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Thread: Your Love sign in Astrology--Fun quiz! Is it accurate?
XCheryl
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Your Love sign in Astrology--Fun quiz! Is it accurate?
Posted:
5/28/2007 9:25:32 PM
December 25 - Venus in Capricorn
Having Venus in Capricorn is a sure sign that the game of love will not be rushed. A better question might be whether things will get off the ground at all! Those graced by this placement are cautious to the core, not ones to jump into love or meander through various flings. Rather, the tender care of another is what will bring this lover into full bloom. That said, once insecurities and fear of rejection are shoved aside, those with their Venus in Capricorn can be loyal and true lovers who will work hard at making their relationship click. Don't expect a fountain of feelings to flow from these folks, however; expect them instead to be relatively private, albeit sensualists in the right situation. That situation is likely to be one where emotional and financial security is virtually guaranteed. Now that's not too much to ask, is it? Well, hard worker that the Goat is, those with this placement can expect to spend much of their time doing the work which will ultimately lead to relationship bliss. The fruits of this labor? A faithful and devoted lover. Not bad!
Hmmmmm
XCheryl
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Do you ever not repond when they have a ton of favorites?
Posted:
5/28/2007 4:46:56 PM
I usually don't respond. If they don't have the time to weed out who's got them as favorites then I wonder what else they won't have time for.
XCheryl
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Another Fun Test to do!
Posted:
5/28/2007 9:46:02 AM
Congratulations!
Your Hotlanta Kink Test score was 438!
401 to 500 You are definitely a kinky player.
Oh yeah, with the right partner a lot of things are possible and fun!
XCheryl
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Gardening
Posted:
5/27/2007 11:16:46 PM
I love gardening. This year I'm doing a balcony garden in full sun. I've got a tarp covering the bottom half of the balcony and bamboo blinds covering the top half so the sun doesn't burn my plants. I also installed metal frames for the vines to climb. I'm growning clematis, calla lilies, morning glories, pansies, petunias, lupine and some annuals. I've got a fountain, hammock chair, table, bench and 2 folding chairs out there. It is my sanctuary.
I help my sister with their yard and veggie garden.
I've gardened for as long as I can remember. I even grew veggies and annuals up in Yellowknife.
Tip: Plants in containers need more frequent watering (2-4 times a day) and fertilizing (I use a weak Miracle Grow "tea" on weekends and water from my aquarium during the week).
XCheryl
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Why do so few women wear dresses anymore
Posted:
3/30/2007 7:01:40 PM
For the same reason so few men wear dresses.
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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standoffish chicks
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3/30/2007 6:59:08 PM
Hey variance analysis dude
You are looking to get reactions from people. You've got them, does that make you happy?
Ladies....don't fall for this.
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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Falling in Love:
Posted:
3/22/2007 5:41:08 PM
Falling in love is different for everyone. I see it as a blessing to be able to give and receive love.
Knowing that he loves me for who I am turns my world upside down.
I hope the infatuation never ends, nor the romance. I'm going to work hard at maintaining a balanced relationship with my redneck. I'm learning that what he needs is what I need to give. Can it get any easier?
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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first concert?
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3/9/2007 10:53:51 PM
My first concert was BTO, Heart opened for them.
XCheryl
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Im in desperate nedd of a bit of advise
Posted:
3/8/2007 9:25:44 PM
It seems like you love the chase but don't know what to do with them once you've "caught" them.
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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What is Ben to do?
Posted:
3/8/2007 8:58:18 PM
You say you don't like to lie, yet you are considering it. If you want a relationship with this woman then tell her the truth. If she thinks less of you for being truthful about your situation then is she really the woman for you? Is keeping her worth the price of loosing your integrity?
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
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3/8/2007 8:34:59 PM
How interesting....I was listening to married women talking and they were complaining about how little sex they get because hubby is too exhausted from work.
Married men complain about not getting enough sex too.
I think that if someone isn't getting enough sex from their mate, they should take the problem in hand!! (i.e. masturbate)
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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interpret this
Posted:
3/8/2007 8:31:50 PM
Why don't you ask her? Only she knows what she's thinking....the rest of us can only guess.
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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bumper stickers and decals
Posted:
3/8/2007 8:00:41 PM
I have two bumper stickers:
"Compost happens"
"I embarrass my offspring"
I have a couple funny t-shirts:
"I see you're playing stupid again....looks like you're winning too"
"Thank you for sharing....for a moment I almost gave a crap"
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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Daylight savings time change...earlier this year?
Posted:
3/8/2007 7:53:59 PM
It is correctly called daylight saving time....it is done so we can utilize daylight better.
Benjamin Franklin first thought of it.
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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Smiles
Posted:
3/8/2007 7:45:07 PM
Waking up makes me smile, another day of life!!
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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What am I like?
Posted:
3/7/2007 9:30:54 PM
Results
Your answers suggest you are a Mastermind
The four aspects that make up this personality type are:
Planner - You like making schedules, being on time and avoiding last-minute stress.
Ideas - You focus on the big picture rather than on details.
Heads - When making a decision, you tend to weigh the possible consequences in a logical, detached way.
Introvert - You tend to focus on and get your motivation from your own inner thoughts and ideas.
Summary of Masterminds
Visionaries who put energy into achieving their goals.
Prefer to work independently and dislike inefficiency.
Think of themselves as logical, thorough and bright.
Values practicality and common sense above ideas and theories.
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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Attraction
Posted:
3/7/2007 9:04:06 PM
Men want a lady in public and a s**t in the bedroom....why can't we have a gentleman in public and a s**t in the bedroom?
Trust me, if I fall in love it'll be long term.
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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Women Making Initial Contact
Posted:
3/7/2007 8:58:05 PM
I've usually been the one to initiate contact....never hurts to try to make friends :)
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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somewhere new...
Posted:
3/7/2007 8:50:36 PM
I'd take them on a canoe ride along the shores of the Okanagan Lake (yeah, I live there)....or parasailing....or go on a hike to see a waterfall and the salmon spawning....then there are the wineries, the garden tours, the museum....the list goes on.
I love being in nature's incredible beauty....being on the water can be peaceful and calm.
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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Important Music...
Posted:
3/7/2007 8:41:53 PM
Alanis Morissette
Alyanna Myles
Coldplay
Collective Soul
Gretchen Wilson
Jann Arden
Jennifer Brown
Joe Co**er
John Lennon
Joni Mitchell
and many, many more
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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Passing on your knowledge
Posted:
3/7/2007 8:31:51 PM
I've taught many and will teach many more to quilt.
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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guilty music pleasure
Posted:
3/7/2007 8:19:50 PM
The Cars
Led Zeppelin
Deep Purple
Bowie
Steppenwolf
The Animals
CCR
Jefferson Airplane
Yes
Queen
Ok, I'd better stop now :)
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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Home cooked meals vs restaurant dates
Posted:
3/7/2007 8:03:09 PM
Definitely home cooked....can be with candle light, a picnic in the sun or on the beach under the moon. Adds a definite romantic/playful mood. Cleanup together can be fun too :)
I'd probably make either a seafood lasgna or shepard's pie, crisp Greek salad and apple pie for desert....all from scratch :)
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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Evolutionary survival - people are heavier
Posted:
3/6/2007 9:56:54 PM
"Modern sedentary living is not conducive to staying thin. It works against our genetics."
I disagree. I'm tall and thin because I take after my parents....it is definitely genetic for me.
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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The science of attraction.
Posted:
3/6/2007 9:14:06 PM
I've read somewhere (don't remember now) that we are attracted to people who smell different than we do. Whether that is true or not, I don't know.
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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Brutal honesty. Is this just an excuse to be mean spirited?
Posted:
3/6/2007 8:52:21 PM
Towards others, yes it is being mean spirited.
If it's towards yourself, then it means possible growth.
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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Do you know the meaning of your name?
Posted:
3/6/2007 8:18:21 PM
CHERYL
Gender: Feminine
Usage: English
Pronounced: SHER-il, CHER-il [key]
Elaboration of CHERIE, perhaps influenced by BERYL. This name was not used before the 1900s.
Gender: Female
Origin: French
Meaning: Beloved
XCheryl
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Ants!!!! Please tell me what you've done to get rid of them!
Posted:
3/6/2007 7:46:49 PM
Ants hate cinnamon. They will avoid it but if they want in your house they'll find another entrance.
I've successfully used Diazanon to eradicate ant colonies. It's been taken off the shelves in Canada.
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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The State of Humanity
Posted:
3/6/2007 7:36:09 PM
We see more bad stuff because that is what sells and it is everywhere now....TV, radio, newspapers, internet, etc.
I don't think humanity is any worse than it always has been.
I do not believe in organized religion.
Family values have changed simply because we have access to faster travel. Family members are spread out around the world now.
Caring for the elderly has become a business instead of a family responsibility.
Social responsibility....I have serious doubts this has ever been a concern, except for "keeping up with the Joneses."
As for your question "Are we losing touch with what really matters...?" that's something we can only answer for ourselves. I believe that I keep in touch with what really matters to me.
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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Personality type
Posted:
3/5/2007 9:59:09 PM
I'm an ISTJ type personality.
Slightly expressed extravert
Slightly expressed intuitive personality
Moderately expressed feeling personality
Moderately expressed judging personality
XCheryl
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Long Profiles. Like to read em or not? Is yours a long one?
Posted:
3/5/2007 9:30:15 PM
I usually get straight to the point so my profile isn't that long.
I've noticed a bit of repetition in some of the long profiles. Some of the other long profiles include quotes, poetry, jokes. What a person writes (or doesn't write) in their profile certainly tells what type of person they are.
XCheryl
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Do You Have An Addictive Personality
Posted:
3/5/2007 9:11:04 PM
Your Personality is 50% Addictive
You may have an addictive personality, but you have it mostly under check.
Just don't start any new bad habits, okay?
XCheryl
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Commandment # 11 Do not share the secrets of your lover's heart
Posted:
3/4/2007 12:26:52 PM
I think you are wise to keep the sacredness and trust of your relationship as a high priority. I certainly hope she does the same as well.
This is something that should be discussed before entering into a relationship.
XCheryl
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Intimate Encounters, whats your take?
Posted:
3/3/2007 7:46:24 PM
My take is: why the word "intimate" involved in it at all? Having sex with a stranger is not intimate in my eyes, it's just a bodily function.
There is a lot to be said for having sex with someone you are intimate with!
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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How dodgy are you??
Posted:
3/3/2007 7:01:26 PM
Risky
I know 'everyone's doing it', but that doesn't mean its legal. Ok - chances are slim that anyone is ever going to prosecute you, but it just takes one bit of bad luck. It may seem easier to take the quick, cheaper option, but they might just clamp down. Nah, you'll be fine… Well maybe not. Yeah its OK… Actually… Ooh. Aah.
Based on your answers, we have calculated the maximum penalty for your crimes*:
Years in prison: 8 Potential fine: £7000
Risky???? 0_0
XCheryl
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Flags On The Play
Posted:
3/3/2007 6:26:07 PM
When they say they love you and haven't even met you face to face.
Bringing up sex in the first email.
Arranging to meet for coffee and not telling you what they look like.
They get upset when you bring a friend along on a coffee date.
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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After 45 do you feel threatened by the opposite sex?
Posted:
3/2/2007 10:08:22 PM
No, I don't feel threatened, in fact I have more respect for someone who can look after themself. I don't need someone to take care of me, I also don't need someone to try to control me. I understand that both people bring strengths and weaknesses to a relationship. I hope to find someone who understands that and that we can work together to maintain a balanced, serene love.
I think it is possible with communication, time and effort.
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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Fear of being alone
Posted:
3/1/2007 6:50:26 PM
"The only person who is with you your entire life is yourself."
Ever since I've read this quote I've come to realize that I'd best make the effort to get to know myself inside and out. I've not looked back since and I like the person I am. I'm not perfect, thank god. I know my faults and I work to better myself all the time. It isn't easy but feeling proud of yourself for accomplishing this is one hell of a wonderful feeling.
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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But the real problem was me! Oh how true!
Posted:
2/26/2007 5:50:50 PM
Put your partner's needs/wants/desires on the same priority level as your own.
Spend quality time with them.
It's the little things that count....a hug just because, flowers/gift because you were thinking of them, let them go out solo with their friends.
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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When it comes to the opposite sex, what is your weakness?
Posted:
2/25/2007 7:47:46 PM
Tall, well-proportioned men with a smile that reaches their eyes.
Mmmmmmm.
XCheryl
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artistic/creative people and relationships
Posted:
2/25/2007 7:17:22 PM
I used to seek out other artistic/creative people when I was learning how to quilt, I joined quilt guilds, got inspiration from other quilters and, hopefully, provided inspiration for some of them.
Now, 15 years later, I go my own way artistically. My sister and I share our progress on our quilting, her husband shows me his watercolors. We offer each other constructive criticism and help.
The only difference that I find between my artistic and non-artistic friends is that the latter cannot understand my need to create. They may or may not appreciate what my end results are. It doesn't matter because I am happy with my artistic side.
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted:
2/25/2007 6:19:51 PM
19??? Generally, most people that age have next to no life experience. My kids are older than you and I would definitely refuse to date you.
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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Promise Rings
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2/25/2007 6:08:33 PM
A promise ring is a piece of jewelry that someone gives as a visual reminder of their promise.
I don't wear jewelry (allergic) and I have no need for a visual reminder of someone's promise to me.
I'm only as good as my word and my word is worth more than a piece of jewelry.
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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Confidence versus arrogance
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2/25/2007 5:59:48 PM
I can't speak for all women but I know the difference between arrogance and confidence. I also know the difference between aggression and being assertive. A confident person has an air about them that I find admirable, I find them much easier to approach and there is less of a chance that I'll feel a bad vibe from them.
To state one is humble implies that they are not humble.
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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is there a right time for a relationship?
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2/25/2007 5:55:02 PM
The right time for a relationship (in my eyes) is when it starts. It could be *any* type of relationship. I certainly don't turn people away because I don't think it is the right time. If I did that then I wouldn't have any friends! The only thing I can control is myself and how much I reveal about myself.
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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Do you believe in this saying?
Posted:
2/25/2007 5:37:33 PM
Sure. You can't stop someone from looking at another who they find attractive. To get jealous over something like this means one should take a long, hard look at themselves to figure out why they feel this way.....feelings come from within.
I wouldn't care if my partner looked at others, after all, said partner will be coming home with me or to me.
Where would I draw the line? When physical intimacy has occurred. I won't share sexually.
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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Anyone Want A Common Law Relationship Instead of Marriage?
Posted:
2/25/2007 1:33:14 PM
justaguy13.....or more inclined to not put any effort in it and split whenever a difficulty pops up. Then there are those who say they are sorry and it won't happen again.....and it does.
Commitment means different things to people. Some are content with marriage, others with common law and others still with a lover.
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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question for lady's as well as they men
Posted:
2/25/2007 1:23:58 PM
I've met many people from online who live in another country. There was only one person who I felt safe enough with to spend time alone with.
Please make sure you stick to public areas, use separate hotels/motels. You need to realize that the only thing you really have in common with the other person is talking online or on the phone. It's totally different when all your senses are involved. If you have a cell phone, program the police and ambulance numbers where they live into it before you leave home.
Get a copy of their driver's license and leave that, their phone numbers (work, home, cell) and address in a sealed envelope and leave it with someone you trust. Make sure they understand they aren't to open it unless you don't come back and then they are to take it to the police and notify them that you are a missing person.
Some may see me as paranoid but I'm still alive and safe.
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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How can some one lose feelings and fall out of love?
Posted:
2/24/2007 7:36:12 PM
Some people will say and/or do anything to get what they want. Once that is obtained then they have no worries about getting out.
Other times, someone may think they are ready for a committed relationship but once in one they realize they really aren't ready.
She was obviously avoiding talking to you about her feelings. Perhaps she didn't want to hurt your feelings or felt extremely anxious/insecure about what she was feeling.
I think you are better off without her, sounds like she needs to figure out what she really wants. You don't need to be hurt again. One thing that you can take away from this is the fact that you know how to love and be loved.
Take care,
Cheryl
XCheryl
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something nasty you just discover about your partner
Posted:
2/24/2007 7:29:29 PM
Hey, if it's a smell then perhaps there is a reason for it. Did you ask her? Maybe it's an infection which is cureable. I'd take the chance and ask if she's aware of the odor. I think it's better to be known as someone who cares about the other's health than someone who'll just dump another for no reason.
Take care,
Cheryl
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