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 Author Thread: Would you date someone with a mental illness?
 txttie
Joined: 9/23/2006
Msg: 43 (view)
 
Would you date someone with a mental illness?
Posted: 5/1/2008 7:54:28 PM
I wouldn't date someone with a mental illness because my dad was a chronic schizophrenic with a drinkin prob. It tore my family apart and we never really recovered. My dad while I loved him was demandin, violent and needy constantly. I think when dad died he was finally at peace. (NO I'm not suggestin anythin else there other than MY point of view about my dad). I also lost so much of my dad that I loved thru the brain numbin medications he was on, the charactered died within the cotton wool effect it had on he's brain. I also have bipolar and manic depressive members in my family. I'm very lucky to be one of the strong one's who is not. Altho life has been hard and given me a strong emotional backbone I haven't got the strength to go thru another 33yrs of my dad. So my answer is No.

 txttie
Joined: 9/23/2006
Msg: 44 (view)
 
getting tied up is it a turn on??GUYS?
Posted: 5/1/2008 7:25:53 PM
Damn u lot are kinky....lol
Why be vanilla when u can have chocolate with choc sauce and cream??
 txttie
Joined: 9/23/2006
Msg: 127 (view)
 
is a deadbeat dad better then no dad at all?
Posted: 5/1/2008 7:18:26 PM
It takes nine months of pregnancy for a woman to be a mum...it takes 9 months after birth for a guy to realise he's a dad.

Sometimes I want to cut my kid's dad lose from their lives like when he ignores them because he's angry at me, but it's not for me to make that judgement. It's their relationship not mine. They will grow up and know instead of hearin secondhand stories.
 txttie
Joined: 9/23/2006
Msg: 49 (view)
 
Why am I single?
Posted: 5/1/2008 1:05:19 AM
LOL OhhhJim and ur excuse is???.....don't make this about me...it's not...and she was honest and asked an honest question...I think she's got more balls to put herself out there like that than ppl who put up lil one liners tryin to bring other's down...nice try...didn't work...I'm happy with me and who I am...NEXT!!!!
 txttie
Joined: 9/23/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Booty Calls, When should you put an end?
Posted: 4/30/2008 11:28:32 PM
I agree with you 100% Looking4u...once at any stage your sense of self worth is diminished get the hell out...If you feel that you are bein used you probably are...most guys use the get outta gaol free card "I'm only here til I find what I'm lookin for...Just a bit of fun on the way"...so what's wrong with you that you can't be the one they're looking for but they can use instead of their hand????...Nothing!!!..If your not the one for him...he's definitely not the one for you and no hoping or prayin things will change will change that.
 txttie
Joined: 9/23/2006
Msg: 43 (view)
 
Why am I single?
Posted: 4/30/2008 11:17:27 PM
Wow...After readin most of the posts in here You guys aren't too kind are you...some of what she said was said from her point of view with confidence that most of us lack...I have been single for over 5yrs now and get the same comments that ppl can't understand how I'm single, give it time, (the best one I have heard is) if you stop lookin it will turn up...Your advice in some areas is soooo contradictory. "Your too confident so stop looking"...BUT "have you noticed guys smilin at you and smiled back"...relationships are a factor of who when and where...match the three of them and you have one. As I said I don't have a relationship BUT I do have a LIFE. I maybe lackin in that department but I plan to achieve in other areas to keep my self confidence up and to feel good about me. I don't need someone to do that for me. I need someone to compliment my life and give me another reason to smile...not be the only reason I smile. Yummy take each day as it comes and find a reason to feel good, if it's goin to happen it will. You have a lot goin for you...Take it easy on YOU ok
 txttie
Joined: 9/23/2006
Msg: 18 (view)
 
pedofilaphobia
Posted: 10/16/2006 11:54:08 AM
Hi Everyone
Not exactly a topic I thought I would run into on a datin site, but a relevant one as many of us are single parents.
When it comes to who looks after my children I use a hard and fast rule...I let THEM decide.
I don't know everythin that happens to them, I can't see everythin and I can't stop everythin, but I can trust them and listen to them. If they don't like someone, if they don't like goin to certain ppl's places or they show anti social behaviour to someone I know them well enough to notice and to listen to them and not to force them into that kind of situation.

You will always have a better honest relationship with your child than with any adult, listen to them.

There are also physical behaviour that gives away problems such as bed wetting and nightmares....you know your child, if they are upset ask why, make sure they know that you love them and you trust them and more importantly that you believe in them.
 txttie
Joined: 9/23/2006
Msg: 236 (view)
 
Plentyoffish, Now with Flowers.
Posted: 10/16/2006 11:36:29 AM
Hi Everyone
This is my first posting all the way from down under. I noticed that the site is in the majority of USA and English ppl's


I think the flower sending idea is original and unique, however it does promote trollin for ppl to spend money and for girls to ask and like someone stated if you have to ask is it really worth it?

It was also stated that the sender fills in the information, can they fill in deceiving or manipulative information? Is this area open to abuse?

I think precautions would naturally be taken to stop the freedom of personal information bein able to be obtained and because the receiver has the choice whether or not to accept then that's cool too.

As a female I think it is better to receive flowers on a subsequent date rather than from a stranger off the net. It shows that the person is interested in me and that we have a connection. No matter how well you get along with someone in chatting on the net the reality is the biter and I would prefer that the gift meant somethin I would cherish.

As much as this idea is original and unique, I would prefer to pass thanx

Markus a personal note to you. I have only been a member for about 2 weeks, I have been on many other sites and have been a net dater for approx 2 years now. I would love to say kudo's on the idea of this site and standing ovation for not feeding financially off others that are lonely or here for whatever reason. I appreciate the time and the effort that you put into this place to make other's smile...and if i find that one that I'm looking for I will let you know that I smiled... and thanx for the welcome note...nice touch

To everyone else...don't sweat the small stuff...everythin comes together in the end
 
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