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nauvooknight

Joined: 10/4/2006

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my boyfriend still has profile up on POF, what do I do? Posted: 9/13/2008 8:54:51 PM
If it bothers you that his account is still up, then tell him it bothers you. Oh but you might want to delete yours first.

nauvooknight

Joined: 10/4/2006

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Prenuptial - maintaining physique - is it reasonable? Posted: 9/13/2008 8:44:40 PM
This is a pretty stupid requirement. Tell him you will do it if HE does. The dumbass.

nauvooknight

Joined: 10/4/2006

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What do you do with this?? Posted: 9/13/2008 8:41:53 PM
I like Option 1 posed by R U Right for Me

nauvooknight

Joined: 10/4/2006

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Playing it SAFE.. Would you consider having a life time partner that you knew you could never love. Posted: 9/13/2008 8:40:16 PM
No. I would never stay with someone that I could never love. Love is the most important thing in the Universe. More so than even God. Think about it. Without love, nothing matters.

nauvooknight

Joined: 10/4/2006

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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage? Posted: 9/13/2008 8:34:42 PM
Yes I could Wait. No I wouldn't "do other things" because that defeats the purpose of waiting. If a girl told me that she was abstinent I'd say "Cool me too."

nauvooknight

Joined: 10/4/2006

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Are men afraid of christian women? Posted: 9/13/2008 8:29:19 PM
Just so you don't get the wrong idea, Christian women are great. As long as they are still open minded, and non-judgmental. In other words, if I ever were to hear you mention that somebody should go to hell because of some action or appearance, I'd probably give you the finger for them/ and for God whose job you would have just stolen.

nauvooknight

Joined: 10/4/2006

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The baby was born, now what do i do with my relationship? Posted: 4/24/2008 8:52:45 PM
This might sound dumb, but the best way to get this resolved would be by getting your boyfriend to understand your feelings. Start a blog. I know, like I said it might sound dumb. But write what you feel. Just like you have been doing here. Just write on the blog what you are thinking. i.e. "... but is now not so-um,- enthused, so she is trying to pull away from saying that? Or even worse, maybe she isn't interested in me anymore, but since she promised to never hurt me she is having a hard time telling me what's up. I don't know if I am overreacting. I pray that I am. But if the worst is what's real, I'd tell her to get it over with. I'd rather have my heart suddenly ripped out rather then slowly." Then when you have everything that you feel down on your blog, get him to read it. It is important not to write it to him. Don't think about what you want him to hear. Only about what you truly feel. It works really well. The example above is from my own blog that I used for just this purpose. And. It worked.

nauvooknight

Joined: 10/4/2006

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Does he really want me as a girlfriends or just a sleeping buddy? Posted: 4/24/2008 8:43:32 PM
I can't say I know you, but I can say that every girl deserves the best. Try to take a step back and think. Is this really the best you can do? Is this what you deserve. Moreover is this what you want. Think about it. Oh and just my own two cents, if a guy is irresponsible enough to get a random girl pregnant, do you think he will be responsible enough to be the father of your children? That is your end game right? A family? Look at people and ask, "Would I want him to be the Father of my children?"

nauvooknight

Joined: 10/4/2006

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have you ever?? Posted: 4/23/2008 8:05:15 PM
In all my relationships I have been really mistreated. So no. I never have regretted it. But I'm sure some men have. This is the world we're talking about. Just about everything has been done.

nauvooknight

Joined: 10/4/2006

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Is It Wrong To Test Someone??? Posted: 2/12/2008 5:14:58 PM
There are plusses and minuses to testing someone. First you must understand that "testing" someone is a form of manipulation. No one likes to be manipulated and if the testee realizes what you're doing, your plan will backfire and you could drive them away. And just so you know, seeing if they will stay after a plan backfires is not a good test either. On the plus side, a test could reveal a dangerous or harmful trait that could possibly harm you in one was or another. (ie. break your heart, or turn out to be a psycho) I would only advise a test to be executed on a special someone if they are showing suspicious traits or behaviors. DO NOT test someone during the first three dates. YOU WILL LOSE! Get to know them first. During the first few dates the shields are raised. Both parties will be afraid of being hurt or misled. if you try to test someone in the early stages of a relationship, more than likely they will realize what you're doing; and believe me, it will PISS THEM OFF! I had a girlfriend once who constantly put me through tests that she thought up. I always knew what she was doing, and it pissed me off. Every time she tried to test me I would get angry at her. Eventually she learned. So my advise is... Test at your own (and usually high) risk.

nauvooknight

Joined: 10/4/2006

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Are men afraid of christian women? Posted: 1/16/2008 8:26:21 PM
Simply Put when I hear "Christian woman", what I really hear is "I'm a self righteous close minded prejudiced, pandered, pratt." (How's that for an aliteration) Though I myself am christian, most Christians arn't what they used to be. Now, many so called christians, especially those who go around shouting to the world their religious orientations, have lost what being christain means. So when I encounter one of such nature, They insantly become devalued to me. When a woman takes the approach of "Hi I'm Maggie, and I'm a christian," What I hear is the afore mentioned. " What ever happend to "Hi. Let's try."

nauvooknight

Joined: 10/4/2006

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Picture size Posted: 11/10/2007 10:59:13 AM
What about the size as far as memory. Is 4k too large. I've searched for a topic about this but this thread is the closest I've found.

nauvooknight

Joined: 10/4/2006

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Premarital Sex Posted: 10/18/2006 8:06:01 PM
I am a virgin and would want my wife to be as well. Save yourself. All the world is becoming terribly weak. they can't even control their own desires and drives. I would definitly consider someone a lot more if they have high standards. high standards is where its at. Don't ever feel that you need to have sex with someone for them to date you. If you want to be happy in life. Then you need to never settle less then what your standards are. Be true to your self

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