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Joined: 9/16/2006

Msg: 53 (view)

Dating and ODSP Posted: 4/27/2008 9:41:17 AM
i suffer from psychophrenia and am on odsp and if you thought it was hard to find a date on odsp then try my condition as soon as anyone know of it they go into the stigmatism of we are all psychos and need to be avoided.. we are not all like that we do have medications we take and most of us are good to go in life and i personally give back to my community as a youth support worker trying to help kids lose their addictions and help them stop the abuse of substances.. but i guess when women say they are looking for a nice guy and a honest guy they are lying themselves so i don't know if being honest on here is good for us in the long run because i've been on here for sometime now and not even one date or someone to contact me back at all so i guess this site really hits home with the self esteem issues when on odsp and having a mental illness to boot mabey we can work together to help each other find someone..they say love is blind and i hope it finds me soon..cause this is getting silly really silly here they want a honest and nice guy and when one comes along they reject him so mabey we should be shalow too and reject them but this is not in us so i guess we will have to wait some more until the right person comes along..

Joined: 9/16/2006

Msg: 52 (view)

Dating and ODSP Posted: 4/27/2008 9:26:36 AM
to correct you your base salary is on how much your rent is and most single people only get 981 dollars to live off of the whole month and alot of people don't do good with money especially if the have mental issues like my self i have to watch everything that i spend and most of my money goes for rent ,medication,food and washing my clothes hell mabey i might be able to afford a new dvd or movie if it is under 20 bucks.. so don't get fooled by the amount that single people get on odsp..but if they cannot accept you for your financial security then what if they found out why your on odsp???

Joined: 9/16/2006

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Single for the first time in a long time Posted: 4/27/2008 9:12:42 AM
it is hard and if you want a guy to hang out with and have great sex with then you just came across him my name is randy and on here it is peekaacju and i live in stratfrod and if this is what you want in a male friend or as we call em **** buddies then honey you got the jackpot here if this is what your looking for because i am very laid back and even though i am looking for that special someone you have to test the waters before you dive in right and i hope we can hang out and do some things together sometime and yes it is hard to get going again after a marriage or any long relationship..anyways ireall y hope to hear from you ..

Joined: 9/16/2006

Msg: 41 (view)

what does this all meen? does size really matter? Posted: 4/27/2008 9:03:10 AM
well well it seems this advice from a GUY should close the deal.. honey you can do way way better and as for him wondering what the "judgemental people" would think is a load of crap he is a shallow person and you don't need him in your life the outside of the person- container- should not matter in todays society but there are those shallow people out there.. i would be proud of you on my arm because i have someone who cares for me with me as much as you probably care for him it is not worth it for you to go through this bullsh*t.. if he really wanted to be your friend then he wouldn't care or concern himself with the "judgemental people" out there.. i have a mulitude of female friends of all shapes and sizes..hell the last girlfriend i had was in the "big" size and it turned out that she was the judgemental type because she did like my tattoos and she was a control freak..anyways this is not the subject here.. YOU can do WAY BETTER THAN HIM>>> lose him altogether and also remember that long distance relationships do not work out..anyways if you ever want to talk talk then you can hit me up here... kkkkkk just message me or whatever so i get notified that you need my help and i will try and do my best kkkk... i would be honoured to be your friend.. look out for those players that just want sex...

Joined: 9/16/2006

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Image Problems Posted: 10/26/2006 12:06:04 PM
you keep on erasing my tattoos that i have on my stomach and i've seen worse here with some of the cleavage but you don't edit them so why my tattoos then??

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