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 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 33 (view)
 
What is going on with guys sometimes?
Posted: 1/15/2013 1:56:35 PM
Just tell him you give up. You are going to meet him. then give him an address thats several hours away from where he lives (and obviously not your own address). let him drive 2 hours just to meet you. When he spends 4 hours round trip driving and who knows how long trying to figure out what happened. He will contact you again on here. Just say oops. Wrong address . And give him another. he will give up and move on
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 44 (view)
 
Watch me with a girl?
Posted: 1/15/2013 11:43:32 AM
Bringing another girl home only for you to play with and make him watch? Very bad etiquette. How would you feel if he mad you just watch.. everyone plAys. It's more fun anyway
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 165 (view)
 
Bicurious women
Posted: 1/4/2013 2:20:38 PM
OP .. having people tell you what it's like is not the same thing. Give it a shot and see for yourself. I personally loved it. Only way you will find out, and you are definitely on the right site to meet some one
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Number of Sexual Partners......and Regrets???
Posted: 1/4/2013 10:22:40 AM
Male partners just a few. 5, all regrets except for the last one.

Female partners also just a few but none of those are regrets
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 177 (view)
 
How do you feel about mfm and/or ffm threesomes?
Posted: 1/4/2013 10:13:23 AM
FMF. for the win! some of the best times ever. I feel they are a great exp. At least for the crowd thats not stuck up. Or heavily religious.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Waiting on Sex
Posted: 3/10/2012 4:24:05 PM
First and foremost, whenever a guy tells you he doesn't mind waiting for sex, please DO NOT buy into that. It's a load of crap right off the top, and that is putting it nicely.


Ya well said. Men are men. Horny **stards. They say they will wait because it makes them look like one of the nice guys. At least to the women who buy into it. I'm sure back in the day they would wait since options were limited. But now days with access to hundreds of women in the local area just by logging on to a website , why would he wait while there is a girl 1 email away from giving it up. He's probably distant because he's busy hooking up with others while he's waiting on you.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 40 (view)
 
HOLY CRAP!!!! Facial Hair and loss of libido.........
Posted: 1/19/2012 10:38:39 PM
cant say as to why he had one, Never asked. but when i met my BF years ago he always had a goatee. I loved the way it looked too. But after he became a firefighter it had to go. I miss it so much though. I still remember when he first shaved it. He had a baby face. I was like geez. Just took 5 years off.

goatee FTW but smooth is nice too. Not that he has a choice anymore anyway
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 213 (view)
 
Men in diapers
Posted: 1/19/2012 10:29:48 PM
OKay taking care of a guy like hes a baby. Check. I do that all the time with my BF (ie. feed him, wash clothes, ect). If it wasnt for me he'd be on a romen noodle diet. But holy cow, taking care of a grown man like a baby to the literal extent. Ive never heard of that. Im kinda shocked. Im into some extreme stuff in the bed room. and im a member of sites like fetlife.

but some how i didnt know this was going on. I dont really have a comment on the subject. what ever floats someones boat i guess. This is just new to me, hearing this i mean.

Whats a Brown 25? I mean obviously from the topic pooping yourself i guess. Where did that come from though? I know the ten codes for law enforcment is a 10-200 to take a poo lol.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 84 (view)
 
Deepthroating help!!!
Posted: 1/19/2012 10:18:55 PM

Or, just gag on his c0ck. Guys love that. :)

Yes, very good advice. and oh so true.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 328 (view)
 
What are the side effects of using the vibrator too much???
Posted: 1/18/2012 9:20:59 PM

I have personally lost two girlffriends to those bad boys! They do things and come in sizes I simply can't compete with! When I say I lost them, they were only interested in sex if the toys were involved as well, and by far the biggest response was to the toys, and not me. I became a side dish and simply the man holding the toy, rather than an accompanyment! Men, watch out for those! They'll do things we can only dream about!


No way jose. In the end its a toy that turns on and off and basically has one main function. It cant talk dirty to you, it cant tie you down, blind fold you, it cant role play with you, bend you over a car, take you in the back of a movie theater, and the list is basically endless. It can be a okay addition to the real thing at times, but thats about it. IMO of course.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 52 (view)
 
older men & younger women, 3somes
Posted: 1/18/2012 9:09:46 PM

You can't call me "Daddy"

That would be too weird.

lmao

@Sweetlove, I agree craigs is horrible. Sites like this one work soooo much better
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Dirty Talk
Posted: 1/18/2012 8:10:54 PM
find out what shes into first. Then adjust your bed room conversation accordingly. but really not to dif. im sure as you say things you can tell by he rresponse if you are on the right track
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Lost interest in sex after a baby
Posted: 1/17/2012 9:48:49 PM
lol welcome to married life OP. (At least so ive heard.)
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 116 (view)
 
Facials: Real or Porn Only?
Posted: 1/17/2012 9:42:30 PM
I see everyone saying just dont hit her in the eyes. But for gods sake, watch the hair!!
Sure eyes burn, but its a mess tryin to get it out of your hair.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 691 (view)
 
Bitch take this dick.................
Posted: 12/19/2011 12:56:49 AM
Its called roleplaying. When you are with someone for several years and you are constantly just "making love". It can get old. But toss on a some stripper heels and skirt, meet up at a bar like you dont know eachother. Let your partner pick you up and take you home and treat you like a slutty stripper and say things like in your Original post and it really really spices things up.

I donno. Maybe some people can just "make love" for a life time. But for some people they like to change it up and make things new and intersting. Of cours ethats just one example. And then no doubt there are other reasons women like having things like that said to them. But Im sure they already answered what their reasons are on prev pages
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 57 (view)
 
New Bedroom Ideas
Posted: 11/23/2011 8:45:51 PM
ah, I assume the person who is spicing up their sex life has actually had sex before, and i assume at one time they have used a latex condom and should be aware if they are allergic or not. But vix isnt wrong. I suppose its always good to be on the safe side. You know. If thats your thing
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 143 (view)
 
Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/23/2011 1:58:06 PM
You hit that on the money JCO

Im the one who likes to see him with another woman. I know it turns him on to see me with another woman as well. But I was the one who brought up bringing a 3rd into the relationship. Not him. Although I actually would of thought it would more often be the guy.

But you are right about the insecure part as well. I know i have him whipped lol. He's got it good. And the last thing I would ever be worried about is him leaving. So thats not even a concern. Does Sex make you feel closer to someone. Sure. Its called a chemical reaction. The release of oxytocin and endorphines during sex. The same thing that bonds a mother to her child.

But can some of us also just view sex as one hell of a good time. Oh heck yes!
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 138 (view)
 
Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/23/2011 12:43:51 PM
def a turn on for me. But i can only watch for so long before i have to join in.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 53 (view)
 
New Bedroom Ideas
Posted: 11/23/2011 12:39:16 PM
I say take a trip with your partner to the sex store. Just walk around and see what catches your attention. Thats what I tend to do. How ever the day I saw latex there and decided to try that. OUCH, painfull exp. So if you happen to see latex and decide to paint eachothers bodies with it. Make sure you use baby powder first, Otherwise you rip your skin off trying to pull it off you.

I say thats your best bet though. A gagball catches your attention. Buy it, Japanese rope play, buy it, blind folds, buy them,. Next thing you know you will be gagged tied up and blind folded having one of the best nights of your life.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 164 (view)
 
Dating an amputee
Posted: 10/11/2011 2:03:58 AM
Holy crap, thats the longest post I have ever seen. My attention span doesnt last that long lol.

OP, I would. Who gives a F*** whats on the outside, IMO. That can change in a min. But typically a personality doesnt change. disease or drugs could change a personality. but typically thats what lasts. Looks never last.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 12 (view)
 
kinky life styles
Posted: 10/10/2011 8:00:29 PM
No need to bring it up. Just "accidently" leave a gag ball laying out. When he sees it, take the conversation from there based on his reaction.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Prostate Massage Technique??
Posted: 10/9/2011 10:25:19 PM
Ahh well there you have it.. Wish you luck OP. the bf wont let me even attempt this. Oh ya, and dont forget lube, and latex gloves or a condom wouldnt be a bad idea. If he loves it enough may want to buy the actual toy for this,.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Prostate Massage Technique??
Posted: 10/9/2011 10:14:18 PM
Actually I think the prostate may be inferior, not superior. But im def not 100% sure on that. So may want to google which way to hold your palm. Also to make it easier they do sell toys in the sex shop or online that is just for this purpose.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Choking.
Posted: 10/9/2011 9:20:08 PM
#1. Anoxia or lack of oxygen to the brain equals dead brain cells, period, and the effect is cumulative. Each time it happens, even for a few seconds, more brain cells die and once they are gone, they are gone forever. You cannot grow new ones!!!

A few seconds???

your body can go for some time before you need to inhale O2, There are 4 oxygen molecules bound to each hemoglobin . This is why they found breathing isnt as important as compressions when doing cpr. Your brain can go 5 min without o2/CO2 exchange before you even have to worry about cell death. Im not sure why the poster I quoted said even for a few seconds. After 10 you are really screwed. But who is going to choke a partner for 5 min unless they are trying to kill them.

Play safe guys
Also there is better ways to do this then choking. More pleasure less pain.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Choking.
Posted: 10/6/2011 9:07:53 PM
OP Its a big turn on for some. Guys come much harder and as do women. For those that are turned on by it.
Choking can hurt a little though. I love asphyxiation play. But not so much choking.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Kinky Question
Posted: 10/6/2011 9:04:36 PM

beats Vanilla coke doesn't it?


Vanilla coke from Steak n Shake is freakin awesome!
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Texting Not Calling
Posted: 9/21/2011 8:59:19 PM
I have to agree with most of the other posts. If you allow it, then it will continue. If you hate texting then simply tell people you dont text. And simply do not reply to them. And if you want to talk on the phone then as someone else said. Pick up the phone and call. There is no sense in waiting around for it to ring. you set the standards.

If people cant deal with the fact that you only want to talk on the phone then they can move on to someone who will text them.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 33 (view)
 
OK, tried it, hated it, never going back.
Posted: 9/21/2011 1:19:03 PM
@ nam and divin

Divin my BF complains of the same thing if i let it go for more then 24 hours. Im like really? How is it that bad? I thought he was being a drama queen till he lost his erection because it was so uncomortable.

nam. were you full grown in? Maybe thats why no partners complained. It would of been softer and probably not a big deal. But if its shaved and there is stuble starting to grow in, then its a dif story.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 31 (view)
 
OK, tried it, hated it, never going back.
Posted: 9/21/2011 1:07:54 PM


oh, yawn.. that tired old cliche about "Dental floss" that has been floating around for decades..as if people who ate p*ssy in the 1970's & before all had locks of hair stuck between their teeth


wow talk about up tight. I guess sarcasm is still a lost concept to some.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Can men have full body orgasms?
Posted: 9/20/2011 10:52:15 PM
def have to agree with alot of the others. It happens. My bf had those a few times. Thought i was goign to have to put a C-collar on his neck to protect him from whiplash lol. although in all these years i think its only happened to him 3 or 4 times where it was that extreme
c-collar=what paramedics place around a accident victim.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 35 (view)
 
_Vivid_ Erotic Dreams...ever had one..??
Posted: 9/20/2011 10:48:55 PM
I had one recently, it was with myself and a girl named Jenna Haze. I think it was the same night i was watchin one of her vids. Shes a porn star, the vid was with Jenna haze and another girl Joanna Angel. Some girl on girl on a motorcycle lol. But anyway. I remmeber every detail. Although some how grill cheese sandwhiches were in the dream. I donno wtf . Maybe i was hungry in my sleep.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 2 (view)
 
So many attached and looking
Posted: 9/20/2011 10:14:03 PM
I was with a guy for years and it was sexless as well. But i never looked for anything on the side. I went so lon gwith out i actually lost interest in it. So it was never a big deal. Its not something i would of done anyway. Cheating in my opinion behind someones back is wrong and i believe in karma. If it was bad enough i would simply break up with him first. Which in the end I did, i moved on and found someone i match with perfectly. In and out of the bed room.

Of course Im on here looking, but in my case its a little different. Im not on here looking for men. Just women. And since the 3 of us play together its not cheating on eachother.

But I know all to well your situation. In my opinion. Life is to short. If you dont find your perfect match, why settle? Great sex makes a great relationship ;)
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 2 (view)
 
OK, tried it, hated it, never going back.
Posted: 9/20/2011 10:05:46 PM
All bare for me. Why. Because I wont be with another woman who even has stuble. Its to rough on my face. And If she doesnt shave at all thats a big no no too. I dont wanna have to add dental floss to the list of sex toys I bring over.

So if I know how much I dont like it on another woman. Why be a hypocrite. I might as well be bare too.
To top it off my boyfriend loves it as well. So everyone is happy. Shaving a little extra once a day is no big deal, just knock it out in the shower.

If it ever becomes a pain in the butt i guess i can look into laser. Actually i already have. a little pricey since it takes i think 6 sessions or so. about $100 per..
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 545 (view)
 
Starting to get turned off with
Posted: 9/20/2011 7:12:19 PM
ugh... maybe if i was a guy who prefered it unshaved i may let it go. I guess on the upside its less work for me (but honestly not sure if i would like it).

But since my boyfriend loves it bare , shaved it will stay. Plus women love it bare too. And I wont be with another woman who even has stubble. Its just to rough on my face. So how can i not shave if i expect other women im with to shave
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 74 (view)
 
Women post pics in sexy sleepwear?
Posted: 9/20/2011 7:05:27 PM
In some cases they are just looking for sex only. Not everyone here is on the site to find a long term relationship. Which is why there are options to chose from on the drop down menum dating, int. Encounter, LTR. ect.

I am up front and state right in my profile I am here just for NSA fun. nothing serious.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Candle Wax Play?
Posted: 9/20/2011 7:00:39 PM
lol OP just make sure you use candles made for this. Ive never used them but apparently long ago another girl used them on my bf. But she used real candles. Apparently it was a painfull exp. and peeling the wax off was just as bad.

Years Later he found out there are candles meant for this. They use low heat and the wax is just warm. not burning hot.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 18 (view)
 
While giving head..
Posted: 9/15/2011 5:18:08 PM

My experiences have been that most women do enjoy giving me head, and some couldn't get enough. They would suck me off before going to work, without wanting anything in return. Saying that it made them horny for me all day long, then after work I'd get an encore performance followed by some of the most intense love making you can imagine.



And those are the best blow jobs you will ever get too. Apparently thats why im so good at them. Just because I enjoy doing it. So I give 110%. If i was doing just because i thought the guy wanted it done and just to keep him happy it would probably be done half a$$. Kinda like going to work at a job you hate but you have to be there to pay bills. Your job performance will sufffer. But if you love what you do. Then you will of course excel at your job.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 71 (view)
 
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 9/15/2011 5:13:51 PM

Couples who have a ton of DOs and Donts IMO shouldnt have a 3some. A rule can get broken and problems will happen.

Thats why when my BF and I decided to give it a shot we didnt bother with DOs and Donts. I simply stated there was one rule only. He must use a condom when with the other girl for vaginal intercourse. Everything else goes. No rules.

Been together 4 years and never had a single issue with it. And honestly, 3 somes have been a blast every single time. No bad stories to tell here.



Then you are some of the lucky ones. I have a few more requirements.. nothing major though.


I suppose a few minor rules wouldnt be to bad. We just like to keep it simple and have none. Except for the condom rule, but thats really more common sense then anything else. I guess our thought behind it is, if you have rules to follow you have to worry to much about breaking them. With no rules everyone can just enjoy.
But yes from what we have heard from others, we are one of the few who have never had relationship problems because of this. But i guess its not really for everyone.

xxx
Ash
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Why is it so hard to find an orgy?
Posted: 9/15/2011 5:04:52 PM
This is not hard to find at all. There are orgy parties every weekend in your area. Single females are free to get in, Couples $20, and single men $100

Simply go to swinglifestyle dot com and check the events list for your area. The address of the party and time will be posted.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 12 (view)
 
While giving head..
Posted: 9/14/2011 11:59:34 PM
It doesnt make a difference to me. I say relax if thats the mood that strikes, or play with me as well. My performance doesnt change either way
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 40 (view)
 
PDA's and such
Posted: 9/14/2011 4:29:55 AM
Jeez.. what a bunch of prudes! :) If I thought I had a handle on some of your personalities, this thread quickly dispelled them...hahaha

What do I care what someone else is doing, I mean c'mon! Unless they're so close I'd be a third party or clothes are being tossed off, I can seriously find something else to occupy my attention. I think it would bother some folks because they wouldn't do it, so they think no one should do it. How self centered is that?




I agree. I couldn't careless if a couple wanted to show some affection at a movie theater. Or maybe by their car in the parking lot. There is no law that says you can't kiss and hug in public. So there is no point getting all worked up about what two people are doing, especially when you can't do a thing about it.
After 4 years I'm still like that with my boyfriend, showing pda. Our friends have actually made comments to us on several occasions that they wish they had what we had. dunno, after all this time just can't keep my hands off him. And no reason to, till it becomes a fl law. Which will never happen.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 75 (view)
 
People that say they have sex 4 or more times a day...
Posted: 9/13/2011 9:56:58 PM
@ zopz 1-5 min sessions? Seriously? Geez I kinda feel bad for you. And any longer then that you get bored? you must meet some bad partners.

OP ya I dont see 6 times a day. I get it once a day on work days. but on my days off twice is typical. Sleep in till noon. Have wake up sex. Go out for the day. And then do it again later that night. In a rare once in awhile its been 3 times a day. But my sex sessions last a bit longer then 5 min lol.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Sex/swinger parties
Posted: 9/13/2011 9:51:21 PM
Jump at the chance to go OP. beacuse going with her you will get right in. Most of these parties allow single women and couples with no problems. But single men run into issues.

If this is something you find you want more of there are sites just for swinging. Like swinglifestyle. That site is great becasue they are always posting events every weekend that everyone meets up at. Typically called a meet and greet. Of course lots of other events and parties are posted every weekend as well..
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 70 (view)
 
I never should have asked her......but I did.
Posted: 9/11/2011 11:36:21 PM
Im not sure if this was said to giv eyou a answer OP. I didnt read every post. but this is a simple fix. You can order a fake penis to go over your own. Basically its a dildo that is hollow, you insert your penis and wear it. I have no idea what they are called so if you wanted to order one online im not sure what you would look up.

But I have seen them at the sex shop before.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 172 (view)
 
what is the deal with lesbians?
Posted: 9/11/2011 6:29:46 PM
Because typically men are masculine and women are a sight of beauty. So seeing two men together for most people. Ahhh.. Typically you think man, strong, brute, ect. Not making love. But seeing two women together. WHich a womans body is typically viewd as sexual, beautiful ect. Its viewed more as a sight of beauty.

NOthing is wrong with you if you dont find that sort of thing a turn on. Everyone is different of course.

And to answer your question about why its more common now days. A study showed that because we are seeing it everywhere its simply more accepted. Like Britney and Madonna kissing on stage. And someone else did that recently too. And the sex scene in Black swan with Mila Kunis and.... Crap i forgot her name. she played padimay on star wars.

So the media has alot to do with it too.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Danger Zone time..
Posted: 9/11/2011 6:24:18 PM
If this is a new symptom for him. I suggest getting it checked out by the Dr.
It could be a new medical contition. Autonomic nervous system maybe, or ejaculatory duct obstruction, maybe the prostate. Is he on new medication? Dose he drink? If he wasnt drinking and he is not taking meds or OTC (over the counter) he should probably see a Dr
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Danger Zone time..
Posted: 9/11/2011 6:22:46 PM
If this is a new symptom for him. I suggest getting it checked out by the Dr.
It could be a new medical contition. Autonomic nervous system maybe, or ejaculatory duct obstruction, maybe the prostate. Is he on new medication? Dose he drink? If he wasnt drinking and he is not taking meds or OTC (over the counter) he should probably see a Dr
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 598 (view)
 
Why do women find sex on a first date so weird?
Posted: 9/4/2011 4:45:03 PM
Seeing my photo? Thats my best friend from work. And the 2 guys ive been with. ONe was my BF from High school. we dated up till 4 years ago when I met my current BF. Who just happen to be a patient of mine. So I actually got a peek at all his blood work. Sooo... I dont see how you come to any kind of conclusion based on my photo. Plus Ive had all my classes through medical school on blood borne pathogens and my mand 4 hour hiv course. I didnt say anything about being safe or not. Just simply I dont see the point in some rule that says on date 3 sleep with someone.

IMO I say if it feels right it feels right. Be it date 1, 2, or 10. No point in a rule that says on 3 dates drop your pants. My current BF I slept with on the first date. But he was also my patient for 2 years, and we talked everyday for 2 months up till our first date. By the time we went on it I just coulnt wait anymore. Its not like it wasnt someone i didnt know and just met.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 239 (view)
 
Friends with Benefits... WHY!?
Posted: 9/4/2011 1:16:07 AM
I never had friends with benefits of the opposite sex. just a couple long term relationships. How ever my BF used to be a manwhore. His reason. He never found a girl he wanted a relationship with, so why bother starting one. But like any guy they all have needs. So I guess makes sense. And after hearing stories from his other friends and finding out how crazy some of these women are, i dont blame him for not wanting a relationship with them.

Now for me.. I have had friends with benefits of the same sex. Thats the whole point of my profile on here, thats mostly what im looking for. WHY. Because i dont want to date and marry another woman. How ever I find women a whole lot of fun. So i guess technically we are FWB.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Not confident right now to approach girls due to recent weight gain
Posted: 9/4/2011 1:07:36 AM
cinsav is right. People a few pounds over typically try to watch what they eat a little more. Those who are skinny no matter what they eat, just ram junk food down their mouth since they think oh im skinny im healthy. Mean time the skinny guy is getting atherosclerosis in their arteries and drops dead

But OP, no reason not to lose the weight. Planet Fitness is $10 a month. And at the end of sept they will be open 24 hours a day so no excuse for no time.

I see people say find a girl your weight. Thats not true at all. Im 108 pounds. My ex bf must have weighed at least 250. He was fat when i met him. dated for well over 5 years. but I decided it was enough of thhe verbal abuse and left him (last couple yrs his personality changed). I couldnt care about looks at all. So dont stop hitting on girls you think may never go out with you. Because not all of them are shallow. and several you come across will simply care about your personality

But i still suggest you hit the gym just so you feel better about yoruself. And cut out the sugars, , sodium, carbs, and fats.
 
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