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Cresh

Joined: 9/16/2006

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Do you want & have children? Odd question for anyone Posted: 12/27/2007 3:48:42 PM
This is just for pure amusement after reading a profile. I got to ask this, since a profile is a first impression. Lets say someone has: Do you want children? No Do you have children? Yes What would be your first impression. Doesn't want more children or .... the alternative?

Cresh

Joined: 9/16/2006

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Is there a Moncton Halloween party? Posted: 10/16/2007 7:52:33 PM
Just as the topic says, is there a Moncton Halloween party? Last year's one was pretty good...... even though I don't actually remember where it was anymore. Or is this one just in Fredericton this time?

Cresh

Joined: 9/16/2006

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biggest turn ons on a first date Posted: 9/27/2007 8:10:52 PM
Biggest turn ons... her showing up! Actually from the last date I was on which was 2 weeks ago, I can think of a few turn offs... I suppose you can say the turn ons would be the opposite of these. 1. Yawning.. at least be awake when you show up. 2. Uncomfortable topics (previous relationship & violence) 3. No chivory (shes prventing it). Its odd but not being able to be chivorlous (sp?) kinda puts me in the state of mind that.......I'm not sure. It just throws you off when you meet someone for the first time and you have to adjust your mannerism. You're just not sure how to behave for the rest of the night.... and beyond.

creshy

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If you could live one day of your life as ................. Posted: 6/28/2007 6:01:31 PM
lol.. love the name "RedHeadsDoItBetter". I whole heartedly agree by that name. Ah lets see... who would I rather be? I wonder what life would be if I lived a single day as me.

creshy

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Adding to favorites for last login date Posted: 6/27/2007 4:53:03 PM
I use the "My Matches" feature exclusively. It shows only the active people. Haven't really used any other search methods. But seeing their last login would be nice.

creshy

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10 Reasons Why Hockey Is Better Than Sex Posted: 6/3/2007 6:59:40 PM
#6.. .lol. and this is a good thing?

creshy

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Shocking telegrams... Posted: 6/3/2007 6:53:28 PM
I like that last one.

creshy

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The 22 towns with the worst names... Posted: 5/30/2007 6:09:42 PM
I can vouch for hyacinth1974 comment. That town does exist. It's in the next province over from me.

creshy

Joined: 9/16/2006

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Detergent in a fountain? Posted: 5/29/2007 5:43:23 PM
at City Hall, theres a large fountain. someone put in a whole lot of soap in there. Bubbles all over main st.

creshy

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Mother and Daughter Posted: 5/29/2007 5:41:09 PM
ha, I'd be white as a ghost if I heard that.

creshy

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The Best or Worst/ Funniest or most Perverted Emails? Posted: 5/29/2007 5:38:21 PM
oh this has potential... and can be scary at the same time. I figure most people just delete stuff like this.

creshy

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want to improve your profile? Posted: 5/29/2007 5:07:46 PM
ya I need help with mine. Really I want to know what immidate impression you get from my profile. Do I sound like a nice guy, a confident guy, a loser, average, etc.

creshy

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Mutual interest? Posted: 5/29/2007 2:35:16 PM
When first trying to contact someone on this site or any other, or even in face to face, I find that I'm always initiating conversation 100% of the time. Each day I'm saying hi. If I decide to wait, I don't get talked to. This has never made me comfortable. The longer it persists the more it seems like it is not mutual. I always feel like something is wrong. If it was just 1 case, that would be ok. Its been pretty much all. How many weeks does it take before a girl takes the initiative? Can't be happy if you feel like you're wasting your time.

creshy

Joined: 9/16/2006

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The Kiss Of Death Posted: 5/28/2007 7:22:02 PM
Well you have 2 choices.... be nice, or be a murderous psychopathic killer. Being a killer doesn't sound so bad right now.

creshy

Joined: 9/16/2006

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Age: Is it really just a number?? Posted: 5/28/2007 7:15:11 PM
Age never bothered me. But someone that I was with, it did eventually bother her. She was older. Now I'm forced into believing that arbritrary numbers actually means something. I've specifically avoiding contacting certain people because of it. I don't want repeats of losing happiness for a pointless reason.

creshy

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Creating a profile stating you are NOT looking for a relationship? Posted: 5/23/2007 6:31:23 PM
This is something I don't get. Sometimes I read on a person's profile that they aren't looking for dating or a relationship. Just looking for friends. Does that actually work? You always hear that you can't just be friends. When I say does that actually work, do you get more friends, or does it actually help in getting a relationship in an indirect way? And I'm going to make an assumption here, but I'm guessing that if something like that is written, it is probably not on a guy's profile. I haven't read their profiles, so I have nothing to back that up.

creshy

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What is the right amount of Fave Lists to be on Posted: 5/21/2007 7:23:37 PM
Oddly sounds like we're better off not being liked...... Favorites should be a personal feature only. Shouldn't be able to see other people's favorites.

creshy

Joined: 9/16/2006

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Can you review my profile & picture? Posted: 5/21/2007 6:51:57 PM
Hi, I'd like to know if you can review both my profile and my picture? I know my picture has a really bad rating on this site. I don't know how truthfully people vote on that. I don't see anything overly bad with my profile, but it can likely be improved.

creshy

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Something fun to try....or maybe not so fun Posted: 5/19/2007 9:22:41 PM
I'm worth $60.... I don't know if I should be proud or miserable.

creshy

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Voting Breakdown on your Rated picture. Posted: 5/19/2007 3:12:05 PM
I had put up a bad picture and I got an 8. I had put up a good picture and I get a 4. But almost entirely good responses from ages of 41+. thinking about not rating at all.

creshy

Joined: 9/16/2006

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Has anyone heard of P.A.C.E.? Posted: 5/19/2007 2:38:58 PM
I've attended one of their recent events. Its nice and all, but I do want to hang around people my age. Purpose of meeting new people is to connect. Sounds obvious but I ended up feeling isolated and very out of place.

creshy

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How to stay happy while being single? Posted: 5/13/2007 9:34:03 AM
Not to argue over anything. This thread is about how to be happy while single. Lets keep it on topic. A lot of responses involve saying they either need someone or they already are happy being single. While thats nice and all, share your secrets. What is it that you do that makes you happy? and why? I personally don't have a single motivitation to do anything. I have lost all my drive. I'm trying to get that back. So far theres been no meaning or enjoyment in the various things that I have tried.

creshy

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Dom or Sub Posted: 5/12/2007 4:20:53 PM
I kinda like Submission. I've been described as a teddy bear. I certainly can't Dominate.

creshy

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You know you want to... but... Posted: 5/12/2007 4:05:16 PM
at this moment, I'm wishing I had someone to call. I'm just sitting here wondering if I should go to some random club alone.

creshy

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How to stay happy while being single? Posted: 5/12/2007 3:57:13 PM
What gets me about this type of person is that they were without a romantic relationship and slept alone for almost the first 15-20 years of life, so how do you figure you can't live without someone when you already have documented proof that you've done it? Your parents and siblings witnessed it. You can't be lost and alone from missing something you haven't had for long stretches of your life, and that you didn't have growing up. WTF? In his argument, you can live X amount of years alone but not wanting to be alone. Prolonged lonilyness will lead you into depression, and at that point, you will become desperate. You can be ok and happy being single right now AND NOT BE LONELY, but doesn't mean you'll stay that way. It can take years before it sinks in, and you realise that you are missing a part of your life. I went through the same thing. After 9 years, I went on anti-depressants. I'm ok now. I'm not happy, but I'm not entirely depressed anymore.

creshy

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How to stay happy while being single? Posted: 5/12/2007 9:47:57 AM
thanks all for the replies. I know I need to spend my free time doing something I like. What I used to like just isn't cutting it anymore. So now it is off to find new things. Trying guitar, and exercising. But so far it is only barely filling the void. I'm trying to get a car which I hope will help me out. I need to have something to look forward to after work rather than looking forward to seeing someone.

creshy

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Friday or Saturday gatherings? Posted: 5/11/2007 5:39:54 PM
ah thanks. its edited now.

creshy

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Friday or Saturday gatherings? - Moncton Posted: 5/11/2007 5:32:54 PM
Hi, I was wondering if there was regular gatherings on Friday or Saturday. Can't really do much on a week day. Can't stay there late or drink. Since the weather is better now, down on main st where they have the outdoor seating in front of various clubs, that would be a nice place to gather... and a place where I don't have to do Karaoke! They might even have bands there.

creshy

Joined: 9/16/2006

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Thursday night Karaoke Posted: 5/9/2007 6:32:02 PM
well... I might pop in for a bit. Its actually rather close to home.

creshy

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Thursday night Karaoke Posted: 5/9/2007 5:21:00 PM
I don't mind spending time out on the weekdays but for a late night activity, thats a bit iffy.

creshy

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Would ya,Could ya...???? Posted: 4/30/2007 2:53:40 PM
I'd say yes to fighting, but right now I have to say no. Don't get me wrong, its not for any moral reasons... I just have nothing to go back to if I win.

creshy

Joined: 9/16/2006

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how do you get over a hangover? Posted: 4/30/2007 2:50:19 PM
You know... I've never had a hangover. Ever. I learned a long while back that I was alergic to mold (yeast) so I can't really drink beer. So I've tried numerous cooler type drinks. I'm ok with Revs so I stick with that. So I don' t know if that has anything to do with it. But when I get back from drinking, I eat and drink lots of water before going to bed. And I wake up fine. In fact, with all that caffine, I usually wake up at 8am after going to bed at 3am and I feel almost refreshed. The opposite of a hangover basically. I actually used this technique to adjust to changes in my work shift. It worked like a charm.

creshy

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How to stay happy while being single? Posted: 4/29/2007 8:11:39 PM
Hi. I wanted to put this in the forum "Ask a Guy" since I'm looking for advice from other guys. How do you stay happy being single? Ever since I was a teenager, I've been compelled to seek a relationship. And for those brief times, that I was in one, I was extremely happy. There used to be a variety of things I enjoyed doing and looked forward to it. But things changed... I've become acutely aware of all time spent doing things I used to like, which is now time not spent being in a relationship. I've been trying to do new things for a while now. I suppose it made the situation worse since I've been spending time in common areas where people go out (ie: everyone is with someone). I'm sure most everyone has heard the quote "you complete me" or something similar. That saying, is actually a bad thing. You need to be whole by yourself first. But unfortunately for me, I'm not. I NEED to be happy with myself before I can make someone else happy. What makes you guys happy?

creshy

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If she sleeps with me on the first date, I figure she probably sleeps with tons of guys, and I'll ne Posted: 4/29/2007 7:47:39 PM
This might be insecurity talking but in my mind, the longer she puts out, the better chance that she won't cheat or have one night stands in the future.

creshy

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How to find a single girl who is alone? Posted: 4/28/2007 1:22:32 PM
How in the world do you find a single girl who is alone? I used to work nights for several years, and now I work days. I'm adjusting to living a normal life, and I'm going out a lot to the movies, bar, pub/club, mall, restaurants, random events, etc trying to find someone. They're either with a guy or with a group of their girl friends. Never by themselves. I'm not shy around 1 person, but a group of people is a different story. I went to a Plenty of Fish party the other week.. and it ticked me off. Everyone showed up with their friends. Man did I ever feel miserable and out of place. Where is a good place to meet someone and just that person?

creshy

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Funniest thing ever happened to you during sex? Posted: 4/22/2007 6:05:36 PM
Second time I was with a speller. Now it's hard enough for a man to concentrate on one thing at a time but imagine being with a woman who spells out dirty words during love making? "F-U... me" It was like an X rated spelling bee. Talk about distractions. I like a verbal woman but when I have to stop and figure out what the hell she is spelling, well, not exactly an aphrodesiac. On the radio recently it said that sex causes a man to temporarly lose intelligence. Kinda defeats the purpose now doesn't it?

creshy

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New and Unusual Pet..... Posted: 4/22/2007 5:11:15 PM
haha. thats great.

creshy

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Funny Names For Kids Posted: 4/22/2007 5:08:01 PM
well not specially related to kids, but appropriate for this forum. Rex Hiscock. Its a real name.

creshy

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Funniest thing ever happened to you during sex? Posted: 4/22/2007 5:05:50 PM
... chased by a cow? please do tell!

creshy

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Funniest thing ever happened to you during sex? Posted: 4/22/2007 4:49:18 PM
Well, just making out in the car, front seat. I was on the passenger side. She of course was on the driver side. Her foot slipped and hit the gas and really reved the engine. It was in park which was good. We got a good laugh out of that.

creshy

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Ever go to a restaurant by yourself? Posted: 4/22/2007 10:50:49 AM
Thats a good question... I go out into town alone. I go to the mall alone. I go to restaurants alone. I go to the clubs & pubs alone. I go to the movies alone. Its not by choice. I personally like going out, and I do that quite frequently. I'm not from around here. Went to college here and thats where I met all my friends. ALL of them are now married. Half of them have kids. (we're all within the same age group too. 24-26). Getting people to go out on a whim just doesn't happen anymore. Takes a lot of planning just for 1 night. Doesn't bother me too much, but its plain as day that almost everyone is with someone when they're out. That realization used to be a slap in the face. Still is. Just not as much. The idea of someone coming to sit with me is a good one. Not intentially trying to be alone. BUT doesn't happen because there is no one else who is alone. You generally don't have a couple going to sit with a stranger.

creshy

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Moncton Spring Fling - Saturday April 21, 2007, 8pm O'Briens Pub on Elmwood Dr Posted: 4/21/2007 3:48:46 PM
for future reference, are activities normally planned this early? I remember the first PoF event I went too (I wasn't even a member then) was this past Holloween, but I thought it was much later in the night.

creshy

Joined: 9/16/2006

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Moncton Spring Fling - Saturday April 21, 2007, 8pm O'Briens Pub on Elmwood Dr Posted: 4/21/2007 9:41:30 AM
hey, heres an off topic question. How many here go to the Rodeo which is just nearby to O'Brien's? Its a place I normally visit (its even in my profile!).

creshy

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Moncton Spring Fling - Saturday April 21, 2007, 8pm O'Briens Pub on Elmwood Dr Posted: 4/20/2007 3:47:30 PM
well I suppose I can try this out. I've had zero luck with emails. Maybe face to face will work out.

creshy

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Need some help here Posted: 2/24/2007 11:34:31 PM
oh thanks. Cowboy hat. I've now corrected that.

creshy

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Need some help here Posted: 2/24/2007 10:08:20 PM
Well I know I need a better picture. Excluding that, how is the rest of my profile? From my picture (I know its bad), how old do I look? I notice that when I go out, any attention I get is from those maybe twice my age. Literarly haven't have someone younger than myself interested in me that I know of, and those that have been have been more than 10 years older than me. I'm really starting to get curious on that. Now this is true. I was going to write here asking about my profile for advice since I haven't received any emails or favorites or anything since I joined up. And as I was writting this, some DID contact me and was 11 years older than me.

creshy

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Interoffice relationships.. can they work? Posted: 1/19/2007 11:50:45 PM
I'm curious to know if interoffice relations can work. Both with the couple's relationship as well as how the work place might effect them (in a potentially negative way). I'm in that situation now, and its hard. I'm in line for a promotion... so she backs away from me, and as far as I know, its until I get promoted. She says its to prevent any problems that might arise for getting that job. We're tried to keep the relationship a secret but rumors got out. She says that it was a problem with her in the past in a prior relationship. And we're still good friends and hang out during the weekends, and I fully expect to pick up where we left off. But theres no ETA on the job thing. The high potential of being promoted has put me through a lot of misery. And I'm a long time believer that issues of the personal life is more important than work. For me its very hard because I don't share the same level of caution. I'm stuck in this grey area now. Its hard to come to terms with something I believe was very unnessesary to begin with. But still... I want to continue on with her so I'm forcing myself to wait as long as need be. If you have had interoffice relationships before, please post them. Perhaps I can gain an appreciation for this.

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