This is the U.S.A....we speak American here?

Hmm, it's hard to say. I've been in similar relationships where I was the one who put forth a lot of effort, and it would have taken very little on their part to turn it into a good, healthy relationship. The only difference is that I have never been the one to disengage.

Once you threaten the relationship, it shows (despite intentions) that you're not serious about it.

wtf???is everyone out there thinking they`re the 2nd coming of dr. phil or something?sarcasm is in everyone of us,since the dawn of civilization!damn get a grip people,accept it and get on with things,stop looking for that so called pefrect person,theres no perfect person,there was only one perfect person in history and the jews crucified him!pull your heads out!

Sarcasm is negative, it has undertones of contempt - the world is a better place without it. Personally it seems to go hand in hand with deceit, outright lying, selfishness, conceit, insensitivity and a whole grab bag of negative personality traits. I walk away from such people and don't tolerate their put downs as funny or fun towards myself or others. Sarcasm is not welcome in my home nor in my workspace.

But the uncirc'ed thing on a man...totally different issue. It's not like I knew ahead of time. I was like, "hey, um, are you circ'ed? Because something seems different down there." LOL I'm so naive.

I love sarcasm as long as it doesn't include a viscous barb directed at somebody present within ear shot.

If you still don't understand what I am saying, then guess what, YOU don't have these types of orgasms. So you are not the women I originally were posting about and asking the original question to. (refer to OP)

I thought all women have puslating orgasms?!?! How very sad if they don't! I think they need to practice - to get it perfect!!

Allowing yourself to need someone, does not imply that you cannot fulfill that need yourself or that it can’t be fulfilled by someone or something else. It’s about trusting someone else enough to let them fulfill that need, not that they are the only person in the world capable of doing that.

I feel very sorry for those people who will never be able to trust another person enough to allow themselves to need someone. Because that’s basically what it boils down to. After all, to need someone places you in a position of vulnerability; you are depending on that person NOT to abuse that trust and hurt you or let you down.

What I find strange is many people who claim to be independent and not need a partner seem to be the ones demanding more from a partner and I feel, in those cases, there isn't true chemistry. The initial attraction, the "I want you!", is more a case of "I want you IF...."

Don't talk about your serious personal stuff with someone unless it appears that the relationship is going to be long lasting. Dating doesn't constitute long-term. I'm talking living together, engaged or married. Protect yourself. You don't need to tell every woman you date what has happened in your past. Save it for someone you are considering spending you life with.

Are women capable of having sex at least twice a week
with the same man for the life of their relationship?
(Assuming he is doing the right things)

When we're in a relationship, even if that relationship isnt going so well, we still feel desired. And thats what makes so many men hang on to bad relationships, I think.

I wrote: I know when I've ended relationships, I've felt that a big burden was taken off of me. It certainly was sad, but there was a sense of relief...my relationships have always been lopsided, with me doing most of the work, whether it be pulling teeth to get him to communicate, trying to get him to show affection, or talking him into cleaning up after himself.
Excogitator wrote: You expected him to be things he was not, rather than accepting and appreciating him for what he was. Your relief came no doubt from dropping this burden of unfulfilled expectation(s).

I read recently, there was a time when there were clear distinctions between what men and women did and in this way by playing to their respective strengths, labour was divided up and this caused both to specialise at what they could do best. It concluded, the biggest advantage man had over the Neanderthal, was in the skills that woman did, by gathering, making clothes, cooking and so on.

Human families don't need men to provide anymore. Most of us don't live in agrarian societies.

Sometimes women have to work for an orgasm, by penetration, they need to push their hips up and kinda rub the penis into the wall of their vagina! It can make you get stimulated enough to orgasm, and it feels damn good with a penis in there, but it does require thight hip work.

7) Household chores (men)
Me no do housework!

So I really don’t understand how or why all of a sudden it is the man’s responsibility to assist a woman with her natural duties as one who cooks, cleans, and looks after the children.

I know that there are married people out there, who say that they want to leave their spouse and date, and have sex outside the marriage bed... but their spouse probably has no idea. That isn't separated, it's cheating. When someone "accuses" me of still being married, it's the unspoken implication that they think I'm cheating that disturbs me: I've never cheated on anyone, and I never will.

Also, so WHAT if women can more easily get 'picked up'???? Could it just at some point penetrate into the skulls of men (sorry, but I really tired of this) that it means NOTHING GOOD or JOYFUL for a non-bimbo woman that she can picked up by some random guy who'll barely remember her name. On the contrary, it feels like salt added to the wound of being single when slimy creep who set eyes on me 5 secs before thinks he a great Don Giovanni and tries to pick me up.

Kinsey studies and other statistics confirm females of most species are hypocrites. Even women of cultured and developing societies still have women claiming they want monograms relationships, but just not during child bearing years. The facts are women stray to a virile male to impregnate her. Then return home to the lifestyle she has become accustomed to raise the child. Now whom is the user ? Men just want to be open and honest about this fidelity issue.

My theory has always been that men's needs are different when it comes to sex than women's. When women hit their sexual primes in their 30s I think we awaken and realize that we need a lot more than something physical or just going through the motions. Men seem to be able to satisfy their needs with some more basic and physical. Now don't get me wrong... I'm not saying all men are like that. :) I'm just saying that the nature in how each sex uses sex tends to be significantly different.

When a relationship ends typically both people end up hurt to a certain degree, but you never see guys talking about their "new life". Thats because, chances are, the guy in that particular equation is sitting alone at a bar someplace drowning his sorrows and eating stale peanuts.

if your seperated,people give you a wider birth,due to the fact theres always a chance of him /her returning to the relationship.if you put single its a forward positive step ,that youve moved on with your life

Some things simply cannot be compared, i.e. apples and oranges, so when a woman says "men can't keep up with me sexually", it's a nonsensical remark.

If you read a story like this, of any man who has been "friends" with a woman for a 1 1/2 years, and is hurt, and then switch it, man for woman, and cosy conversations for sex, you can pick up any thread with an FB for 1 1/2 years, and it reads exactly the same.

"Why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free?"
Why should she make you her boyfriend if she can get your intimacy for free?

Being needed is being reminded that one is not a useless appendage in a relationship. If you aren't needed in a relationship... that is to say, if you are only *wanted*... then you can eventually cease to be wanted.

plus, he's better now, but my dog used to bark when i would make out... then... when my date left, at 5am... LOLOL...i would think 'thanks for letting the whole neighborhood know, angelo, i appreciate it'

Trouble is I really do like the girl, so much. Just dont know what to do

My adjusted biological age is about 45, and I will live to be 95 plus.