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captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 241 (view)

Firearms and Dating Posted: 4/17/2008 8:19:22 PM
I have carried for decades and few know. I am a combat vet and have seen the results of pulling the trigger. My daughters received their 1st 22s at ages 7 and 13. One carrys and one does not. My mother at age 79 has carried for over 10 years. I have and will walk from any and every altercation. I hope to never allow anyone to know I'm carrying as I will never remove the weapon from it's resting place unless required to use it. God knows I never want to. When carrying Hydroshock ammunition is used. That ammo will not penetrate walls or a target- it explodes on contact with soft tissue. There is no chance it will penetrate a target and hit a bystander. Those safety issues also mean it does the most damage to the target. Those with an irrational fear or dislike of firearms will not be with me. However, if they find themselves in a bad situation, I or another carrying may be there to get them out of it with their life. We would not expect to change their mind or even hear a thank you. There have been too many times a nut goes into McDonalds or anywhere and takes lives- maybe if it happens while you are there someone with a CWP will be there. BTW- I know more women that carry than men.

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 146 (view)

30% of women have sex on first dates? Posted: 3/3/2008 8:53:18 AM
The number seems rather LOW! Why would any guy kiss and tell? If it is good he will want to come back for more. The word 'slut' does not define a lady that has sex on the 1st date or any date. In my opinion a slut is a female that dresses like she wants laid and goes out looking to get laid by the 1st stiff one she can find. I'd never be with a slut, but if a lady has the urge just as I do it makes no diffeence if it is the 1st or 5th date.

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 147 (view)

What really excites your date after 45 Posted: 3/2/2008 7:54:39 PM
WoW! What if she looks almost like her picture, weighs less than me, and has a personality just a tad softer than Roseann Barr.

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 61 (view)

Over 50 And NO Fun ! Posted: 3/2/2008 7:23:04 PM
AAHhh-- cougar material. Actually, I drink very little and would rather go to the theater or do something in the sunshine. The women I'd be interested in will not be found in a bar, especially not alone. Have fun- everyone has something they just have to do.

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 26 (view)

I NEED A GUY'S OPINION - trust Posted: 3/2/2008 6:02:56 PM
He is just watching his investment too closely. He does not want anyone else in the cookie jar when he is paying for the cookies. It seems he should just move in since he is paying the bills anyway.

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 14 (view)

Sex in new relationships, how long should you wait?. Posted: 3/2/2008 9:56:56 AM
After dinner - desert when the wine is half gone.. LOL

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 35 (view)

How Old is Too Old? Posted: 3/2/2008 6:12:29 AM
After seeing a 38 year old for a while I found 40s to be a minimum age to see. Ladies in their 50s are what I search for, my age group. Met a girl looked to be mid-50s tops and after a fantastic afternoon in bed she smiled and said it had been a while since she was with a younger guy- she was 67!

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 117 (view)

Why do people say i'm just to busy no time right now for dating? Posted: 3/1/2008 10:18:42 PM
Mostly, kids, job, house, and everything else she may not have time to date but still has needs to be taken care of. Sometimes chicks just want a **** buddy and want to feel they know their lover.

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 31 (view)

sex Posted: 3/1/2008 9:37:43 PM
Try someone older with more experience. Some older guys live by the motto - your pleasure cums 1st. They just may listen, hear, and want to please you often so make sure you are happy.

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 1154 (view)

Why are older women not into younger guys??? Posted: 2/29/2008 7:10:38 AM
Maybe they just want to teach a youngster a few things for their younger sisters to enjoy. In my 50s and find the ladies in their 40s & 50s to be much more fun. They know what they want and exprerience counts. Just like a guy, a woman can find a romp with a younger person a fun interlude. Older guys do not want kids and many have had a vasectomy too. An older guy takes the time to make the experience memorable.

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 207 (view)

SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 2/28/2008 9:44:26 PM
OP should have added 60 in the title too. Women seem to talk about their lovers and a guy in his 50s can find himself being hit on if he can get it up and work it right. It seems from about 38 to at least 63 their desire grows daily. Those that talk about 'friends' or 'long term' and etc can really be a freak between the sheets with a lover on the side while they search. Thank God for the 38 - 60 year olds. It is more about the total experience than the quickie they were used to with the ex or bf. Now it's all about them, and when they find what they want they cannot get enough.

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 15 (view)

How long should I wait for someone to call me back? Posted: 2/28/2008 8:17:53 PM
If I don't call in 48 hours it's not going to happen. Granted--- it's all in the kiss. It sounds like it was more to you than to him and he moved on.

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 35 (view)

Married women Posted: 1/10/2008 9:07:52 AM
Having kids to one not married TO is not a good thing,,, but dating them sure can be!

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 288 (view)

why do women shy away from guy that doesnt drink?? Posted: 8/26/2007 10:33:27 PM
Man goes into a**ail lounge and approaches a woman sitting by herself : Man: "May I buy you a**ail?" Woman: "No thank you, alcohol is bad for my legs." Man: "Sorry to hear that. Do they swell?" Woman: "No, they spread .."

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 7 (view)

I'm sick to death of this insensitive, malicious, & depraved behavior Posted: 7/19/2007 10:06:26 PM
Like the previous poster said, they will let him out. Probably give him a lawyer, money, clothes, and a scholarship for being an a$$hole. Everyone has a reason for their BS conduct; a minority, from a broken home, from a financially depressed neighborhood, etc. Even Cooly that buried a girl alive after raping her has a 'mental condition' that may keep him from the death penality. No one is responsible for their actions any more. There is no disipline at home and it is not permitted in schools. Bleedinghearts make sure no one is able to be punished no matter their age or crime. Illegals - means law breakers, but are welcomed to break more laws. Buy a gun, take a CWP class, and protect yourself as no one else will. Just listen to the news about how many children are being abused, women abducted, people killed. Organizations like the ACLU and politicians like Kennedy have put the US in the toilet.

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 34 (view)

Ever hear the words I love you and ran for the hills? Posted: 4/24/2007 5:59:23 PM
Every time I hear those words I head out to sea. The most frightening thing-- a lady asks to be married at sea. I pont to a little sign on the helm that states "marrages performed on this vessel are only for the duration of the voyage". Guess what-- they all say that is the reason they want to hurry! Not a rare happening either.

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 192 (view)

New Winks and Points. Posted: 4/17/2007 4:13:58 PM
Silly idea=== let's just leave things alone.

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 45 (view)

Guys: Would U Marry A Lady Who Refused Birth Control? Posted: 2/18/2007 9:08:48 PM
Ms 2 Independent you are so correct. The very reason I had an irreversable vasectomy many years ago. No accidents possible!

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 45 (view)

Sex has slowed down Posted: 2/17/2007 8:19:29 PM
Sounds like someone else has their pole in your fishin hole...

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 12 (view)

What the Hell man? Posted: 2/17/2007 7:50:02 PM
You deleted her number??? What the hell man? She 'used' you? Not if she was good, she gave you a gift and being a generous lady wanted to give you more.A lady like that is a rare gem!

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 2 (view)

renewed virginity Posted: 2/17/2007 7:41:11 PM
probably by suggesting you see a shrink as the door closes ...

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 201 (view)

Sex with married men Posted: 2/16/2007 10:35:53 PM
Tarus Gal -- tell her to go take a nap, a pill, or a stiff drink. If the word gets out sister will be the only loser. She will be out of a job, the boss may get promoted. If the wife is told-- sister becomes the disgruntled liar employee. People judge and do stupid things. If they are having fun at lunch, it is no ones business but theirs. Let them have fun - the boss will find a new one soon. Why do people have to cause trouble with things that are none of their business and not hurting them-- unless she is jealous of not getting any****tation

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 53 (view)

Is oral sex cheating? Posted: 2/15/2007 8:02:08 PM
If a US Pres says it is not, it is not. If your SO looks like Hillary it cannot be. The PC is incredible here. What is stated in public is not what is found in the world. For a guy to turn down oral he would have to have been dead and buried. Dead may still be a 'yes', it is all that dirt to get through that will slow him down until the mood passes.

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 93 (view)

Wife pregnant from another man Posted: 2/15/2007 11:33:13 AM
I think it must have taken all of 20 minutes to dream this scene. In the off chance it is true, why are you online instead of in jail or at least far, far from the chick with a stable full of lawyers?

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 39 (view)

SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 2/8/2007 8:01:47 PM
wildgreenwitch - I volunteer and am willing. You are HOT!

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 6 (view)

Guys mentioning sex too soon Posted: 2/7/2007 9:12:21 PM
Wait that long and there may be no 4th as she thinks you are gay.

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 96 (view)

Do you french kiss on first meeting? Posted: 2/6/2007 8:11:15 PM
If she doesn't there will not be a 2nd.. being a good kisser is a great thing

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 623 (view)

Why are older women not into younger guys??? Posted: 2/3/2007 9:37:11 PM
Blossom65- Guys of any age can have that hard problem. There are pills to take care of that I hear. At times the lady may just not be attractive and that is a self defense measure,,LOL

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 622 (view)

Why are older women not into younger guys??? Posted: 2/3/2007 9:32:54 PM
Age is a number. At 58 I don't want to be a sugar daddy to the 20 somethings and the 30 somethings have kids to worry about instead of enjoying themselves. There are many gorgeous 40+ ladies. They have lived and gained experiences in and out of the bedroom. They do not want a couch potato, who does? There is so much to do in addition to bedroom activities. Dinner, theater, races (nascar), the beach, conversing on the same level. The only fight they are interested in is a pillow fight. I have grown older (beats the alternative) but have not become old. I have no problem with the older (number thing again) ladies looking for younger men as there are many of their sisters that are perfectly happy with men that show interest in them, treat them like a lady, can converse intelligently, are financially secure, and put the pleasure of the lady above their own, and having children are no longer a concern. These ladies are looking for great times and uninhibited fun. Thankfully I'm here to help!

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 2002 (view)

GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage? Posted: 2/3/2007 8:32:58 PM
The guys waiting should be asking other guys if they are taking notes. You don't want a surprise on your honeymoon. There is a CW song with a verse 'some girls don't like guys like me, some girls DO!' The 'dos' seem to out number the 'don'ts', thankfully. On the religious side, I'd hate to die and find my maker POed as I did not take advantage of the wonderful pleasureable gift provided.

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 97 (view)

Challenging moral decisions - drugs Posted: 2/3/2007 8:14:41 PM
Pot is a personal choice. Mine is, and always has been, NO. I prefer to stay away from all drugs, but the doc may prescribe something for a purpose once in a while. I enjoy a glass of wine at times but cannot stand to be around anyone with a buzz or more. Gee, don't think I'm missing anything and don't don't want to be around those that do anything illegal. To be honest, I believe those taking street drugs, including pot, or drink in excess have problems. They are weak and unable to see all the wonderful things around them.

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 1962 (view)

GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage? Posted: 1/27/2007 9:48:46 PM
After marriage a woman developes the 1st headaches of her life. Waiting will cause both to miss the best sex of the entire relationship. Any guy waiting to have sex with his future wife is having sex with the future brides maids.

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 231 (view)

Tattoos on women turn on or turn off? just curious Posted: 1/24/2007 8:02:24 PM
A tiny one peaking over a boob or on the butt cheek basically does nothing. Any more than that and it is a turn off.

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 105 (view)

How do you break an obsession with someone? Posted: 1/14/2007 11:23:45 AM
Good for you. The old saying 'the easiest way to get over a woman is to get under another" must be true!

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 124 (view)

Would you marry a chick with a dick? Posted: 1/2/2007 9:38:00 PM
One more reason why I do not drink. Actually, I think I'll move it up to #1 on the list.

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 11 (view)

sex and dating Posted: 1/2/2007 8:46:11 PM
If you are really in the mood-- have one handy and make a sensous production of putting it on for him. Never fails!

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 29 (view)

Baffling bed buddy Posted: 12/8/2006 2:55:02 PM
Thats where the 'friends' part comes in. Without intimacy it would be no fun. Depends on how much time and affection she desires. Bump and run can be OK if she is in a rush, but why not get to now everything she likes to make it more than pure lust every time? Make it good so the friendship lasts and each time gets better as the friends get to know each other better.

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 142 (view)

Oral sex the first time you make love Posted: 12/6/2006 5:00:21 PM
I'm an oral orientated guy- love giving unless it is not desired BUT "he didnt care and took it out with his mouth ( the tampon ) and ate me out. Felt amazing but I felt bad because I had my rag." That guy is way beyond my comprehension. Actually, I'm not even sticking my condom covered buddy in there.. I can wait to do it so it is enjoyed by both of us..

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 83 (view)

Question on inside Ejaculation Posted: 12/5/2006 1:51:54 PM
I just knew that vasectomy many years ago made sense! It is a ton of fun PRACTICING becoming a daddy.

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 2 (view)

Have I completely screwed it up? Posted: 12/4/2006 8:58:56 PM
No, he will be back!

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 62 (view)

why i won't have sex Posted: 12/3/2006 9:51:32 PM
Probationary period-- sounds like the correct track. If he is in jail he will be happy with your decision. If he is gay, happier still. If he is neither of those and still smiling he is getting it somewhere else. Think of waiting a few months or more and finding he is certainly not the lover you desire, or he feels that way. You both could have already been in a real relationship by then. Did heaven send you a written guarantee you will both be here in a few months? Everybody's boat floats different. Good luck with your experiment.

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 4 (view)

Sex with strangers on Vacation Posted: 12/2/2006 10:33:57 PM
I live in a resort town at the beach. Guys visit to golf and end up with an escort as they will not spend the time looking. Ladies come for the beach and shopping,, and find the local guys have been awaiting their arrival.

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 395 (view)

What is your biggest turn on Posted: 12/2/2006 4:45:35 PM
The eyes 1st! Sensous eyes, but if she is a good kisser you just know you are in for a great time.

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 496 (view)

guys who don't like blowjobs Posted: 12/2/2006 3:30:46 PM
MsMicki-- no such this as BAD! All is great- some greater than others. I'd worry about any guy that told a lady "no, I don't like that".

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 495 (view)

guys who don't like blowjobs Posted: 12/2/2006 2:59:13 PM
MsMicki- no such thing as "bad", just some better than others! Actually ALL is great, some just greater than others. To give well is to receive better..

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

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Just move to South Carolina???? Posted: 12/2/2006 8:40:07 AM
I've been coming down for a long time. Took an early retirement at 54 and moved here 4 years ago. Family remains in the tundra of PA so I visit and so do they, but no reason to move back. As for the bugs-- well their is a fertilizer to be used in the spring that eliminates fire ants all summer. As for the others, a service arrives every three months to spray in and out of the house and I never even see a spider. The bigger concern is termites in the south.Get the house treated and inspected every year. The only negative may be weather related. Since it never gets cold, ,any ladies are not into cuddling like their Yankee sisters.

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 11 (view)

Over Fifty Crowd...where are they hiding???? Posted: 12/2/2006 8:09:48 AM
We are NOT hiding. We just figured there were too few of us in the country and found little of interest with the hustle & bustle of the city. We all are either living in the MB area or visit often. Shag- they are a fun group if that is your thing. Certainly not mine. I think it is just an excuse to get away from home, get drunk, and (try to) get laid. A nice bunch of oldies- music?? They oyster fest in your town last year was great! I met a 40 something there, great girl!

captain-jack

Joined: 10/3/2006

Msg: 12 (view)

Can someone help me make some sense about this??? Posted: 11/30/2006 1:04:15 PM
No doubt the guy is gay and has guilt feelings about it. I once had a woman tell me she had been in a lesbian relationship and wanted to see what she was missing. She had not been with a man in many years. At least she was upfront with her situation!

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