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 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 63 (view)
 
Ignoring her ??
Posted: 5/13/2012 11:28:55 PM
haha that's actually a great answer
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Case of the Ex..
Posted: 5/13/2012 11:02:12 PM
I look at it this way.

You guys were in a good relationship after knowing eachother for years and were talking marriage.

Here's the thing when things got difficult for you " HE BAILED ON YOU "

Who cares if you got closure, I know you want it but the closure should have been him running off with some 19 year old while you were going through a rough time in your life.

You really want to be with someone like that? You're a gorgeous girl.. with uhh LOTS OF SPARKLIES on your face.

Surely there is someone out there, who would stick with you through thick and thin.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Every Girl.
Posted: 5/13/2012 10:21:37 PM
Its not an age thing its a "YOU" thing you're attitude and the way you act gets you there, you're the only person who has control of whether you go there or not.

Try complimenting less, only compliment her when she's giving you what you want or if you honestly feel she deserves compliments.. some women like them and some don't, and some don't appreciate them. Escalate more.. like don't just sit there and listen listen listen... example you're on a date.. Grab her hand and walk her to the door .

Make moves, grab her hand, playfully touch her get her interacting.

A woman will forgive you for making a move, but won't forgive you if you "never" do. The point is that you have to let her know you're not there for friends. If you dont' want to be in the friend zone don't let yourself go there... you've got enough female friends as it is.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Sexuality issue
Posted: 5/13/2012 8:17:52 PM
Say "Hai babeh, wuld u likez to Scizzor me"
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Question for the ladies...what flirtatious body language have you used?
Posted: 5/13/2012 6:36:22 PM
I've actually had this happen, usually only when I'm with someone, but women point out flirting more then I think we pick up on.. I used to have a girlfriend who would constantly point it out.

But I didn't notice because I wasn't paying attention.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Question for the ladies...what flirtatious body language have you used?
Posted: 5/13/2012 5:54:02 PM
I use moves like "the thinker" or the super hero " hands to your waist with a heroic smile" move.

If that fails, yawn and put your arm around her
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Question for the ladies...what flirtatious body language have you used?
Posted: 5/13/2012 5:32:16 PM
A woman eating a banana is still a woman eating a banana.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 121 (view)
 
Ex girlfriend sends me this text today...how do I play this?
Posted: 5/13/2012 5:30:24 PM
You're her plan B

I don't know her but she honestly sounds like the kind of girl who "just has to be in a relationship" which is why she's with some dude asking if she breaks it off if you'll be with her.

Personally I'd tell her to FO she had her chance, but sounds like you're going to do the opposite so at least make it difficult for her. Instead of just being the sucker again.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
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Question for the ladies...what flirtatious body language have you used?
Posted: 5/13/2012 5:04:07 PM
Can't speak for the women, I've seen all the things you mention. I actually think women communicate better through body language. They pick up on every little thing you do, and it doesn't take but a simple facing another direction to show you're displeased.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 58 (view)
 
Ignoring her ??
Posted: 5/13/2012 4:51:37 PM
I've said it in other threads before... you can actually use "being nice" to make a woman lose interest as a way of breaking up with her.

Its funny how it works, but what women say they want and what they are actually attracted to are two different things, I have no idea why.. and often wonder if its because they think with their white matter rather than their gray matter as we do... Their brain is constantly firing alot more than ours.

You can ignore a girl if you like, but that doesn't mean she's going to be into you just because "you ignored here" there are countless factors that come into play, its not even really about ignoring them. Its as I think someone said earlier just showing that you're comfortable with just you and you don't need someone to "be happy" you've just gotta fall right in the middle somewhere if that makes sense, and for each woman its different.

Ever have a breakup? I'm sure we all have.. want to know what works in getting her back.. Letting her go and being cool with it.. And it doesn't always work but its going to work alot better than hounding her begging her to come back etc..etc.. and it may not be tomorrow or a week from now, but could even be a month later.

Its hard to explain, because you just can't "pretend to be ok with it" You have to actually feel that way, and if you don't a woman will pick up on that and know that.

With that said, there is honestly a difference in being nice, and letting a woman run all over you.. You can still be nice, but also let her know where you stand when you need to.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 5 (view)
 
SSRI's and orgasm fail :)
Posted: 5/10/2012 12:16:38 PM
Instead of Citalopram try Lexapro.

I don't have any problems with orgasms, but I have had that problem on MAOI's like Paxil. Try new meds
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
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He doesn't know what the future holds?
Posted: 5/10/2012 4:42:17 AM
Agree ^^ You've been going on and on about this for days now.. Move on the answers are not changing regardless of the different scenarios you've been giving us.

Its cool to have hope and wants and dreams, but at one point you're just gonna have to do YOU and find someone that is meeting your expectations.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Is she serious about having a relationship???
Posted: 5/10/2012 4:29:05 AM
At any rate not to argue with Deb or anything my original post wasn't even to point out the control issues. Just that society has placed a very "high value" on the lady parts and when they offer it.. IE they made the move they expect you to fall in line and man up.

Short version - You don't get upset when you're turned down ... you (might) be temporarily, but you're used to having to work for it.

Women - are used to deciding whether tonight is the night, and aren't as used to the rejection when and if they throw themselves onto you.

 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
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He doesn't know what the future holds?
Posted: 5/10/2012 4:18:41 AM
If he's your ex he's leading you on trying to keep you as a plan b.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
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Is she serious about having a relationship???
Posted: 5/10/2012 4:17:49 AM
Sure we can sugar coat it like that if you want, but ultimately its used as punishment.
She will do it even if she doesn't work. And if there are no kids.

Again not all women will do it, but there are many who will.

http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts3611655.aspx

at any rate there is a thread where women say they same thing I've said. Up to you which way you go with it dub
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Review please
Posted: 5/10/2012 4:13:37 AM
<------ I'll give you one guess as to what photo has generated more messages to my profile
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 55 (view)
 
On an initial meetup......should the guy..?
Posted: 5/10/2012 4:11:48 AM
Typically confirmation just happens automatically because you guys are usually exchanging texts / calls at that point and you'll know
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Is she serious about having a relationship???
Posted: 5/10/2012 4:06:58 AM
That's my opinion dub, I've lost female friends over that very fact.

Again, it doesn't apply to everyone and its only my opinion.. But I don't think women are used to rejection at least not sexually as much as men are, so I could see how many would be taken back by it. For alot of women its their ultimate weapon to get you to do what they want... You didn't do the dishes or the honey do list and she holds out, etc..etc... So imagine you found some miracle drug that got you everything you wanted and then it didn't work all of a sudden.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
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Is she serious about having a relationship???
Posted: 5/10/2012 3:38:22 AM
When a woman is turned down by a guy for sex its has bigger implications than if its the other way around. I think that's a society thing women already think we're all about sex and if you turn them down during that moment there are many who will take a huge ego hit and walk away.

Its like guys are expected to always be ready, while women are ready when they are ready.. huge double standard. And women will be bugged by it even after being in a relationship for quite a while. "what's wrong with me" they will think .. Or I can't believe he'd turn this down something is wrong with him.

As far as the rest that's up to you. You'll get some females chiming in soon.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
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Am I wrong
Posted: 5/10/2012 1:56:32 AM
You should definitely cut it down a bit to where you're getting like 1 message a month

Really man? lol
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Profile Suggestions
Posted: 5/10/2012 1:51:59 AM
Are you fluent in japanese or just a few words?

Based on my experience sometimes you can write too much and be too descriptive. Most women aren't into video games either we're too ahead of our time for that .. the younger ones coming up are getting more and more into them.

Try a few writeups swap them in and out. Same with photos then use that to determine what's working and what isn't.

On a side note will you be playing diablo 3 next week?
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 84 (view)
 
Being vocal or verbal during sex
Posted: 5/10/2012 12:57:26 AM
Here's a question has someone "being to vocal" Killed the mood for anyone?

I've literally heard some shit where I was just wanting to laugh.. Like wtf are you serious?
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
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Thoughts on piercings?
Posted: 5/10/2012 12:53:24 AM
Depends on the woman sometimes they look good / sometimes they don't.

The amount of piercings to me usually has no bearing sometimes I'm not a fan of tongue rings. And once they start stretching their ears out that is too much for me.

I shouldn't be able to have sex with her ear because the hole in it is big enough to carry a cell phone, a bag of skittles, and a small suitcase.

However there may be an upside if you need her to carry your beer. Or a sandwich for later.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
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Is this typical guy behavior or is this guy bad
Posted: 5/10/2012 12:50:06 AM
Just because guys are checking out tits on the internet doesn't automatically make them women posting them up "hookers"

My ex used to be jealous of Maxim Magazine.. yeah that went well.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
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profile review
Posted: 5/9/2012 11:58:38 PM
Just be thankful you got a profile review.. I didn't even get that when I asked.

Seriously though everyone is going to find something that is different and will critique you about what you should change.. personally type you up a few things and try something new each week, then stick with what works.. also clearer pics etc.. and rotate different ones in and out.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
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How to write that I'm chubby?
Posted: 5/9/2012 11:46:12 PM
Most people confuse chubby with obese.

You are definitely a larger framed girl, but you're not gross or overly large you look quite attractive to me at least, I think you're putting too much thought into it.

Honestly I'd just say average body type, you've got enough pictures put up for a guy to determine whether it would be an issue for him or not.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Is this an overreaction?
Posted: 5/9/2012 11:12:45 PM
That would get on my nerves as well.

Its just someone who is really insecure and thinks that just because you're online means you have to be chatting with someone else, bad thing about this site is it will show you online if your phone is signed in, you've left your browser open etc..etc.. with no indication that you're idle or anything

Just move on you already know what to do, because you did it.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Is this typical guy behavior or is this guy bad
Posted: 5/9/2012 11:09:54 PM
talk to him about it

I don't think its normal, but maybe he just wanted to see some tits on the internet there doesn't have to be a rhyme or reason for anything.

I can tell you that there are things that I do on the internet, that could give people the wrong impression about myself and my only answer even though its true wouldn't make sense to a woman because we approach situations in two different ways.

Best thing ask him about it
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 132 (view)
 
He/she still watches cartoons...
Posted: 5/9/2012 11:05:32 PM
I don't watch cartoons religiously, and I'm very unsure about pokemon.. but the older cartoons like bugs bunny etc..etc.. Are actually more enjoyable and funny as an adult, as there are jokes in them that you just didn't get as a kid.

Make sense? Its the same reason adults can go out and enjoy animated movies with their kids, because kids enjoy the cartoonish look and adults get the adult humor in it while kids just laugh because they think they are supposed too.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Are women more visual and sexual than men ?
Posted: 5/9/2012 10:02:28 PM
I don't think they are.

I think its men that are more visual, its the reason women do things like instinctively play with their hair if they are interested among other things, because it draws our attention to them.. Its the same reason why whenever you look at a dance floor you always see more women then men.

Men value beauty more whatever that is for them.. whereas women value qualities and traits more. They still love their eye candy but in the end you can be Brad Pitt and be a pushover and they aren't going to be interested.

I also think women can start out unattracted and become attracted to a man at a later time, I don't think the same is true for men.

Of course this doesn't apply to everyone but I do believe what I've said because I've seen it.

If you're a natural leader its doesn't matter what you look like most women will be attracted to you because of that, of course there is more and this is only one example.


There was a quote somewhere but I haven't been able to find it I was looking for it the other day.. something along the lines of a Man learns to love his woman, the woman learns to be attracted to him (something like that anyway, I could be wrong)
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 10 (view)
 
First meet---no chemistry, better off as friends
Posted: 5/9/2012 4:16:56 AM
sounds to me like you both went out as friends... And he was being upfront and honest just in case you felt differently.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 163 (view)
 
Atheism and Dating
Posted: 5/9/2012 4:05:14 AM
I don't have a problem with anyone's beliefs it only becomes an issue when its constantly being advertised.

Examples:
I'm christian
I'm homosexual

etc..etc..

I live in the south where this is a common occurrence as far as alot of Southern Baptists go, there are alot of religious zealots out there in every religion I'm sure.

But Southern Baptists tend to use the term " I'm Christian" as if Catholics, Methodists, etc..etc.. Aren't Christians.

I saw a poster that made me laugh in reference to this at one point

Religion is like a penis
Its fine to have one.
Its fine to be proud of it.

But please don't whip it out in public and start waving it around.
And PLEASE don't try to shove it down my children's throats.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Numbing Himself
Posted: 5/9/2012 1:00:01 AM
Self medicating. Maybe he has depression and alcohol makes him happy and cheerful.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 9 (view)
 
No Holds Barred Review Plz
Posted: 5/8/2012 11:44:05 PM
I wouldn't worry about it .. if you're getting blocked there's no telling what set them off.. I've been blocked by people and I'm not even rude to them, never could understand what the reason for that was unless they were just being friendly and chatting and just got tired of it.

If they are showing interest at first and losing interest over time it could be that you're just not escalating with them properly .. meaning you're just seeming completely happy talking over POF non stop not making an effort to get their number in a reasonable time frame, ask them out etc..etc..etc.. could be any number of things.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
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On an initial meetup......should the guy..?
Posted: 5/8/2012 11:34:14 PM
I actually don't even call to confirm, I let her do it.. if she doesn't I don't even bother contacting her.

Maybe its not the right approach but most of the women I've met have been some of the most indecisive people I've ever met, and the ones who really do want to meet up with you for dinner/drinks are going to confirm that same day.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 71 (view)
 
paying child support for non-biological children
Posted: 5/8/2012 11:19:47 PM
The whole child support system is a scam.

I pay child support regularly never behind even ahead, plus paid support in other ways that got called "gifts" which they were not, and I never got credit for any of it example, made sure ex had a car to transport daughter etc..etc..

I don't have any rights to the child, as I was much younger at the time and immature, but basically got alot of this all set by default, can't get an attorney in the state of texas to even call me back on this issue. And no attorney in my state can represent me about visitation because they aren't in the state of texas.

Meanwhile if I do call the AG's office for anything I'm spoken down to like I'm a criminal. I think only one person there has ever treated me with any sort of respect.

In the US guys are obligated to support non-biological children, but luckily this situation hit the wallet of a Judge in Texas who is currently fighting it and he should.. BIOLOGICAL fathers should be responsible for their children, sure non-biological children deserve support too but I don't see why a guy who isn't the biological father should even be forced to pay.. maybe offer health insurance etc.etc.. as it would be cheaper for the state then welfare would be but that's a very minimal cost..

At least in my case child support = Mommy support. And I'd still get phone calls asking for more money, my response is you should have thought about that prior to not giving me credit for the car I purchased, the income taxes I've sent etc..etc. She's one of these ladies that constantly play the single mother card.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 9 (view)
 
No country for old men?
Posted: 5/8/2012 10:02:26 PM
It is a generalization, but this is what alot of women are attracted to whether or not they want to admit it or even realize that they do it.

You know its actually kind of sad that I've used being extremely nice to a woman to break it off with her.. meaning I just worshipped the ground that she walked on for about a week maybe (worship) is a strong word, but You can be extremely nice to a woman and within a week she will be ready to get out of the relationship. And the genius part about it is it will be her idea. And it works alot.

Yet I'm not saying be an ass, but If I take my time responding to her, cancel plans, reschedule things, etc..etc.. she will stay around for much longer.

Not sure why that is, but its actually true. Of course this won't apply to everyone .. but it has applied to absolutely everyone that I've met on this site.

The old joke about the husband store is actually quite true.. One of my most recent dates we met up had fun etc..etc.. I asked her if she was still interested after a week or so because we just weren't talking much her response was "she had too many irons in the fire" My response was I deserve to be more than just "an iron in a fire"

Well she saw I had went on a date with someone else through my facebook page and all of a sudden is trying to get another night out, texting me telling me she was stupid for saying that etc..etc..

So while it may be a generalization in my experience it has held true more then it has not.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Dating with panic disorder...
Posted: 5/8/2012 9:41:57 PM
Funny you mentioned that I had a panic attack at a restaurant on a date recently.

Totally random and irrational thoughts will trigger mine from time to time.. we went to a sushi/japanese grill type place where they cook the food on the table... I ordered some saki and the chef asked me if I wanted to try one flaming.. I hand him the shot glass and his starts pouring lighter fluid all over it and setting it on fire repeatedly cause it kept going out.

Well I drank it and then all of a sudden for whatever stupid reason I could only thing "oh shit I just drank lighter fluid, and I'm going to die" Couldn't shake the feeling no matter how irrational it was.

Told my date I needed to go to the restroom tried to get myself under control and finally just came out and told her that I was just having a panic attack and she was actually very reasonable about it.. we laughed about it later and made jokes about how I almost got assassinated (in reference to the chef saying it was only a drink for ninjas)

At any rate still had a good time.. Mine however have been a huge issue lately from trying to ween myself off anti-depressants which hasn't been going to well. If she's a cool chick I think she'd understand. Its not really all that uncommon.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Ex's Family
Posted: 5/8/2012 5:53:39 AM
This is just one of those personal preference things in my opinion, as long as you aren't coming around during holidays where he may be spending it with his new girl and family and things like that.. I could see how that would get awkward.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
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Almost 24 and never dated or had a realationship, what am I doing wrong?
Posted: 5/8/2012 4:56:30 AM
I assumed cause of his first kiss reference.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 2 (view)
 
curfew 11 yr old
Posted: 5/8/2012 4:05:17 AM
If you're comfortable with 8:15 use that as your starting point. Ultimately you're the parent and it really doesn't matter what the hell other kids are doing.

If he meets that consistently bump it up to 8:30 in a month continue bumping it up as often or as far as you want, show him that being on time and being late has consequences so if he's late bump it down if he is consistently late well get creative I'm sure you'll do fine.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Guys hitting on your girlfriend in bars etc - curious to see what guys / girls make of this?
Posted: 5/8/2012 3:41:15 AM
It personally doesn't bother me, but I've had guys try to start fights just for talking to their girl, who I was unaware they were even with anyone, and wasn't even making moves on them

Don't be that guy
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 87 (view)
 
How would you retaliate when cheated on?
Posted: 5/8/2012 3:19:45 AM
I don't retaliate.. I walk
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Depression
Posted: 5/8/2012 2:52:34 AM
Actually a topic I know alot about. Its never too late to be social but you have to get out of your comfort zone and try. There are medications out there that can help but more than likely you will never be like everyone else.

I have depression too, its not nearly as severe as yours seems to be, mine mostly affects my energy levels.. I feel tired constantly makes it very hard to maintain a relationship and i'm also an introvert being around alot of people wear me out.

But I remember the day when I would go to a party only to stand around a crown of people and think "wow I have nothing to add to this conversation" just sitting off to the side thinking you weren't a part of anything.

One thing you have to get past is worrying what other people think of you. Truth is they aren't laughing at you behind your back or probably aren't even concerned with you. I know I used to walk through my cafeteria in high school and hear someone laugh and automatically assumed that they were laughing at me. If you do that as well you've got to get out of assuming that.

You may not have depression at all, it might be very mild .. I would definitely go talk to any doctor about social anxiety try meds see if they help. You dont' even have to go to psychiatrist to do this, you can go to any old doctor and tell them how you feel and that you want to try something that will make social situations less of a hassle.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Almost 24 and never dated or had a realationship, what am I doing wrong?
Posted: 5/8/2012 2:34:41 AM
Put you're a virgin in your profile. Don't go into detail and when they ask talk about your morals

What could it hurt? You don't have to tell them you've never had a girlfriend toss that shit out of your head now, It would definitely be a conversation starter for sure. If they aren't talking to you now it wouldn't even matter.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 68 (view)
 
2nd rose
Posted: 5/8/2012 2:04:15 AM
I have sent a few roses, use them after a date.

But really lol I didn't think this was something anyone thought about I don't know how often you can even send roses but its been a good week or two since I have and I only have one so <shrug>
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 5 (view)
 
How do you protect your child from a monster??
Posted: 5/8/2012 1:28:39 AM
Just like Major Payne did unload your pistol into the closet and tell her its dead.

I stuffed animal, a real animal that sleeps in her room, there's all kinds of things you could do. If you were religious it could be a good starting point in developing her spiritually. Any old trinket would do though.

You'll think of something though.. Even night lights.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
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Is something wrong with my profile??
Posted: 5/8/2012 1:06:02 AM
Guys won't read that big huge wall of stuff anyway.. they might skim over it at best find one or two things to talk about but a huge wall of text isn't going to stop someone from messaging you.

You seem like a cute enough girl to me, nice eyes, etc..etc..

Photo two.. huge sweatshirt that looks like it belongs to your brother gives the appearance that you are larger than you are, even next to the other photos... could make a guy think that's what he's getting?

Just a thought. Also for me personally the marijauna thing would do it for me, not that I don't think people can do it on occassion but if you've taken the time to list it in your profile, that probably means its something you constantly do.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 54 (view)
 
Should I be worried and is it ok to be worried?
Posted: 5/7/2012 11:37:31 PM
I think everyone should be entitled to benefit of the doubt from time to time.

I wouldn't be down about it sure its frustrating and not how you wanted to spend you're evening, and its always a bigger disappointment when you've spent a few weeks working up to something only to have that reality shattered.

But you guys haven't met yet, no one owes anyone anything, and There is a chance he's got a valid reason, maybe a death in the family etc..etc.. you never really know

I guess its ok to worry you guys have been talking for several months, but that seems like a really long time to chat without a meeting?

Is he even signing on to pof anymore?
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Does this mean he is not serious about a Relationship?
Posted: 5/7/2012 11:23:58 PM
lol no its not a good indicator.

Maybe he is just OCD about his inbox and can't stand it cluttering it up.
 
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