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musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

Msg: 97 (view)

To tell if someone is lying to you Posted: 8/4/2008 2:42:30 AM
The eye thing won't work on me at all. First, I now know about it. I am sure I am quite capable of telling the truth whilst gazing left dreamily. Secondly, a lie (or truth) might not involve memories. Like something about the future, for example. I have a better method: Check the facts. Go and see if the circumstanes/ evudence suppport their statements. Some lies are immediatel evedent - like when they don't match the picture, or theit spouse appears. Other lies don't matter. Those that matter most - ones based upon opinions or feelings.. well, that's an area that should be left alone anyway. If you love sonething - set it free. If you don't, set it free and tell it not to come back. There, settled.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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men, computers and stupidity Posted: 7/29/2008 3:12:58 AM
Time to change your profile to 'looking for mate'. You're gonna need one.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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They wanted to hold my hand at the first meeting? Posted: 7/28/2008 4:17:24 PM
Many girls with legitimate complaints on here, especially the very desirable ones, are from Canada. I want to go there.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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Wow!! Can you believe this one? What should I do? Posted: 7/23/2008 2:22:38 AM
Hey, maybe it's actionable as fraud. You know, a person can sue for anything. I haven't yet thought of the legal theory for the damages, but I'm, thinking. He didn't try to defraud you out of anything material, or promise marriage, did he?

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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life and death Posted: 7/22/2008 6:46:23 PM
My youngest was 2 1/2. I had five very sad little girls. I did not dwell on it, I did not let them miss a day of school. The younger ones seemed to take it better but I found out later they were even more deeply affected. We just lived the way she would have wanted us to. They all turned out ok so far. I did nothing special except to find the hairbrush before school, take them to the beach, cook... regular stuff. It's all we have - ever.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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What is she thinking? Posted: 7/21/2008 9:57:27 PM
There is no reason why. There is no good explanation for how love begins or ends.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

Msg: 44 (view)

When your friend consistantly goes after your guys...? Posted: 7/21/2008 12:14:30 PM
That's what you get for joining the army. The only way to solve it without hurting anyone is to share the guys. Tell her that next time you see a cute guy who likes you, you can double team him. That way everyone can be very very happy.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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Chinese ladies are they scammers?? Posted: 7/21/2008 12:23:13 AM
A very nice lady in China wrote to me. She asked if I would go there to meet the one I loved. I said I would, but I had to meet her first to see if I loved her. Still she persisted. I told her that loving me was very difficult, and I got very explicit that the extremes of sexuality to which I would subject her were daunting. I suggested that she come meet me. I also asked why she didn't find a nice Chinese man. Was I fair? I seem to have discouraged her, though for the life of me I don't know how.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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Has anybody else noticed this? Posted: 7/15/2008 12:09:36 PM
My angelic wife: died young, years after being stabbed in a nightclub at which she was performing. Mistreated throughout her childhood, she was the fairest in the land. More examples abound.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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How old is too old? Posted: 7/14/2008 10:27:58 PM
I would stick to ones who are still breathing. Otherwise, you're good to go.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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He Says Lose 30 lbs and He Will Give you an Engagement Ring.....Would Ya???? Posted: 7/7/2008 4:24:56 PM
Yes! She should do it, but STOP the pills right now. They will only make it harder to keep it off. It is excersise and eating the RIGHT STUFF, meat veggies and salad. That's what my wrestling coach made us do.. and work. Losing the weight AND the religion would be the healthiest thinks for body and mind. And with an incentive attatched - perfect.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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he's coming on strong Posted: 7/6/2008 11:23:08 AM
Always the contrarian, I say: what the hell, dive in. It might last - or not. Who cares. If you like him, hey - you could do worse than some one who worships you. It might not last longer than the other kind, but the romantic in me asks 'what's the problem'. On the other hand, if you surrender, he may retreat. you must find out. Let the battle begin. I always like the sex part. Keep us busybodies posted - we're bored.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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i hate being alone Posted: 7/4/2008 2:07:51 PM
Put up a picture or 3.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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Is my friend right? Posted: 7/3/2008 2:52:55 PM
You're doing something wrong - put a pic on your profile. We like it. All the others to answer here are SINGLE. Your friend is busy getting laid all over the place, and if the world ends tomorro, she wins. News - we are only here for a moment. Make a mistake with the wrong guy, So what. It may surprise you - or not. But you don't have to ask an ex what you are doing wrong. That't too far. Your girlfriend isn't on her first one either.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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My future stopped overnight! Posted: 6/30/2008 11:37:28 AM
You made only one mistake: you should have kept the ring. You had a legal and moral right to it, even if to get five bucks from a pawn shop or give it to a sis. I hope you know, but I will tell you, marriage doesn't stop breakup, it just makes it messier and more hurtful. Three cures: a midnight walk (not recomended for women), a new lover, or sing the blues. Try the new lover.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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Prosecuting George Bush for murder [Thread Closed] Posted: 6/21/2008 10:12:43 AM
The Prosecution of George W. Bush for Murder. by Vincent Bugliosi That is the name of a NY Times best seller that the mainstream media won't touch. I'm doing my duty by spreading the word of it any way I can. This book is especially important for those claiming to support our troops. My claim is that placing uS troops into a war of naked aggression, cruel occupation and torture is no way to support them.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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I was told I am a bad mother because I smoke marijuana. Posted: 6/17/2008 10:01:10 PM
WARNING: POF is full of straights, and probably some cops. Grass isn't just like a drink. Alcohol is 100 times worse. No one gets stoned and then beats up the wife and kids. The way you describe yourself is very typical of a pothead mom... conscious, loving, and organic too.. just the kind that is real marriage material. 'nuff said. But I will say that some one critical of that is a bad mate for you, and maybe for anyone. The world is full of dummies. When Bush needs to hire some more nazi prison guards, he has no trouble finding them.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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Does anyone use the art of seduction or mystery method on dates? Posted: 6/11/2008 10:55:38 AM
Well, I am a man, so I must act like one. This is what they act like. I am a real man, I just pinched myself to make sure. So anyone wanting to know how to act like a man would have to learn to act like me. I haven't beel able to tell the dirrerence between boys and men. Boys have girlfriends. I want a girlfriend, so I had better learn to act like a boy. I'm working on it.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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Senate proves Bush lied us into war. Posted: 6/7/2008 12:05:40 AM
Thanx Stella, I second that.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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Senate proves Bush lied us into war. Posted: 6/7/2008 12:03:37 AM
To:TxCntryCowboy: No I haven't been there and seen it with my own eyes. But now hear this: we had NO RIGHT TO BE TRERE, so stop trying to defend it. It was a war of naked aggression. There is no defense.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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WHAT TO DO??!!PLEASE HELP!! Posted: 6/6/2008 6:07:40 PM
They are sick puppies. But iether it will work or it won't. Keep us posted. He sounds especially sick. She just sounds too nice, and there's nothing wrong with being too nice.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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Losing a loved one to death Posted: 6/5/2008 1:03:46 AM
On the worst day of my life, I had to tell five very unhappy little girls that their mother was not coming home. I didn't let them miss a day of school. Years later I realized how deeply all of them were affected. As for myself, I had to weep alone and be strong for other people. At first I went quite crazy. I heard her voice, I saw her in the doorway. I would have dreams that were just fine - 'till I woke up. Now think of Iraq. Hundreds of thousands of people, everyone of them as delicate as you or me, missing dads, moms, husbands and wives, brothers and sisters. Our tax dollars at work. People survive all kinds of horror: war, concentration camps, etc. They go on to love again.. it still doesn't change the loss. You will never forget. But you can, must and will continue to live. Try to do it as fast as you can. Don't give yourself time to get lost in grief.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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Is chemistry age-related? Posted: 6/4/2008 11:34:37 AM
Yes I agree you have a problem. It is quite common, but I have an excersize that will fix it. First you pick out just anybody - me for example. Then you let him (me) do anything they want to you. Now see if it feels good. If not, repeat. At least someone will feel good. No, here's the real question: do ANY guys turn you on? If so, you are normal.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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this happens with EVERY guy i meet? WHY?! or is it just me? Posted: 6/3/2008 11:07:44 PM
Actually, I don't like it on my spa__. I think I'll take it here, 'cause I don't want to discourage any females from putting themselves out there. But we do need some figures on how relationships work out between the two major typing types. I have a daughter who is on the Language Enforcement Board.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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i dont know what to do Posted: 5/31/2008 11:53:42 AM
I am a forum addict. He couldn't have stolen it if it were really yours. In marraige (I outta know) a maybe by a girl is very bad news. Start dating. DO NOT LOOK BACK.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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24m goin on date with 17f Posted: 5/31/2008 3:44:38 AM
CAUTION - SQUARES ON FORUM. When I was 17 I got married. Wrong girl tho. My real mate was married to some one else at 16. We met eventually at 24. Too bad we were not with each other at 16. Then I would have had more years with her. The only problem with 17 year olds is that they may not fall in love for keeps. But the same is true of 44 year olds. Parents shooting you is highly illegal. I'd say stop anouncing it on the forum. I think you are just proud. Pride goeth before a fall. When I was 33 I started dating 24 year old. When I was 21 she was only 12. Big deal. The trick is: find the right one. I wouldn't get advice from people on POF - they're single of divorced, except for those of us who are widdowed.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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My ex is being weird Posted: 5/28/2008 8:21:42 PM
Nope, you're right... he's being wierd. I like to stay friends. I just saw my ex the other day. We talk, I told her I still love her, and she said the same.. but she was basically a nice person. He ain't! So in this case, it may be better - I hate to say it, 'cause I'm not like that - to not talk to him any more. I never speak to my first wife. I hate fighting, so I can't. Too bad, but some people...

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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What's the real risk in meeting? Posted: 5/20/2008 4:57:42 PM
Now that's scary. When I meet a girl I talk on the phone first. Not a pay phone, my phone. So she has my number, and I would hope that would put her at ease. Also some will ask for my real email address. I would hope those rapists are caught. My profile has been up for a long time, and I wonder: do rapists set up a bunch of phony stuff, knowing they are going to commit a crime? Obviously, the risk is dating a homocidal maniac. Or rapist. Some kind of contact info should, at least, give the cops something to go on. Now I'm very curious... Did this victem call cops? I hope so. It really hurt us all when disaster strikes.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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REALLY CONFUSED ABOUT SOMETHING..... Posted: 5/20/2008 4:28:43 PM
If a woman asked me what turns me on, that would cause big trouble. for her, not me. No one has said that to me for a long time. Men love that. Wiser words (and more unselfish) were never spoken. You other women listening? If you dare, do what this girl did! Go ahead, send your lover to heaven. Nope, not your fault. If you like him that much, consider being friends. He may get better if the pressure is off. Or don't. Youre choice. Now I have a question, tho I may not see the answer. What is a "demo"?

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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Women and wedding rings Posted: 5/20/2008 12:19:40 AM
I don't know. I just wanted to add another guitar pic to the thread.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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Advice on my situation Posted: 5/20/2008 12:16:16 AM
Just to get everything right, weed won't hurt her, but alcohol and harder drugs, speed in particular, will. Alcohol is no doubt the worst. The old saying is: if you love something, set it free, and if it loves you it will come back. I notice some advising to cut her off. That's not best for her. If she wants to go out, fine. Just don't push. I give this advice all the time, usually to women. Relieve the pressure. That makes you much more attractive to her. If you can't take it like that, I'm sorry, and I understand. But that's the successful aproach.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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am I making a mistake? Posted: 5/19/2008 6:00:27 PM
I think the relationship took care of itself. I don't think you are an idiot. I think you are what the world is looking for. If he gets ready he may come sniffing around. But why? I don't think, as a lover myself, that some one who doesn't get you off is worth a damn. Sorry to be harsh. You know very well how love is supposed to feel, and even pure sex. It's not what you described. But if he is sooo special (I don't understand these things, I'm a boy), then if he comes around you can assess whether he is all healed up if you want. No harm as long as he doesn't hit you , get you pregnant, of give you a disease. But a poor lover??? I just deleted my very harsh comment about him. Don't stop looking.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

Msg: 131 (view)

What would you say is the number one reason a women would reject a guy for? Posted: 5/10/2008 1:35:23 PM
I'll take that always-sarcastic one. Where is she

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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Should marijuana use be a deal breaker? Posted: 5/6/2008 7:08:20 PM
I notice that the vast majority of POFers are drinkers. Now that's serious. And you will surely notice some 420 friendly notes in there too. As a very experienced person, I must state that pothead girls are simply the nicest people in the world. You may notice this about your GF. And unlike alcohol and the hard drugs, the pothead who quits for two weeks is the same as some one who has never smoked. It's pretty minor. What is amazing to me is the degree of ignorance and intolerence for it here. Lack of love is a deal breaker. Love (not just sex) trumps all.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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Kids packed her bags!! Posted: 5/4/2008 1:49:18 AM
If she was your wife, what were you doing on POF?

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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all i want is an average non-drug using joe. please explain! Posted: 4/30/2008 2:20:37 AM
In the USA some girls (I only read girls) will say "420 friendly". No drugs on top of that would probably be a good way to say yes to pot and no to ice/powder/devils dandruff. The avarage thing is a little baffling, but I guess it's always good to lower the curve: some people can't claim to be above average. Half of them are, by definition, below.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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Where are all the GOOD guys? Posted: 9/9/2007 2:04:04 PM
The problem isn't you. In fact, there is no problem, but you have to filter a little faster. The pool is bad. You might not hit a good one in the first 10. Some advice... all good guys just want sex, and quick. Give it to them enough, it turns to love. They just can't say it. Judge actions, not words. I don't know why I answer these things.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

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what do i do,im hooked on her Posted: 7/23/2007 12:29:37 AM
Did you ever think of capitalization? Did you ever think? Your writing makes you look like a dummy. Maybe she doesn't want one of those. If you do kill yourself, oh well.

musiclifer

Joined: 9/24/2006

Msg: 223 (view)

I never thought of HER doing what she did Posted: 7/7/2007 9:09:25 AM
Hey Stupid - Since when is sex a sin. You make me sick. She's not a 'skank". She's a lover. Maybe the boss was more exciting than you. Ever hear of free love? Here's this 'angel', and there you are, quick to condemn. Did you ever here of swingers? Are they evil? Quit casting stones on those with lifestyles that don't match your puritanical one. I'm on her side.

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