people you have stem from complete and utter confusion fueled by self hate. If you ever truly want a relationship with any type of woman some day, you need to seek professional help......outside your forum world. that is only if you want to, but all you are doing with these threads is trying to rock the boat or annoy people. misery loves company/nice try, but you haven't succeeded in dragging anyone into your pit of self hatred. jmo

morphinit71

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Relating to Obsessevie 'Posters' Posted: 7/20/2005 4:23:25 PM
i figured something out.......the doc is writing a book of personal insults and that's why he is posting all this crap...he needs material. we should start charging him

morphinit71

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Are you capable of love? Posted: 7/20/2005 4:15:45 PM
GeorgieLeopard, First, I want to tell you how sorry I am about your pup. My dog is like a son to me. Secondly, if a person has been hurt so deeply and thinks they could never allow themselves to love again, that is sad, but I can relate. It's always a gamble to let yourself love another because everyone's fallible and can ultimately hurt you, but I will love again. why? because there's nothing that compares to it.

morphinit71

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Whats the feeling on older men and younger women? Posted: 7/20/2005 10:23:48 AM
my son's father is 17 years older than me. the year i was born he had already had his first child. anyways, when i met him, we were friends first for a long time and he became the love of my life. as time went on, he started acting like a father towards me and became very controlling. then violent. he hasn't seen his son in over 8 years....his choice. very sad, but it's a good thing because he was very rough with my son. ot i think that two people who are years apart can be in love as long as they are each well rounded individuals.

morphinit71

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looking for Mr Right? Posted: 7/20/2005 10:14:04 AM
Let's see - "Mr. Right" in womanspeak means 1) Has a job and career 2) Is stable 3) Is good looking 4) Is a man who is good with the kids 5) Helps with the dishes 6) Can fix the stopped up toilet 7) Is good in bed 8) Is good in bed often 9) Is humourous 10) Is a knight in shining armor 11) Is romantic 12) Sends flowers once in awhile 13) Puts her on a pedestal and worships her 14) Can defend her honor 15) Is a good kisser and hugger 16) Has a car SOUNDS GOOD TO ME!!!! But that doesn't mean I expect perfection. everyone has their little ''quirks'' too and if he has these great qualities you listed, i can overlook his shortcomings with the exception of addictions. jmo

morphinit71

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Chuck it all, Sailboat around the world With Kids Posted: 7/20/2005 9:58:06 AM
what a great idea i would do it but it would have to be a big boat, equipped with an extensive first aid kit, books and educational items for the kids, plus we got to have a lot of money for necessities. also, i think it would be wise to take cpr courses and be prepared with knowledge of the sea.....then i would do it for sure. sounds very inticing.

morphinit71

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Romance is Dead; Long Live Relationships Posted: 7/19/2005 9:45:43 PM
Romance is dead to people who aren't capable of love. Real romance is motivated by love and the Doc hates women.I also think that he is completely confused. He is disturbed that women aren't soft spoken,man-serving housewives but he doesn't believe in the whole courting thing. Back in the ''Donna Reed'' days, sex before marraige wasn't often heard of so he wants to boink women without commitment, but he wants a housewife?

morphinit71

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Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..? Posted: 7/17/2005 2:08:45 PM
NEVER CHEATED/NEVER WILL WHY? because i find that concept disgusting if i'm in a relationship and a man is coming on to me and asks what's your name baby? I simply say "TAKEN" and walk away.

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