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marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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Ever had the feeling you are being lied to? were you right? Posted: 7/7/2007 1:00:24 PM
well yea!! my gut and mind were not wrong. here is one for ya'lll after my X decided to quiz me on hypothetical situations, and then get mad at me for answering them not to her satisfaction, insisted on appologies for her made up stuff, she then told me the situations were not made up, and happened to her. But insisted i owe her amends for her lousy choices. And my poor answers? Did i mention "X"!!!! Listen to that little voice that say "wow this is nuts" happy fish'n

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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Internet dating: sucks for guys, good for women. Posted: 6/11/2007 10:36:23 PM
Well everyone has thier own issues whatever they are. It is how we package them and move on that can determine alternatives to a simple outcome. Food for thought.

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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Who likes being held when they sleep? Posted: 5/28/2007 3:56:32 PM
Been a while, but falling asleep after having my significant other fall asleep in my arms, is great. I even like to put up with drool pool, and little snoring to have a gal fall asleep in a cuddle.

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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does anyone still believe in love? Posted: 5/12/2007 2:16:23 PM
I do, and i sure hope the gal I fall in love with some day will to.

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

Msg: 48 (view)

Has something happened to you where you changed what you thought was a core belief? Posted: 5/7/2007 5:54:10 PM
that has happened in so many ways. I thought i was going to swing hammers all my life, work in construction. I retratined, worked through 5.5 yrs of university, and am working in psychiatrics. Another one was long ago when i had many core beliefs, which after a while were no longer applicable to my life as well was counter productive. After years of self work i have known life to be the most enjoyable in all my life, thus far. See the fear, Do it anyways.

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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Is It My Profile Or Is It ME... Posted: 4/30/2007 3:38:09 PM
Loose the picture of you and your hound. Ya looked choked and a bit angry. Ahh whatever, it could be worse, you could only meet psycho's !!!! (my problem) later dude keep bing real Marc G

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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Why when a man opens up women slam the door shut? Posted: 4/30/2007 3:32:12 PM
Why not just be yourself, and if it means that some women do not CLICK with you , so be it, thier loss right? Yea, some people cling on to hurtful, and resentful relationships, that in the end ae teh outcome which is expected. Maybe it is like wearing a blanket of anger. It is easier, comfortable, and predictable results. Good luck out there

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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Have you ever noticed that you tend to see people Posted: 4/24/2007 10:55:31 PM
One funny thing is an X of mine only sees me after i have been working on teh car or bike, and I am gressy as heck, and smell bad. that is so cool when that happens. life is great

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

Msg: 57 (view)

Do you respond to people from other countries when they Send you messages? Posted: 4/14/2007 8:07:50 AM
I respond to anyone who contacts me, if i remember? This POF, is as well, a global community, and with that I have exchanged letters on how life is in Canada, with people from all over this globe; well lots of em at least. Why not talk with other people? For me, I am not so anal to not write to someone if they have poor grammar, or literary skills. Keep on fish’n

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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Ever had the feeling you are being lied to? were you right? Posted: 3/27/2007 10:36:52 PM
Hey SinnamonTears please don’t follow the given idea that all eye movement proves a person is lying. Visually Constructed Images is when looking up to the left, Blahh blahh blahh, Yes this methodology has its' merits, yet there are many exceptions to not follow the norm. Culture has much to do with it as well, as ya said, like me living on a rez, I know my bro's act different to the norm, but ya know they are full of crap half the time anyways! Best to do is look for thoes red flags and have the courage to follow your heart and gut.

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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Ever had the feeling you are being lied to? were you right? Posted: 3/26/2007 7:58:34 PM
Darn rights, I was dateing this gal last year and i had that gut feeling a few times, When i saked about a few things that were just not adding up, i found myself being lied to for the entire time we dated, and it got worse after i figure out she was full of crap. Got to the point where she lied to see if i could figure out that she was allways lying, to test to see if i could tell her off? or to tell her not to lie? whatever? she lied about food alergies, her kids (that she had any), pets, weither she could ride a bike, everything? then she had to cover a lie she was caught on by lying again, and again, it became loads of BS to cover BS. At one point she told me she invented the "@" sighn in a class in school, that was a good bs line in my books!!! I had to break it down to "sorry i checked my financial budget, i dont, nor does my work have it in the budget for me to ever date you again." stay away/seek help! (i work in psych) lol I dont know why she lied all the time, kindof weird? I find it easier to tell the truth, that way i dont have to remember what i say! keep being true to thy self! Marc

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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MY profile review please? Posted: 3/19/2007 7:44:07 PM
thanks OBG, and 007, and others! So I took some sugestions, What do ya think Now? ciao

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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MY profile review please? Posted: 3/19/2007 3:55:29 PM
Ok folks Now i realise that I may not have the best of spelling, I know this because of me failing eng 100 2x, 151 once. I don’t spell da best, I got that. Thanks. I will keep some feedback to mind as well and proof read the stuff I posted. Keep er coming. Thanks M

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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To Attend or Not Attend a Funeral.. Posted: 3/17/2007 12:00:38 PM
I need to show up, if i knew them. especially family. I even show for my clients when they pass on, because i do get close to them, even though I am a hard ass, I still care and connect for my clients / paitents. When ya are with someone in the hospital and you care for them 12 hrs a day, when they pass, usually i show up. Even if i am a fly on the wall. It is all about respecting the people in my life. Be Present.

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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yes or no? Friends with benefits! Posted: 3/17/2007 11:55:36 AM
to each their own, for me i tend to get emotional connection to much, so i dont do F W B. Just for me though.

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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MY profile review please? Posted: 3/17/2007 11:46:39 AM
ok? Just wondering if its to longwinded, short, or confusing? or what ever ya think. ciao

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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MY profile review please? Posted: 3/17/2007 11:43:18 AM
I am curious how "Normal folk" view my profile? Should i just say, "nice legs".? I can take it! Be ruthless, honest, that goes a long way for me! thanks Marmott AKA M....

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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Who has had bad PMS? Posted: 3/6/2007 10:44:07 PM
Ya think men dont have troubles with PMS? Hell, men deal with PMS, women Just complain about it!!! Nahh it would suck if guys would have it directly, it sucks enough from here.

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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profile Review wanted Posted: 3/6/2007 10:09:05 PM
I never know what to say about me, nor really like talking about myself, but I will try to just sum it up. Hey all, I am Jonathan and I am 26, and I go to college full time. I am on here looking to meet some new people, make some new friends, and maybe something special, if that certain special person comes along; great. I am laid back down to earth, easy going, and easy to get along with. I have a great personality, and a great sense of humour, which is important to me. My interests vary and I have many of them, and I like to do various things to have fun. I am not party person anymore. I am going to get some new and better pictures of me on here in a few days. So that is where I am going to leave it for now. Talk to you later. Jonathan -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Perhaps as a new student you could use spell check, or have someone proof read your work. I did a proof read for ya. But hey man, looks good to me. happy M

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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When a women does not have vaginal orgasms Posted: 3/3/2007 12:38:44 PM
maybe just maybe ya ought to spend some time exploring things that would make the big O happen for ya? I dont think it is a turn off, but there are sensitive guys out there for sure who can make it happen, I hope, unless all women are full of crap and liers? No really, take some time, relax, enjoy yourself. Find out what works for ya?

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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would you share your toothbrush?? Posted: 3/2/2007 10:13:38 AM
Dang i dont know, the big deal? Now kissing sounds good, lips toung, long passionate mixing in each-others pleasure. Sure ya swap spit, and food (unknowingly), or other fluids? But having sanitary, cleaning done in the smallest room in a home is out there to share a brush? to do more kissing later? It could be kind-of IKKY, i guess. I dont share t-brushes, no way, but thinking about it now, I dont know why most people get bent about it?

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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Why did some societies advance and other not? Posted: 3/2/2007 9:55:17 AM
ecconomic development, bottle neck, supply and demand. Plus some folks just like to sit around. I think it comes down to who wants to sit on thier a _ _ more? later

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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Aren't there some people that nobody is attracted to? Posted: 3/2/2007 9:49:08 AM
I have some paitents who really want to be in relationships, and there is pretty near no way in hell they are going to get involved, ever, it is sad. but there is allways hope for anyone to find a kindred spirit, is there not?

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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Very long hair on a woman is very femine and sexy, but few women have long hair Posted: 3/2/2007 9:45:41 AM
me being an X long haired guy, i know long hair is harder to keep up, but it is only an few extra 10 minuits? I like long hair on women, yea it is nice. But it is the woman not the hair. I am loosing some hair now, and an X called me on it (razzing me) i told her, it is solar pannels for the love machine! She shaved her head next week, we are still buddies, but i liked the long hair!!!

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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Who out there wants to learn to Ride. Posted: 3/2/2007 9:21:33 AM
some day i'll finally have my beast done for a long road trip. might get into road cptn 'n this yr weeeee if i can get er back on the road, sled blew up two weeks ago on a ride.

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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bumper stickers and decals Posted: 3/2/2007 9:14:00 AM
I have one on my bike that rocks. "dont ask to ride my bike, and i won't have to F _ _ K your wife." plus a few anti jesus fish. and "one day at a time"

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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Be honest Posted: 2/13/2007 3:39:17 PM
"garyb82 does not wish to talk to you, and is not looking for what you are looking for. Return to your inbox" I even logged-off and looked at your profile(search people), when accessing it, the above message appeared. So buddy, if you block everyone from contacting you, what do you expect? At least accept messages from PEOPLE!!! If you are looking for friends and chat? Which it says in your profile? If not you are getting exactly what you want, self fulfilling prophecy? I think you might have your security settings turned so high, no one can get through? Later dude, good luck at whatever?

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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On the Wings of an Angel... Posted: 2/13/2007 3:21:10 PM
Time is a river that winds thought the landscape of tomorrow, There are those who will try and sneak a glimpse around the changing bends, And those who will fight the currents, looking for the destination, But the wisest, will be the one who finds a fellow traveler to share in the journey

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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Does anyone believe or seen a Ghost?? Posted: 2/6/2007 5:55:34 PM
well i got 1, 4, ya A buddy and i were walking in the UBC "adonment lands" years ago (really stonned), and from no where, throught the thickest of bushes and trees, came a flying licence plate, all rusty sharp and old, which somehow nailed my buddy in the head (9 stitches later). He was so freaked out swore it was a un-natural event which lead him to believe in ghosts. I never had the heart to tell him that i found the plate in the bush and tossed it hard, and it kind-of did this boomerang thing through the trees. Dang near hit me too. Oh well some things are just un-natural. Hmmm

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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Christmas decorations - when do you take them down? Posted: 1/22/2007 4:29:09 PM
I just bought some more yesterday, put em up, lights, balls and decorated a saskatoon bush with the balls, I think i am going to leave 'em up all year round now, Yea "padio lanterns". Or better yet can use em for target pratice?

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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The new 'roses' idea.... Posted: 1/20/2007 4:40:36 PM
i like the idea of the roses Are they compiled over time? Plus how many of you gals would send a guy a rose? Now i recieved flowers (real life) I didn't really know how to take it? lol.

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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The Virtues of Promiscuity Posted: 1/12/2007 10:43:33 PM
I do not buy your original argument, It makes simple presumptions on complex situations and ignores interdependent factors, which influence people, lives, and minimises social structures, which are outside of western culture fields of reason. but other people are intitled to thier opinions, as well. Food for thought.

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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Smokers: Would you quit smoking for your dreamboat? Posted: 1/12/2007 10:02:52 PM
Smokers: Would you quit smoking for your dreamboat? Hey I have tried to quit for summer, health, resentment, cold weather, because it is bad for me, deadly, rain, terrible habit, addictive, save money, smells like crap, hurts my cardio, kills my life, rips apart my future, and stinks like crap. I tried cold turkey 5X, the patch 2X, hypnosis daily darn near, acupuncture, acupressure, Ziban, Nicorette, gum, fake smokes (herbal), switching to chew tobacco, reki, meditation, force, tried for the woman i was with, my mom (she offered $500 for me to quit), my training, and my profession (because I’m a hypocrite by smoking). Would I quit for my dreamboat? Damm rights I would!!!!!!!!

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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men getting it on Posted: 1/12/2007 6:42:35 PM
When I was an over achiever / "rubber person" in university (VP Academic), I helped to form a pride centre, on campus, to help stop violence against the gay/lesbian community. As well to help educate responcibility for thoes involved in the lifestyle. The thing was, no one was kissing in public, gals or guys, where do you see all these guys kiss'n? It helped many people fight the stereo typical responses of people who would beat people for being different. Is it hot? Well not my bag (guy guy thing), but seeing a few gals kiss (hot gals) is ok, ya, baby! So I would guess, for some women to see guys kiss’s, might be Hot. It’s for some people to decide for themselves. Though I have never seen bareback / broke-back mountain, Yet, I have to say its not a film I really want to see, just because. Nor the "torment of Christ" that movie, Mel Gibson flick, 3.5 hrs of subtitles, goth, and ya already know how the movie ends, just to see it, nope not my tastes. To each their own though. Just keep real to yourself.

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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Someone explain what headgames are? Posted: 1/8/2007 7:17:01 PM
Head Games refer to the lies, Tests (big or small), Hidden truths, Misconceptions, Cheating, Subversion, or ulterior motives and many other mean or unkind behaviour and actions that many new and resentful or insecure people use to get what they want from another people. Despite the others feelings, or intentions! Lets face it, when “games” are being done onto you or you doing them onto others, it does not come from a place of mutual respect, and fear is a primary motivator usually (but not always or in all cases). Fear of failure, fear of success, fear of being able to trust others, or to trust your own feelings weather they are new or old feelings being re-hashed, or experienced. Fear of wanting to be dependant, or of living in peace with another, or to stop any of those of the things that may change the way you experience the world. It is real hard to trust others if you don’t trust yourself. It is hard to trust others, but I would rather trust and get burnt, than not trust anyone, and stay in my bubble. I ain’t no bubble boy!!!! Tell me if this could be a version of head games? A significant partner tells me that this person was leaving town to go on vacation, but instead of going, this person stayed in town and was waiting for me to figure out that the other person did not go away (later I found out this happened several times). As well being “very upset with me or hurt” for not contacting the other person. Then when I had the truth revealed, I got blamed for many other things which I did not do to cause harm to the other person, but never to look at exactly what happened and brought us to the point of not wanting to talk to the other. Nor to discuss the initial “tests” to begin with. Is that a game? I know in that past instance, I could have asked many hard questions which could have brought forth the truth about what the other person’s intentions were, but I choose to believe the other person rather than come from a place of suspicion of lies or manipulation (foresight 20-20). How much do you want to change your misery, or keep it? The key here is to be honest with all people around you. Don't tell people you are looking for new partners, if you have no intention of doing so. Many people around choose not to face reality in this way, and it is self-defeating to do so. Don't become a “plastic” person, unless you really enjoy being insincere, or fake. I would beware of the person who asks you what you do on the net besides email all your little friends. Patronizing someone is not usually a good way to conduct a relationship that you want to last. The person who wants to take over your whole life, and he hasn't even met you yet! Or the person who is coming to meet you and to whisk you off to live with them. These people particularly appear to live in a fantasy world all of their own and are looking for someone to fit into a role they have created in their mind. Q: How do you know a using alcoholic is on a date? A: He / she shows to you first date with a U-Haul. LOL The two types of women over the Internet: One -- the woman who is sincerely looking for a relationship and will thus give you a fair shot (whatever that looks like). And two -- the game player, who leads unsuspecting honest folk on via e-mail messages, conversations, the Internet only to be duped. The trick is to find the first type, while avoiding the second type at all costs. Which has been hard, in my limited experience. Well, finding the person that you want to share your life with deserves the same amount of attention you would give to raising a child, or building a career. Halfway measures will produce half-way results. Respect others and ultimately yourself. Be persistent, and present, and have fun out there. <img src=http://www.plentyoffish.com/smiles/icon_201.gif border=0>

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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yes or no? Friends with benefits! Posted: 1/6/2007 11:54:38 AM
Sex / intimacy, is something shared (hopefully) between people who have a respect for each other, to enjoy each others company and hopefully actually give a crap. I think that if I can be with someone who is a friend (maybe best of friends), being involved with a chosen partner is something that could turn into anything. I can’t tell the future, but if I can be "with" another person and have great communication, and honesty, and respect for themselves and so do I. It sure means a lot to me. I think the lines get crossed, when there are ulterior motives, not saying what is going on, or trying to control or manipulate the situation, rather than being present or honouring yourself or others feeling, values, or choices. Yes or NO? Maybe it should read, would you share yourself with someone who you don’t like and lie with to someone you despise? Ultimately would it be self-abuse, and abuse to the other, to lie in intimacy! So there would not be any friendship or benefits? Just to be honest definetly goes a long way.

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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How far would you travel to meet your date? Posted: 1/1/2007 5:55:35 PM
If the weather is nice i'd ride my bike for a few hours for a first date.

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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If you could do something totally out of character and remain anonymous what would you do? Posted: 12/21/2006 6:24:31 PM
i would fire Donald trump bye bye and time travel for loto numbers, lol

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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Would you rather be let down easy or hard? Posted: 12/21/2006 6:20:15 PM
I would like to think i attract same type people and like the idea of letting go easily, there needs not to be harshness on my part, though I believed long ago ii needed to be as harsh as possible to get the point across with ought any misconceptions. I do not do that anymore. Life is to short to be mean to anyone. Just my thoughts on the subject at hand.

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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What are the signs??? Posted: 11/11/2006 9:20:40 AM
open and honest communication is good, uggg it is possible, yet watch out for BS, as a guy does he get pissy at you for little things you at him? does he drop you off in other cities which you both live in and leave you there? (often). would he rather listen to hockey re-runs and chick flicks, than a conversation with you? is the hilight of his day jerking off in shower, rather than enjoying intament times with you? is the intamacy routeen? has he recently purchased a sheep? does he polish crome on a car more than yours? does he prepare dinners for one? when driving together has he stopped asking if you need anything before going home? does he answer every question of yours with "NO ALL-READY", or "DUhhh", did you say somthing? Why not avoid all these potential signs and ask the hard questions you have in your heart? Then you'll know for sure. Ultimatly communication, honesty, open mindedness, and the willingness can help. choice is yours Marmott

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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do you like funny girls??? Posted: 11/11/2006 9:16:38 AM
funny HA HA Or Funny HMMMMMMMM?

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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Do men cry at chick flicks? Posted: 11/7/2006 6:57:19 PM
i lost a tear when that Gillardo got blasted in M.I.3. chick flicks and when "new coke" was bannished.

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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A bit confused on this Posted: 11/4/2006 12:46:14 PM
i had an X just like that, it feels so much better being real to myself. rather than wanting to get "fixed" then complaining about it. either Whooped, fixed. all thats left is the

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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Can a woman be abusive and what are the signs? Posted: 11/4/2006 9:39:42 AM
Oh yea baby, some women can, so can some guys eh! One gal i dated for less than a month: ohh horrors She tried this crazy making or back flashing with me, here was an example. The phone rings, I was three feet from it, she picks it up instead says "no marmott's not here phone back in an hour when he gets back in, he is out working in the fields". I ask her "hey who was on the phone?" She actually said "the phone didn't ring, what are you talking about" and she refused to give any phone messages, work, friends, anything... This went on for a week in all kinds of ways. After 2 weeks of knowing her, i told her "i do to much work with mental health, I have 4 words for ya" "SEEK " and "GET OUT" Even though she didn’t have a key, I changed the locks. So yea some women can be controlling, manipulative! But there are some great people out there don’t loose hope, but don’t be blind! Stay strong, be brave, wait for the signs.

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 11/4/2006 8:40:44 AM
it took me three sittings to read your profile. but ya i did.

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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Am I Being Stupid? Posted: 10/30/2006 11:24:03 AM
Raymond8371 "Support him. Love isnt about money, it's about paying for everything a man could possibly desire. Why dont you hire him? Make him your slave for a rediculous wage." NOT, finances is most often #1 reason for break-ups. Sure dating should be fun and full of excitement, and truth. Respect of self, and values / has a great role in accepting yourself and others. If buddy has worked 6 months in the last 6 years, that shows a trend. if you value work habits / ethics, and buddy has none, are you willing to loose your self dignity for a guy that does not have any? For me I could never be that guys woman, no way! Have fun yes, respect your own values, and follow your heart and instincts, is that not what dating and living is about? Make your choices and live by them.

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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A letter to the ex Posted: 10/30/2006 11:10:45 AM
Dear XXXXX... I have concidered at great length all you and I were together, I am sitting in the smallest room in my home, soon it will be all behind me. (what is the smallest room in your house?) M

marmott

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Christmas: Pressured to find a relationship? Posted: 10/28/2006 8:35:48 AM
florapost just DESPERATE...And will I have to pull a cracker with myself?....come to think of it - that's probably all I will be pulling. At least pulling a cracker here in BC means you are crawling on the floor, looking for little white stones. Not something anyone should be doing on X-mass, lol! going stag at x-mass so far, no biggy, but would like to have a woman to cook all the trimmings, do the dishes, and let me take credit for doing anything!!! lol. Hot tubs and friends, and family at Xmass, could not wish for better. So far HO HO HO HO HO HO HOT HOT HOT HOT HOT

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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Christmas: Pressured to find a relationship? Posted: 10/27/2006 2:26:50 PM
No pressure at all! kind-of wanted one (GF) for a while, but no pressure or thoughts of settleing for someone who treats me like crap, just so i have a partner. NOT into self abuse! :) good friends worth thier weight in gold

marmott

Joined: 9/30/2006

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WHO IT'S MORE HONEST: MAN OR LADY ?????? Posted: 10/27/2006 2:23:08 PM
For honesty all the time, i believe that they are both equally honest. Dogs that is.

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