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Joined: 9/29/2006

Msg: 83 (view)

B4 or Only when married??? Posted: 10/5/2006 5:54:19 PM
This whole "marriage" idea is an artifice created by religion and government, to get people to breed and raise lots of faithful believers/obedient citizens. Until you cohabitate with someone, really live together, as in real life, for real, with committment to build a life together, you are never going to have a chance of truly knowing someone deep down. A piece of paper signed by a priest or a government official is not worth the fire it can be used to get started. Accepting someone into your life and building a home together has nothing to do with marriage, it's all about communication, and like it or not, work. If you are not willing to commit to those things, you're not ready to cohabitate or marry.

Joined: 9/29/2006

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am i the only one saving sex for marriage? Posted: 10/4/2006 7:21:13 PM
are you any better evan? You are being as judgemental, if not more, than the OP. A lot of people around here need to grow up a little and learn that just because someone doesn't look, act, talk or feel the way you do doesn't mean that how they are is less valid that how you are. "When I'm watchin' my TV And that man comes on to tell me How white my shirts can be But he can't be a man 'cause he doesn't smoke The same cigarrettes as me" - Jagger/Richards (The Rolling Stones)

Joined: 9/29/2006

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How do you feel about women who shave their heads by choice? Posted: 10/4/2006 7:06:36 PM
Hawt! I still like women with hair, but I both find a shaven women (shaven head, pervs!) to be attractive physically and because of her boldness to do something so unconventional. Sinead O'Connor was so beautiful without a trace of hair, not that growing it back made her ugly or anything.

Joined: 9/29/2006

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Ladies- Eye contact during sex- A turn on, or Skeevy? Posted: 10/4/2006 6:25:12 PM
Intensity is what it's all about, I want anyone I am with to know I am there making love to her, not just using her body to get my rocks off. During kissing is a different thing, however.

Joined: 9/29/2006

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Worthy of love Posted: 10/3/2006 10:14:38 PM
The confusion here is between the noun love, and the verb love. Once you figure out the difference, it's a lot easier.

Joined: 9/29/2006

Msg: 84 (view)

What does low maintainence actually mean? Posted: 10/3/2006 10:08:22 PM
Low maintenance is someone who is less work than you are willing to put into the relationship. Doesn't mean you should stop working though :)

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HELP!!! Confused on the behaviours of the man I like!! Posted: 10/3/2006 10:04:50 PM
Good on ya' for getting rid of that. I'll give you one piece of advice though, there is no such thing as "taking it slow". There is just "not rushing". If it's real, it will go at its own pace, and there won't be any need to wonder because you'll be able to talk, and there won't be any secrets. When there's real love, it shows, and it can't be slowed down...trying causes problems. Trust me, I know. Things have to go at their own pace.

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what women secretly want Posted: 10/3/2006 9:42:20 PM
I would give a lot to be rid of it.

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I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age.... * Posted: 10/3/2006 8:25:22 PM
If appearances are what you want, appearances are what you get.

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Have you ever had a passionate kiss that rendered you unable to walk? Posted: 10/3/2006 8:09:17 PM
There's a secret technique to doing that, and no, I am not telling

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Meet Market Posted: 10/3/2006 8:04:46 PM
The best place to meet women is ... anywhere you see them; and the best way to meet them is to go up to them, smile, say "hi", give them a rose or something else romantic or interesting, and then go back to your beer, whiskey, coffee, whatever you drink. Tell me honestly, women, isn't it intriguing to have your curiosity engaged and then be given a mystery? To put it more simply, just be interesting, and maybe a little bit mysterious. I met a wonderful woman once exactly that way, handed her three roses, white, yellow and red, in a bar, and went back to my table and my conversation with my buddies. The relationship lasted three years, then she got bored, because I got complacent, stupid me. There is nothing more important than showing a woman you are interested in them, and don't fake it, because she WILL see right through you. Of course, the "Nice shoes, wanna f***?" line while looking her straight in the eyes (pointedly NOT at her shoes) can work, but don't expect anything lasting or you're a fool. And most of all, stop talking to her boobs, because there is no more wrong way to meet a woman than to ignore her and talk to her chest.

Joined: 9/29/2006

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What is preferable for you these days?......... Posted: 10/3/2006 7:08:27 PM
If you can manage to give a woman fireworks without touching in any of the "usual places", then you've begun. That's what I consider preferable, with quiet cuddling and kissing on the couch a close second. Why waste your time with a plain old f* when you can have an "omigodwhatthef*wasthat?" P.S.: thelilmissy, what would it take to rock your world? :)

Joined: 9/29/2006

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Now, I've heard of ..... Posted: 10/3/2006 6:37:35 PM
Ladybugs can be a nasty problem, back in Windsor (when I lived there) we got plagues of them for three years running. Dozens of varieties, hundreds of thousands of them, thick as flies. It's not a pretty sight.

Joined: 9/29/2006

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Does staying in shape and getting a date differ between a woman and a man? Posted: 10/2/2006 9:13:07 PM
Depends on what kind of person you want to attract. Everyone has their own tastes and attitudes, and I've found that being a few pounds overweight (20 or so) can turn a lot of heads away, attract some, and not matter to others. The worst thing you can do though, online, is lie about it or try to hide it. It's not like you are going to be able to meet and keep it hidden.

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