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Could I have some help with a profile review? Posted: 4/19/2012 1:23:42 AM
profile seems better now but needs smiles. a few new pics added showing good times is in order.

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lots of views, almost no responses Posted: 4/19/2012 1:15:15 AM
i'll get more pics as soon as i can however i really don't look like 50 i don't even seem to feel any different than when i was 35.

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lots of views, almost no responses Posted: 4/18/2012 3:34:45 AM
hi i have never smoked and almost never drink...plus good genes helps. i have a full head of hair and almost no grey. the age range is 35 -50.

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Whats wrong with me? Posted: 4/18/2012 3:32:05 AM
hi i have never smoked and almost never drink. these things will catch up on you.

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lots of views, almost no responses Posted: 4/18/2012 3:02:45 AM
hi i would appreciate a review of my profile. i have just the one picture at the moment and am trying to get others soon. that being said, how can the narrative be better tailored to my target market ? thanks

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Concerned? Naw concerned is too serious of a word. Posted: 4/18/2012 2:56:10 AM
hi there probably are two issues at work here. the first is the weight. men and women are very shallow especially on a visually oriented site. Other than loose the lbs, there is no other real answer for that. Try as you might, you cant change the public eye, so give them what they want. you can right now, build out your profile. list more interests and drop the subservient posture toward men...and this is from a man!

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Whats wrong with me? Posted: 4/18/2012 1:34:09 AM
hi dont take this personally, but these sites are somewhat like porn to some women in that they have become very visual creatures and somehow think if they just hold out a little longer, brad pitt will finally call them. it makes little difference what your values, accomplishments, resources, or even your goals are. if you don't measure up to their perceived standards of male beauty, you will receive few quality responses. many will argue against, especially women, but on this , you can rely.

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Please help- Not getting many responses Posted: 4/12/2012 12:10:56 AM
it reads like you are permanently on vacation. where is there any references about a job/career, stability, accomplishments?

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Been here a while Posted: 4/11/2012 11:59:36 PM
you can always have pics without them...but seriously consider what i said. i hate to say this but theses pics on here are like porn for some women..lol i think at least one or two of your pics should be of you in a small group setting with smiles all around. that shows that you are social and are "fun" to be around. no dogs..guns..or other type settings for this purpose.

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Been here a while Posted: 4/11/2012 5:15:22 PM
there is a few very good weight loss online. they are regular people who are working to lose weight and change their lives. many post pictures of their journey and with males...major changes in the faces. remember...cheeks and jawlines must be well defined in the eyes of many women.

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Been here a while Posted: 4/11/2012 4:05:23 AM
I think that most women who view these profiles are basically visual creatures. What I am about to say applies to myself as well so please don't think I am being hurtful in this. You should consider putting yourself on a fitness plan. Lose weight and look to define your facial profile. On here, women are very attracted to well defined cheek bones and a jaw line. They see it as an advertisement for strength and virility. Round, cherubic faces like we have is a no no for many of these women. One thing I have noticed is that the women who usually contact me have the same round face...and I do not find that attractive on them. So I guess if its sauce for the gander, its sauce for the goose. It may be kind of funny , but on line, some women judge a man strictly by looks. If that is the market you seek to attract, then you have to give them what they want. Also, lose the pic of the paintball gun. Any gun is an impossible sell to most women. All the best to you and all the rest of us :-)

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