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MsMicki

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Fastest you've ever gotten the friend speech? Posted: 11/23/2009 6:54:42 PM
Hmmmm......I've never been given the "friend speech". I have only given it once.......to a guy that was hanging out alot with my group of friends and I was hearing from them he was interested.......and then ended up in a 4 yr relationship with the guy!!

MsMicki

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Doing it in the car/automobile - Do's, Don'ts, How to, etc. Posted: 11/23/2009 6:47:50 PM
Inflatable raft.......check (good memory.....thanx mchurch!!)

MsMicki

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Doing it in the car/automobile - Do's, Don'ts, How to, etc. Posted: 11/23/2009 3:18:44 PM
Harley.......check 4 wheeler.......check Convertible.......check Pick up truck......check 64 VW Bug......check 65 Mustang......check Boat.....still on to do list!

MsMicki

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pee Posted: 11/23/2009 4:44:56 AM
I think ya'll are far more worried about the OP dating alcoholics than she is. She clearly states....."after a night of US partying".... meaning she was right there consuming the alcohol too! and never once did she complain about their excessive drinking. I honestly think if you're OK w/ the drinking to stupidity level...... you should be OK with the results of those actions. And one of those results can be pee'ing in odd places!

MsMicki

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Doing it in the car/automobile - Do's, Don'ts, How to, etc. Posted: 11/23/2009 4:19:11 AM
there are a few reasons I now own a convertible.....

MsMicki

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Doing it in the car/automobile - Do's, Don'ts, How to, etc. Posted: 11/22/2009 8:05:59 PM
Oh MsMicki, you can ride my gear stick any day You might try putting that line in the "Bad Pick Up Lines" thread But thanx for the giggle youngun! Hey Chrisofpa......know what else can come back with a foggy window? Footprints! Try explaining that to your Dad!

MsMicki

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Doing it in the car/automobile - Do's, Don'ts, How to, etc. Posted: 11/22/2009 6:12:16 PM
Ya know, I think I'm just too damn old to even try that anymore!! Just get out and bend me over the hood!!

MsMicki

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Celibate since April, 1992 Posted: 11/22/2009 11:56:11 AM
And yeah, we all know that a FWB can be soooooo reliable too. Then maybe you need to pick a more reliable FWB. Now, if you're talking about FB's......I would agree. But, in my experiences......my FWB are true friends first.......there is a high level of trust and respect in place beforehand. We have our own standard of terms that state if one of the other decides to become sexually active w/ a new partner......then our status goes back to "just friends". We are tested and we are safe (as possible). My point, since you don't know the details of these other posters sex lives......you cannot judge and point fingers nor call anyone a hypocrite. Assumptions are never facts. You really should ensure you spell everything right when you play that game. Touche..... but I'll take my typo over your misspelling for $50 Alex!!

MsMicki

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Celibate since April, 1992 Posted: 11/22/2009 9:45:33 AM
I too find it interesting that all these folks post about not being able to go more than 2 months or something like that. If this is the case, there is alot of sleeping around going on and alot of STD's still being unknowingly spread. ever heard of condoms? ever heard of testing? ever heard of FWB's? Having a sex life does not have to mean being "promiscuous" or stupid. I suppose these are the same folks who go on the STD threads and claim they ensure they get tested and practice safer sex. There are mean times for testing for certain STD's and 2 months ain't it. refer to above statement. I'm not judging anyone for sleeping around, but merely pointing out the hiprocrisy of some people on here. first off......if you're going to rant......at least spell it right! Hypocrisy!! and isn't it being hypocritical to say your not judging......yet point out the hypcrisy of others?!! especially when you have no clue what "some people" on here are doing to protect themselves and others!!

MsMicki

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WTH was he thinking? Posted: 11/21/2009 9:09:17 PM
Deerdog1: I hope you are a guy who can take it, man. You have opened yourself up for some major slamming! First, you don't have a pic, so they are going to assume you are a fat, bald "old guy" who MUST be lying about his "conquests." Second, the fact that you enjoy the art of seduction (that's always been rare, I find--as a fellow male, btw...I don't wanna start pickin' out curtains!), will tell many of the shrieking harridans in this site that you must be in the throes of some drug-induced fantasy (the 70s were REAL good to you, man!) because they've NEVER experienced this. Ever. Nah.......DD is well known around these parts.... We don't assume anything about him. We know him quite well! and we always love his posts and consider his wife to be a lucky woman and there are still plenty of women around that love being seduced .......and love to be the seducer once in a relationship.

MsMicki

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bad pickuplines Posted: 11/21/2009 8:45:28 PM
Is there room in your pants for another ash hole? Now that one actually made me snicker!! Which would definately get you an invite to sit down and have a drink w/ me!

MsMicki

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How much is POF affected seasonally?? Posted: 11/21/2009 6:59:31 PM
I always see an increase in my mailbox when the weather starts cooling down. Not sure if it's the thought of spending the Holidays alone.....or people tend to be at home more.

MsMicki

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How would I approach? Posted: 11/21/2009 7:23:32 AM
No balls........no glory! Buy something......go through her line.....tell her you thinks she's adorable...... and ask if you can call her sometime. Can't take up any more time than granny cashing in her 25 coupons!! She either says yes or no......but you at least tried. Better than sitting at home typing up "Why can't I get a date" threads here on POF!!

MsMicki

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WTH was he thinking? Posted: 11/20/2009 8:57:39 PM
Same chick flick.......different channel!!

MsMicki

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Regretfully didn't give him my number!!!! Now what?? Posted: 11/20/2009 4:53:55 PM
Geez, damned if you do......damned if you don't around here!! Send the card.....and seal it with a kiss! No balls, no glory!! At least you'll know you tried! and please, let us know what happens!! hate when people post stuff like this and never give us an update!!

MsMicki

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Was there ONE thing that made you want to meet? Posted: 11/20/2009 4:46:02 PM
Same things as when I meet someone in real life that makes me want to see them again...... sense of humor, compassion and respect

MsMicki

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rape/molestation victims and dating..... Posted: 11/20/2009 12:04:48 PM
Did you ever seek therapy for it Ms.Micki?Or was it really that inconsequential to you? Good Lord Woman......talk about insensitive Just because I didn't let it define my life......doesn't mean it was "Inconsequential". Yes, I have had therapy......and it worked, quite obviously. I live my life no differently then I did before my abuse. I refuse to let what one man did to me change my life. If I did, then he would win. Everyone deals with abuse differently....just as everyone's abuse was different. So....as for the original question...... I stand by my first post..... You need to tell a man (or woman) ........if it is still an issue for you. If I found myself in a commited, long term relationship again..... I "might" tell the man........but it will only be after I am positive he knows who I am "now".....and that he won't feel the need to be any different with me than he's always been.

MsMicki

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rape/molestation victims and dating..... Posted: 11/20/2009 4:28:16 AM
It happened many, many years ago.......and has nothing to do with who I am today. I certainly wish that was the truth I hope you meant "You wish that was YOUR truth".....because it is my truth. I happened to have a very wise person say to me...... Being raped isn't your issue.......it is the rapist' issue. It only becomes an issue for you......if you let it. So I didn't let it dictate my life. She's a sad person who blames her rape for everything that went wrong in her life instead of blaming herself. This type of reaction is about as unkind as it get's. I think you misread that. He's not blaming her for the rape. He is stating she needs to accept responsibility for her actions and bad choices after the rape. and I agree.

MsMicki

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rape/molestation victims and dating..... Posted: 11/19/2009 6:38:50 PM
I'd say you need to tell, if it is still an issue for you. But there are plenty of women that have lived it.......and move on. They might tell you at some point.......and they may not..... it's a very personal experience for me.......not something I feel the need to talk about with every man I date..... It happened many, many years ago.......and has nothing to do with who I am today.

MsMicki

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What do Atheist Holla Out During Sex? Posted: 11/19/2009 3:40:37 PM
The positive orgasm Oh yes Oh yes The negative orgasm Oh no Oh no WTH is a negative orgasm??!!

MsMicki

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Fingers and Tounges Posted: 11/18/2009 6:21:03 PM
Totally depends on the technique. I've only truly enjoyed finger play w/ a couple of men. The rest were too rough for my taste. Even w/ guidance they just didn't seem to "get it" I'm sure there are girls that would love these men's techniques tho! Cuz, as you know, we're all vastly different in what makes us tick. Hell, even something that made me "tick" last night ....may not make me "tick" tonight! Tounges on the other hand.....are always enjoyable to me!

MsMicki

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just to gather opinions,would you date a guy who said this? Posted: 11/18/2009 4:37:25 AM
Date him? No.......I date to see if there is potential for something more. Hang out w/ him as a friend....possibly......but I really don't see this guy not trying to get in your pants.....so that would make even friendship a trial.

MsMicki

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A question about dominant men. Can they also be gentlemen? Posted: 11/17/2009 5:45:36 PM
Yes........they exist. and if you spot one in my area......give him my number would ya?!

MsMicki

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girl i`m seeing-need help in figuring things out Posted: 11/17/2009 5:43:52 PM
OMG.......did a 31 yr old man just say he "fingered" a girl??!! I haven't heard that saying since high school!! If you talk liked that in front of me, I wouldn't bring you around my friends either!! back on topic.....4 dates does not make for a relationship. I don't introduce men I am casually dating to my friends and family.....but wait till we are exclusive.

MsMicki

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Silent Sex Posted: 11/17/2009 4:45:06 AM
hmmmm.......so a man or woman communicating their desires and wants in bed is "making a big production" ??? WTH BDJ ?? To start with, sometimes people are just natural moaners and groaners. They do it even when they are alone! You can call it "validation" all you want......I'll call it enjoying myself! and I don't need "validation" from my man......but I sure do enjoy making him moan..... it's that "I get off of by getting my partner off" mentality that works so well for many!!

MsMicki

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What is your favorite type of sex? Posted: 11/16/2009 7:58:00 PM
the kind that leaves you wanting more.....but not able to do anything about it without a short nap!

MsMicki

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finding a girl who enjoys sex Posted: 11/16/2009 7:55:07 PM
the key isn't finding just some girl that likes sex..... the key is finding a girl that likes sex.....with you! Give a girl a reason to want more......and she will!

MsMicki

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WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY???????? Posted: 11/16/2009 7:48:27 PM
Enough with the "famous" and "deep pockets" crap!! Is this jealousy speaking or what? Get over it boys......some of us women find mature men sexy. It has nothing to do with money.....and everything to do with confidence, experience and the fact they aren't condencending, judgemental asses

MsMicki

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The 2009 NFL Season Posted: 11/15/2009 8:58:04 PM
Might have been a dumb move to go for it on 4th down..... but you gotta give Peyton credit for keeping the win in reach after being down by so much!! 9 - 0.......Colts Rock!!

MsMicki

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Smarter ladies have worse sex Posted: 11/15/2009 12:05:26 PM
Hold off on the cats, MsMicki. I can also loan you a sex machine on weekends - just pay my airfare! Ooooh.......you're sending me your wife!! Awesome!!

MsMicki

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Would you have sex with a machine? Posted: 11/15/2009 12:00:26 PM
I cannot even fathom the notion of telling my man he couldn't have some toys.... and I'm truly astounded that these same women have their own toys... Wow......just wow.... I've been dying to see a man use a fleshlight ever since I read Big Daddy Jinx comments on it I'm wondering DD......do you and your wife participate in mutual masterbation? Is she the kind of woman that likes to see a man pleasure himself? I know plenty of women that find it a total turnoff to see a man stroke himself Personally, I think it's just their insecurities speaking.....but they'd never admit to it!

MsMicki

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Smarter ladies have worse sex Posted: 11/14/2009 7:15:54 PM
Here is what I have learned from the POF forums threads...... Smarter ladies have worse sex ( I must be dumber than a box of rocks, cuz I'm having some great sex) Very long hair on a woman is very femine and sexy, but few women have long hair (and here I thought it was about how a woman carried herself) Big Labia Lips On Women ( my favorite line of that thread is the correlation of labia lips to promiscuous behavior) What is it with men & sexually liberated women (because if we know what we want in the bedroom, we're automatically whores) why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head? ( uhm.....guess we gotta be dumb and ugly!) Good While Dating, But not for Marriage or LTR ( (nice to know I'm not marriage material cuz I'm a freak in the bedroom) How many is too many? ( My business suddenly becomes anybody I date's business, and God Forbid I tell them that!) According to these forums, I might as well become a crazy cat lady and buy a sex machine!!

MsMicki

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Would you have sex with a machine? Posted: 11/14/2009 5:52:38 PM
please, sex with something that has a brain. That narrows the selection a lot.

MsMicki

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Female Tool of the Trade Posted: 11/14/2009 7:13:06 AM
Until a toy can perform oral like a man, kiss like a man, touch me like a man, and whisper sweet nothing in my ear like a man......I'll prefer the real thing over the toy! Till then, I'll I'll just keep 'em around for a nice substitute !!

MsMicki

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I don't think anyone has enjoyed the 69 position since 1969. Posted: 11/13/2009 5:36:32 PM
I've said it before, I'll say it again..... I have never once had a man complain because I might stop for a minute every now and then and cum on his face! Nor do I complain if he pauses, it means I'm doing a good job!! For me, that's part of the fun.....seeing who can make the other lose concentration first!!

MsMicki

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WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY???????? Posted: 11/12/2009 7:21:54 PM
Oooops......So sorry FFS! Ex it is!! Ex he shall stay!

MsMicki

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WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY???????? Posted: 11/12/2009 6:24:53 PM
Yeah some older men are more experienced or what not but the fact is their old their penis is older and just yuck... Yep, FFS, this is her opinion..... but as was already stated......it's the attitude behind the opinion that is distasteful. Younger men are hornier and even if they dont last as long their just way better looking... once again......her opinion....... and speaks volumes of her shallow mentality. The real women like me know whats up you need a man 25-32 don't see how this can be interpreted as an opinion.... sure looks like a flame against any woman that is attracted to an older man to me..... somehow making us not "real women"..... guess what.....this includes you FFS since you're mate is obviously an older man! Me, I'll take a "yucky" old penis attached to an experienced, mature man anyday!!

MsMicki

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do ladies get turned on by strong hands and fingers.. Posted: 11/12/2009 9:55:32 AM
is it true the length of a man's penis is the length from his thumb to his index finger spread out? i read that somewhere.. Wait! . . . . . . . . Yikes!! damn near right on!! Try to remember where you read that, find it, and write down everything else the article said. They were telling the friggin truth!!!! Lol I tested this theory out a few times......it has only been wrong only 2 times. And both those exceptions......were ......uhm.......exceptionally blessed!! and no, for me, it's not the size of the hand....or the strength of the hand that does it for me. It is how he touches me with those hands

MsMicki

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WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY???????? Posted: 11/12/2009 4:52:28 AM
Yeah some older men are more experienced or what not but the fact is their old their penis is older and just yuck... Younger men are hornier and even if they dont last as long their just way better looking... The real women like me know whats up you need a man 25-32 No.........the "real" women aren't superficial flakes that think eye candy makes for a good lover........nor do they say "yuck" when describing a penis!

MsMicki

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are women ok with a man who does not orgasm, yet still enjoys every moment? Posted: 11/12/2009 4:40:50 AM
Occassionally, it's no big deal. But if a man is capable of orgasming......and never lets himself get there...... I would find that odd....and selfish. You men repeatedly state how much you love to make your woman cum..... Well, we women deserve the same opportunity to make our man cum.

MsMicki

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Playing the Posted: 11/11/2009 7:49:57 PM
Oh God No.....with my luck......they'd say it right back! I'll stick w/ honesty on this one!

MsMicki

Joined: 10/2/2006

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do men like getting more then giving Posted: 11/11/2009 7:09:12 PM
Tickles story is exactly why I will not commit myself to a man that doesn't give oral. It's real easy to say as long as everything else is good in the relationship, it's no big deal to not recieve something you really enjoy...........till you live it. We all like to think we're not "tit for tat" people.........but when you are the only one giving.......eventually you will feel that exact "tit for tat" feeling creep up on ya'. Resentment will build because you are always longing for something you know you are never going to get. and that resentment will creep into other parts of your relationship. I hate to say it Tickles.........but I see this as the beginning of the end for you. The one thing I hope you learn from all this.......is to not just jump into a relationship like that ever again g/f!! Noone, man or woman, should settle (admit it Tickles, you know u did) for less than they deserve. I wish you luck girl!

MsMicki

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Strange hobbies/collections Posted: 11/11/2009 5:02:39 AM
Nutcrackers!!! and it's that time of year to get them all out again!

MsMicki

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Foreplay or Actual sex - what is more exciting to you? Posted: 11/10/2009 4:51:10 PM
The anticipation is set in motion long before foreplay even starts! Foreplay is sex and just because you have had penetration doesn’t mean foreplay is over! Just because you blow the big one it doesn’t mean its over! There is far too much compartmentalizing of the “act” in my opinion, the joy is in the doing, not in the finishing. The whole thing is actual sex. Couldn't have said it better myself!

MsMicki

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tips on dirty talk... Posted: 11/10/2009 4:19:10 AM
Giggling, from a woman, especially on those adult recess occasions?!!! -- Irresistible. (imagining the guy stripping the dom outfit from you, trying it on, curling his lip, saying, "lemme show ya how it's done!" ) OMG Whyt.....that visual is going to last me all day long and it exactly my line of thinking!! Laughter turns me on......as much as dirty talking does! (it's Ok Pedro, I mentioned dirty talking so I'm not completely off topic...don't go getting your panties all in a bunch again )

MsMicki

Joined: 10/2/2006

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Does reading the forums make you more or less cynical about dating? Posted: 11/9/2009 7:24:25 PM
it's not the forums that makes me cynical.... it's my mail box !! Just tonight.......naughty little message from a man..... clicked on his profile......it's all about Church and having God in a relationship.... Ay yi yi!! It's easier being single than wading thru the nutcases!

MsMicki

Joined: 10/2/2006

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tips on dirty talk... Posted: 11/9/2009 7:20:09 PM
I agree. Once a guy gets me laughing, the sex has just gone down the shitter. Sex is not supposed to be funny, for crying out loud. Make me laugh before and after. NOT DURING...stupid. Wow......whodda' thunk? I love laughing during sex......Sex is supposed to be fun...... and the silly moments just make the serious moments that much more intense, IMO.

MsMicki

Joined: 10/2/2006

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Male Butt Posted: 11/8/2009 6:49:04 PM
Guess I'm weird.......I love a fuzzy butt!! I just like hairy men all the way around actually!

MsMicki

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tips on dirty talk... Posted: 11/8/2009 6:21:44 PM
I just say what I'm thinking! If he's doing something that feels really good......let him know.... "Damn, baby, you make my pu$$y feels soooo good"..... or......"I love feeling your hard c0ck in me"..... I'm not much on the name calling.......whore, bytch, slut......but I do love some nice descriptive naughty talk!!

MsMicki

Joined: 10/2/2006

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Shaving or trimming your privates at our age? Posted: 11/7/2009 5:16:16 AM
The first bald beaver I saw (on a 40 something gal) - I said to myself ....... 1. how silly 2. I guess she is ready for action - at all times - with all guys. Proof that ignorance knows no bounds!! I've been trimming since 9th grade dive team.....those bathing suits tend to ride a bit high in the thigh when you're arms are above your head!! Now it's just part of my everyday routine. Being part Native American....I have very little body hair to start with, so I never cared for the luck of my sparse bush anyways! besides, for me, sex feels alot better when you're smooth!

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